[jdelisi]

The way I see it we can all meet women in a number of venues other than bars. But do you know what my problem is? I only open a small percentage of the women that I do see out in grocery stores, banks, bookstores. If I increase my ratio of girls I see, to girls I open, my numbers and dates will increase.

My point is I could rack my brain on ways to see more chicks every day. Or I could be more efficient and double my approaches wherever I am.

[IpsaScientiaPotestasEst]

Yeah, just get the hell out of the house, be chatty as hell to everyone wherever you go (go beyond the just, hey how you doin? good and you? good? NO. Thats the same bs EVERYONE says in the US and usually their day is great, decent, or they are doing the same BULLSHIT they do every day. The same old. SAY that and you will connect with people EVERYWHERE you go. People WANT to socialize and meet good, nice, outgoing people! )

I can't remember what the show was called, but when I was in the UK I watched this show about luck and fortune. It was basically about whether people consider themselves lucky or bad things happen to you and are out of your control. The show did a thing with a lucky dog they put in this small town and created the superstition about it that it was lucky. Eventually people came to believe it. The show basically had this case study about a guy who didnt think he was lucky at all. At the end of the show, he basically bets his saving fund away on a bet-on a dice roll. About a 1 in 6 chance, and the guy ended up getting it. Whether the show was possibly rigged or not, I dont know-but I believe the point comes across clearly-how lucky or fortunate you are is clearly the same to how open you are to experiences or trying things. Get the hell out, say hello to strangers, take new chances. THAT is game and THAT is ballsy. Be open to new experiences in life and get the HELL out there. Just go walk around or venture into a new part of your city. What does it cost, 10 dollars maybe? Even if you're tight on money, you can't tell me you can't make room for that instead of blowing money on drinks at clubs or other crap.

Found it
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O4mN33w5Ftw

[amity]

some great advice in this thread
and the thing about daygaming is, sometimes opportunities just fall into your lap without you even trying, thanks to some herb who pisses a woman off and you just happened to be in the background and can capitalise on the situation
this happened me the other day at the dentist
dude gets his teeth fixed, and afterwards is in reception, paying the girl(23/24, she's ok , probably only a 5.5 but still) in reception
the guy starts chatting to her about his music website and space exploration and shit
after 2/3 mins of this, you can see the girl is bored off her box with this guy but mcdork just keeps plowing, getting nowhere, and the girl just humours him as best she can
finally he leaves, and the girl looks over to myself with a 'what a f*cking loser' look
i chip in with a couple of smart comments, and we're on
but she's not really my type so i don't continue with it, but still the seed is planted, i can pick this up again, next time i'm in the dentists, if i so wish
and the point being, so long as you're not socially dysfunctional, you will get opportunities almost every day (if you're out and about) to interact with average to cute chicks and make an impression

[Captain Ahab]

Awesome.

I can't really go all out with the night game because of limited income, but I can step out the house more to try and lock eyes with sexy women licking their lips at the grocery store or laundry mat.

Thanks El Mechanico.

[soup]

There is a ridiculous number of opportunities out there if you open your eyes. Especially in a place like NYC. Think about the multitudes of hot tourists in Times Square- it's a goldmine. Or, hit up Soho any day of the week. Bedford avenue in Williamsburg- I once picked up a rock star (unknowingly) there.

Just start a normal conversation with girl. Ask her what time it is, or for directions, or whatever. That's like 50% of the game right there.

Build on that and get her number or go on an insta-date.

Most guys romanticize the weekend nights and clubs as the gateway to poosy paradise. The poosy paradise is right in front of your nose, 24/7.

[Giovonny]

Be ready to talk to girls anywhere and everywhere.

I purposely go to the grocery store at busy times everyday just to get more opportunities. When I have to go shopping I go to the most popular mall at the busiest time.

Be ready as soon as you walk out your front door. Bus, train, subway, coffee shop, cafe, restaurant, work, lunch break, smoke break, gym, grocery store, mall, sidewalk. You don't have to make time for day game. You just have to be ready to talk during the day.


If I have errands to run like going to the bank, going to the dry cleaners, returning stuff, etc. I purposely wait until its a nice sunny day and I have a day off of work. Then, I will go and do all my errands in a busy and popular part of the city. Obviously, I am gaming the whole time as I am taking care of my business. 2 birds, 1 stone!

