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The Approach Thread

The Approach Thread

Quote: (09-08-2012 11:15 PM)thedude3737 Wrote:  

Hah! I would not, in a million years, daygame at Forever 21. I'm not saying don't try, but it's going to look creepy to chicks no matter what. What I WOULD recommend, and what I have done, is daygame at Anthropologie. That place is a little bit more geared towards buying gifts and I think you could be a little more congruent with your approaches there.

I just figured going into a women's store would give me easy targets.Maybe Forever 21 was a bad choice.I'll surely visit Anthropologie soon.I'd prefer doing such approaches in a women's store versus a Target or Walmart.

Feel the fear..then do it anyway.
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Quote: (09-07-2012 02:21 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

Quote: (09-06-2012 04:59 PM)Thatdude Wrote:  

Me: hey do you know where science north is?
Girl: yeah I'm actually going there right now
Me: you mind if I join you?
Girl: sure, do you have physics at 7?
Me: nah, I have Chem at 6
Girl: oh
Me: yeah do you go here full time? ( this is at a cc where I'm taking one of my classes cause its easier than at my actual college)
Girl: yeah what about you?
Me: nah I'm taking a class here I actually go to ***
Girl: really? Same here I went there last year but had to come here cause I was basically failing out
Me: yeah the science and math classes are easier at a community college, what are you studying?
Girl: yeah my dad told me to finish up these classes here before I go back to ******** and I'm studying arabic

Thats a good start to your day game career. You do have to be careful about being too direct on a college campus. You are gonna see alot of these girls again. You can't be asking everybody for their number.

One thing I suggest is to try and personalize the conversation. When she said she was Arabic, you could have asked her if she was Arab. This might have led to a more personal thread of conversation.

Try dropping some bait like - "my sense of direction is all messed up because i just got back from argentina". Even if its a white lie, who cares?! This might intrique her and get her to ask you some questions.

The big thing with this girl is to say hi to her next time you see her. Keep the dialogue going with her. Try to talk to her on a slightly more personal level next time. When you go to school with a girl, sometimes you have to be more patient and "slow play" her. Meaning, don't ask her for her number the first time you talk to her, instead, build comfort and attraction over time.

Quote: (09-07-2012 10:01 AM)starmaze Wrote:  

Yesterday. 1 approach

I wanted to tested my New transition from asking for direction to normal conversation. It didn’t go smooth though. I approached her from behind asking about some street.
Me: excuse me where is street x?
Her: blab
Me: you know, you reminds me of I girl I met on my yoga class
Her: oh..
Me: have you ever taken yoga class?
Her: ( smiles), no…

I didn’t want to say next so she put her earphones back and walk away.

Today I made 2 approaches.
I saw a nice girl shopping in the mall. I hesitated but put myself next to her pretending I am checking some stuff. When she walks by me I asked:

me: excuse me, do you know if this fish ia any good?

I was smiling and possibly she sensed that it was just excuse to talk to her so she just smiled and said: her: sorry, I have no clue ( and walked to next isle)

I said to myself “fuck it” and decided to reopen her.

Me: I don’t really care about fish, just wanted to talk to you, you look cute.

She was very friendly and receptive. We had nice talk and she asked me some personal questions but it turned out she had a child and a husband. I wish her a good day and ejected.

I wanted t try my new street opener and stopped another chick in the street. I asked her where I can eat a good pizza around here but she said : I don’t know and kept walking.

I will try this opener again tomorrow.

Ok, you are getting better with the transition from indirect opener to personal conversation. I think the girls can tell that you are lying when you ask for directions and ask about pizza. They know you are just trying to talk to them. They can probably see it in your eyes. If you were really lost and looking for a street, you would look lost, you probably don't look lost at all, you just look like a pick up artist. They are good at sensing this stuff.

Keep posting your approaches and I will try to help you more. Just keep it up. I can tell you are a fast learner.

Try some direct stuff.

Quote: (09-07-2012 12:35 PM)Lothario Wrote:  

Starbucks Approach : In line about 3-4 people in line, last person is a Girl with a leather shoulder bag, i couldn't see the face. I'm thinking the line is too short and i will not have time to finish and don't know how the girl looks like and ........just say Fuck it... i'm opening just for batting practice..

ME: Is that a Fossil bag you are carrying

She turns around smiling (Butter face 6.5, No ring on the finger, ok...)

Her: I got it at Macy's, they had a big sale labor day weekend.

Me: Oh yeah, I have only been to the Fossil store at the Mall where I got my Watch (show her my Watch)

Her: That's a cool watch, Fossil watches are really reliable , I had one that lasted 5 years.

Me: I like it too , This is my second Fossil watch and still have the first one.

Her: I spilled some paint on my bag and probably going to get another one.

Me: Are you a student here

her: Yes I'm doing PHD in Mineral Sciences, our classes/research is in such and such building....

Me: So you are on the other end of the spectrum from us...

Her: What do you do ?


and comes the cockblock , A young brother seemed bothered that i was talking to this girl and said the barrista is waiting for your order just when i got the signal to go GALNUC.

Her: Well it was nice talking to you and goes to order

I order my coffee and ask her to come join me for coffee and we can continue the conversation , she says she has to get back to her project and leaves.

Solid approach. Simple and got the job done! Started a conversation.

Quote: (09-07-2012 12:35 PM)Lothario Wrote:  

2nd Approach: That I didn't do [Image: angry.gif]....., I was leaving the building and see a latino girl dressed in formal pants and blouse, coming towrads me, we hold eye contact, I hold the door for her, she takes two steps forwards turns around and says thank you, I just say you're welcome and keep walking.... Ding it. There was something in her eyes, a spark something ........ On to the next one.......

It's tough when you are walking out and she is walking in. It's like on the street when you are walking in opposite directions. The only thing you can do it stop, get in their way, and open them right there.

What could you have done here to open this Latina in the doorway? It's is a hard one. You have to be extra ballsy. I think I would have touched her. Just gently grabbed her arm and said something like - "the coffee shop is closed, they ran out of coffee" or "hey no latinas allowed right now, its too hot in here?" or "hey why didn't you come in here 5 minutes ago so i could flirt with you?"

Just something playful and flirty like that. If she laughs and you get a conversation going, may be you could have stayed and chatted with her.

Gio, don't forget to post your approaches as well, they have educational value for us.

As we are the same age ( i turned 35 yesterday) i wonder if you tell the girl your real age, especially if she is much younger, like 20. I am afraid such big age diffrence may freak them out. How do you reply if she asks : how old are you?"
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3 more approaches.

1.A girl walikng down the mall. I didn’t know if she is with her bf or brother. Once they parted I stoped her:
Me: excuse me, is it tour bf or borther?
Her: a friend
Me: that’s good because I find you attractive and wanted to get to know you


We started the conversation when her friend comes over with some other guys and listen to our talk. I felt pressure and started sweating. She commented how much courage I had to approach her like this. Anyway , I wasn’t comfortable and I think she sensed it. Eventually I asked for number but she asked me to give her mine instead. I don’t care.

2.A girl in woman’s cloths section. Cold response.



3.My God, she was gorgeous, beautiful face and body. 19-20 years old, it was my 10! She was behind the store window cleaning some stuff. I felt tension raising in my chest and adrenaline rushing in my veins but I knew I had to approach her. I turned back and enter the store. I found the there were other female assistant next to her but there was no turning back.
Me: excuse me
She: yes?
Me: Usually I am not so forward but you look gorgeous and I wanted to talk to you. Whats your name?
Her: angelica
Me: starmaze. Are you a new here? I have never seen you before
Her: I have been working for two month
Me: oh, see, are you from Poznan
Her: no,
Me: let me guess, first grade student?
Her: (something I don’t remember and then ) sorry I cannot talk now

Me: I see, maybe I will come back here again sometime
Her: ok
Me: bye


I didn’t feel I had any chance with this girl, especially in such difficult circumstances but I want to push my limits all the time. Exercises in fearlessness
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Quote: (09-08-2012 01:29 PM)Rosca Wrote:  

Lessons Learned:
+Cigarettes and zippo lighters are a great way to establish conversations.
+Don't give a bitch a cigarette if you're tryna bang. Just give her yours! Giving her one means you are taking longer to get to her room.
+Dance wise, the best way to make out with a girl is to first go for the neck. Then get in the lips.
+Slim fit V-necks are like good luck charms.
+Always answer a girl's question with some bullshit.
-Anytime a girl says "room" do not fucking decide to chill and smoke with her. Go to her fucking room.

I like how you give a summary of what you learned after each approach. Every body should take a few minutes each night to think about what they learned and how they can get better.

Quote: (09-09-2012 11:11 AM)NewGamer Wrote:  

Quote: (09-08-2012 11:15 PM)thedude3737 Wrote:  

Hah! I would not, in a million years, daygame at Forever 21. I'm not saying don't try, but it's going to look creepy to chicks no matter what. What I WOULD recommend, and what I have done, is daygame at Anthropologie. That place is a little bit more geared towards buying gifts and I think you could be a little more congruent with your approaches there.

I just figured going into a women's store would give me easy targets.

