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(04-30-2012 01:55 AM)NewToPUA Wrote:  

And to the poster above, definitely go to bkk for 10 days. You will literally find insane clubs every night. I was out my first 7 days, and I had my first off night last night. Everynight you could find packed clubs, and after hours clubs. Further, I have been talking to quite a few college chicks and I think a lot of them are just finishing up with school for the semester. As a result they are all going out like every night now. Also, you can find girls pretty easily here too (although some may be questionably semi-pros). Some girls are pretty conservative (namely the wealthy ones), but if you go for middle-class thais - maybe middle-lower class, you can find girls down for ons's. I am average looking, with basic game, (although I do dress very well for my age), and I have had very good luck here.

Hmm. Can't decide between Koh Samui and BKK, might have to split it up between both...

Finding girls is not the problem for me, I actually get approached in malls, clubs etc all the time. But either I'm not interested (not hot) or they play hard to get which extremely annoys me...

Like this girl I met from BKK at Songkran, played hard to get and wasn't interested in a one night stand. But now she has been spamming my phone/email since then... I don't get it...

I might just need a break from Thai girls... Koh Samui?

Sorry for the rant, need to get it out somewhere

[NewToPUA]

Just out of curiosity, as I am guessing a number of you use thaifriendly, are any of you posting on the wall of the girls' profile? I have been curious as to whether or not that would give better responses.

And ya in regards to the flakiness of thai girls, I think it really depends on the girl. Some are really conservative, especially some you meet online - i have met girls who do not even drink alcohol (good luck gettin a ons then haha). I think it will be a lot more difficult, or even impossible, to get a ons out of these conservative girls. I think if you want a ons you need to pre-filter the girls you meet so you know they are not too conservative. Right now I am pretty much on the second or third message straight up asking if they want to grab drinks on a night during the week to weed out the more conservative ones.

Also, when you go out clubbing try to talk to the people there who are not hiso and specifically college students. They by far seem the most prone to ons.

[NewToPUA]

For you bangkok veterans, when you meet a girl from thaifriendly for the first date, where are some good lounges to meet for a drink? Money is not really that big an issue for me but I was looking for some ideas. I was thinking Muse, but I have never been there and I was wondering if it might be a little too busy.

Closer to the ekkimai and thong lor area would be best for me but open to other options.

[RichieP]

Some girls dont drink here because of the asian alcohol allergy thing (i.e. turn bright red and really drunk off like one shot).

I've banged a girl who didnt drink, but to be fair she was out at RCA in a red dress alone.. Still though non-drinking might just be the allergy, not necessarily super conservative.

Im still looking for good date venues too, let me know if you find any! As for restaurants, Lemongrass on Soi 24 is pretty good food, decent atmosphere. This one looks good too for Korean food, and next to Paragon which girls love of course:
http://bk.asia-city.com/restaurants/bang.../dak-galbi

[NewToPUA]

(04-30-2012 07:32 AM)RichieP Wrote:  

Some girls dont drink here because of the asian alcohol allergy thing (i.e. turn bright red and really drunk off like one shot).

I've banged a girl who didnt drink, but to be fair she was out at RCA in a red dress alone.. Still though non-drinking might just be the allergy, not necessarily super conservative.

Im still looking for good date venues too, let me know if you find any! As for restaurants, Lemongrass on Soi 24 is pretty good food, decent atmosphere. This one looks good too for Korean food, and next to Paragon which girls love of course:
http://bk.asia-city.com/restaurants/bang.../dak-galbi

Ya i will let you know if I find one. Although your point may be true, I am guessing a lot of the times it is values too and there are so many girls that drink on thai friendly you may as well just filter the ones that dont (day gaming would be more difficult to gauge). I asked several chicks from thai-friendly why they do not drink and several said their parents do not like them to do it, so some definitely avoid it for value oriented reasons. Besides, gaming girls to a ons is so much easier to do when they are drunk too. It would require pretty tight game to get a girl to do a ons sober (I have candidly never done a ons while sober myself).

[AlphaTravel]

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Well I have to say I had a pretty awkward date last night. It seems that somehow my iphone calls were being forwarded to a girl that I had a one night stand with last week. I am not totally sure if she did it, or if I was somehow so drunk that I accidentally did it. Needless to say, the girl I met from thailfriendly said she talked with the chick for like 10-15 minutes and the chick was talking about how big of a playboy I was and how many girlfriends I had (maybe she got a lot of calls meant for me?). The good news is the chick on the date did not care because she wanted to learn english and is moving to the United States. I think the biggest obstacle with her is going to be the fact that she is very conservative - she does not even drink alcohol.

