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Dating Guide for Mainland China

Dating Guide for Mainland China

In Shijiazhuang, they actually knocked on my door at 3 or 4AM. I'd heard many stories about foreigners getting middle of the night door knocks and knew what it was, so I didn't answer the door, and my visitor left without being too insistent. I wanted to see what she looked like, but figured it was better off not to even begin an interaction. Probably one of the desk clerks gets tipped for letting them know the room number. This was not in an international hotel, but a decent Chinese hotel, FYI

Quote: (03-19-2015 07:18 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:  

Alot yes. Most? no. The sluts are pretty easy to find. Just watch out for high end pros in the hotels. That 8-10 that is dtf too easy might be one. They slide business cards under the doors.

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Strip away judeo-christian ethics ingraining sex is dirty/bad & the idea we're taking advantage of these girls disintegrates. Once you've lost that ethical quandary (which it isn't outside religion) then they've no reason to play the victim, you've no reason to feel the rogue. The interaction is to their benefit.
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If anyone ever knocked on my door at 3-4 night, I could not have heard it. Too tired or drunk. I did get a business card or two though. Yeah decent Chinese ones up to 5 star, they all seem to do it. You are also right about the staff tipping off the pros. Someone I know in Beijing told me that they do that as well.

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I'm staying at the IC here, so there's no hookers roaming around my floor. Obviously the girls are all DTF and love that I can actually communicate with them.

Had a girl meet me for lunch, and had another girl invite herself over to my room because she was craving foreign cock. She said she thought I was too sexy and couldn't control her desires. I was just hoping her pictures weren't photoshopped. I don't know why so many people complain about the food in China, but I always love eating everything I can get my hands on here.

China with dating apps and Mandarin is easier than the Philippines.

That screenshot I posted earlier is now up to over 700 girls interested in me. I'm guessing that's the number of girls that have already swiped right to me. 300+ a day isn't bad.

That being said, I'm going to die soon with this shitty air. Flying to Tianjin tomorrow night, then driving up to Tangshan next week.
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Quote: (03-19-2015 11:55 AM)elcidcampeador Wrote:  

I'm staying at the IC here, so there's no hookers roaming around my floor. Obviously the girls are all DTF and love that I can actually communicate with them.

Had a girl meet me for lunch, and had another girl invite herself over to my room because she was craving foreign cock. She said she thought I was too sexy and couldn't control her desires. I was just hoping her pictures weren't photoshopped. I don't know why so many people complain about the food in China, but I always love eating everything I can get my hands on here.

China with dating apps and Mandarin is easier than the Philippines.

That screenshot I posted earlier is now up to over 700 girls interested in me. I'm guessing that's the number of girls that have already swiped right to me. 300+ a day isn't bad.

That being said, I'm going to die soon with this shitty air. Flying to Tianjin tomorrow night, then driving up to Tangshan next week.





Yeah this app kicks ass lol. Spoof your gps location using an app and you can checkout cities before you get there. Ive been doing that here in Dalian, I get there monday and I have dozens of dates line up. In bigger cities it could be possible to get more pussy than ever thought humanely possible. Sadly not alot use it here in dalian. I see plenty of hot ones, but wechat still has more.
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I'm sure that in big but not international cities (no BJ or SH) it's even better. In BJ I think wechat is still the best and also Tinder, both locals (that speak a good English) and international girls.
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Personally I find China girls are materialistic and selfish, and that is not limited to one or two cities. They will jump to the next guy if they think he has more cash.
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Quote: (03-20-2015 12:22 AM)roid Wrote:  

Personally I find China girls are materialistic and selfish, and that is not limited to one or two cities. They will jump to the next guy if they think he has more cash.

Really? I cant say thats been my experience. Ive had 3 or 4 say that they wish I would marry them and be a stay at home husband. A girlfriend I had for awhile even asked me to quit my job so she could spend more time with me. They do move fast though.
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Quote: (03-20-2015 12:22 AM)roid Wrote:  

Personally I find China girls are materialistic and selfish, and that is not limited to one or two cities. They will jump to the next guy if they think he has more cash.

