[soup]

Over the last couple years, I've had several successes pulling girls from OKCupid to my house for sex. I think I've pretty much got a system down, and am now ready to share with you guys. Please add your own experiences and techniques to this thread.

The general gist of what I'm going to say is to sexualize the interaction early on.

Preparations- check out the OKC thread for info on how to make your profile as good as it can be.

Step 1: Online

You have to get the girls' digits ASAP. This is a big step for most girls. There's a lot of implication in this action. The girl has seen your profile and pictures.. you can rest assured that she's attracted to you (or how you've presented yourself).


2. In the first text, I send them my profile picture for ID and say something direct that lets them know that they "kinda" seem like they'd be fun to make out with. This is crucial. She's either going to get creeped out, or she'll go with it.

If she gets creeped out, it doesn't matter because there are thousands of other girls out there who won't. Abundance.


3. If she gives you a greenlight text (anything that isn't her being creeped out), you can hit her up with something that let's her know that you aren't looking for anything serious, just good times. You can suggest skipping the normal dating formalities and invite her over to your place. Tell her you've got liquor, and don't forget to mention that you are "sorta of hung" if she's "into that kind of thing". It doesn't matter if you are or aren't.

4. Try to talk with her on the phone for a brief moment so that she knows you aren't an axe murderer. This also makes you look a little more choosy.

5. Text her your address.

6. When she comes to your place, greet her warmly with a hug like an old friend. It's crucial that you are relaxed as if you've done this kind of thing often. Have her remove her shoes upon entering your place.

At this point you have to gauge and manage her anxiety. Either she'll be totally into and you can just start making out with her, or she'll be freaked out. If she's freaked out, give her a drink, put on some music, chat for a bit on your couch, and really easy into it (check out Tuthmosis' New Recipe for Securing First Date Bangs).

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That's pretty much it. I've tried this exact template several times. Two of my last three bangs were done with this.

[tylerdurden1993]

Might have to give this a try when I go back to university,I live in a shared house so would have to bring her straight to my room, as my other housemates are always in the shared areas.
Do you think this will affect my chances as they might not want to go to my room straight away or don't you think it will make a difference?

[soup]

(01-11-2014 12:32 PM)tylerdurden1993 Wrote:  

Might have to give this a try when I go back to university,I live in a shared house so would have to bring her straight to my room, as my other housemates are always in the shared areas.
Do you think this will affect my chances as they might not want to go to my room straight away or don't you think it will make a difference?

I don't know, but you can try it. I think it's important that she knows that you guys have privacy.

[slothpiece]

Do any of these girls return for more after they've had time to dwell on getting carved out like that? I suppose this is just for sport and building the skill of being able to hook them for the one-time slothfeast.

[soup]

(01-11-2014 12:43 PM)slothpiece Wrote:  

Do any of these girls return for more after they've had time to dwell on getting carved out like that? I suppose this is just for sport and building the skill of being able to hook them for the one-time slothfeast.

Some do. It's all about how it goes.

[Glock]

Are you sure that you really want all these girls to know where you live? It sounds somewhat risky. What if one of them is a nut job?

[soup]

(01-11-2014 12:46 PM)Consul Wrote:  

Are you sure that you really want all these girls to know where you live? It sounds somewhat risky. What if one of them is a nut job?

Good point. I'm not scared I live in NYC.

[TrueSlyr]

what age group are you trying this on? I feel this would only work on really young 18-20 or really older girls late 20s, 30s.

[soup]

(01-11-2014 01:33 PM)TrueSlyr Wrote:  

what age group are you trying this on? I feel this would only work on really young 18-20 or really older girls late 20s, 30s.

18-30

[Belize King]

Straight to the point. I like that but I live in a small town. My pickings arent NYC numbers so I have to do the fist night bang route instead. Now if I am in town for one night then I can follow this to the T. OKC sucks in south Texas so I might just use it anyway haha.

[Courage Reborn]

Thank soup.

No doubt this works sometimes, but aren't you burning up a lot of slower moving pussy?

How long have you been beasting cupid, and many times have you pulled this scenario off?

[DJ-Matt]

OKC sucks since I don't live near KU in Lawrence, but this would work in my town for POF, will try.

[Plutoman]

OKC sucks for KU, anyways. DJ, you in the KC area? If you are, PM me.