I would bet money the Thai girl set up your phone to redirect to hers, it's exactly the sort of thing a Thai girl would do. I told the story on here about how a Thai girl found out something that happened last time I was in Thailand, she went digging around the net and found an article some idiot wrote about me 3 years ago. I never knew the article existed, it was written based on a blog post I made at the time (then deleted one month later as I didn't want it online) and was very hard to find, didn't show up when googling any of the obvious things you'd google to find out about someone, so she'd obviously done some serious digging to find it. I couldn't even find the article she was talking about and had to ask exactly how she found it, when she showed me it was all a bit strange and not just some casual search she decided to do, proper investigative shit. They are possessive and suspicious of any foreigner who comes here and are sure you're up to no good...and they're right really aren't they.

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Hmm. Can't decide between Koh Samui and BKK, might have to split it up between both...

I never went to Samui as everyone I met said compared to the other islands Samui is a bit shit and aimed at older people, couples, has the biggest sex tourist scene on that side of the coast and was stupidly over built and expensive. Ko Tao was nice, Ko Pah Ngan I didn't rate much.

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Just out of curiosity, as I am guessing a number of you use thaifriendly, are any of you posting on the wall of the girls' profile? I have been curious as to whether or not that would give better responses.

I signed up for it months ago before I came here but then forgot all about it and never sent any messages, logged back on when someone mentioned it the other day and saw I had a load of messages. Missed opportunities perhaps. When using the other day I couldn't send anymore than one message every 10 minutes because I've not paid for a membership so I just browsed and clicked "show interest" on all the cute girls profiles that showed up on the first page and when I checked it just now I had about 20 messages from them saying thanks for showing an interest and asking me questions, some sending numbers and welcoming me to BKK. I might stick my number up on my profile and just use the "show interest" method, and have my profile say to call me if interested as I don't use the site much. Either that or pay for a membership and send all those girls who've sent me messages my number. I can't really be bothered investing much time in internet dating now I'm here but seems to be a lot of good looking girls on it so no point in ignoring it all together.

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And ya in regards to the flakiness of thai girls, I think it really depends on the girl. Some are really conservative, especially some you meet online

It's been different for me, most of the girls I pipelined before I came here did not flake on me (I flaked on some of them due to too many offers) and nearly all I met were up for spending the night with me on the first date.

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i have met girls who do not even drink alcohol (good luck gettin a ons then haha).

Thankfully all I've met drank alcohol though one I went on a date with didn't want to because she was sick and it resulted in a very dull date.

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Right now I am pretty much on the second or third message straight up asking if they want to grab drinks on a night during the week to weed out the more conservative ones.

I made it clear from the start I wanted to meet girls who were up for partying. I'd always mention in my message I loved going out for dinner and drinks then onto clubs and live music places. Any girl who wasn't interested in that I didn't spend much more time on sending messages to. Though some say they don't really go out drinking but when I asked if they wanted to anyway they agreed.

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For you bangkok veterans, when you meet a girl from thaifriendly for the first date, where are some good lounges to meet for a drink? Money is not really that big an issue for me but I was looking for some ideas. I was thinking Muse, but I have never been there and I was wondering if it might be a little too busy.

I don't really know what classifies as a 'lounge'? Muse however is a club and it's often packed, very busy and very noisy (live rock music). Last time I went the waiter ushered me and a friend into a tiny spot near the DJ booth to stand at, could barely move from there it was so busy. They have an upstairs area, one seated place and a balcony area with a pool table but no one was up there at all when we went up.

For dates I like to go to Coco Walk (bars like Retro, Volk Bar or one other I forget the name of) or Hua Chang (Treehouse bar or Taksura I think it's called, there's 3 bars at the same place). They aren't fancy places, quite casual really, but nice enough sit down bars, with live music, good food (the stir fried venison dish at Retro bar is some of the best food I've eaten in Thailand) and the food at Treehouse is nice, every Thai girl I've taken there said they loved the food, one said it compared to her mums cooking. The majority of girls have never been to these bars or tried the venison which I like to order for them. Get a bottle of whisky or rum for a good price too so not a bad spot. Can bounce around the bars on Coco Walk then even walk to Hua Chang afterwards if you still want to continue after that take a short taxi ride to Saxaphone Jazz club which is nearbye, really cool late night spot with live music 7 nights a week.