Really? I cant say thats been my experience. Ive had 3 or 4 say that they wish I would marry them and be a stay at home husband. A girlfriend I had for awhile even asked me to quite my job so she could spend more time with me. They do move fast though.
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Quote: (03-20-2015 12:22 AM)roid Wrote:  

Personally I find China girls are materialistic and selfish, and that is not limited to one or two cities. They will jump to the next guy if they think he has more cash.

This is a simplistic suggestion that offers no value to the forum. Like women from anywhere, Chinese women do not fall conveniently into one category.

You meet materialistic women here, you meet sweet, sensitive women here, you meet ugly women, hot women, stupid women, smart women, career women, homemaking women, short women, tall women, women with ass, women with boobs, women with no ass and no boobs, women with ass and boobs.

The mass generalization about Asian women, or even Chinese women, does no one any service.

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Quote: (03-20-2015 08:45 PM)Suits Wrote:  

Quote: (03-20-2015 12:22 AM)roid Wrote:  

Personally I find China girls are materialistic and selfish, and that is not limited to one or two cities. They will jump to the next guy if they think he has more cash.

This is a simplistic suggestion that offers no value to the forum. Like women from anywhere, Chinese women do not fall conveniently into one category.

You meet materialistic women here, you meet sweet, sensitive women here, you meet ugly women, hot women, stupid women, smart women, career women, homemaking women, short women, tall women, women with ass, women with boobs, women with no ass and no boobs, women with ass and boobs.

The mass generalization about Asian women, or even Chinese women, does no one any service.

http://qz.com/158282/china-may-actually-...the-world/
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Quote: (04-12-2015 06:51 AM)roid Wrote:  

http://qz.com/158282/china-may-actually-...the-world/

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According to that:

- Americans are less materialistic than the global average

- Japanese feel significantly less stress to succeed than the global average

"Chinese shoppers are the now world’s biggest buyers of luxury items, accounting for nearly a third of global purchases, according to consulting firm Bain & Co. Five years ago China accounted for little over 10% of global luxury purchases."

You don't say? A country with a population over one billion with a rapidly expanding economy buys more luxury goods than five years ago? Well, I'll be damned [Image: tard.gif]

For the record, I've never even been to China, but this poll seems to prove pretty much nothing.
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Quote: (04-12-2015 06:51 AM)roid Wrote:  

Quote: (03-20-2015 08:45 PM)Suits Wrote:  

Quote: (03-20-2015 12:22 AM)roid Wrote:  

Personally I find China girls are materialistic and selfish, and that is not limited to one or two cities. They will jump to the next guy if they think he has more cash.

This is a simplistic suggestion that offers no value to the forum. Like women from anywhere, Chinese women do not fall conveniently into one category.

You meet materialistic women here, you meet sweet, sensitive women here, you meet ugly women, hot women, stupid women, smart women, career women, homemaking women, short women, tall women, women with ass, women with boobs, women with no ass and no boobs, women with ass and boobs.

The mass generalization about Asian women, or even Chinese women, does no one any service.

http://qz.com/158282/china-may-actually-...the-world/

I'd agree that China may well be the most materialistic country in the world.

But damn it if I don't keep meeting dozens of women who aren't the slightest bit materialistic.

You see evidence of materialism here constantly. However, I've discovered that the assholes with the stupid designer purses are pretty easy to avoid.

In fact, it's the non-assholes who gravitate to me

China is a vast nation with a plenty of provinces. Living in Beijing, I encounter people from all over the country and live goals and perspectives vary wildly.

If you move to China, you'll have a lot of problems, but dealing with materialistic bitches probably won't be one of them.

I'm the King of Beijing!
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About to head to China in a month (Beijing to be exact) so can someone recommend a dating site to get my feet wet

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Menta, set your tinder and OKC in beijing and message a bunch of girls and see how they like it. That would be my first step.

I will be checking my PMs weekly, so you can catch me there. I will not be posting.
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Chinese love links, Chinalovematch if you want a more serious-like gal. Chnlove is inbetween. WeChat, and the tools Fortis said for other stuff.

