Quote: (09-12-2012 10:02 AM)rationalize_this Wrote:
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This is the most ridiculous story I've ever heard. Either big baller troll or you are the dos equis guy.
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Hahahaha. I love it when amateurs show their own perceived inadequacies by assuming that successes that far exceed their capabilities are "rediculous stories." But hey, continue to wallow in your limitations.
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I love how you are already attacking me calling me an insecure amateur. You couldn't be more wrong. I have inadequacies, everyone does, that's why I'm here, like everyone else, to learn and improve. This hasn't stopped me from amassing a triple digits notch count at 25 years of age. What do I question, and I'm sure everyone else does, is when someone who has literally contributed nothing to this forum in the form of a data sheet or advice posts a brag story like this. Out of your whopping 6 posts, 3/6 brag about how many threesome, or your 37 notches, and the fourth attacks me. Maybe you're projecting your inadequacies? Break it down, how did you land a LTR like this? How have you managed to to maintain it while gaming girls on the side? Don't just post brag stories and attack members when they are skeptic.
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First, I haven't posted much because I just joined the forum about a week or so ago. I'm RARELY on here. Trying to be on here more. Honestly, I just have other shit to do. This may be the first time I've been on for consecutive days. I'm in Encinitas, CA. Too many beaches & bitches to be trying to accumulate enough forum posts to be considered credible.
I landed a relationship like this by
demanding it. I was tired of the whole lying/cheating thing. My brother & I were discussing how to make life easier for ourselves so we came up with the notion that no man claiming to run shit and be the king of his castle would lie to a woman, since we determined that to lie to a chick shows that you fear the chick. Plus, he was tired of having to be briefed about the lie that I included him in when I went missing My girl would try to, in her own slick way, catch him slipping up on whether I was with him on a given night. So we vowed that we would both let our women know that we wanted to be in one stress-free relationship, where the women got along. If they weren't with it, we'd send them on their way & move on.
I had been in one relationship for multiple years (we were living together) and the other for a little over a year. I slowly started seeding the idea into conversations to calibrate their reactions. We lived in an area (St. Louis, MO) that has a Hebrew Israelite community--a religious group that allows the men up to seven wives. I knew several of them from their pre-conversion days. I would talk about things they told me about having multiple wives. I would get, "Hmmm, that's interesting."
I would "coincidentally" leave books about polygyny on the bed or car seat, then start discussing interesting points in the books. Then I would get, "I guess that makes sense."
So one day, I was sitting in the car with my "little over a year" chick (the one from the above story) and we were having a serious discussion about it. By then, she knew that I was living with a chick. Then, outta the blue, she said, "I think you deserve that."
Keep in mind, she REALLY looked up to me because I had been teaching her chi kung, Reichian bodywork, meditation, yoga, do NLP/hypnosis work with her, etc. I got her to adopt a healthy diet, juicing, the works.
I'm thinking, "Cool, now I gotta work on my other chick."
My "little over a year" chick was eager to meet my "multiple years" chick. She was a MUCH harder sale.
More conversation, more calibrating. The more open to the idea she began to seem to me, the more she would initiate conversation about it, the more I began to think I should put it all on the table. Plus, my other chick was hounding me about meeting her.
So one night, I told her that I had someone in mind. That I'd been in a relationship with someone for some time & that I wanted them to meet.
Of course, she said she'd pretty much known all along. That didn't stop her from crying, with all the, "What did I do?" hooplah.
It was kinda awkward in the house for the next couple days. Then she came to me & said, "Ok, I want to meet her. I trust you."
I gave her all the assurances and "I'm proud of you's."
The next day, we all had lunch. We talked about the idea, the logistics etc.; They hit it off. "We have so much in common." All that jazz.
The next day, I was about to pick my "multiple years" chick up from work, but my "little over a year" chick asked if she could pick her up alone. I was kinda skeptical, but I decided I had to trust them. So I told her to do it.
They didn't show up for a LOOOONG time. I felt like I was waiting for my AIDS test. Maybe they'd started fighting or some shit. When they finally came through the door giggling, I was SERIOUSLY relieved.
Things were kinda awkward to me since I didn't know quite how to handle having both in the crib, so my "little over a year" chick said, "Well I better get home" and left.
About 15 minutes later, my "multiple years" chick said something like, "Since we're gonna be one big happy family, don't you think she should've stayed."
"Yeah, I guess so."
"I'm gonna call her & tell her to come back."
She called, got in the shower, & put on some crazy sexy lingerie. I KNEW what was about to go down then.
When she got there, I was still kinda overwhelmed with the fact that this was happening. We just sat and watched a fuckin movie.
After it was over, my "little over a year" chick uttered the words I'll NEVER forget. She said, "So I guess I'll suck his dick and you can get his balls."
From there, it was some of the craziest sex I've EVER had...probably because of the sentimental value.
The next day, she moved in with us and we all lived together for 7 years.
After some time, they wanted to have fun by bringing home other chicks here & there. I started teaching them how to get chicks. Keep in mind, this had NOTHING to do with stuff in the "pickup" community. This was before even checking out stuff in the community, which made me giggle when I did check it out, because I'm a REALLY [/u]direct kinda guy. Since most of the stuff that I saw had to do with dental floss openers & g-string openers, I didn't vibe well with it at first, though later I did come to realize that there were some value in many of the principles. I've been instinctually "negging" since the late 80s (I'm 37).
Getting pussy from top-notch chicks ALWAYS came easy to me. The multiple woman relationships was a natural evolution.
As far as how I managed to maintain it while gaming girls on the side. My chick has NO jealousy issues. Keep in mind much of the gaming is done together. When it's not, I let her know EVERY chick that get involved with. Many of them turn into 3somes with us. Idetermine whether a chick is into chicks within the 1st 15 minutes of conversation. If not, I'm wasting my time, since I decided LOOOONG ago that I will ONLY fuck bisexual chicks, which, when you present it to them as a given, you rarely find one who isn't.