In my experience with day game only about 1 in 10 approaches resulted in a date. Although this sounds good when written down, in reality it involves:
- The tough emotional cost of being in a cold selling like sales push. Some guys will deny that this exists, but once you step off the internet and into real life you have to deal with this, which makes me believe that the guys who are denying it are actually just theorizing on the internet.
- The time taken to arrange to go out with wings in order to support each other in this tough emotional environment.
- Lots of days where you get no numbers.
- Time taken sitting in Starbucks to give yourself and your wings a break from the tough emotional cost of approaching.
- Time between approaches. Our day game sessions often had to span several hours for us to do 5 approaches each.
- The cost of spending your day off wandering around the city center trying to cold sell your cock that you could have spent doing something that you actually enjoy.
- Day game is particularly tough because women will automatically rule you out right from the very start simply because you're a random guy off the street that might be a weirdo. For her, the risk is high, she just doesnt know you and who really approaches like that that anyway?
- Never equate getting a girl's phone number with her level of sexual interest. Some say that a girl is less likely to flake from day game simply because she is sober and will remember you as it was such a unique encounter. The truth in many cases is she'll flake because it all comes back to you being some random guy that came up to her out of nowhere that she knows zilch about and spoke to for only 5 minutes.
- There are loads of variables. While some of it is dependent on your vibe, body language etc. That's completely not the case. In the end it's all down to the woman. It's all because of her mood, and him catching her at the right time when she was up for talking/going on a date etc.
- A lot of daygame is based upon luck. Right time, right place, right guy, right girl. Finding that right combination can be like finding a needle in a haystack.
- A lot of guys are not being real. They go out and project themselves as an awesome guy when they have only half developed themselves into a solid person. The woman subconsciously realises this just by looking into his eyes but can't rationalise it because he's saying awesome things so she later flakes.
- A lot of guys do day game exclusively because they don't want to deal with rejection - they say girls in clubs are bitches etc. In reality, when they get a number via day game most guys think they are progressing when in fact the rejection comes later in the form of a flake. This very low conversation rate makes more sense. All those flaky numbers are rejections which in night game would happen after 2 minutes.
- Moral of the story - keep rolling the dice gentleman. The more you do, the more you'll get laid!
On the plus side:
- Day game will SKYROCKET your night game. It's more common to get rejected and flaked on during the day as opposed to night because the context isn't geared towards dating during the day time. People are out doing something.
At night, it's pretty obvious why people are there. Girls are expected to get hit on and most are there to hook up. On the last 3 occasions I've been out at night I eventually hooked up with a girl. If I compare that during the day time, I have to approach a handful of girls to at least get traction with one or a number that doesn't flake with a possibility of a date later on.
Day time approaching is without a doubt the best way to build a foundation. If you can approach girls during the day, approaching at night will be a piece of cake. I've done a lot of daygame in my time, very flaky only a few results. But I did benefit with learning how to have the balls to approach women completely sober, so I quit drinking as a result and my night game has become more efficient.
- The tough emotional cost of being in a cold selling like sales push. Some guys will deny that this exists, but once you step off the internet and into real life you have to deal with this, which makes me believe that the guys who are denying it are actually just theorizing on the internet.
- The time taken to arrange to go out with wings in order to support each other in this tough emotional environment.
- Lots of days where you get no numbers.
- Time taken sitting in Starbucks to give yourself and your wings a break from the tough emotional cost of approaching.
- Time between approaches. Our day game sessions often had to span several hours for us to do 5 approaches each.
- The cost of spending your day off wandering around the city center trying to cold sell your cock that you could have spent doing something that you actually enjoy.
- Day game is particularly tough because women will automatically rule you out right from the very start simply because you're a random guy off the street that might be a weirdo. For her, the risk is high, she just doesnt know you and who really approaches like that that anyway?
- Never equate getting a girl's phone number with her level of sexual interest. Some say that a girl is less likely to flake from day game simply because she is sober and will remember you as it was such a unique encounter. The truth in many cases is she'll flake because it all comes back to you being some random guy that came up to her out of nowhere that she knows zilch about and spoke to for only 5 minutes.
- There are loads of variables. While some of it is dependent on your vibe, body language etc. That's completely not the case. In the end it's all down to the woman. It's all because of her mood, and him catching her at the right time when she was up for talking/going on a date etc.
- A lot of daygame is based upon luck. Right time, right place, right guy, right girl. Finding that right combination can be like finding a needle in a haystack.
- A lot of guys are not being real. They go out and project themselves as an awesome guy when they have only half developed themselves into a solid person. The woman subconsciously realises this just by looking into his eyes but can't rationalise it because he's saying awesome things so she later flakes.
- A lot of guys do day game exclusively because they don't want to deal with rejection - they say girls in clubs are bitches etc. In reality, when they get a number via day game most guys think they are progressing when in fact the rejection comes later in the form of a flake. This very low conversation rate makes more sense. All those flaky numbers are rejections which in night game would happen after 2 minutes.
- Moral of the story - keep rolling the dice gentleman. The more you do, the more you'll get laid!
On the plus side:
- Day game will SKYROCKET your night game. It's more common to get rejected and flaked on during the day as opposed to night because the context isn't geared towards dating during the day time. People are out doing something.
At night, it's pretty obvious why people are there. Girls are expected to get hit on and most are there to hook up. On the last 3 occasions I've been out at night I eventually hooked up with a girl. If I compare that during the day time, I have to approach a handful of girls to at least get traction with one or a number that doesn't flake with a possibility of a date later on.
Day time approaching is without a doubt the best way to build a foundation. If you can approach girls during the day, approaching at night will be a piece of cake. I've done a lot of daygame in my time, very flaky only a few results. But I did benefit with learning how to have the balls to approach women completely sober, so I quit drinking as a result and my night game has become more efficient.