And for the love of God stay away from DateinAsia.

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Quote: (04-12-2015 09:00 PM)Suits Wrote:  

Quote: (04-12-2015 06:51 AM)roid Wrote:  

Quote: (03-20-2015 08:45 PM)Suits Wrote:  

Quote: (03-20-2015 12:22 AM)roid Wrote:  

Personally I find China girls are materialistic and selfish, and that is not limited to one or two cities. They will jump to the next guy if they think he has more cash.

This is a simplistic suggestion that offers no value to the forum. Like women from anywhere, Chinese women do not fall conveniently into one category.

You meet materialistic women here, you meet sweet, sensitive women here, you meet ugly women, hot women, stupid women, smart women, career women, homemaking women, short women, tall women, women with ass, women with boobs, women with no ass and no boobs, women with ass and boobs.

The mass generalization about Asian women, or even Chinese women, does no one any service.

http://qz.com/158282/china-may-actually-...the-world/

I'd agree that China may well be the most materialistic country in the world.

But damn it if I don't keep meeting dozens of women who aren't the slightest bit materialistic.

You see evidence of materialism here constantly. However, I've discovered that the assholes with the stupid designer purses are pretty easy to avoid.

In fact, it's the non-assholes who gravitate to me

China is a vast nation with a plenty of provinces. Living in Beijing, I encounter people from all over the country and live goals and perspectives vary wildly.

If you move to China, you'll have a lot of problems, but dealing with materialistic bitches probably won't be one of them.

I forgot to reply to this.

There is alot of truth to that, but still there are enough materialistic bitches roaming all over China that can shock people to the core. Chinese practicality can be extremely shocking and such a turnoff to newbies with no clue. Quite a bit of that shit Badwolf used to say about Chinese women was true. You and I can spot them a mile away, but others may not. You and I have probably forgotten what it is like to even date one. Shanghai women are known for being the golddigger capital of China for a good reason.

Anyone's best defense is to just not give off a beta provider vibe and talk about LTR stuff and money at the beginning of meeting a woman. I honestly do not expect a regular and repped RVF member to break all these cardinal rules, but you never know who is lurking that may not have solid enough game not to do that.

Always get to know a woman first and keep it fun and light. Don't talk serious at first. Just because some are super serious and practical does not mean you should be falling into their trap. At every stage of the relationships you build, you should be checking to see if you are still the dog or the tail. Always be the dog.

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Well done Kai! Dude I mad found this thread after being in china 4 months already.

Currently bouncing between zhaoqing and zhuhai. I really enjoy zhuhai it's a well done city and macau is right over the river if you want western shit and good clubs.

Been here for work doing 70-90 hour weeks, therefore I haven't scored jack shit for flags. Got a "date" on Sunday with my receptionist where I work who's a 6/7 24 y/o with a huge ass (may not be everyone's style) and next Thursday with a 20 y/o solid 7 who wants to "practice English" with me. Met her gettin my hair cut at a salon, girls has legs and ass like a Brazilian I shit you guys not. She's hot and she knows it, so I have to play that one well and see how it goes. She insists on practicing English but when she met me she was fawning over how handsome I was and actually told me I'm more handsome than Paul Walker (I'm not RIP brother) so I should have that one in the bag. I have to try to get pics of legs/ass, she was wearin these booty shorts and it was driving me insane.

I will input this: whatever preconceived notions you have abou Chinese women (no curves, all look the same, no tits, no ass) you can throw them all out the fucking widow. There's a woman here that will suit anyone's tastes, and quite frankly, from my stateside experience I had no idea Chinese women could be so attractive. They also will approach you, at least in my experience. Good results from heavy eye contact as well they will hold your gaze.

I've just been so damn busy and frankly coming off a hugeeee dry streak so a lot I my time has been spent in Macau, If you catch my drift. Looking to 180 that over the next few weeks. Be here until start of July.

