Quote: (09-30-2011 11:05 PM)Dash Global Wrote:
Guys,
I think the longest I can stay in Korea is till January.
After observing the "club" scene/culture last night this place just isnt for me. He are some things I have noticed.
1) Guys and girls DO NOT dance together. Thus making booty dancing non-existent
Not entirely true. You're right about most girls, but it isn't non-existent.
Quote: (09-30-2011 11:05 PM)Dash Global Wrote:
2) Korean guys do not open and hit on girls when they go out at night. I dont think they know what it means to go out and try to get laid is. I think they primarily go out to dance and hangout with their guy friends.
They do, but it's more of a smooth thing. For instance, guys often go in packs and girls in their own groups. It's easier to open up their set with your cool friends, and keep them entertained. Girls almost never go out alone in Korea. What the guys do is work them in a aloof way, then making out in a 노래방 before bringing them to a DVD방.
Quote: (09-30-2011 11:05 PM)Dash Global Wrote:
3) Thus the K-girls are not use to this and it really makes shit exponentially harder for western men trying to game in the club.
K-girls are really conservative. They pick a "manly" korean guy over any cool foreigner 99% of the time. Given Koreas rough past, people ar e very nationalist and protectionist. This also goes for relationships, how absurd it may even sound. Most parents of "fuckable" girls are post-war baby boomers, and I'd say many are still traumatized. Given this past, they try to make koreans stick together and keep the bloodlines, genes and whatever intact. Declining population rate is also a contributing factor. Does this sound too scientifical? Have a look at jewish people.
I'll explain some cues for you below.
Quote: (09-30-2011 11:05 PM)Dash Global Wrote:
4) IOI's are NON existent in the clubs in Korea. Pretty much your gonna have to do cold approaching 90% of the time.
Not entirely an IOI, but your best visual cues will be:
Girls who dress slutty - they don't give a shit about their parents.
Girls who smoke in clubs - they also do not give a shit. A girl who smokes is a bad girl in korea.
Other cues, which you'll discover when opening them are:
Girls who reply back in english or spanish (more than you think know espanol!) unmask their curiosity by talking back to you.
Go for girls with international experience! - Many k-girls, especially upper-middle and upper-class kids, have been sent to the US, france or spain for at least exchange semesters, summer schools or pre-uni education. This has exposed them to our world. This makes them gameable understand who you are.
Quote: (09-30-2011 11:05 PM)Dash Global Wrote:
5) Everyone stays out the ENTIRE night due to the subway not starting till 5:30am due to expensive taxes at night. Which means that if you do find a girl she will be too tired to fuck at 6 - 7am after partying and doing convulsion techno/house dancing all night. Also parents expecting them home around that hour would be a problem also. Getting a place right near the main nightlife part of the city would negate this somewhat but not alot of jobs around that area atleast in comparison to the amount of ESL teachers here.
I don't agree. You can ride a cab for 30+ mins paying less than 10 USD. Logistics is never a problem in Korea. However the parents thing is true. However I've had BFF K-girls text their beloved mommies that
"I'm sleeping at Hee-Young's" while innocent Hee-Young texts her momma
"Mee-young is sad and wants to talk, i'll stay with her since she needs a good friend. see you for lunch tomorrow (>^_^)>". If they are down, they will sort it out. Don't worry.
Quote: (09-30-2011 11:05 PM)Dash Global Wrote:
There was quite alot of urban black guys in the club last night. These dudes had me rolling the entire time!
They were trying to game bitches like if they where back home in ATL or some shit. They stared down EVERY chick that passed by them, then tried to open / dance on 70% of them and it was shut-down city every time.
I wanted to go up to them and be like you know I hear you guys do alot better in Japan.
Where did you go? Sounds like some Itaewon or Hongdae "happy hour" shithole. Don't mean to sound like a dud, but it really doesnt sound like you've found the cherries yet. There are still many good clubs left for you to game.
Quote: (09-30-2011 11:05 PM)Dash Global Wrote:
I saw a few white guys approach some females but they werent able to keep the convo / interaction going for more that 5 minutes.
This place is tricky. Gaming here is a different beast, something I am not use to AT ALL.
You are correct. However, think about how good you'll get in the long end.
My tip is to hedge your most valuable, depreciating nightlife asset (time) by also approaching foreign model chicks. Although some of them live together in apartment hotels, they are easier to fuck than k-girls, and look hot as hell most of the time. Model guys in their entourage are either gay, latino assholes (neutralize them quickly) or cool as hell and make good wingmen.
Enjoy the food!! I sure miss it!