Dating Guide for Mainland China
01-19-2017, 10:12 AM
Glad you've written a little more now, BK, first impressions had me thinking you were a stuck up a-hole and hence, I didn't reply to your thread. But now that we're just a bunch of guys talking...
Shanghai probably would be your best bet for Chinese gals, I'd say. Higher sheer quantity of (potentially english speaking) hi-score girls than any other city in the country, and not as dreadfully cold (and smoggy) as BJ is going to be. Some would say you'll be fighting the post-CNY malaise when everyone is expected to be working all of the time - but your targets, 8-10 gals, mostly aren't working anyway, certainly not slaving away, many of them just live in leisure, funded however those kind of gals get money in China - modeling, acting, rich boyfriends, wealthy daddy - the list goes on.
I'd say Hong Kong is also a solid choice, but not for the local gals, necessarily - tho you've said you don't mind short - HK-ese gals often aren't in particularly good shape. Darker, shorter, yea, better put together, perhaps. But they'll be plenty of mainland gals around, as well as koreans, japanese, and SE asians, so I can see the possibilities.
W/r/t the ABC thing, thats impressive to some gals, some girls really get off on it, tho girls at that level who have been exposed to foreigners, travelled abroad, certainly less so than a more "provincial" girl. I think its net-net, a positive. I'd let people know. If they ask why you don't speak Chinese, its just a shit test, and tell them thats one of the reasons you're in China.
Shenzhen is worth a spin - I'd try Mix City Mall (next to the Grand Hyatt Luohu) or Coastal City (adjacent to Hou Hai (后海 Metro stop) for day game, download Baidu translate before you hit China to your phone, dress very sharp. Best looking girls out and about during the daytime ( a different breed always comes out at night, in any city) in SZ will be in Mix City (if they live on that side) or in Coastal City (if they live towards Nanshan/Shekou). Pass on Coco Park/Sea World in Shenzhen - not where you'll see the best looking gals, except maybe, maybe in Pepper nightclub in Coco Park among the tables. Maybe.
I think your true, best bet, is to run through your local social circles back in the USA, and get some introductions to people in each of the cities you're going to visit. Well-heeled, local Chinese who have a social circle you can adopt during your stay. If for nothing else, it will make your time more interesting - you'll actually get away from the trip advisor restaurants and shopping streets and get a better sense of how wealthier locals live. And of course, if you get invited to dinners/parties/art openings, you can meet a better quality of girl in these things. The upside is also the downside, they'll be less wary of you as you've been "introduced" to their circle by someone you know in common, but at the same time, face comes more into play as they wont want to be seen as a slut because their mutual friend found out (or might find out) that they jumped into bed with you the night you met, especially if they know you've no future plans to relocate to their city. In such case, you might need to keep your second meet-up, or even leaving an event together, secret or seemingly innocent (i.e., she's gonna show you the local xinjiang bbq spot (which is probably closed, but you get the idea) and then just head back to your spot with her.
I've referral links for most credit cards, PM me for them & thanks if you use them
Strip away judeo-christian ethics ingraining sex is dirty/bad & the idea we're taking advantage of these girls disintegrates. Once you've lost that ethical quandary (which it isn't outside religion) then they've no reason to play the victim, you've no reason to feel the rogue. The interaction is to their benefit.
Frequent Travs
Phils SZ China