Forever 21 has alot of younger girls. If you are under 25 you should be gaming in this place. If you look under 30 you could probably pull it off.

The key is too find the Forever 21s with a mens section. Take a nice outfit into the dressing room. There might be a line of people waiting where you can start gaming. Take your clothes and put them on, come out and start looking in the mirrors, you can ask girls for their opinion. Plenty of opportunities to flirt.

Quote: (09-09-2012 01:13 PM)starmaze Wrote:  

How do you reply if she asks : how old are you?"

I lie and say I'm 29 or 30.

I think that is an age that college girls wouldn't mind messing with. There are some girls that will go older but it's more rare I think.
Quote: (09-09-2012 01:37 PM)starmaze Wrote:  

3 more approaches.

1.A girl walikng down the mall. I didn’t know if she is with her bf or brother. Once they parted I stoped her:
Me: excuse me, is it tour bf or borther?
Her: a friend
Me: that’s good because I find you attractive and wanted to get to know you


We started the conversation when her friend comes over with some other guys and listen to our talk. I felt pressure and started sweating. She commented how much courage I had to approach her like this. Anyway , I wasn’t comfortable and I think she sensed it. Eventually I asked for number but she asked me to give her mine instead. I don’t care.

2.A girl in woman’s cloths section. Cold response.



3.My God, she was gorgeous, beautiful face and body. 19-20 years old, it was my 10! She was behind the store window cleaning some stuff. I felt tension raising in my chest and adrenaline rushing in my veins but I knew I had to approach her. I turned back and enter the store. I found the there were other female assistant next to her but there was no turning back.
Me: excuse me
She: yes?
Me: Usually I am not so forward but you look gorgeous and I wanted to talk to you. Whats your name?
Her: angelica
Me: starmaze. Are you a new here? I have never seen you before
Her: I have been working for two month
Me: oh, see, are you from Poznan
Her: no,
Me: let me guess, first grade student?
Her: (something I don’t remember and then ) sorry I cannot talk now

Me: I see, maybe I will come back here again sometime
Her: ok
Me: bye


I didn’t feel I had any chance with this girl, especially in such difficult circumstances but I want to push my limits all the time. Exercises in fearlessness

Okay, you've gone indirect and you've gone direct. As you can see both ways have their own challenges. You have made progress with approach anxiety and fearlessness.

Now, try to develop a "hybrid" approach. Alot if times, the best way to go is "direct-indirect". Big Alex talks about it here ..

Quote: (08-26-2012 06:42 AM)BigAlexBoss Wrote:  

Your default will be indirect-direct "Excuse me, can I just say something, I was just over there having a coffee when I saw you pass - your walk is really really sexy, the way your hips sway...... but I'm not sure about your shoes, whats going on with them?" You are making it clear you are a male sexual being and are interested in her as more than just friends but with the tease on the end and the very light sexualisation she is not 100% sure of your intentions. Game on.

Krauser discusses it in his guest post on Rooshs blog:

The Opener

Through your introspection you should already have a good idea what you want in a woman and through your target selection she should fit this. Therefore you can come out directly and tell her what this is. I usually suggest guys try this structure:

Salutation
Pre-frame
Root
Mild Compliment
Assumption
Breakdown (2 complimentary, 1 tease)
It all happens in about fifteen seconds and is easily personalized. For London, which is full of the foreign girls I chase, I concentrate on her nationality, such as:

Hi (S). I want to tell you something (PF). I was just over there and I literally just saw you ® and wanted to say you look quite nice (MC). Very Spanish (A). It’s you big black hair, dark eyes, and weird fashion (B).

When the nationality is obvious but I’m a foreigner, such as my recent trip to Croatia, then I can still mention it, such as:

Hi (S). How good is your English? (PF) I’m here on holiday and I’ve been noticing something about the women here ®. You are a real woman (MC). You exactly fit my image of a Croatian girl (A). It’s your long straight hair, elegant fashion, and funny serious look on your face (B).

Often the content of the opener will come to you as you see the girl such as a smile as she walks by, a hair toss, a serious expression, how she’s dressed, or how she walks. Whatever you feel is what you work with because purity of intent and head-to-toe congruence is what carries you through. Make your assumption and then feed three things back to her that you can see, the last one being a mild tease.

Hi (S) Can I just say something real quick? (PF) I was just sitting over there when you walked past and totally turned my head ®. You have a great feminine walk (MC). I’d guess you are a proper woman (A). You’ve got that soft walk, your hips swaying from side to side, a bit of a too-cool-for-school pout on your face (B).

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Other examples of "direct-indirect" are these..

Notice how my first sentence is indirect but my 2nd sentence is direct.

me: i like your dress
her: thanks
me: you're in great shape so that helps too


Or,

me: those shoes are hot
her: thanks
me: who are you?


Or,

me: your hair looks nice
her: thx
me: did you just come from the salon
her: haha no last week
me: really? you have a cool look


Try some of these now. Its is important that you have experience with all 3 methods.
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So after me feeling so much pain from that bong hit on Friday, I can tell you guys what happened on Saturday.
That night on Saturday, I had left off with taking those two bong hits. And sadly, after those two hits, I was out. I never felt that much pain ever man. But damn, it was better than walking up to that dorm with the cockblockers.

I remember texting the chick I made out with. And came out with some bullshit. She/someone lied and said it wasn't her number. When in fact it was.
Me: Did you have fun? *my name
Unkown: Sorry who?
Me: *my name* from *party*
Unknown: Sorry I think you have the wrong number
Me: This isn't the *girl i made out with*'s #?
Me: My bad if it aint
Unknown: Sorry I'm not *girls name*

So after that, I was told to walk home so that the frat wouldn't have to suffer a liability for me being hurt. Limped back home, took a shower and slept.

During the day, I had this weird body high. Like I could dance really good for some reason. And my body felt a little heavy when I walked. But anyways, I decided to go get my Pokemon hat. I need that hat. It's like my custom suit for parties.

So skipping to Saturday evening, I had went to another frat party. But I had became aware of some things that was wrong about this party. For instance, it was easy for everyone to get in. Usually, frat boys would be dicks and tell the guys to bring girls in order to troll the freshmen. But these guys were letting anyone with a pulse in! I was waiting to see dissastisfied freshmen guys get frustrated and just walk home because of frat dudes telling them they needed girls. But no.

Red Flag 2:Kids that were usually blue pill were at this party. So I knew that this was not going to be like Friday. Friday, from every direction I noticed girls in the line. Hot girls. Today? Fuck no, most of these girls in the party usually would not drink alcohol. But anyways, I decided to have a good time regardless.

Red Flag 3: Sausage fest. This party was like a college DC. I had so many bros who faintly knew me say hi. Which isn't a bad thing. But come on. All these fucking guys in a party? Last year I did not care less about ratios, but now that I'm actually getting better at dance game I kind of want more vaginas than dicks.

But anyways heres how it went down
Party Game
So I had been approaching girls and such. Testing to see who was down for makeouts and such. It seemed like the girls at this frat were more prudish too. So that pissed me off a bit too. But a highlight approach that night was when I had approached this one girl dancing in a group. She had worn a neon hat, but hey her ass was fat so I decided to get at it.

Me: Hey you got a hat too!
Her: Yeah
Me: Yo lets switch!
*Switches my pokemon hat with hers*

And within seconds, I had her hands on the DJ booth dancing while throwing it back on me. And I had did the kiss on her neck. And then bam. Makeout 4.

But sadly, she smiled and decided to go back and dance with her friends. And it was a shame too, she was missing out on some quality dick. I kept trying to reapproach and her and her friends were just acting retarded. Smiling and pointing at me. Fuck that.

The rest of the night was just me getting in dances with cock teases and such. Each time I tried to make out, they would just bullshit. Or find some gay ass excuse to stop dancing.

One chick pulled out the "i have a boyfriend!" bullshit and I was like "Yeah I got six you gotta catch up!". But her friend was being lame so I just said fuck it.

Went outside and I had smoked my cig. Then some random chick started to approach me. I remember the last time last year I gave a chick a cigarette so easily. This bitch wasn't getting shit from me.
Her: Hey do you have another cigarette?
Me: I don't even know you and you're asking me for these things *smiles*
Her: I'm sorry
Me: Naw its cool, but whats your name?
Her: *girly name*
Me: Oh hey. I'm Rosca.
Luckily some asian guy gave her a cigarette (no more asking me YAY). So we just started talking. She's some TA, so I made fun about her going to parties when she should be grading work. Then some other TA bitch came and did some secret talk. I guess they were going somewhere else. Eh, oh well. I just decided to ignore them both and went home. The party was dying anyways.

Lessons Learned:
+V-necks and pokemon hats still fucking work.
+Don't let attention whoring bitches fuck up your groove on the dance floor.
+One I cup of beer is good enough. It helps me talk better shit to girls, but not get me fucked up.
+Chicks asking you for a cigarette need to be talked to first. You don't just get a Malbro bro. You gotta earn it.

