Does this work outside of NYC ?
Fresh Direct: How to Get Girls Offline, Directly to Your House
Quote: (02-05-2014 02:11 PM)Menace Wrote:
Does this work outside of NYC ?
It does. I did a poor man's version of this about 12 years ago in college. I did it to girls who were clearly slutty or i didnt want to be seen with them in public.
Now I am going to try to run it on women I percieved as high value 12 years ago thinking they will not fall for it.
The Lizard Whisperer.......
College is different. I'm talking about today in another US city out of college, ie you are working.
Last year I did this twice but not bringing them to my house but going to their house but in that case they saw my photos online and inititated sexy talk. Both mid 30s women getting out of marriages i.e needed action and my profile and photos are targeted at that
So in those cases I was the entree "fresh from farm to table"
Will have to follow soup's recipe and respond with feedback...I am going to try it on 7s and 8s to see strength of regimen..
So in those cases I was the entree "fresh from farm to table"
Will have to follow soup's recipe and respond with feedback...I am going to try it on 7s and 8s to see strength of regimen..
The Lizard Whisperer.......
One way I've dealt with girl balking (shit testing) at my directness is to call them out out.
I'll turn it around on them and start qualifying them. I'll say stuff like "I need to hang with a confident girl who won't get offended so easily"
All girls want to see themselves as confident, so they'll back off a little.. it's a way to keep it going.
I've also tweaked my main invite to imply that while I'm not looking to rush into any kind of serious relationship yet, I do want to have a good time, and if it's something they'd be into trying, then maybe we can hang etc.
It's a little more comfort building I think because it allows them to feel more like they are making the decision instead of their hindbrain/hamster.
I'll turn it around on them and start qualifying them. I'll say stuff like "I need to hang with a confident girl who won't get offended so easily"
All girls want to see themselves as confident, so they'll back off a little.. it's a way to keep it going.
I've also tweaked my main invite to imply that while I'm not looking to rush into any kind of serious relationship yet, I do want to have a good time, and if it's something they'd be into trying, then maybe we can hang etc.
It's a little more comfort building I think because it allows them to feel more like they are making the decision instead of their hindbrain/hamster.
what's your new tweaked main invite?
any other qualifications you use?
A lot of girls in my area are very skittish when it comes to meeting in a place where sex can happen immediately. how are you meeting these girls that are big risk takers/adventurous.
any other qualifications you use?
A lot of girls in my area are very skittish when it comes to meeting in a place where sex can happen immediately. how are you meeting these girls that are big risk takers/adventurous.
valhalla
It's pretty much a combination of what I did in the first but with more permissive language instead of just being blunt.. A lot like what I just posted.
A lot of girls do get turned off by this very direct approach. But it's worth for me to get one that's into it. I can't figure if I'm saving time because the burn rate is high, but there's something to be said for not having to a bar and just having a girl come over and fuck you.
It really does trigger their slut defense a lot. But it also gives you much more freedom do move fwd withe the girls who play along. There's less pressure when you meet up because everything's out in the open. If she accepts your directness early on it's a good sign that sailing will be smooth and you will almost certainly not be put in her friendzone.
I'm working on new qualifications as the need for them arises. Essentially you get into their concept for their self image and start using it to challenge them. It's no longer about you or hooking up, it's her integrity as a "strong minded" "intelligent" "self sufficient" woman etc.
You get into that, and you got a lot to work with.
I frame their negative reactions as a manifestation of insecurity without directly saying they are insecure. I talk about what I'm looking for in a woman.
A confident woman who can take a joke or compliment and doesn't get upset or offended easily.
That's the woman they all want to be so you can start layering those ideas into your dialogue.
You can say stuff about wanting an exciting or adventurous girl who is up for a challenge or exploration etc.
That's getting into most girl's self image goals. This one thing that we can thank feminism for is marrying the concepts of strength and independence with sluttiness. Here's our chance to take advantage. This why game evolved in the first place.
A lot of girls do get turned off by this very direct approach. But it's worth for me to get one that's into it. I can't figure if I'm saving time because the burn rate is high, but there's something to be said for not having to a bar and just having a girl come over and fuck you.
It really does trigger their slut defense a lot. But it also gives you much more freedom do move fwd withe the girls who play along. There's less pressure when you meet up because everything's out in the open. If she accepts your directness early on it's a good sign that sailing will be smooth and you will almost certainly not be put in her friendzone.
I'm working on new qualifications as the need for them arises. Essentially you get into their concept for their self image and start using it to challenge them. It's no longer about you or hooking up, it's her integrity as a "strong minded" "intelligent" "self sufficient" woman etc.
You get into that, and you got a lot to work with.
