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10-14-2014, 07:22 PM
^ you're good! What's your timeline as a member looking like for you?
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10-15-2014, 01:25 AM
Ok so now that we've drawn the lines on when letting her order food is a shit test through and through.
Where does team no appetizer stand on going to happy hour? I think its implied you'll get some apps if you invite her to there.
I think it would probably be best to take girls there also after the bang for other maintenance dates but I have also brought 1st dates there as the prices hedge the same.
I think the real skill is recognizing when its a shit test.
When its on your terms there is no room for shit tests.
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10-15-2014, 03:14 AM
I think for happy hour the rules are a little different. Since it's usually around dinner time I personally will suggest getting a plate of sliders or chicken strips to share. The issue of eating has been addressed and the cost is much lower. I think of it as a dinner hack, so to speak. All the perks of feeding her a meal but pennies on the dollar.
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Woman ordering appetizers on drink dates
10-15-2014, 02:25 PM
Quote: (10-15-2014 03:14 AM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:
I think for happy hour the rules are a little different. Since it's usually around dinner time I personally will suggest getting a plate of sliders or chicken strips to share. The issue of eating has been addressed and the cost is much lower. I think of it as a dinner hack, so to speak. All the perks of feeding her a meal but pennies on the dollar.
I am on Team NO Appetizers, however, happy hour rules may change things in my view.
You bring a valid point.
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10-19-2014, 04:11 AM
I don't get how it works in America but here in Australia if I'm taking a girl out for drinks we split the bill, I shout her once for drinks and she shouts me once for drinks. I don't see why a man would pay for a first date unless it was cut short like 1h. AND I specify too that this drink is on me and the other drink is on her. It's 2014 I've never had any girl disagree, if she did, I'd just tell her some bullshit about equality and feminism. \nLonger dates are the same specify that its your shout and her shout. The whole appetizer thing is bullshit, I'd never pay for a girls appetizer she's the one eating on a drink date.
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10-21-2014, 07:51 PM
I think I fucking jinxed myself with this thread. This girl i've been trying to meet up with is playing hardball and keeps throwing out 530pm meet up times. I'll jerk off before I'll buy this girl dinner.
#teamNOappertizers
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10-21-2014, 08:01 PM
^^^I just texted the same girl that I can't do 5:30pm because of a work dinner. I then asked her if we could do 7:30pm instead for drinks. She then replied 'idk if I can do that late'.
#teamNOappertizers
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10-21-2014, 09:38 PM
Quote: (10-21-2014 08:01 PM)The Wire Wrote:
^^^I just texted the same girl that I can't do 5:30pm because of a work dinner. I then asked her if we could do 7:30pm instead for drinks. She then replied 'idk if I can do that late'.
#teamNOappertizers
Gold digger.
You should meet up with her at 530 at a no-food locale having already eaten.
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10-22-2014, 09:40 PM
Who the dueces plans a first date at 5:30 anyway? I'm still having my after at work drinks with the guys at that time ..
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10-23-2014, 01:50 AM
I've field tested this extensively and found that 8:30pm was the sweet spot for drink dates.
It's too late for them to go without food, they are forced to eat at home and shower before the date. i.e. not coming straight from work all sweaty and stinky.
Also sets a time constraint on how long the date lasts as to not sit there for hours entertaining her.
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Woman ordering appetizers on drink dates
10-23-2014, 09:12 AM
I can't actually believe this thread is still going…around in circles.