-Checking out the ratios of parties will help. If too many bros keep saying hi to you, something is wrong.
-To extend on that ratio of frats. If you notice a lot of sausage fests in one frat and pussytopia in another one. It's obvious which one to rush to.
-Bitches with boyfriends suck.
Future Investments:
+Party furniture for my room. Lights/Speakers is all I need for now. Anyone know where I can get some cheap but good shit?
+Alcohol (going to be a the huge expense here.)
+A watch
+More fucking cigs!
+Neon Slim fit v necks for parties.
+Eating like a fatty and Gymming 6 days a week.

But after that weekend of fun, its back to me getting serious in school. I gotta get my grades right so I can rush for the spring or the fall of next year. [Image: smile.gif]

But I will have more stories about night game to come.

Nope.
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I went out with Slubu during the day in a college area. I did 9-10 approaches with Slubu as a witness. I went 0-10. It wasn't my best work. But, I survived and I learned some things..

Approach #1

me: hey is whole foods this way?
her: ya


She kept walking and so did we.

#2

We came to a stop light. There was a girl waiting on the curb. I was carrying a grocery bag. I "bumped" her leg with the grocery bag. I always do that in public, I "accidentally" touch them with my shopping bag or I "accidentally" bump into their shopping cart, etc

me: opps
her: (just looked at me)
me: did you press the button to cross?
her: yes
me: are you sure?
her: yes
me: ok just checking, you know some people are stupid and they just stand here all day.
her: i know
me: nice day today
her: it is
me: are you from sf
her: no socal
me: oh ok you look latina
her: im mexican
me: hablas espanol
her: si


The light changed and everybody started walking. Conversation over.

#3

We came to the front of the libary. I saw a thin Asian with a body I liked.

me: excuse me
her: (looked at me)
me: is the library this way?
her: yes, right there
me: ok i found it, did you have class?
her: yes english
me: where are you from
her: china beijing
me: oh i saw it during the olympics a few years ago
her: yes we had the olympics
me: you english is pretty good
her: no its not
me: do you like america?
her: no
me: you just need someone to explain it to you
her: very strange
me: i can help you
her: really?
me: ya lets have coffee sometime and i will explain america to you
her: i don't know
me: don't worry im a good teacher, lets exchange numbers
her: i will take yours


I doubt she'll call but we'll see.

#4

I saw a cute black girl in the library.

me: excuse me
her: yes
me: was that you who just dropped a book in the book drop thing?
her: yes
me: i thought that was you, i saw you over there and i wanted to ask you something
her: yes
me: do you date white guys?
her: hahaha no i don't

#5

Another cute mixed girl

me: damn the library is closed
her: ya
me: where can we go now?
her: i'm going to sherman hall computer lab
me: oh ok, we will just go to the apple store

We started to exit the building.

me: what are you morrocan?
her: no
me: algerian?
her: no (smiling)
me: you are a tough one
her: im black and white
me: really? i though you were french-north african or something?
her: haha
me: where are you from?
her: santa cruz
me: oh that explains it
her: what do you mean
me: santa cruz has that different vibe
her: ya i miss it
me: how long you been in sf
her: this is my first year
me: you're gonna be freezing
her: i know i hate it
me: i love santa cruz
her: me too, sf is cool too
me: just the damn weather over here
her: ya i'll get used to it
me: buy some sweathers

Blah, blah, blah. We chatted a little more and I asked her if she wanted to hang out sometime. She said no.

#6

We saw a cute latina walking up the steps. She was wearing a t-shirt of a local high school. Their mascot is "The Irish"

me: go irish
her: ha ya
me: did you to st marys?
her: yup
me: you guys have a good school
her: thx
me: how long you been in college
her: this is my second year
me: how was practice?
her: pretty good just pre-season conditioning
me: what events do you do?
her: 100 and 200
me: oh you're fast
her: i try
me: whats your name?
her: stephanie but call me steph
me: ok im gio
her: nice to meet you
me: you too. you look nicaraguan
her: i am how did yuo know?
me: i can tell, i used to date a nicaraguan
her: haha really?
me: ya you guys are kind of crazy
her: what are you?
me: mexican and french
her: oh wow, whats your name again?
me: gio whats yours?
her: stepanie
me: i gotta run, why don't i call you later?
her: oh i don't know, maybe i'll see you around

#7

We went inside a Whole Foods. We saw a cutie walking with a green smoothie..

me: hey whats that?
her: its a smoothie
me: looks amazing
her: it is the smoothie bar is over there
me: nice whats in it?
her: kale, ginger, carrots
me: thats why you have good skin
her: yes the greens helps
me: you're not from around here are you?
her: no la
me: where?
her: irvine
me: i love it down there, i have friends right off jeffrey st.
her: oh yes jeffrey i know it well
me:what are you doing up here?
her: school
me: we should hang ot sometime, i am a smoothie connoisseur.
her: oh i don't think so


#8

We saw a cute freshman walking alone.

me: excuse me, are you from new york city?
her: no why?
me: the way you dress, i can tell you're not from around here.
her: im from san diego
me: i knew you weren't a sf girl, they have no fashion sense
her: i know i'm noticing that
me: ya don't let us influence you ijt dressing bad
her: its almost like they don't care or they've given up
me: haha ya they don't care it sucks
her: i guess thats sf
me: where in sd are you from?
her: la jolla
me: oh the nice part, i have family in ocean beach
her: uh-oh
me: i know my hippie aunt and uncle
her: nice to be up here though
me: you will like it
her: i like it already
me: we should smoke a bowl or something some time
her: oh haha
me: wanna exchange numbers?
her: sure

She takes out here phone. I give her my number. Slim chance she'll call but we'll see.


#9
me: you look nice today
her: (smiles)
me: can i talk to you for sec?
her: no



That's about it. I did a few other little attempts to start conversations with girls but that is the jist of it. All in all, it was not one of my better days but at least Slubu got a good demonstration of what is possible during the day on a college campus.

He was surprised at how receptive these girls were.

I think I was a little too eager, the girls could sense it, I may have come across as forced and a bit desperate.

Slubu,

Would love to hear your analysis, observations and take-aways from our afternoon together. It was fun and educational.
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you have spirit man! my spirit would die after 5. more power to you!
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Lunch Break Approach : Real Nice beginning of Fall weather outside, I'm sitting on a outside table after my Lunch break and checking the Forum on my phone and see a Girl putting her bag on Grass and sitting about 20-30 feet away from me, I keep minding my business, She opens laptap and is working. She had a Green Sweat shirt on which i couldn't read from far away.

Again I wasn't in the mood but couldn't help to see how far can I push the issue. I got up to leave and when passing her opened with

Me: Are you getting Wifi signals here ?
Her: yes , they are pretty good
Me: My smartphone isn't getting any....
Her: May be because my laptop is registered through the University and I have a passowrd.
Me: Yes, My cell phone is messing up these days.
Her : You should talk to the people in Libraray they can help you with passwords.
Me: yeah I should, So what's a Girl from Wisconsin doing here..
Her: I just started ....doing PHD in Toxicology
Me: hah.... what kind of jobs do you guys go into ...

She gave a 5 min Speech and during that i saw she had a ring on the ringfinger and that just killed my interest.

She did ask me what do I do , i did tell her and bid her a good day and left

Lesson Learned: If not feeling 100 % yourself or about the Girl , Don't even waste your energy on the Approach.

I can see at the beginner stages doing a lot of approaches to play the numbers game/batting practice, now I need to get selective......

"You can not fake good kids" - Mike Pence
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Glad to see more people are talking about their approaches!

I had a sore throat and didn't really talk to anyone in my first two classes. I went to my third still feeling pretty shitty, but throughout my math class this 6 who was wearing a cowgirl dress paired with boots kept looking at me out of the corner of her eye. Her legs were convulsing randomly throughout the class. Either she was freezing or her pussy was having a seizure. I decided to talk to her.

After class I walked behind her as we strolled down the hallway. All my classmates were around me and I thought about not doing anything.

Then at the stairs I opened her.

Me: Hey, are you about to go home?
Her: Yeah. (Her eyes got big)
Me: Do you mind letting me ride your horse to my apartment so I don't have to walk.
Her: Yeah were do you live?
Me: Right down the road, but really? You rode a horse to college?
Her: What? Oh I'm wearing my boots. No I wish I did though..
Me: Have you ever ridden a horse before?

Then she went off on a long tangent about her love for horses, how long she rode them for, and why she no longer rides them.

Me: Huh well I gotta go Ill see you later.

I had to go to work or I would have tried to continue the conversation somewhere else.

I've got a test next week so I'll try and guide her to studying with me.
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Quote: (09-10-2012 03:07 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

I went out with Slubu during the day in a college area. I did 9-10 approaches with Slubu as a witness. I went 0-10. It wasn't my best work. But, I survived and I learned some things..
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That's about it. I did a few other little attempts to start conversations with girls but that is the jist of it. All in all, it was not one of my better days but at least Slubu got a good demonstration of what is possible during the day on a college campus.

He was surprised at how receptive these girls were.

I think I was a little too eager, the girls could sense it, I may have come across as forced and a bit desperate.

Slubu,

Would love to hear your analysis, observations and take-aways from our afternoon together. It was fun and educational.