Alternatively I'll have them meet me near my hotel (it's in Banglumphoo area, walking distance from Kowsan, which for the record I hate) and take them to a intimate blues bar I know where a bottle of Sangsom (small) is 120B, they all seem to love it there. From there bounce them to a few bars on Phra A Thit road which are studenty places with a thai crowd and live music and then either back to my hotel or onto Brick Bar (live Thai ska music band that people go wild to, no dancing round tables here dancing ON tables).

I'm gonna check out that Korean restaurant this week I think, sounds good and not too pricey. Think I'll take one of my regular dates there to see what it's like first then if it's good I'll take a new girl back.

[WanderingSoul]

Coco Walk is where I take girls for dates as well. It's super easy to get to because it's right off of the BTS. I take them to Chilling House, haven't checked out the rest of the places there. Then, I like to venue change them to a bar around the corner. Go back to the street and hang a right. It is on the corner right there about 30-40 feet down. Outdoor bar with live music. Only downside is they only have beer. But they will bring the girls a Spy (wine cooler crap Thai girls drink) from the 7-11 if you ask.

As far as girls on TF being conservative, I find them to be the biggest sluts. In 5ish months in Thailand I have fucked nearly 20 girls from TF alone. Only had two girls not give it up on the first date. Actually, three. But she sucked anyways. It is filled with falang hunters, which is awesome if you are looking for an easy lay. Hell, I have a handful of TF girls on my Facebook and I've been getting other white dudes in the "People You May Know" sidebar with 2-3 mutual friends....girls from TF lol.

[AlphaTravel]

Not sure which one is Chilling House but I've been in most of the bars there, not sure I've noticed the other bar. A few minutes walk nearer Phraya Thai BTS stop is a cool bar called Heap Bar, live music, cool atmosphere, good food, pool table, lots of beautiful young girls, Jack Daniels sponsored bar, I often take girls there after Coco Walk.

You've been here for 5 months already Rio, I thought you had just arrived? Seems that Thai Friendly would have been a great bet if I'd remembered I had signed up there. I might try and make the most of it before I go home, there's some seriously cute girls on there. I added my number to my profile and clicked on a few more 'show interest' buttons, lets see what happens. Maybe I'll need to pay a months membership fee so I can send messages if that doesn't work.

[WanderingSoul]

(04-30-2012 01:33 PM)AlphaTravel Wrote:  

Not sure which one is Chilling House but I've been in most of the bars there, not sure I've noticed the other bar. A few minutes walk nearer Phraya Thai BTS stop is a cool bar called Heap Bar, live music, cool atmosphere, good food, pool table, lots of beautiful young girls, Jack Daniels sponsored bar, I often take girls there after Coco Walk.

You've been here for 5 months already Rio, I thought you had just arrived? Seems that Thai Friendly would have been a great bet if I'd remembered I had signed up there. I might try and make the most of it before I go home, there's some seriously cute girls on there. I added my number to my profile and clicked on a few more 'show interest' buttons, lets see what happens. Maybe I'll need to pay a months membership fee so I can send messages if that doesn't work.

I've been here for about 6 weeks this trip, but I was in BKK for 3ish weeks last year and up in Chaing Mai for 3 months.

I would pay the month membership. It is worth it for sure. You could literally fuck 3-5 new girls a week if you really put in the effort. It's an endless supply of falang hunters.

Be careful with having your number on your profile. You might get bombarded with texts and calls from girls you would not want to meet up with. Maybe even a lurking ladyboy or two lol.

[clr]

I just left this morning. I had a great time and I will write a more in depth perspective when I get to a computer, but I have to ask. Am I the only one annoyed by their language. I'm a pretty relaxed guy but listening to the girls talk thai made me want to shut them up with duck tape or a quick strangle.

[Lukey]

(05-01-2012 01:45 AM)clr Wrote:  

I just left this morning. I had a great time and I will write a more in depth perspective when I get to a computer, but I have to ask. Am I the only one annoyed by their language. I'm a pretty relaxed guy but listening to the girls talk thai made me want to shut them up with duck tape or a quick strangle.

It is a very unattractive language. I think its cute when they try to speak English though; its a funny accent.

[bface]

(05-01-2012 01:37 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  

falang hunters

Nothing better than to find out the next day that you had your friends sloppy seconds... and that he rawdogged...

Don't ask me how I know...

[NewToPUA]

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I don't really know what classifies as a 'lounge'?