I frame their negative reactions as a manifestation of insecurity without directly saying they are insecure. I talk about what I'm looking for in a woman.
A confident woman who can take a joke or compliment and doesn't get upset or offended easily.
That's the woman they all want to be so you can start layering those ideas into your dialogue.
You can say stuff about wanting an exciting or adventurous girl who is up for a challenge or exploration etc.
That's getting into most girl's self image goals. This one thing that we can thank feminism for is marrying the concepts of strength and independence with sluttiness. Here's our chance to take advantage. This why game evolved in the first place.
Question, for some of the more experienced guys having used this, how have you been able to go over to the girls place (i.e make her host) instead of your own? (lets just say, I have an interesting living situation).
You just go. I took a cab a few times instead of the subway because time is of the essence.
Soup can we see the exact text transcript of this, if possible?
I've read the entire thread and tried it myself but I'd like to see how this plays out and how the girl replies, and how you deal with everything.
I've read the entire thread and tried it myself but I'd like to see how this plays out and how the girl replies, and how you deal with everything.
valhalla
I just tried this out for the first time, almost exactly the same as the template except I didn't call. I think that is where I dun goofed
Dafuck do i do now?
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*exact messages*
Me: Ngl you kinda seem like you would be fun to make out with x
Her: Haha please. I would be the best kiss you ever had x
Me: Your gonna have to prove that. I'm not looking for anything serious, just good times x
Her: Meh x
Me: I'm hung if your into that sort of thing x
Her: What does that mean?? x
Me: I have liquor and netflix, you buy the pizza, deal?
Her: Sure.
[Pussied out on calling here]
Me: [Address]
Me: I live 5 min by the station, we can meet there x
Her: No we can't x
Me: ? x
Her: No, I have no money, and you're a stranger
Dafuck do i do now?
I would have called.. That might have preempted the s"stranger part
Ha just tried this on a chubby tinder girl and it got rejected quite fast. I like this approach.
Slubu,
Has tinder been on fire for you the past few weeks or so? I deleted it because it was all spam, but reinstalled it and it's overwhelming now.
Has tinder been on fire for you the past few weeks or so? I deleted it because it was all spam, but reinstalled it and it's overwhelming now.
^ Yup, I think I got like 100 matches in the past few days. It was spam for me too about a month ago, very odd. I met up with 2 tinder girls last night out, doesn't work so well if they are out partying with friends.
Yea. I was with the gf and passed out early. I woke up with all sorts of completely ridiculous drunken messages from girls on tinder wanting to meet up at like 2AM
I deleted that shit to.
You are probably getting a lot of matches because you haven't checked it in long time.
You are probably getting a lot of matches because you haven't checked it in long time.
Update on "farm to table" recipe. It works on 5s(banged two 5s so far but i hate myself after doing that but cost is literaly 0 along with time committment) and not much luck with anything above. But its worth trying with all of them. Worst happens is they dont want to come and you meet them for a drink closeby. Still tweaking it.
The Lizard Whisperer.......
The fresh-direct has worked for me on weekdays, but the prime times seem to be Fri/Sat evenings & nights.
By that point, either their previous plans have fallen through and now this is sort of their version of the "hail mary" (evenings)
They have "struck-out" at the club or gotten home from a shitty date and this is their passive-aggressive way of fishing for new dick and adventure (Purely anonymous and removed from social circle shame) On these occasions, I like to use terms like "salvaging the night" or "making the best of things", as a trigger. Because we all know the feeling of "a wasted night".
If they bother to be logged on during these times, I know my chances are increased by 50% because more than likely they've been drinking or are willing to pop a bottle.
*Sometimes, I've widen my search results too be less restrictive. Only snag I've run into is when a target is too far away or I've gotten an invite to her spot, it's at that point that I have to do a cost/investment analysis
By that point, either their previous plans have fallen through and now this is sort of their version of the "hail mary" (evenings)
They have "struck-out" at the club or gotten home from a shitty date and this is their passive-aggressive way of fishing for new dick and adventure (Purely anonymous and removed from social circle shame) On these occasions, I like to use terms like "salvaging the night" or "making the best of things", as a trigger. Because we all know the feeling of "a wasted night".
If they bother to be logged on during these times, I know my chances are increased by 50% because more than likely they've been drinking or are willing to pop a bottle.
*Sometimes, I've widen my search results too be less restrictive. Only snag I've run into is when a target is too far away or I've gotten an invite to her spot, it's at that point that I have to do a cost/investment analysis
MDP
I tried dialing back the directness a little, so instead of stating what I want to do, I suggest that I just want to have fun (without saying anything about making out). Chick tonight seems to be going for it.
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