The big thing about this is just not being afraid to creep out the girl and gauge for a receptive one. I basically see this as working for guys who look reasonable, where girls respect the directness and want some fun.

[soup]

(01-11-2014 03:55 PM)Courage Reborn Wrote:  

Thank soup.

No doubt this works sometimes, but aren't you burning up a lot of slower moving pussy?

How long have you been beasting cupid, and many times have you pulled this scenario off?

I've done it twice since the start of the New Year. It's just another form of going direct. I am confident in my look that I got for the website, and my profile seems to be doing what it needs to do. I've been using OKC for the past few years or more.

I've got about 130 girls numbers from OKC in my phone right now. I just burned one out trying this a few minutes ago (34 year old). Once you are averaging about a number or two a day from the website, it almost makes more sense to push harder and faster for the bang otherwise the number might go cold very quickly.

Yes, there are blow-outs- this isn't a guaranteed method, but you can't make the omelette without breaking a few eggs.

To the bigger point, if you haven't already excepted rejections as part of the game, then you might want to get your numbers up as far as amounts of girls you are dealing with.

When one girl out of hundreds says no, it doesn't really mean much to me.

Of course, you should try to gauge interest with the girl. If she's over 28, this kind of thing is probably less likely to work because those girls are starting to think about biological clock shit.

[Sourcecode]

I've done something similar when I am in a big city with lots of profiles.

It doesnt actually burn slow pussy.
Remember...you don't really get punished for moving to quick.
If you are...its not the girl...its your vibe.
If your vibe is off..you might come of as "CREEPY"
If she doesn't take the instant bait..you haven't scare the cat....you just know she isnt gonna bang that quick.
From there on..Just run First Date bang recipe. instead of Direct to Dick recipe


I like how Soup advocates the call.
Few people call these days. Hell most of my dates. I don't call until 30 minutes before the date.

You call the chick as a verification. Its also a little harder for someone to reject you over the phone.
Remember...People these days are so use to texting their conversations that you will throw people off by calling.
Assuming youre a confident talker. You will project your confidence and vibe through the phone..making it harder for her to say no

[Andoran]

interesting stuff, OKC is basically useless here in Mexico, will definitely try this out when I visit LA for a couple of months.

One question though, what is the average quality of the girls you are able to pull? I know online dating doesn't attract super models but surely you can pull some talent from it right?

[soup]

There are some 6-7s that's this had worked on. Another thing you can do is dialing back a little. You don't have to do the invite so fast. Try to gauge what her vibe is. Does she seem like she's good to go?

Regardless of whether or not I do the invite, I make my opening text about making out. Then I know that's out of the way and even if we go on a date, I still think it gives me better chances of banging on the first night.

[FrenchCanadian]

I use a similar plan, but it's a bit more flexible.
I can straight up lie about my intentions on OKC or Tinder,
Because I've realized that girls who talk openly about "not wanting a one stand" are the ones the most prone to do so.
You want friends with benefits? Casual dating? Something serious?
...its all the same to me, because regardless of that I'll be entering you on the 2nd date.

Also I find this is really important. "try to gauge her vibe"
Because essentially all these women are different and EXPRESS themselves differently.
Not all of them come with the same vocabulary, the same education ect...

Its all in the words. I'm a big believer in wordplay, so once you've kinda gauged her education level, her wit ect...
Seduction, even online, is much much more efficient.

FWIW.

This might be a mistake I do, but I like to NOT be in a rush to meet the girl.
I'll smooth talk her, sell her a fucking dream... just casually talk, for a non determined period of time.
Moisten her up before I see her.

And when we do meet up, it's usually a very, very easy, low cost, bang.
As long as you have enough material in your rotation, I think it's a perfectly viable plan. (just time consuming, like all game)

[soup]

^that sounds good. Can give us some examples?

[Valhalla]

(01-12-2014 10:31 AM)FrenchCanadian Wrote:  

I use a similar plan, but it's a bit more flexible.
I can straight up lie about my intentions on OKC or Tinder,
Because I've realized that girls who talk openly about "not wanting a one stand" are the ones the most prone to do so.
You want friends with benefits? Casual dating? Something serious?
...its all the same to me, because regardless of that I'll be entering you on the 2nd date.

Also I find this is really important. "try to gauge her vibe"
Because essentially all these women are different and EXPRESS themselves differently.
Not all of them come with the same vocabulary, the same education ect...

