Dude, a wife isn't going to solve your problems. You seem to have low confidence with girls, you need to take the bull by the horns and just dive right into learning and practicing as much as possible. You also wrote that you can't imagine going to med school and being alone for another 5 years. But who says you will be? Med school is a huge time commitment, but I knew plenty of kids in med, dental, or law school(at ivy league schools) who worked hard but also hooked up a lot or found girlfriends.
Especially if you've never had a serious girlfriend before why get married? You're going to have to have considerable experience before you even know what type of girls you like.
In the end of course it's up to you, but I have seen many more guys get absolutely destroyed in marriages, then I have seen guys who were legitimately happy. I can only think of a few guys who I consider to be happily married, while I can off the top of my head think of 15-20 guys who are getting raped in divorce or going through hell. This is in the United States, other countries may be different.
There is nothing wrong with getting married and having a wife, I just think it takes a certain type of guy and a certain type of woman.
Especially if you've never had a serious girlfriend before why get married? You're going to have to have considerable experience before you even know what type of girls you like.
In the end of course it's up to you, but I have seen many more guys get absolutely destroyed in marriages, then I have seen guys who were legitimately happy. I can only think of a few guys who I consider to be happily married, while I can off the top of my head think of 15-20 guys who are getting raped in divorce or going through hell. This is in the United States, other countries may be different.
There is nothing wrong with getting married and having a wife, I just think it takes a certain type of guy and a certain type of woman.