First of all, how the hell do you remember these conversations so well? That is a good talent I must say. Anyway, fun day to meet up with Gio and see him in action. I should post the review of your style/game in that other thread, but with the approaches I must say it's interesting seeing daytime in action. The main thing that I saw was the receptiveness of the girls. Even if they weren't interested they would just stop and talk to Gio sometimes for a long time. I thought Irish girl was in the bag for example, she was way into the conversation.

This college campus thing is very intriguing to me. Obviously it has the exact type of girl I like, college aged and usually thinner and less jaded on life. Daytime has a lot of advantages, namely quality is higher, you are not wasting money and health on not drinking, etc. Then again the next night I went out I was fingering a girl in 20 minutes, so night time with booze has its advantages too.
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Some of my approaches this past weekend in SF...

#1:
Friday night, was way too drunk with my friends but I did approach some girl that was the 5th wheel at a restaurant. Eventually got her to come to our table do some shots and chatted with her for a bit. Friends dragged her away and she told me to meet her at another bar but I never got there. If I was more sober I may have been able to do something.

#2:
Saturday night, see a cute young girl standing by herself at the bar. I'm dressed well (I get compliments on this outfit everytime) go up to her and ask her why she looks so bored. She says she's waiting for her friend and I ask where's her drink, to which she responds her friend is getting them drinks. Chat it up, she is in college, came out for the night, etc. Friend comes back, I'm working both of them because don't know which one I should go for or likes me. Eventually the one I was talking to just jumps on me and starts making out with me. Continue for a few minutes pull her to the corner and start escalating out in the open and eventually get some fingering going in. Try to get her to the bathroom to fuck, but I make a crucial mistake by verbalizing my intent to go to the bathroom. I should have just led her in there. Fuck! Obviously she says she is not going to the bathroom with me. Whatever, head back to the main area her friend now has a guy and they say they want to go to another bar. For whatever damn reason, I waiver on whether to go to the other bar with her or not. This is actually very embarrassing, I asked her if she wanted me to come (thinking I'd get her to affirm her interest in me). Her response was that I'm a big boy and should be able to choose and eventually she said let's just save it for tomorrow (we made plans to hang out tomorrow because she was trying to just go home at this point). Needless to say I fucked up by not going with her to the other bar. Flaked on the next day date.

#3:
After #2 left I walked around the bar. Some girl standing by herself at the bar, I say are you ordering something and she goes no and walks away. I get my drink and walk back around and now she's standing by herself again by the wall. I go up to her and say hey thanks for making room, chit chat, tell her I can't hear her so let's go to this corner. Talk some more, she mentions she wants to smoke so I say my hotel is down the street let's go. She agrees, we go there, smoke, I start making out with her but her friend keeps calling her to go get her so eventually she leaves. Some 22yo hula hooper of all things. Made plans to meet up with her too the next day and she confirmed also next day but then went silent. Texted me today saying her phone died. Oh well.

#4
Sunday afternoon, watching the football games at a bar. My buddy's wife has a bunch of single friends that join us, start chatting them up. One is receptive but she has to go around 5pm, and when she says by to me we do a weird half makeout half peck. She is set to meet up with us later.

#5
We leave the bar Sunday afternoon and my other buddy who's also married as I walk out points to me and says "he has a cigarette." Nice work man, he has a girl waiting for me. Give her a cig, she is hammered like really drunk. Said let's grab a beer somewhere else she obliged. I was drunk too but didn't notice until we started walking and she kept almost falling. She came back to my hotel but it was really useless, didn't realize she was that drunk. Passed out on my bed, woke her up and told her to get out I was going to meet up with my friends for dinner. Kept insisting I call her a cab which I refused since you can walk outside and 10 drive by every minute. Eventually ditched her in the hotel lobby and left.

Interesting side note here: Her boyfriend kept calling her (known by her talking to him and saying "babe" repeatedly). As wasted as she was, to the point where she was falling down, etc., her female cunning never left. He kept asking where she was and she kept replying "I'm in a cab I'll be home soon." Meanwhile she was in some guy's bed she met 15 minutes ago. They're all sluts folks.

#6
Actually a rehash of #4, meet up at dinner, girl from #4 comes back. We finish dinner, go to a bar and her and I hang out a bit more after everyone leaves. Walk back to her place, she invites me in, get to making out and she stops me with LMR. So tired I didn't try too hard, but maybe if I persisted I could have gotten somewhere. Drinking for 12+ hours didn't help the cause then. She's coming to LA in a few weeks so we'll see what happens. Not expecting much.

#7
Whoops I forgot a daygame one, at Zara on Saturday afternoon. Stopped a girl to ask how a blazer looked on me. She was receptive, got her to laugh a bit but didn't push it any further.
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Quote: (09-10-2012 09:13 PM)slubu Wrote:  

This is actually very embarrassing, I asked her if she wanted me to come (thinking I'd get her to affirm her interest in me). Her response was that I'm a big boy and should be able to choose and eventually she said let's just save it for tomorrow (we made plans to hang out tomorrow because she was trying to just go home at this point).

I had a milestone moment in my game when I started changing how I handle these scenarios.

I previously had this paranoia about inviting myself to venue changes, house parties, etc. I didn't want to be seen as a "creeper" or clingy. I'd meet a girl in a bar, listen to her plans to go to a party, and stand there and hint that I'd like to go with her. Obviously I never got far in these scenarios.

These days I've learned; just invite yourself.

"House party? Cool, give me directions and maybe I'll join you."
"Which bar? Maybe I'll join you."

...and so on.

"...so I gave her an STD, and she STILL wanted to bang me."

TEAM NO APPS

TEAM PINK
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Quote: (09-10-2012 10:03 PM)thedude3737 Wrote:  

Quote: (09-10-2012 09:13 PM)slubu Wrote:  

This is actually very embarrassing, I asked her if she wanted me to come (thinking I'd get her to affirm her interest in me). Her response was that I'm a big boy and should be able to choose and eventually she said let's just save it for tomorrow (we made plans to hang out tomorrow because she was trying to just go home at this point).

I had a milestone moment in my game when I started changing how I handle these scenarios.

I previously had this paranoia about inviting myself to venue changes, house parties, etc. I didn't want to be seen as a "creeper" or clingy. I'd meet a girl in a bar, listen to her plans to go to a party, and stand there and hint that I'd like to go with her. Obviously I never got far in these scenarios.

These days I've learned; just invite yourself.

"House party? Cool, give me directions and maybe I'll join you."
"Which bar? Maybe I'll join you."

...and so on.

I immediately regretted it right after that. Same, I didn't want to feel like a creeper just inviting myself or making her feel uncomfortable. The absolute worst part was I just did the opposite a month ago where I got a bang by NOT being the guy that just settled for the number but rather almost forced myself into the next venue with the group and ended up with the bang.

I hate moments of regression, but I guess it happens to everyone and you got to just remember not to fall into those traps again.
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Quote: (09-10-2012 08:57 PM)slubu Wrote:  

This college campus thing is very intriguing to me. Obviously it has the exact type of girl I like, college aged and usually thinner and less jaded on life.

Yes, that is the whole point to all of this! Younger girls, thinner girls, IN MASS QUANTITIES! That is why I do college day game. Where else are you gonna find so many little "box gappers" and "rib-lets" all in one place?!?!

I literally approached 10 college girls in about 3 hours. Most guys our age don't approach 10 college girls in a year!

These are the girls we want, so these are the girls we must approach! It reminds me of this post about the guy who only games 10s. We have to go after the girls we want. If you want a college girl you have to go after college girls.

How many 19 year olds would you be willing to approach in order to bang one? 20? 30? 40? 50? I can approach that many in a week. I approach until I find one that like me. It's that simple.

Quote: (09-10-2012 08:57 PM)slubu Wrote:  

Daytime has a lot of advantages, namely quality is higher, you are not wasting money and health on not drinking, etc.

Daytime is obviously alot healthier in the long run.

Quote: (09-10-2012 08:57 PM)slubu Wrote:  

Then again the next night I went out I was fingering a girl in 20 minutes, so night time with booze has its advantages too.

Night game with booze will always yield more pussy then day game. Day game can never replace night game in terms of quick lays.

For me, day game is just a way to get access to high quality younger women. Alot of those college girls that we talked to on campus - A. Are to young to go to bars and clubs B. Cant afford to go out that much C. Don't have transportation. D. Have other night time options on campus.

The best time to catch them is during the day. Bitch shields are lower, they are often alone, and you can often find better quality, and of course thousands of them at a time, if you go to a large university! All without drinking, spending money, or staying up late.

BUT, AGAIN, DAY GAME WILL NEVER REPLACE NIGHT GAME FOR QUICK BANGS. SNLs are rare during the day BUT COMMON AT NIGHT.

So, don't expect day game to bring easy pussy like night game can. Day game is just a way to get in a few more approaches and hopefully a few more dates. If you can get a fuck buddy from the day, thats a few less night you will have to out.

Now, here is what I really want to say in this post. Day game doesn't always mean walking around the city chatting up girls. For most guys, it will be much more practical then that.

Real life day game is this...

You are at the store, you see a cute girl, what do you do?