Anyone in zhuhai area? Shenzen isn't far away.
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I go to china town in NYC to game the Asians there sometimes. Today I asked about what kind of men they date and they replied with "I don't date outside my culture." Point being that Americans have to fight a rising wave when dating Chinese girls. That's why it helps to be familiar with their culture so as to assimilate yourself and look like you're one of them. An insider - not an outsider.


Proof at 1:20
"I don't date outside my culture."



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Quote: (07-17-2015 01:21 AM)Cupid_Player Wrote:  

I go to china town in NYC to game the Asians there sometimes. Today I asked about what kind of men they date and they replied with "I don't date outside my culture." Point being that Americans have to fight a rising wave when dating Chinese girls. That's why it helps to be familiar with their culture so as to assimilate yourself and look like you're one of them. An insider - not an outsider.
Proof at 1:20

"I don't date outside my culture."




So this what you PUA guys do? Walk around in broad daylight asking women holding their kids if they want to go fuck you and insulting people because of their culture?

How the hell did your generation get like this? Who told you to act like this?
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Damn the trolls have leveled up.

It's like someone has given them special food.

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Quote: (07-17-2015 01:21 AM)Cupid_Player Wrote:  

I go to china town in NYC to game the Asians there sometimes. Today I asked about what kind of men they date and they replied with "I don't date outside my culture." Point being that Americans have to fight a rising wave when dating Chinese girls. That's why it helps to be familiar with their culture so as to assimilate yourself and look like you're one of them. An insider - not an outsider.

Because no woman has ever said one thing and then done another.

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If anyone is travelling to zhuhai city, stay in novotel gongbei area. Logistics are fucking perfect, it's in a brand new shopping area that's very well done and quite busy. Day game options are wndlesa, Chinese and western food around, 2-3 bars and clubs, and lots of chicks. Hotel is smack dab in the center of it. Great spot.
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Quote: (07-17-2015 04:27 AM)Jetlagged Wrote:  

If anyone is travelling to zhuhai city, stay in novotel gongbei area. Logistics are fucking perfect, it's in a brand new shopping area that's very well done and quite busy. Day game options are wndlesa, Chinese and western food around, 2-3 bars and clubs, and lots of chicks. Hotel is smack dab in the center of it. Great spot.

I lived in Zhongshan, just north of Zhuhai my first year in China. This was 2005, but still Zhuhai was a nice city and fun to hang out in. The one thing that weirded me out was the amount of pay for play there on the street, pros walked around everywhere. I think a lot of that has been cleaned up in the last few years everywhere in China.

Maybe this late fall / winter when its a bit cooler I will have to swing back down there and check it out, see how Zhongshan has changed.
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Quote: (07-17-2015 01:21 AM)Cupid_Player Wrote:  

I go to china town in NYC to game the Asians there sometimes. Today I asked about what kind of men they date and they replied with "I don't date outside my culture." Point being that Americans have to fight a rising wave when dating Chinese girls. That's why it helps to be familiar with their culture so as to assimilate yourself and look like you're one of them. An insider - not an outsider.


Proof at 1:20
"I don't date outside my culture."



Just a gentle reminder. This thread is about dating Chinese women inside China. If you read my guide, you would see that noted. If you want to discuss picking up Chinese women domestically you might want to start your own thread. Probably in the game subforum, at that. Using the information in my guide and in this thread will not guarantee success dating them domestically in the US or other Western places.

I would also recommend learning game basics in the game and newbie area to avoid the kinds of responses you are getting in that video and how to learn better target selection skills.

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That was the most pathetic and most cringe worthy video I've seen in a long time. I couldn't get past 10 seconds. It's clowns like these that are giving us all a bad rep.

This is why I don't want to do anything with "PUA" guys. At all!



Quote: (07-17-2015 01:21 AM)Cupid_Player Wrote:  

I go to china town in NYC to game the Asians there sometimes. Today I asked about what kind of men they date and they replied with "I don't date outside my culture." Point being that Americans have to fight a rising wave when dating Chinese girls. That's why it helps to be familiar with their culture so as to assimilate yourself and look like you're one of them. An insider - not an outsider.


Proof at 1:20
"I don't date outside my culture."


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