I would classify a lounge as a more chill drinking spot with couches and tables along with more traditional tables and chairs. The ideal thing would be to get a couch with a table so they would have to sit next to you for kino etc. Also it would have more chill music so you can just talk.

[WanderingSoul]

(05-01-2012 03:40 AM)bface Wrote:  

Nothing better than to find out the next day that you had your friends sloppy seconds... and that he rawdogged...

Don't ask me how I know...

Hah. I have 3 other friends who live in my same building that I train with who all use TF. We joke that we're gonna have to mass text each other a pic each time we bring a girl back to see if she's made the rounds with everyone yet or not.

I'm waiting for the day that I bring a girl back and she's like "Oh, I have been this condo, and that condo, and also that one!" hah.

[AlphaTravel]

(05-01-2012 01:37 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  

You could literally fuck 3-5 new girls a week if you really put in the effort. It's an endless supply of falang hunters.

Be careful with having your number on your profile. You might get bombarded with texts and calls from girls you would not want to meet up with. Maybe even a lurking ladyboy or two lol.

It's the same with using POF, Cupid and Tagged. If I had continued to use them and met all the girls who had wanted to meet me at the beginning of this trip I could probably have a new girl most nights of the week still. I've got dates lined up for the next 3 evenings with a variety of different girls and need to see my regular girls sometime too but if I've little dates lined up for the following week I'll pay for the thaifriendly membership and put it to good use. This is my final month in Thailand and I plan to make the most of it.

(05-01-2012 03:58 AM)NewToPUA Wrote:  

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I don't really know what classifies as a 'lounge'?

I would classify a lounge as a more chill drinking spot with couches and tables along with more traditional tables and chairs. The ideal thing would be to get a couch with a table so they would have to sit next to you for kino etc. Also it would have more chill music so you can just talk.

Muse is not what you're looking for then, Muse is a loud club and busy too, some small tables and stools down front. Coco Walk works for me, I take them to Retro bar, they have couches and they have some live music but it's acoustic and not too loud.

I got back to BKK last night, went out for a beer at midnight and didn't stop drinking till 3pm today. What a state. 5hrs sleep and strangely no hangover. Weird.

[NewToPUA]

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Muse is not what you're looking for then, Muse is a loud club and busy too, some small tables and stools down front. Coco Walk works for me, I take them to Retro bar, they have couches and they have some live music but it's acoustic and not too loud.

I got back to BKK last night, went out for a beer at midnight and didn't stop drinking till 3pm today. What a state. 5hrs sleep and strangely no hangover. Weird.

Thank you for the advice, I will give it a shot. Ya I know what you mean on the lack of sleep and partying. For the first week I was actually feeling better too, it was not until about 7 days in that I started feeling it haha.

[clr]

The muse at the top of te grand hyatt is a great lounge spot, lil pricey but chill and amazing views.

[AlphaTravel]

There must be two Muses then, the Muse I'm talking about is the Muse HiSo club in Thong Lor.

[NewToPUA]

Guys,

I want to give a quick warning to all of you here in bangkok especially if you are doing heavy drinking. Last night I was hooking up with a girl at RCA that seemed alright. We went to an after hours club where she bought everything, and she paid for all the cabs. Literally, she PAID for everything so I thought it would be fine. The next morning I wake up and she wakes me up saying she needs to go because her mom wants to talk to her. Next thing I know I looked around and my wallet and cell phone were no where to be found. I am 99% sure she jacked them. I tried to make her stay to help me find them, but since at the time I was not entirely sure they were not just lost in my apartment I let her go.

So now I am down an almost brand new iphone 4s and 2k baht.

Be careful, even if they do not seem sketchy they may very well be. I am going to be going to rca every day for the rest of the month I am here and I need to find out which after hours place she took me (she knew the people working there). I will find this bitch and at the very least get her arrested.

So just be careful. From now on if I bring a girl back I am hiding EVERYTHING that is valuable from them

[TheBulldozer]

2 months out from my trip to BKK. Is it beneficial to invest some time to learning basic Thai? I haven't heard much of an opinion going either way. From what I've read, it doesn't seem like there's much talk about using Thai to pick up women.

[AlphaTravel]

Of course it's beneficial but I suspect if you're asking that question you're probably not going to bother anyway. Never go to a country without knowing some language, especially if you'll be there 2 months. You could survive without it, there's guys who've lived out here for years and can't even mutter a sentence, but you're better equipped if you know it. Thai girls are impressed when you can speak some Thai, it makes you look less like a sex tourist and more like someone they'll consider hooking up with.