You are on public transportation, you see a cute girl,what do you do?

You are getting coffee, you see a cute girl, what do you do?

You are out on your lunch break, you see a cute girl, what do you do?


These are the everyday situations that guys will face. These are the moments we have to be ready for.

When we are out in public and we see that young cutie who is a junior in college, we have to make our move, we will probably not see her at midnight at the downtown upscale lounge. We have to strike immediately.

That is what my afternoon with Slubu was about. Preparing for those moments. I feel more prepared now and I think he does too.
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Yesterday was the first day of lectures at the local college campus. I approached 20 girls in 5 hours. Got 7 numbers. Only 3 texted me back.

IMO day game is a huge time sink. There are far more efficient ways to get laid - online game and bars and clubs, social circles. Why? These are the "socially approved" channels of meeting people, at least in the US.

Here's my experience with day game with American girls in the US:
http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-14153.html

The guys who've made day game work target a specific niche of girls - tourists/foreign girls. These girls don't have established social circles, and tourist girls are just looking to have fun. Some guys like Krauser travel to poorer Eastern European countries where they can leverage their status as wealthy Englishmen, and where the girls have less "stranger danger random creeper" paranoia (ala American women) and are far more amenable to meeting men on the streets.

I recall even Krauser spent a month in SoCal and didn't get laid once. If a day game pro with a British accent like Krauser can't make day game work in the US, why waste your time?

For a people who pride themselves in their independence, American girls are remarkably sheep-like in their conformity. There's too much "creeper" paranoia to make day game work in the US. Either target foreign/tourist girls exclusively, or day game in a country where you can leverage your "wealthy Westerner" status and the local girls are open to meeting men during the day.
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Excellent recent posts by Giovanny and Slubu, Gio a beast at Day Game and Slubu a beast at Night Game.

Same discussion came out of Roosh and Krauser Meet-up in Croatia. Roosh a beast at Night and day game but prefers night game for SNL's while Krauser uses Daygame to a Max.Something stuck with me from that discussion

http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-14819....ht=krauser

" Everyplayer is a product of their enviroment "

Myself Day Game is my default althought I know Night game can yields more SNL's but am limited to doing day game only and like Gio said, I do Day Game during my daily routine and rarely I do hit specific grounds for the purpose of day gaming. When I am out of town it's a no limit Marathon.........Day Game and Night game........

Slubu great to see you doing some Day game.....

"You can not fake good kids" - Mike Pence
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There's a spot where I live that's a Player's Paradise. It's surrounded by SEVERAL chick magnet establishments. There's a Starbucks; next to that is a small yoga studio; next to that is a small gym; next to that is a grocery store; next to that is a dry cleaners. They are all connect--aranged in a sort of square. In the middle are chairs and tables where I regularly sit with the laptop, a book or two, and a couple pieces of fruit. Oh yeah...the beach is across the street. You see sexy, fit chicks--often coming from the beach in their 2-piece swimsuits CONSTANTLY. Whether it's to & from the yoga studio or the gym, the place is a hoe-asis.
So, my girl & I were sitting there chillin, when we saw a Columbian (we found this out soon enough) show-stopper walking by, going into the grocery store. Cleavage popping out all over the place...stylish high heels...long beautiful hair...perfectly round ass...the works.
My girl said, "Damn, I would LOVE to see you fuck her" (we've been living the 3some lifestyle for years).
I laughed & said, "So, what you gon' do about it?"
"You know what we're gon' do about it," as she flashed her little devilish grin.
Of course, we noticed that she was wearing a half-top, showing her magnificently flat stomach. There's an opener that we've been using for years on chicks with the half-tops, that ALWAYS gets their attention. So as the chick walked back by, my girl said, "Excuse me."
The chick (Maria) said, "Yes?"
"I just wanted to tell you that, as you walked by, I couldn't help notice that you have the cutest lil squirt dimples."
Maria giggles and says, "Huh?"
"You have the cutest squirt dimples. You don't know what I'm talking about?"
"No. What do you mean?"
So my girl gets up and holds out her hand, while holding a fierce gaze in Maria's eyes. Maria put her hand in my girl's hand. My girl raises Maria's hand and turns her so that Maria's back is facing her.
"So, these little dimples at the bottom of your back (while rubbing them with her fingers)...the more pronounced they are, the more likely that you're a squirter."
Maria, giggling and looking all shy & bashful, "What? Really? Oh my god."
My girl then says, "Go over and show him, he's the expert."
So I said, "Let me check it out." She came over to me and turned around. I started rubbing her little dimples while saying, "Yeah, these are DEFINITELY squirt dimples. You probably fuck up your fair share of sheets."
She put her hands over her face and said, "Oh my god. I can't believe I'm having this conversation."
My girl said, "What's your name?"
"Maria."
"Well Maria, you are a squirter, right???"
"OH MY GOD!"
I said, "Of course Maria is a squirter. Look at those squirt dimples" (by the way, the whole squirt dimple thing is nonsense, but bitches don't know that).
"Oh...my...god. Are we REALLY having this conversation??? Who are you people?" Then we all started laughing hysterically.
My girl introduced herself then introduced me. Then she said, "Maria, you still haven't answered the question."
"What question?"
"Are you the type to fuck up somebody's sheets?"
"No, okay. I have never squirted. I've heard about it. I've seen it in porn. I want to, but no, I have never squirted, ok. Oh my god, I can't believe we're talking about this."
Still sitting, I grabbed her hand and said, "Well luckily, you bumped into us. How many of your friends are experiencing the unbelievable right now. You'll have a REALLY good story to tell tomorrow."
"Oh...yes I will."
Then my girl says, "So Maria, it's a real shame that these cute little squirt dimples (as she reached behind Maria and started rubbing her dimples) are going to waste."
"I gotta say that I agree. I've barely even had regular orgasms. So I think squirting would probably mess up my head."
Everyone laughed, then I said, "You know, I consider that sexual abuse."
"You consider what sexual abuse?"
"Seducing a woman...getting her all hot & bothered, and then NOT giving her the full release she deserves."
"I never thought about it that way. I guess it is."
Turning to my girl, she says, "What about you?"
"What? Am I a squirter?"
"Yeah."
"Oh, I'm a squirting machine. I gush buckets. It's all his doing..." pointing at me. "I never squirted, or had orgasms at all before I met him. He's a master."
"Really? Some girls have all the luck."
"Well today could turn out to be your lucky day beautiful."
"Really?"
"Yeah, really. That's his specialty. I Love to see him make girls squirt for the first time. Nothing turns me on more than that."
"Oh my god. Did you just say that?!?!?!"
My girl gave her the ol' one-eyebrow-raised look, while flashing a sinister grin. Then I said, "So Maria, what kinda girls are you into?"
"What kinda girls am I into? What kind of question is that? What makes you think I'm into girls mister?"
"Maria, for the past 13 years, I have ONLY had sex with, or been in relationships with bisexual women. I won't waste my time with anything else. Since I don't consider this conversation a waste of my time, you must be bisexual...right?"
She laughed hysterically and said, "I love that logic...since you're talking to me, I must be bisexual." She turns to my girl and says "Is this what you have to deal with?"
"I wouldn't have it any other way."
Maria laughed and said, "Well, since you put it that way--since the fact that you're talking to me means I must be into women," as she started looking my girl up & down, "...I love petite, fit girls. Girls who are confident. Girls who know how to have fun...with good fashion sense."
"So you're into girls like her, huh."
Giggling, "Yeah, girls EXACTLY like her."
So anyway, the conversation went on & on. Lots of laughing; lots of touching, lots of flirting. We found out that Maria was in town visiting her sister. She's from L.A. So she tells us that she has a while before she has to meet her sister to hang out. She was just coming to the store to pick up some fruit to eat. She was on her way back to her hotel. If we want, we can come hang out with her in her room. Said she had an 8th of some of the best weed in California.
GAME ON!!!
So we get to her room and she puts some weed in her vaporizer and we all partake. I tell her to go and take a shower so I can get her on the wonderful road to squirting. She simply stood up and started undressing. SHE HAD ONE OF THE MOST BEAUTIFUL BODIES THIS SIDE OF THE MILKY WAY!!!
My girl said, "I need a shower too," as she looked at Maria with the your-pussy-is-mine look. Then she started undressing.
They started rubbing each other, then kissing. My girl cut her eyes at me, then they both started giggling. Then my girl said, "Ok, let's get cleaned up."
They both went to the shower & I could hear the moaning & groaning. When they came out, I told Maria to lie on the bed. My girl always keeps a small jar of coconut oil in her bag so that she can apply it to her skin after she takes a shower at the gym. So I used that to start giving Maria a massage. This is a PRIMARY part of our 3some game. We collaborate on what in "the community" has called the "dual induction" massage. I'm a certified hypnotherapist, so I was using pattern language to get her to feel things I wanted her to feel during the massage.
FAST FORWARD. I got to the G-spot and yes...she squirted...numerous times. SHE CRIED!!! She thanked me
She started kissing me & unbuckling my belt. I told her to let me take a shower first. The ladies started doing their thing, I got outta the shower. They gave me a double-team dick sucking that was un-Earthly. I sucked & fucked each pussy maniacally.

