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05-23-2019, 09:16 PM
At the end of the day, Roosh is doing this because he's always been a man of conviction.
Quote:PapayaTapper Wrote:
you seem to have a penchant for sticking your dick in high drama retarded trash.
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05-23-2019, 09:28 PM
This is all the work of Built to Fade, god damn it people! I told you, I told you!
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05-23-2019, 09:33 PM
When I first discovered RVF I thought it was a very odd place. The same men who wrote about how they 'banged a Russian 7 with weird nipples in the club bathroom, but it was a shame because her friend was actually hotter', could also write profound posts on the ills of modern western society.
I guess it's because RVFers generally must have the independence of thought to reject the blue-pills fed to them on women, and the curiosity and willpower to experiment with the redpill in real life. If this experimental aspect is lost, the forum will attract a different, lesser breed of man and risks becoming purple pilled. It's an essential part of confirming the nasty truths about women and fully digesting the redpill. The conclusion of this experiment for many I think, is that being selected by a woman, whether for casual sex or an LTR, cannot provide any lasting validation. You must look for that elsewhere, whether that be in God's approval, the satisfaction of building a family or something else. But I think this conclusion is much easier to come to through first hand experience with women, especially emancipated western women, i.e. game.
I'm also not sure that the forum has ever really been inherently degenerate or anti-christian. I always took the ethos of the forum to be that an LTR with a sufficiently young, well-behaved girl would be the preference, but that the modern western feminism has made this very difficult, and practically impossible without game. So we accepted notch-hunting as the consolation prize, something feminism has made easier than any other time in history if you learn game and self-improve.
If you get into an LTR/marriage and hit stormy seas, who would you seek advice from? The married man of god with a sub-5 notch count, or the player/former player?
These changes will attract more of the former and fewer of the latter.
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05-23-2019, 09:44 PM
How about I’d seek advice from neither, Oak. What is some high notch, vagina carouselling player who’s probably scraping the bottom of the barrel going to advise me on marriage? Something he knows absolutely nothing about. I know what that dude would tell a married guy; just go get some strange on the side. Because yeah sure that’s answer to every problem, right?
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05-23-2019, 09:45 PM
By the way some of you are acting, an outsider would think this is forum of emotional women, not men. I understand there are upset feelings at change, but all the dramatics, "sky is falling" hysterics, gnashing of teeth, and outright lies about my beliefs and position is disgraceful. I will accept the blame: I have failed you and your masculinity as a teacher for so many of you to act like this, because you'd think I personally decreed that YOU are not allowed to have casual sex instead of asking that you not share sexual acts on an internet site. If discussing explicit sexual acts with females on a web site is that critical for you, you really need to ask yourself why.
Please spare me any more whining or crying. I'm just trying to do the best I can with the life I have and the situation I have found myself in. If you can't understand my position, and refuse to at least adopt a wait-and-see attitude, then we will never be able to find common ground. The choice is yours.
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05-23-2019, 09:48 PM
By common ground are you saying we could find a halfway between your declaration and the current state of the forum?
You don't want lewd threads I get it. Banging girls that are in relationships, bdsm, nsfw threads, etc.
But men should still have a place to discuss how to approach, excite, and seduce women.
Whether it leads to LTR or not.
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05-23-2019, 10:09 PM
Roosh, the reason people are displeased with these new rules is not out of some feminine hysteria that they can't post titty pictures, it's because this is imposing a belief system that's niche even within the alt-right. Handing down a ban on potty mouth and premarital coitus discussion by dictat rather than simply influencing people through debate or by good example.
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05-23-2019, 10:11 PM
If we're going to shift our discussion of women and sex to within the framework of marriage, we also have to consider the people closest to us in our personal lives - wives, kids, etc. What assurances, if any, do we have that this forum is more secure than it was a few years ago, so we can feel free to post our relationship experiences without the fear of getting doxxed (assuming we aren't dumb enough to post too much information that can be traced back to us)? A married guy with kids has way more to lose by getting doxxed than a single guy would.
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05-23-2019, 10:22 PM
Eh, not like we couldn't have seen this coming.
When I was younger I was crushing puss pretty steady for well over a decade and with well over 100 notches.
But when I look back what did I see?
The girls I didn't fuck.
And while yeah a tinge of regret and 'man, I should have done this!' sets in, it quickly abates, replaced by one simple realization:
'Nice as it would have been to fuck that girl, would I be any happier today if I had have fucked her? Would my life be any better if I had fucked her? How?
Memories that will stay with me forever, some honest but devastating truths about women, a few STDs and...feeling so tired.
I'm a few years younger than Roosh (I think), notching is cool and fun and frankly expected when you're in your twenties, but once you pass 30, you should be shooting for a higher purpose.
Nobody is denying the importance of game here, but it's based on the constitution of each man - there is a place for each of us, based on our look, location, lifestyle and attitude where - barring something world-changing (like suppose a lottery win or a sudden injection of massive fame), your game will reach its maximum level.
At this point in my life I'd rather concern myself more with stacking money, preparing for the future, meeting and sharing ideas with men of like mind and trying to live the best life possible, than having the best DHVs and the most innovative negs.
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Maybe because I've been here longer than most - my ten year button is coming up in August - and have seen this place shift from a pure game forum to a more lifestyle oriented think tank (and make no mistake - if it could be monetized, the info that's been shared on here would be worth millions), and this place rarely, if ever steering me wrong, is why I anticipate and approve this move...
That, and seeing the increased hostility out there also means that all it would take is one of us to get doxxed and the entire operation gets shut down.
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05-23-2019, 10:23 PM
Roosh you realise this is self defeating.
I’m one of the young men you want to guide to religion. Reading older posters perspectives having burned out or seen the consequences was good for thought about how I might want to live my life with more moderation and integrity.
I really believed you were a good example of that until today.
This is insane - you’ve gone from a reasonable counter cultural voice with a powerful message about the insanity of modern culture to some far off warped extreme reactionary zealot.
The man you were and the things you built helped me be a better, braver and more complete person ready to pursue my own mission and explore the world on my own terms.
You gave me freedom by showing me that I had choice and options beyond what others did.
What you’re doing now isn’t about respecting forum members choice and integrity nor their value as individuals.
I’ll always respect you for what you’ve done and given to so many of us; but this is too far.
I’m really shaken that you’ve gone off the edge like this - I can’t imagine the best parts of who you used to be liking what you think are the best parts of you now.
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05-23-2019, 10:26 PM
This forum has gone in a very different direction over the last few years. Things change. People change too. I suspect this is no longer the place for me to post, but I'm very happy to have made some good friends through this forum. I wish you the best of luck Roosh.
PM me for accommodation options in Bangkok.
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05-23-2019, 10:29 PM
I think we should all just accept that this forum is no longer a den of premarital sex talk and cussin and is instead evolving into a friendly minecraft forum where we can talk about the silly songs roosh makes about minecraft. I for one am completely satisfied with these changes. Ive been with over 9000 women and it just doesnt do it for me anymore like a nice silly song about my favorite game does.
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05-23-2019, 10:34 PM
This is not the death of the old but the start of a new. This is an opportunity for someone else who is interested ,to open a new forum where casual sex discussion can go.
Those who remain here will build something new as well.
Deus vult!
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05-23-2019, 10:47 PM
The most important question is how will forum titles reflect this change? "True player" won't vibe anymore.. .