Its all in the words. I'm a big believer in wordplay, so once you've kinda gauged her education level, her wit ect...
Seduction, even online, is much much more efficient.

FWIW.

This might be a mistake I do, but I like to NOT be in a rush to meet the girl.
I'll smooth talk her, sell her a fucking dream... just casually talk, for a non determined period of time.
Moisten her up before I see her.

And when we do meet up, it's usually a very, very easy, low cost, bang.
As long as you have enough material in your rotation, I think it's a perfectly viable plan. (just time consuming, like all game)

Can you give us examples of how this works out?
Think something similar to the data soup dropped.

[soup]

You do have to gauge a lot, sometimes I'll make a little chit chat over text first before dropping the invite. Yes this will get you blown out often, but it has definitely worked for me.

Also you can drop the invite on a weekend night when she's already drinking with her friends.

[Masdinero]

It's funny, the last girl I banged from okcupid was a ONS.

I was looking at the questions she answered on okcupid:
How many dates, before you would sleep with someone?
She answered 6 or more

[FrenchCanadian]

well, I've been lurking in the shadows here for a little while, been starting to post since a month or two.
but one thing I've realized is that the general consensus on the board is that one very important thing, is to move from online to real life ASAP.
Like asking digits within the first exchanges of a conversation.

I like to take my time. My approach is completely different and perhaps explains my success rate at it.
One thing I realized is that there is alot of "somewhat skilled" writers here. Meaning a lot of you guys can write properly, can express yourselves accurately, through your writings.
This may be a surprise to some of you but in the general male population, the number of men able to do this is rather low.
I think this is an edge that needs to be exploited.

Even though I have no proper "plan" I guess what I'll usually do is approach a few girls on tinder or okc everyday. With practically no exception.
After one week, let's say you have 10 tinder matches and 6 girls who replied on okcupid... the next step is filtering them out
So I'll talk to them on OKC/Tinder a while, and if I like what they are telling me, what I'm seeing...

Then I will ask to add them on Facebook.

That's where the real magic happens.
Before you get worked up about FB, you need to know my facebook account is maintained in consideration that Im adding/deleting random potential fuck buddies every week.
No personal statuses, they cant see my friends list, and also good pictures, pictures with girls, pictures of me spending money, all kinds of pictures that will at least raise her eyebrows.

What this does for the player though, is it enables you to see HER facebook. There's seriously a lot of information in there. Use it.
Then you talk to her, you seduce her, you tell her what she wants to hear. This is where the slick wordplay comes in.
This is where you wet her pussy with your words. (part of this involves mass lying, aka asking her personal questions, questions perhaps no other guy would ask her... perfectly pretending to be interested by what she does, by who she is)
Very very little guys do this, and to me its just a very easy path to pussy.
Staying classy at all times of course.
This is when you truly come off as a player, imo
The neediness, the urgency.... is a big turn off for many many women.

It can take me anywhere from 1 week to 2-3 months, to meet a girl, talking sometimes everyday, sometimes only once in a while.
But once you meet her.... and you're already in her mind... you already know what she's gonna say if you try to pull a move ...and already know how to counter attack...

In my experience, the sex will ALWAYS be better, easier, cheaper.
And if you filter enough ladies you will never run out of ladies to talk to, to meet up.

Of course, as I say, this is time consuming. I usually talk to 4-5 girls simultaneously on facebook and date one every week.
But I mean, I really like women. I like to flirt, I like to seduce them.
I like to fuck around with her mind, to put her in compromising situations, see how she reacts.
See how quick I can make her wet by whispering in her ear and all kinds of shit I could never do with a cold first meeting
Its not only the penis in the vagina to me.

Sexuality comes through the mind. The real gold is in her head, not in her body.
And my "method" lol, well... it enables me to detect kink better.
I dont want a pretty blonde who says nothing and does nothing.

I need a freak, unfortunately.
PEACE

[soup]

Sounds great, can you give us specific examples of the kinds of questions you are asking?

[FrenchCanadian]

Depends on the girl, depends on the flow. I'm not afraid to ask about ex's, and family, and past... I don't let it intimidate me, or the discussions.
I should say however that the girls in Montreal are VERY liberal. Especially the french girls.
They will openly talk about sex, politics, alot of stuff thats typically boring or taboo in other countries (USA, Canada)