LATER, she went clubbing with her sister & her friends. At around 3am, I got a call asking if we were up for some more fun & games. My girl said that she was too tired and that I should just go alone. I went to the hotel, inhaled copious amounts of THC, and fucked her til we both passed the fuck out.

THE END
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Quote: (09-11-2012 07:38 PM)Mon Wrote:  

There's a spot where I live that's a Player's Paradise. It's surrounded by SEVERAL chick magnet establishments. There's a Starbucks; next to that is a small yoga studio; next to that is a small gym; next to that is a grocery store; next to that is a dry cleaners. They are all connect--aranged in a sort of square. In the middle are chairs and tables where I regularly sit with the laptop, a book or two, and a couple pieces of fruit. Oh yeah...the beach is across the street. You see sexy, fit chicks--often coming from the beach in their 2-piece swimsuits CONSTANTLY. Whether it's to & from the yoga studio or the gym, the place is a hoe-asis.
So, my girl & I were sitting there chillin, when we saw a Columbian (we found this out soon enough) show-stopper walking by, going into the grocery store. Cleavage popping out all over the place...stylish high heels...long beautiful hair...perfectly round ass...the works.
My girl said, "Damn, I would LOVE to see you fuck her" (we've been living the 3some lifestyle for years).
I laughed & said, "So, what you gon' do about it?"
"You know what we're gon' do about it," as she flashed her little devilish grin.
Of course, we noticed that she was wearing a half-top, showing her magnificently flat stomach. There's an opener that we've been using for years on chicks with the half-tops, that ALWAYS gets their attention. So as the chick walked back by, my girl said, "Excuse me."
The chick (Maria) said, "Yes?"
"I just wanted to tell you that, as you walked by, I couldn't help notice that you have the cutest lil squirt dimples."
Maria giggles and says, "Huh?"
"You have the cutest squirt dimples. You don't know what I'm talking about?"
"No. What do you mean?"
So my girl gets up and holds out her hand, while holding a fierce gaze in Maria's eyes. Maria put her hand in my girl's hand. My girl raises Maria's hand and turns her so that Maria's back is facing her.
"So, these little dimples at the bottom of your back (while rubbing them with her fingers)...the more pronounced they are, the more likely that you're a squirter."
Maria, giggling and looking all shy & bashful, "What? Really? Oh my god."
My girl then says, "Go over and show him, he's the expert."
So I said, "Let me check it out." She came over to me and turned around. I started rubbing her little dimples while saying, "Yeah, these are DEFINITELY squirt dimples. You probably fuck up your fair share of sheets."
She put her hands over her face and said, "Oh my god. I can't believe I'm having this conversation."
My girl said, "What's your name?"
"Maria."
"Well Maria, you are a squirter, right???"
"OH MY GOD!"
I said, "Of course Maria is a squirter. Look at those squirt dimples" (by the way, the whole squirt dimple thing is nonsense, but bitches don't know that).
"Oh...my...god. Are we REALLY having this conversation??? Who are you people?" Then we all started laughing hysterically.
My girl introduced herself then introduced me. Then she said, "Maria, you still haven't answered the question."
"What question?"
"Are you the type to fuck up somebody's sheets?"
"No, okay. I have never squirted. I've heard about it. I've seen it in porn. I want to, but no, I have never squirted, ok. Oh my god, I can't believe we're talking about this."
Still sitting, I grabbed her hand and said, "Well luckily, you bumped into us. How many of your friends are experiencing the unbelievable right now. You'll have a REALLY good story to tell tomorrow."
"Oh...yes I will."
Then my girl says, "So Maria, it's a real shame that these cute little squirt dimples (as she reached behind Maria and started rubbing her dimples) are going to waste."
"I gotta say that I agree. I've barely even had regular orgasms. So I think squirting would probably mess up my head."
Everyone laughed, then I said, "You know, I consider that sexual abuse."
"You consider what sexual abuse?"
"Seducing a woman...getting her all hot & bothered, and then NOT giving her the full release she deserves."
"I never thought about it that way. I guess it is."
Turning to my girl, she says, "What about you?"
"What? Am I a squirter?"
"Yeah."
"Oh, I'm a squirting machine. I gush buckets. It's all his doing..." pointing at me. "I never squirted, or had orgasms at all before I met him. He's a master."
"Really? Some girls have all the luck."
"Well today could turn out to be your lucky day beautiful."
"Really?"
"Yeah, really. That's his specialty. I Love to see him make girls squirt for the first time. Nothing turns me on more than that."
"Oh my god. Did you just say that?!?!?!"
My girl gave her the ol' one-eyebrow-raised look, while flashing a sinister grin. Then I said, "So Maria, what kinda girls are you into?"
"What kinda girls am I into? What kind of question is that? What makes you think I'm into girls mister?"
"Maria, for the past 13 years, I have ONLY had sex with, or been in relationships with bisexual women. I won't waste my time with anything else. Since I don't consider this conversation a waste of my time, you must be bisexual...right?"
She laughed hysterically and said, "I love that logic...since you're talking to me, I must be bisexual." She turns to my girl and says "Is this what you have to deal with?"
"I wouldn't have it any other way."
Maria laughed and said, "Well, since you put it that way--since the fact that you're talking to me means I must be into women," as she started looking my girl up & down, "...I love petite, fit girls. Girls who are confident. Girls who know how to have fun...with good fashion sense."
"So you're into girls like her, huh."
Giggling, "Yeah, girls EXACTLY like her."
So anyway, the conversation went on & on. Lots of laughing; lots of touching, lots of flirting. We found out that Maria was in town visiting her sister. She's from L.A. So she tells us that she has a while before she has to meet her sister to hang out. She was just coming to the store to pick up some fruit to eat. She was on her way back to her hotel. If we want, we can come hang out with her in her room. Said she had an 8th of some of the best weed in California.
GAME ON!!!
So we get to her room and she puts some weed in her vaporizer and we all partake. I tell her to go and take a shower so I can get her on the wonderful road to squirting. She simply stood up and started undressing. SHE HAD ONE OF THE MOST BEAUTIFUL BODIES THIS SIDE OF THE MILKY WAY!!!
My girl said, "I need a shower too," as she looked at Maria with the your-pussy-is-mine look. Then she started undressing.
They started rubbing each other, then kissing. My girl cut her eyes at me, then they both started giggling. Then my girl said, "Ok, let's get cleaned up."
They both went to the shower & I could hear the moaning & groaning. When they came out, I told Maria to lie on the bed. My girl always keeps a small jar of coconut oil in her bag so that she can apply it to her skin after she takes a shower at the gym. So I used that to start giving Maria a massage. This is a PRIMARY part of our 3some game. We collaborate on what in "the community" has called the "dual induction" massage. I'm a certified hypnotherapist, so I was using pattern language to get her to feel things I wanted her to feel during the massage.
FAST FORWARD. I got to the G-spot and yes...she squirted...numerous times. SHE CRIED!!! She thanked me
She started kissing me & unbuckling my belt. I told her to let me take a shower first. The ladies started doing their thing, I got outta the shower. They gave me a double-team dick sucking that was un-Earthly. I sucked & fucked each pussy maniacally.

LATER, she went clubbing with her sister & her friends. At around 3am, I got a call asking if we were up for some more fun & games. My girl said that she was too tired and that I should just go alone. I went to the hotel, inhaled copious amounts of THC, and fucked her til we both passed the fuck out.

THE END

This is the most ridiculous story I've ever heard. Either big baller troll or you are the dos equis guy.
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The Approach Thread

Quote: (09-11-2012 08:02 PM)rationalize_this Wrote:  

Quote: (09-11-2012 07:38 PM)Mon Wrote:  