Also to NewtoPUA, you'll not be getting this girl arrested. You have no proof and I doubt you'll ever find her again anyway. Even if you do the police won't give a shit. Claim the iphone on the insurance and forget about the 2000B, it's not that much money.

I've had a great week back in BKK after Cambodia. A 30hr+ drinking sesh with a good mate, dates last 2 nights in a row and 2 new lays. Should have been on another one tonight but I fell asleep and just woke up and now the girl hasn't returned my call. Seeing one of my regular girls tomorrow for a movie then a korean restaurant and got a few new girls in the pipeline for next week.

[TheBulldozer]

(05-05-2012 09:02 AM)AlphaTravel Wrote:  

Of course it's beneficial but I suspect if you're asking that question you're probably not going to bother anyway. Never go to a country without knowing some language, especially if you'll be there 2 months. You could survive without it, there's guys who've lived out here for years and can't even mutter a sentence, but you're better equipped if you know it. Thai girls are impressed when you can speak some Thai, it makes you look less like a sex tourist and more like someone they'll consider hooking up with.

Obviously I plan on learning the basics of the language. Knowing simple commands in another language goes a long way in any foreign interaction. However, I was wondering whether attempting to learn basic conversational skills was worth the investment, as I've found it varies drastically throughout the world when hitting on women.

By any chance, anyone going to still be lurking around BKK in July?

[NewToPUA]

(05-05-2012 09:02 AM)AlphaTravel Wrote:  

Of course it's beneficial but I suspect if you're asking that question you're probably not going to bother anyway. Never go to a country without knowing some language, especially if you'll be there 2 months. You could survive without it, there's guys who've lived out here for years and can't even mutter a sentence, but you're better equipped if you know it. Thai girls are impressed when you can speak some Thai, it makes you look less like a sex tourist and more like someone they'll consider hooking up with.

Also to NewtoPUA, you'll not be getting this girl arrested. You have no proof and I doubt you'll ever find her again anyway. Even if you do the police won't give a shit. Claim the iphone on the insurance and forget about the 2000B, it's not that much money.

I've had a great week back in BKK after Cambodia. A 30hr+ drinking sesh with a good mate, dates last 2 nights in a row and 2 new lays. Should have been on another one tonight but I fell asleep and just woke up and now the girl hasn't returned my call. Seeing one of my regular girls tomorrow for a movie then a korean restaurant and got a few new girls in the pipeline for next week.

Ya I realize its a lost cause to get anything from her. I was just really drunk still when I made that post Besides its like $60 usd which is what I spend going out every night here anyways.

Either way it was a good lesson. Although I have done a decent amount of traveling I am always with a number of friends. Admittedly, I have always lived in a bubble and 4 years of partying in a fraternity environment has not really helped me stay responsible when drinking.

I think the biggest problem now is just how inconvenient not having check cards is. My parents are going to wire me $1k so I will have plenty of cash and can buy a new iphone and tide me over until I can access my brokerage account. At the same time though, I don't really feel comfortable having that much cash in my condo. I guess I have to either fly to singapore and open a bank account (I have only scottrade and wells fargo which are not in se asia), open a thai bank account, or hope it doesn't take years for a new card to come in the mail.

[AlphaTravel]

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However, I was wondering whether attempting to learn basic conversational skills was worth the investment, as I've found it varies drastically throughout the world when hitting on women.

Of course it's beneficial. Learn as much as you can, it can only help! What if you meet a smoking hot girl and her English is non existant? You speak Thai then you're good to go.

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At the same time though, I don't really feel comfortable having that much cash in my condo. I guess I have to either fly to singapore and open a bank account (I have only scottrade and wells fargo which are not in se asia), open a thai bank account, or hope it doesn't take years for a new card to come in the mail.

Why not use Western Union. I've never used it myself but from what I understand you open an account, your parents would have to too and they transfer money to you, you go with ID to any Western Union point (many in BKK) and can withdraw the cash. Get them to put money in it every week for you instead of sending you a thousand dollars that you need to keep in your apartment and might get stolen again from another chick, or even that same one because you plan to call her again.

[AlphaTravel]

Conductor I think you mentioned going out in Ratchada before? The girl I was with last night mentioned it and said it's her fave place to go out, normal thais, not HiSo, no pros, few if any tourists. Says there's lots of clubs in one Soi, Soi 6 maybe? Can you or anyone else recommend any? I might give it a shot this weekend.