[Eddie Winslow]

(10-16-2012 02:45 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

1. Shop for every meal. You will be in the store 3 times a day.

2. Pay your bills in person. All of them and be creative with pay stations by switching up. Use check cashing places etc. Pay your cell bill at the store that has the most traffic. Pay your cable bill at their office or different places that except money for them.

3. Go in the bank. ATMs are easy but start going in. I do this and also deposit checks one at a time. Go in the bank to pay your credit card bills at the counter.

4. Don't make coffee. Go to 7-11 or wherever.

5. No more drive thru anything. Go inside.

A few more that I use...

6. If you want to casually read, always read at a bookstore or nearby coffee shop.

7. If you need to do homework or study, always do it at the school library instead of your dorm room.

8. Important sports games should always be watched at the bar instead of on your couch.

9. Ask questions to strangers ALL DAY and learn to play dumb. They can be legitmate or not. If you ask a question and it gets a thoughtful response, ask it every fucking chance you get. Example: I just bought my first iPhone, and really did not know how take a screenshot with it. I asked three girls; the first two didn't know (but tried to figure it out) and the third gave me detailed instructions. All led to solid conversations and smiles all around. I ask this question every single day to every hot girl I see with an iPhone, and I have a few different proven follow up questions/topics to keep the conversation moving along.

10. Truly busy people: If you commute via train, bus, or by foot, come up with location-specific questions and conversation topics for multiple points of your commute. I have a few - example: everytime I walk past a certain bar on my way home from work, I ask a nearbygirl 'what day do they have that happy hour special with $1 drafts?' With some OK acting, these questions look seem situational and completely natural. Zero awkwardness and they usually get good responses.

[Thomas the Rhymer]

This is my own little hack for meeting people.

Whenever I have to stand at a queue, I stand perpendicular to the line.

Basically, most people just queue up and stare forwards, often with a grumpy look on their faces, like so:
   

However, if you stand at a right angle to the flow of the queue, you end up being in an excellent position to open either the person standing behind you or the person in front of you.
   

If you tap the shoulder of the person in front of you in the queue, because you are at a ninety degree angle to them you don't come across as intensely and the approach works better. Also, no one is going to turn a full 180 degrees to talk to you but they will probably turn 90 degrees, which mirrors your body language and creates instant rapport.

Alternately, you can easily have a look at the shopping trolley behind and elderly open the person behind you about whatever is in the trolley.

[elabayarde]

(10-16-2012 02:45 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

I've been thinking the last day or two about some of the nightclub threads here and reading some guys struggling with day approach so I started analyzing what I've been doing to meet girls.

This happened by coincidence mainly because I'm a procrastinator

The problem I'm seeing is guys having a hard time in an artificial environment like going someplace specifically to try to meet women like chasing them down on the streets like Sasha or in a nightclub that they don't enjoy.

What to do...
Take the convenience out of your life.
1. Shop for every meal. You will be in the store 3 times a day.

2. Pay your bills in person. All of them and be creative with pay stations by switching up. Use check cashing places etc. Pay your cell bill at the store that has the most traffic. Pay your cable bill at their office or different places that except money for them.

3. Go in the bank. ATMs are easy but start going in. I do this and also deposit checks one at a time. Go in the bank to pay your credit card bills at the counter.

4. Don't make coffee. Go to 7-11 or wherever.

5. No more drive thru anything. Go inside.

I'm sure there's more I'll think of but when chatting up the ladies you're doing it in a place where you're supposed be which makes opening a lot easier. There's threads here about dude-purses and belts the last couple days. If you saw one you like go find it in person or try before you order online..

This is extremely good advice for cities like ATL. Im just starting to learn the deal, with these driving required cities. Its a much different game than a city that u can walk around and game on foot. Good thread. E-mech

[MMM]

Good thread emech. My job requires a good amount of traveling on the subway so I make sure to leave extra time in the commute for approaching. Or, take the long way to your destination. And remember, lunchtime is mac-time!

[el mechanico]

Here's another little thing..This is the time of the year to troll tax prep places like HR block etc. Find one with a cafe next door and have a beer..

[Menace]

el mech, what about at laundromats...there's a couple in my hood, I've thought about just bringing a bunch of white t-shirts and hanging out.