There's a spot where I live that's a Player's Paradise. It's surrounded by SEVERAL chick magnet establishments. There's a Starbucks; next to that is a small yoga studio; next to that is a small gym; next to that is a grocery store; next to that is a dry cleaners. They are all connect--aranged in a sort of square. In the middle are chairs and tables where I regularly sit with the laptop, a book or two, and a couple pieces of fruit. Oh yeah...the beach is across the street. You see sexy, fit chicks--often coming from the beach in their 2-piece swimsuits CONSTANTLY. Whether it's to & from the yoga studio or the gym, the place is a hoe-asis.
So, my girl & I were sitting there chillin, when we saw a Columbian (we found this out soon enough) show-stopper walking by, going into the grocery store. Cleavage popping out all over the place...stylish high heels...long beautiful hair...perfectly round ass...the works.
My girl said, "Damn, I would LOVE to see you fuck her" (we've been living the 3some lifestyle for years).
I laughed & said, "So, what you gon' do about it?"
"You know what we're gon' do about it," as she flashed her little devilish grin.
Of course, we noticed that she was wearing a half-top, showing her magnificently flat stomach. There's an opener that we've been using for years on chicks with the half-tops, that ALWAYS gets their attention. So as the chick walked back by, my girl said, "Excuse me."
The chick (Maria) said, "Yes?"
"I just wanted to tell you that, as you walked by, I couldn't help notice that you have the cutest lil squirt dimples."
Maria giggles and says, "Huh?"
"You have the cutest squirt dimples. You don't know what I'm talking about?"
"No. What do you mean?"
So my girl gets up and holds out her hand, while holding a fierce gaze in Maria's eyes. Maria put her hand in my girl's hand. My girl raises Maria's hand and turns her so that Maria's back is facing her.
"So, these little dimples at the bottom of your back (while rubbing them with her fingers)...the more pronounced they are, the more likely that you're a squirter."
Maria, giggling and looking all shy & bashful, "What? Really? Oh my god."
My girl then says, "Go over and show him, he's the expert."
So I said, "Let me check it out." She came over to me and turned around. I started rubbing her little dimples while saying, "Yeah, these are DEFINITELY squirt dimples. You probably fuck up your fair share of sheets."
She put her hands over her face and said, "Oh my god. I can't believe I'm having this conversation."
My girl said, "What's your name?"
"Maria."
"Well Maria, you are a squirter, right???"
"OH MY GOD!"
I said, "Of course Maria is a squirter. Look at those squirt dimples" (by the way, the whole squirt dimple thing is nonsense, but bitches don't know that).
"Oh...my...god. Are we REALLY having this conversation??? Who are you people?" Then we all started laughing hysterically.
My girl introduced herself then introduced me. Then she said, "Maria, you still haven't answered the question."
"What question?"
"Are you the type to fuck up somebody's sheets?"
"No, okay. I have never squirted. I've heard about it. I've seen it in porn. I want to, but no, I have never squirted, ok. Oh my god, I can't believe we're talking about this."
Still sitting, I grabbed her hand and said, "Well luckily, you bumped into us. How many of your friends are experiencing the unbelievable right now. You'll have a REALLY good story to tell tomorrow."
"Oh...yes I will."
Then my girl says, "So Maria, it's a real shame that these cute little squirt dimples (as she reached behind Maria and started rubbing her dimples) are going to waste."
"I gotta say that I agree. I've barely even had regular orgasms. So I think squirting would probably mess up my head."
Everyone laughed, then I said, "You know, I consider that sexual abuse."
"You consider what sexual abuse?"
"Seducing a woman...getting her all hot & bothered, and then NOT giving her the full release she deserves."
"I never thought about it that way. I guess it is."
Turning to my girl, she says, "What about you?"
"What? Am I a squirter?"
"Yeah."
"Oh, I'm a squirting machine. I gush buckets. It's all his doing..." pointing at me. "I never squirted, or had orgasms at all before I met him. He's a master."
"Really? Some girls have all the luck."
"Well today could turn out to be your lucky day beautiful."
"Really?"
"Yeah, really. That's his specialty. I Love to see him make girls squirt for the first time. Nothing turns me on more than that."
"Oh my god. Did you just say that?!?!?!"
My girl gave her the ol' one-eyebrow-raised look, while flashing a sinister grin. Then I said, "So Maria, what kinda girls are you into?"
"What kinda girls am I into? What kind of question is that? What makes you think I'm into girls mister?"
"Maria, for the past 13 years, I have ONLY had sex with, or been in relationships with bisexual women. I won't waste my time with anything else. Since I don't consider this conversation a waste of my time, you must be bisexual...right?"
She laughed hysterically and said, "I love that logic...since you're talking to me, I must be bisexual." She turns to my girl and says "Is this what you have to deal with?"
"I wouldn't have it any other way."
Maria laughed and said, "Well, since you put it that way--since the fact that you're talking to me means I must be into women," as she started looking my girl up & down, "...I love petite, fit girls. Girls who are confident. Girls who know how to have fun...with good fashion sense."
"So you're into girls like her, huh."
Giggling, "Yeah, girls EXACTLY like her."
So anyway, the conversation went on & on. Lots of laughing; lots of touching, lots of flirting. We found out that Maria was in town visiting her sister. She's from L.A. So she tells us that she has a while before she has to meet her sister to hang out. She was just coming to the store to pick up some fruit to eat. She was on her way back to her hotel. If we want, we can come hang out with her in her room. Said she had an 8th of some of the best weed in California.
GAME ON!!!
So we get to her room and she puts some weed in her vaporizer and we all partake. I tell her to go and take a shower so I can get her on the wonderful road to squirting. She simply stood up and started undressing. SHE HAD ONE OF THE MOST BEAUTIFUL BODIES THIS SIDE OF THE MILKY WAY!!!
My girl said, "I need a shower too," as she looked at Maria with the your-pussy-is-mine look. Then she started undressing.
They started rubbing each other, then kissing. My girl cut her eyes at me, then they both started giggling. Then my girl said, "Ok, let's get cleaned up."
They both went to the shower & I could hear the moaning & groaning. When they came out, I told Maria to lie on the bed. My girl always keeps a small jar of coconut oil in her bag so that she can apply it to her skin after she takes a shower at the gym. So I used that to start giving Maria a massage. This is a PRIMARY part of our 3some game. We collaborate on what in "the community" has called the "dual induction" massage. I'm a certified hypnotherapist, so I was using pattern language to get her to feel things I wanted her to feel during the massage.
FAST FORWARD. I got to the G-spot and yes...she squirted...numerous times. SHE CRIED!!! She thanked me
She started kissing me & unbuckling my belt. I told her to let me take a shower first. The ladies started doing their thing, I got outta the shower. They gave me a double-team dick sucking that was un-Earthly. I sucked & fucked each pussy maniacally.

LATER, she went clubbing with her sister & her friends. At around 3am, I got a call asking if we were up for some more fun & games. My girl said that she was too tired and that I should just go alone. I went to the hotel, inhaled copious amounts of THC, and fucked her til we both passed the fuck out.

THE END

This is the most ridiculous story I've ever heard. Either big baller troll or you are the dos equis guy.

Hahahaha. I love it when amateurs show their own perceived inadequacies by assuming that successes that far exceed their capabilities are "rediculous stories." But hey, continue to wallow in your limitations.
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The Approach Thread

After my first day game approach a couple days ago, I went to the college campus to do some more. I was there for three hours. During the first two hours, I just walked around and didn't approach. There were a lot of girls, but most were moving around from class to class, making it hard to approach. There were some girls sitting down, but either they weren't hot or were in groups. I was frustrated.

Then in the final hour, I saw a lone girl sitting down. Opened her with elderly chat and she said something about waiting for her boyfriend 1 minute into the conversation. The total conversation was about 5 minutes and she was very receptive, smiling and twirling her hair while answering my questions. But she didn't bite 2 of my big baits. I could have continued but because of the previous boyfriend comment, I ended the conversation.

Should I have continued to game her?

After that, I saw a girl walking and opened her in the same way. She was very enthusiastic and bit on my bait. Got her number and she told me to call her. Could be promising.

I was surprised how little approach anxiety I had even though these are my first day game approaches. I've been working on my lifestyle and that has definitely boosted my confidence. On the other hand, I'm doing indirect game so my ego is not on the line. I bet I'd be a nervous wreck if I tried direct game.

Gio (and anyone else who wants to answer)- after getting the number in this type of day game situation, how long do you wait before texting? When you go on a date with a girl who may be under 21, where do you go and do you pay for the whole thing?
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Quote: (09-11-2012 09:01 PM)lurker123123 Wrote:  

After my first day game approach a couple days ago, I went to the college campus to do some more. I was there for three hours. During the first two hours, I just walked around and didn't approach. There were a lot of girls, but most were moving around from class to class, making it hard to approach. There were some girls sitting down, but either they weren't hot or were in groups. I was frustrated.

Then in the final hour, I saw a lone girl sitting down. Opened her with elderly chat and she said something about waiting for her boyfriend 1 minute into the conversation. The total conversation was about 5 minutes and she was very receptive, smiling and twirling her hair while answering my questions. But she didn't bite 2 of my big baits. I could have continued but because of the previous boyfriend comment, I ended the conversation.

Should I have continued to game her?

After that, I saw a girl walking and opened her in the same way. She was very enthusiastic and bit on my bait. Got her number and she told me to call her. Could be promising.

I was surprised how little approach anxiety I had even though these are my first day game approaches. I've been working on my lifestyle and that has definitely boosted my confidence. On the other hand, I'm doing indirect game so my ego is not on the line. I bet I'd be a nervous wreck if I tried direct game.

Gio (and anyone else who wants to answer)- after getting the number in this type of day game situation, how long do you wait before texting? When you go on a date with a girl who may be under 21, where do you go and do you pay for the whole thing?

What kind of the eldery opener did you use? i find it difficult to stop a girl who is walking with indirect opener.
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This is the most ridiculous story I've ever heard. Either big baller troll or you are the dos equis guy.
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Hahahaha. I love it when amateurs show their own perceived inadequacies by assuming that successes that far exceed their capabilities are "rediculous stories." But hey, continue to wallow in your limitations.
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I love how you are already attacking me calling me an insecure amateur. You couldn't be more wrong. I have inadequacies, everyone does, that's why I'm here, like everyone else, to learn and improve. This hasn't stopped me from amassing a triple digits notch count at 25 years of age. What do I question, and I'm sure everyone else does, is when someone who has literally contributed nothing to this forum in the form of a data sheet or advice posts a brag story like this. Out of your whopping 6 posts, 3/6 brag about how many threesome, or your 37 notches, and the fourth attacks me. Maybe you're projecting your inadequacies? Break it down, how did you land a LTR like this? How have you managed to to maintain it while gaming girls on the side? Don't just post brag stories and attack members when they are skeptic.
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Quote: (09-12-2012 02:42 AM)starmaze Wrote:  

What kind of the eldery opener did you use? i find it difficult to stop a girl who is walking with indirect opener.

