So here's the conundrum I'm facing:
I'm currently in DC and making decent money (over $80K) amd I'm looking at a job offer to work in the Salt Lake City area with a company that's a pretty large multinational aerospace and defense firm. Although it is paying around $70K, that's the equivalent of earning six figures in the DMV when factoring CoL.
Now most guys would probably scoff at moving. But here's what I'm currently looking at:
-Even though I'm making good money, the dating/game scene for me in DC is pretty sparse. Between the cliques that make social circle game (and even social circle friendship and camaraderie amongst other males) impossible, femicunts and hoodrats who are insufferable, and the few decent females who are homebodies, I can't see how a move to SLC can make things any worse. And I get that the state is ran by the LDS religion, which needs no explanation on how insular it is.
-Most cities have at least one spot where the young people reside in masse. Is there even such a place in SLC? I'm in a great place when it comes to demographics and logistics (Arlington, VA), but as I stated earlier, the DC Area's dating scene is such utter shit, it's nearly non-effective.
-Being a black male, albeit a light skin one, makes me a bit more cautious of this move. Now I don't have a problem being in a predominantly white environment given that it's racially open-minded; for if the offer was in Seattle or Denver, I would be packing up my bags tonight. But given the location, I do have my reservations. However, what makes me less hesitant is the seething covert racism I constantly face in DC from these so-called liberals, with the worst offenders being yuppies who are around my age. Add that with the overt intra-racism I get from my so-called people for not acting "black enough", I'm about had it with DC and the East Coast in general. And needless to say, I'm not getting a lot of play from any sides of the racial fence.
So what would you all think the best strategy would be, specifically in the gaming chicks department? If worse comes to worse, I can just "keep my head down" figuratively speaking like I've been doing in the DMV and stack money until my contract is up and I can transfer to another place within the company. But ultimately, I would love a place I would be able to date and build a rotation of chicks, whether with social circle game, everyday interactions, nightlife, online, etc. Is that feasible even in a place like Salt Lake City?
I'm currently in DC and making decent money (over $80K) amd I'm looking at a job offer to work in the Salt Lake City area with a company that's a pretty large multinational aerospace and defense firm. Although it is paying around $70K, that's the equivalent of earning six figures in the DMV when factoring CoL.
Now most guys would probably scoff at moving. But here's what I'm currently looking at:
-Even though I'm making good money, the dating/game scene for me in DC is pretty sparse. Between the cliques that make social circle game (and even social circle friendship and camaraderie amongst other males) impossible, femicunts and hoodrats who are insufferable, and the few decent females who are homebodies, I can't see how a move to SLC can make things any worse. And I get that the state is ran by the LDS religion, which needs no explanation on how insular it is.
-Most cities have at least one spot where the young people reside in masse. Is there even such a place in SLC? I'm in a great place when it comes to demographics and logistics (Arlington, VA), but as I stated earlier, the DC Area's dating scene is such utter shit, it's nearly non-effective.
-Being a black male, albeit a light skin one, makes me a bit more cautious of this move. Now I don't have a problem being in a predominantly white environment given that it's racially open-minded; for if the offer was in Seattle or Denver, I would be packing up my bags tonight. But given the location, I do have my reservations. However, what makes me less hesitant is the seething covert racism I constantly face in DC from these so-called liberals, with the worst offenders being yuppies who are around my age. Add that with the overt intra-racism I get from my so-called people for not acting "black enough", I'm about had it with DC and the East Coast in general. And needless to say, I'm not getting a lot of play from any sides of the racial fence.
So what would you all think the best strategy would be, specifically in the gaming chicks department? If worse comes to worse, I can just "keep my head down" figuratively speaking like I've been doing in the DMV and stack money until my contract is up and I can transfer to another place within the company. But ultimately, I would love a place I would be able to date and build a rotation of chicks, whether with social circle game, everyday interactions, nightlife, online, etc. Is that feasible even in a place like Salt Lake City?