[el mechanico]

(02-12-2013 03:09 PM)Menace Wrote:  

el mech, what about at laundromats...there's a couple in my hood, I've thought about just bringing a bunch of white t-shirts and hanging out.

Why not if it's busy. I go in them with no laundry if I'm in the plaza where's one is..

[thegmanifesto]

(10-16-2012 02:45 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

I've been thinking the last day or two about some of the nightclub threads here and reading some guys struggling with day approach so I started analyzing what I've been doing to meet girls.

This happened by coincidence mainly because I'm a procrastinator

The problem I'm seeing is guys having a hard time in an artificial environment like going someplace specifically to try to meet women like chasing them down on the streets like Sasha or in a nightclub that they don't enjoy.

What to do...
Take the convenience out of your life.
1. Shop for every meal. You will be in the store 3 times a day.

2. Pay your bills in person. All of them and be creative with pay stations by switching up. Use check cashing places etc. Pay your cell bill at the store that has the most traffic. Pay your cable bill at their office or different places that except money for them.

3. Go in the bank. ATMs are easy but start going in. I do this and also deposit checks one at a time. Go in the bank to pay your credit card bills at the counter.

4. Don't make coffee. Go to 7-11 or wherever.

5. No more drive thru anything. Go inside.

I'm sure there's more I'll think of but when chatting up the ladies you're doing it in a place where you're supposed be which makes opening a lot easier. There's threads here about dude-purses and belts the last couple days. If you saw one you like go find it in person or try before you order online..

This is great.

The funny thing about it is it is how normal life was back in the early 90's.

The only thing different was:

Need the answer to something?

Go to the library.

[Giovonny]

(02-12-2013 03:26 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

The only thing different was:

Need the answer to something?

Go to the library.

I used to have an encyclopedia set.



Or, I would just ask my grandma or barber, they usually had the answers.

[Captain Ahab]

Yeah, mech showed me how the day game hack was done while we were getting some Chinese food.

We stopped by Sweet Bay (local grocery store) and he chatted it up with a good looking MILF in line. She was smiling as he was spitting his game.

I am a witness.

[thegmanifesto]

(02-12-2013 04:07 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(02-12-2013 03:26 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

The only thing different was:

Need the answer to something?

Go to the library.

I used to have an encyclopedia set.



Or, I would just ask my grandma or barber, they usually had the answers.

Sh*t. I always wished I had an encyclopedia set.

We only had an Almanac. Real low budget.

I had to take my *ss to the library.

Mad girls there though.

[AneroidOcean]

(02-12-2013 04:27 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

(02-12-2013 04:07 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(02-12-2013 03:26 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

The only thing different was:

Need the answer to something?

Go to the library.

I used to have an encyclopedia set.



Or, I would just ask my grandma or barber, they usually had the answers.

Sh*t. I always wished I had an encyclopedia set.

We only had an Almanac. Real low budget.

I had to take my *ss to the library.

Mad girls there though.

If you live near the coast, go to the damn beach! The girls already have their clothes off. If you live near the mountains, go to the ski resort's lodge and grab a beer when the snow bunnies are headed in to get a brew, etc... etc...

I walked along the beach with my old roommate once back when I had negative game and told him to go talk to these two girls playing chess. I don't know how he did it, but he brought them back with their platonic male friend, they stopped by the liquor store to bring beer and they came and played fucking poker with us. The girls were SMOKING hot and the only reason it happened was because I told him that the girls HAD to be cool, I mean they were playing chess on the fucking beach! I fucked it up with the girl that was likely into me because of aforementioned lack of game, but holy christ was the chick hot. When he called me to tell me they were coming to the house I didn't believe him at all.

Fortune favors the bold.

[Christian McQueen]

Starbucks, Trader Joes and Whole Foods are GOLDMINES for daygame at least on the West Coast. I imagine Starbucks is great everywhere for poosy, unless it's Oregon where the girls are 25lbs overweight, wear crocs and are feminists.

[lurker]

(10-16-2012 03:33 PM)_GQ_ Wrote:  

(10-16-2012 03:08 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

Macy's and Nordstrom: Women there are your personal shoppers. Ask them their opinions on
clothes and shoes. They'll easily spend 15-20 minutes chatting with you. They get paid by the hour.

I can vouch for this too, especially at Nordstrom.

