Hey, so I have been in Poland for a month now and here is my initial assessment for anyone who wants to come to get the Polish girl experience.
Basically, I used Roosh's book "Bang Poland" as my travel guide and from what I seen, I do concur with most of what he describes. So some of this may be redundant.
1. Feminine - Many Polish girls are indeed very soft, sweet and easy to talk to. You'll instantly see that they're friendly, flirtatious and would even giggle when you tease them. They're a lot more down-to-earth than girls in western countries and like to dress sexy and cute.
2. Love foreigners - I'm Asian and often got many looks from the ladies everywhere I went. And when I did approaches, they were often happy to engaged me in conversation, sometimes invited me to have a drink or to walk with them. They're always curious to know where I'm from and what I'm doing there.
Guys from Latin countries like Spain, Italy, Portugal and Greece get top billing because the girls romanticize those cultures as warm and romantic. One Polish guy even told me that if the girls find out you're from one of those countries, they'll instantly get wet.
However, Germans and Russians don't get much love at all. Part of it is history and just overexposure and influence from those places, which has been mostly negative.
3. Tension with Polish guys - Some of the girls told me about a kind of rift between the girls and the local guys. Mostly has to do with the girls not wanting to date them because many lack sophistication and class. The popular look is to dress like Eminem and thug out as much as possible. But oddly, some of the girls like it though.
4. Clubs are actual meet markets - This is the cool part. Going clubbing is almost always fun because many girls go with the mindset that they'll meet or hook up with someone. It's one of the few places I been where I didn't feel like I was interrupting a gathering of close-knit social circles. Each night I went out, I end up chatting up, dancing and having drinks with at least 2-3 prospects. Don't fret if it starts to feel hopeless, partying goes on until the morning so you'll get your opportunities.
5. No one-night stand culture - SNLs do happen, but they are rare. They're more than willing to fool around and do some heavy making out, but they'll stop just short of going full slut, often retreating back to their friends or making excuses like they have to work in the morning etc.
6. Cockblocking - As expected there will be some cockblocking. Mostly from protective friends or other guys. The Polish guys are kind of weird in that they'll get wasted drunk and literally hurl themselves at girls even while you're in the middle of talking or dancing. This can be easily remedied if you turn your back and block them off or move the girl to a less rowdy area. It's the girl's friends that you really have to worry about as they tend to be really committed to ensuring that everyone leaves together.
That said, if you're interested in someone, it's rare that her friends are going to completely hate on you. All the girls know that they're there to perhaps meet a guy. So they typically won't stand in the way of you conversating, sharing drinks or dancing. They'll just wait until you are both done making out and fetch her when it's time to go.
How to score points with Polish girls:
1. They'll all say that Polish girls are the most beautiful girls in the world. Do the smart thing and agree with them. In fact, they love it when you praise them and make fun of how the German girls are so ugly.
2. Talk glowingly about the USA. They are all familiar with the phrase "The American Dream" and think that NY is the greatest city in the world. For many, it's their dream to go there. These are your selling points. Talk them up.
3. Make fun of Polish guys. This is a semi-risky approach since some girls might think there's nothing wrong with the local dudes. But you can say you heard "Polish guys like to wear socks with their sandals." When you make the jokes, just say you heard other people say that.
4. Talk about traveling - One good way to screen for girls who are out for foreign guys is to ask whether they like to travel. If they do, you'll see right away them bubbling over with enthusiasm and a deep yearning to see more of the world. Poland is a relatively poor country, so it's not very easy for them to spend much time abroad as much as they want to.
5. Dancing - A lot of the girls are really into dancing. Like they'll dance all night. And so if you're a good dancer it'll only help you. In particular the girls love to be spun around and grind on the dance floor. The better you are, the more your prospects will improve.
Basically, I used Roosh's book "Bang Poland" as my travel guide and from what I seen, I do concur with most of what he describes. So some of this may be redundant.
1. Feminine - Many Polish girls are indeed very soft, sweet and easy to talk to. You'll instantly see that they're friendly, flirtatious and would even giggle when you tease them. They're a lot more down-to-earth than girls in western countries and like to dress sexy and cute.
2. Love foreigners - I'm Asian and often got many looks from the ladies everywhere I went. And when I did approaches, they were often happy to engaged me in conversation, sometimes invited me to have a drink or to walk with them. They're always curious to know where I'm from and what I'm doing there.
Guys from Latin countries like Spain, Italy, Portugal and Greece get top billing because the girls romanticize those cultures as warm and romantic. One Polish guy even told me that if the girls find out you're from one of those countries, they'll instantly get wet.
However, Germans and Russians don't get much love at all. Part of it is history and just overexposure and influence from those places, which has been mostly negative.
3. Tension with Polish guys - Some of the girls told me about a kind of rift between the girls and the local guys. Mostly has to do with the girls not wanting to date them because many lack sophistication and class. The popular look is to dress like Eminem and thug out as much as possible. But oddly, some of the girls like it though.
4. Clubs are actual meet markets - This is the cool part. Going clubbing is almost always fun because many girls go with the mindset that they'll meet or hook up with someone. It's one of the few places I been where I didn't feel like I was interrupting a gathering of close-knit social circles. Each night I went out, I end up chatting up, dancing and having drinks with at least 2-3 prospects. Don't fret if it starts to feel hopeless, partying goes on until the morning so you'll get your opportunities.
5. No one-night stand culture - SNLs do happen, but they are rare. They're more than willing to fool around and do some heavy making out, but they'll stop just short of going full slut, often retreating back to their friends or making excuses like they have to work in the morning etc.
6. Cockblocking - As expected there will be some cockblocking. Mostly from protective friends or other guys. The Polish guys are kind of weird in that they'll get wasted drunk and literally hurl themselves at girls even while you're in the middle of talking or dancing. This can be easily remedied if you turn your back and block them off or move the girl to a less rowdy area. It's the girl's friends that you really have to worry about as they tend to be really committed to ensuring that everyone leaves together.
That said, if you're interested in someone, it's rare that her friends are going to completely hate on you. All the girls know that they're there to perhaps meet a guy. So they typically won't stand in the way of you conversating, sharing drinks or dancing. They'll just wait until you are both done making out and fetch her when it's time to go.
How to score points with Polish girls:
1. They'll all say that Polish girls are the most beautiful girls in the world. Do the smart thing and agree with them. In fact, they love it when you praise them and make fun of how the German girls are so ugly.
2. Talk glowingly about the USA. They are all familiar with the phrase "The American Dream" and think that NY is the greatest city in the world. For many, it's their dream to go there. These are your selling points. Talk them up.
3. Make fun of Polish guys. This is a semi-risky approach since some girls might think there's nothing wrong with the local dudes. But you can say you heard "Polish guys like to wear socks with their sandals." When you make the jokes, just say you heard other people say that.
4. Talk about traveling - One good way to screen for girls who are out for foreign guys is to ask whether they like to travel. If they do, you'll see right away them bubbling over with enthusiasm and a deep yearning to see more of the world. Poland is a relatively poor country, so it's not very easy for them to spend much time abroad as much as they want to.
5. Dancing - A lot of the girls are really into dancing. Like they'll dance all night. And so if you're a good dancer it'll only help you. In particular the girls love to be spun around and grind on the dance floor. The better you are, the more your prospects will improve.