I asked about finding the administration building and then asked administration questions like what is the last day to add classes, getting refunds for tuition and things like that. It helps to know about the college
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Quote: (09-11-2012 07:38 PM)Mon Wrote:  

There's a spot where I live that's a Player's Paradise. It's surrounded by SEVERAL chick magnet establishments. There's a Starbucks; next to that is a small yoga studio; next to that is a small gym; next to that is a grocery store; next to that is a dry cleaners. They are all connect--aranged in a sort of square. In the middle are chairs and tables where I regularly sit with the laptop, a book or two, and a couple pieces of fruit. Oh yeah...the beach is across the street. You see sexy, fit chicks--often coming from the beach in their 2-piece swimsuits CONSTANTLY. Whether it's to & from the yoga studio or the gym, the place is a hoe-asis.
So, my girl & I were sitting there chillin, when we saw a Columbian (we found this out soon enough) show-stopper walking by, going into the grocery store. Cleavage popping out all over the place...stylish high heels...long beautiful hair...perfectly round ass...the works.
My girl said, "Damn, I would LOVE to see you fuck her" (we've been living the 3some lifestyle for years).
I laughed & said, "So, what you gon' do about it?"
"You know what we're gon' do about it," as she flashed her little devilish grin.
Of course, we noticed that she was wearing a half-top, showing her magnificently flat stomach. There's an opener that we've been using for years on chicks with the half-tops, that ALWAYS gets their attention. So as the chick walked back by, my girl said, "Excuse me."
The chick (Maria) said, "Yes?"
"I just wanted to tell you that, as you walked by, I couldn't help notice that you have the cutest lil squirt dimples."
Maria giggles and says, "Huh?"
"You have the cutest squirt dimples. You don't know what I'm talking about?"
"No. What do you mean?"
So my girl gets up and holds out her hand, while holding a fierce gaze in Maria's eyes. Maria put her hand in my girl's hand. My girl raises Maria's hand and turns her so that Maria's back is facing her.
"So, these little dimples at the bottom of your back (while rubbing them with her fingers)...the more pronounced they are, the more likely that you're a squirter."
Maria, giggling and looking all shy & bashful, "What? Really? Oh my god."
My girl then says, "Go over and show him, he's the expert."
So I said, "Let me check it out." She came over to me and turned around. I started rubbing her little dimples while saying, "Yeah, these are DEFINITELY squirt dimples. You probably fuck up your fair share of sheets."
She put her hands over her face and said, "Oh my god. I can't believe I'm having this conversation."
My girl said, "What's your name?"
"Maria."
"Well Maria, you are a squirter, right???"
"OH MY GOD!"
I said, "Of course Maria is a squirter. Look at those squirt dimples" (by the way, the whole squirt dimple thing is nonsense, but bitches don't know that).
"Oh...my...god. Are we REALLY having this conversation??? Who are you people?" Then we all started laughing hysterically.
My girl introduced herself then introduced me. Then she said, "Maria, you still haven't answered the question."
"What question?"
"Are you the type to fuck up somebody's sheets?"
"No, okay. I have never squirted. I've heard about it. I've seen it in porn. I want to, but no, I have never squirted, ok. Oh my god, I can't believe we're talking about this."
Still sitting, I grabbed her hand and said, "Well luckily, you bumped into us. How many of your friends are experiencing the unbelievable right now. You'll have a REALLY good story to tell tomorrow."
"Oh...yes I will."
Then my girl says, "So Maria, it's a real shame that these cute little squirt dimples (as she reached behind Maria and started rubbing her dimples) are going to waste."
"I gotta say that I agree. I've barely even had regular orgasms. So I think squirting would probably mess up my head."
Everyone laughed, then I said, "You know, I consider that sexual abuse."
"You consider what sexual abuse?"
"Seducing a woman...getting her all hot & bothered, and then NOT giving her the full release she deserves."
"I never thought about it that way. I guess it is."
Turning to my girl, she says, "What about you?"
"What? Am I a squirter?"
"Yeah."
"Oh, I'm a squirting machine. I gush buckets. It's all his doing..." pointing at me. "I never squirted, or had orgasms at all before I met him. He's a master."
"Really? Some girls have all the luck."
"Well today could turn out to be your lucky day beautiful."
"Really?"
"Yeah, really. That's his specialty. I Love to see him make girls squirt for the first time. Nothing turns me on more than that."
"Oh my god. Did you just say that?!?!?!"
My girl gave her the ol' one-eyebrow-raised look, while flashing a sinister grin. Then I said, "So Maria, what kinda girls are you into?"
"What kinda girls am I into? What kind of question is that? What makes you think I'm into girls mister?"
"Maria, for the past 13 years, I have ONLY had sex with, or been in relationships with bisexual women. I won't waste my time with anything else. Since I don't consider this conversation a waste of my time, you must be bisexual...right?"
She laughed hysterically and said, "I love that logic...since you're talking to me, I must be bisexual." She turns to my girl and says "Is this what you have to deal with?"
"I wouldn't have it any other way."
Maria laughed and said, "Well, since you put it that way--since the fact that you're talking to me means I must be into women," as she started looking my girl up & down, "...I love petite, fit girls. Girls who are confident. Girls who know how to have fun...with good fashion sense."
"So you're into girls like her, huh."
Giggling, "Yeah, girls EXACTLY like her."
So anyway, the conversation went on & on. Lots of laughing; lots of touching, lots of flirting. We found out that Maria was in town visiting her sister. She's from L.A. So she tells us that she has a while before she has to meet her sister to hang out. She was just coming to the store to pick up some fruit to eat. She was on her way back to her hotel. If we want, we can come hang out with her in her room. Said she had an 8th of some of the best weed in California.
GAME ON!!!
So we get to her room and she puts some weed in her vaporizer and we all partake. I tell her to go and take a shower so I can get her on the wonderful road to squirting. She simply stood up and started undressing. SHE HAD ONE OF THE MOST BEAUTIFUL BODIES THIS SIDE OF THE MILKY WAY!!!
My girl said, "I need a shower too," as she looked at Maria with the your-pussy-is-mine look. Then she started undressing.
They started rubbing each other, then kissing. My girl cut her eyes at me, then they both started giggling. Then my girl said, "Ok, let's get cleaned up."
They both went to the shower & I could hear the moaning & groaning. When they came out, I told Maria to lie on the bed. My girl always keeps a small jar of coconut oil in her bag so that she can apply it to her skin after she takes a shower at the gym. So I used that to start giving Maria a massage. This is a PRIMARY part of our 3some game. We collaborate on what in "the community" has called the "dual induction" massage. I'm a certified hypnotherapist, so I was using pattern language to get her to feel things I wanted her to feel during the massage.
FAST FORWARD. I got to the G-spot and yes...she squirted...numerous times. SHE CRIED!!! She thanked me
She started kissing me & unbuckling my belt. I told her to let me take a shower first. The ladies started doing their thing, I got outta the shower. They gave me a double-team dick sucking that was un-Earthly. I sucked & fucked each pussy maniacally.

LATER, she went clubbing with her sister & her friends. At around 3am, I got a call asking if we were up for some more fun & games. My girl said that she was too tired and that I should just go alone. I went to the hotel, inhaled copious amounts of THC, and fucked her til we both passed the fuck out.

THE END

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I went to this event at a bar the other night with the girl from friday who said "youre the sexy guy in my class" she brings her friend who I can tell is kind of in to me. Anyways. We drink and talk. Then my girls friend is performing. I see him sit beside some hot chicks and I start asking my girl about the dude. half an hour later my girl wants to go say hi to them and I join her a few minutes later and start talking to this pretty hot dark haired, pale, blue eyed chick (one of my types) definitely boner inducing. I walk up and we make eye contact. She looks down and im still looking when she looks back up she blushes and says "soooo uh hi" we start talking and its an onslaught of personal questions, everything is going perfectly when out of nowhere my girl grabs my arm and says "im so glad you came tonight" looking into my eyes wanting me to makeout with her (hadn't kissed her yet, shes super into me so i was playing it super aloof). I say "well it was pretty entertaining" and turn back to the hot chick. My girl grabs me again and repeats herself, grabs the back of my head and starts making out. I try to escape but I can't. Hot chick looks down in defeat and my chick announces shes walking her friend home. Im basically fucked and have no chance whatsoever of getting hot chicks number unless I stay and give up the sure thing. I leave and get cockblocked by my girls friend before I can poke my chick.

Gameplan: bang my chick then go to hot chicks work (coffee shop right by my place) and grab her number. Threesome my girl and her friend then tell them both to hit the road.
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