No, they don't. Nordstrom employees get paid on straight commission (over a minimum draw they never do poorly enough to trigger), with the exception of high price point/low volume departments like home furnishings/jewelry and the fragrance/makeup counters. If you go chatting a Nordstrom girl in the mens clothes or shoes departments for 15-20 minutes to "personal shop" she'll be friendly, as that's what the store screens for and demands out of its employees, but you'll be costing her money in the long run and savvy employees will avoid you if you don't seem like a buyer. That said, if you are there to buy goods, you'll get a good chunk of their attention - and the younger girls aren't quite as quick to smell sales as the grizzled veterans. Another generally ignored fact: Nordstrom hires attractive girls and 80% of the male workers there are gay, so they're more receptive to being gamed by guys coming in.

If you really just want to hit on chicks there and waste some time, go to home furnishings or fine jewelry. They're usually young, bored, and eager for a distraction.

[Aliblahba]

How bout meth clinic game? I was going to an office several doors down from one, and couldn't believe the hot ass running in and out to get their fix.

[Giovonny]

(02-25-2013 07:51 AM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

How bout meth clinic game?

Yes, rehab game is big around here. Guys go to sex addicts anonymous meetings, drug addicts anonymous meetings, and alcohol anonymous meetings just to find easy, vulnerable women down to party.

[kenny_powers]

(02-25-2013 06:17 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(02-25-2013 07:51 AM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

How bout meth clinic game?

Yes, rehab game is big around here. Guys go to sex addicts anonymous meetings, drug addicts anonymous meetings, and alcohol anonymous meetings just to find easy, vulnerable women down to party.

Half of Florida was on Oxy a few years ago. I did AA / NA meetings in Miami and got 3 bangs out of it. Girls were hot and sexy but crazy as shit. Got two of the girls to bang each other. Liquor, weed, and xanax goes a long way with these girls.

[thegmanifesto]

(02-12-2013 10:47 PM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:  

Starbucks, Trader Joes and Whole Foods are GOLDMINES for daygame at least on the West Coast. I imagine Starbucks is great everywhere for poosy, unless it's Oregon where the girls are 25lbs overweight, wear crocs and are feminists.

The problem with Starbucks Game is you have to go to Starbucks.

(02-25-2013 06:24 PM)kenny_powers Wrote:  

(02-25-2013 06:17 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(02-25-2013 07:51 AM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

How bout meth clinic game?

Yes, rehab game is big around here. Guys go to sex addicts anonymous meetings, drug addicts anonymous meetings, and alcohol anonymous meetings just to find easy, vulnerable women down to party.

Half of Florida was on Oxy a few years ago. I did AA / NA meetings in Miami and got 3 bangs out of it. Girls were hot and sexy but crazy as shit. Got two of the girls to bang each other. Liquor, weed, and xanax goes a long way with these girls.

Ha.

I have been meaning to write on AA/NA/SA Game for years.

[kenny_powers]

(02-25-2013 06:36 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

(02-12-2013 10:47 PM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:  

Starbucks, Trader Joes and Whole Foods are GOLDMINES for daygame at least on the West Coast. I imagine Starbucks is great everywhere for poosy, unless it's Oregon where the girls are 25lbs overweight, wear crocs and are feminists.

The problem with Starbucks Game is you have to go to Starbucks.

(02-25-2013 06:24 PM)kenny_powers Wrote:  

(02-25-2013 06:17 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(02-25-2013 07:51 AM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

How bout meth clinic game?

Yes, rehab game is big around here. Guys go to sex addicts anonymous meetings, drug addicts anonymous meetings, and alcohol anonymous meetings just to find easy, vulnerable women down to party.

Half of Florida was on Oxy a few years ago. I did AA / NA meetings in Miami and got 3 bangs out of it. Girls were hot and sexy but crazy as shit. Got two of the girls to bang each other. Liquor, weed, and xanax goes a long way with these girls.

Ha.

I have been meaning to write on AA/NA Game for years.

Start a thread. I will contribute. Lot's of good things about AA / NA Game. In a big city you may have 100's of meetings a week. It's a combination of social circle and venue change. Meet a girl at a 5:30 meeting on Monday she asks if you are going to the open meeting Friday in another neighborhood because "it's a really good meeting"

Once at the meetings it becomes coffee / cigarette game