[UlteriorMotive]

I can't remember who posted it but the line "We've only really just met and you're already telling me about your problems" has worked well for me. Coupled with a smirk and change of subject.

[lowside]

All true. Rule of thumb: The more se mentions her boyfriend at the date the better your chances of banging.

[Hardy Daytona]

I've had the boyfriend line thrown at me more times than I can remember.
One response that's served me well is "And I had exams when I was in school...........Oh, I thought we were talking about things we can cheat on."

[coverdoc]

I still use the line one of the forum members said: " That's nice, I have a goldfish."

[JoeMusashi]

Hey mate, she will be home a week later.



(j/k - check my flag )

[Dalaran1991]

Wait, you guys are saying if girls keep bringing up her BF during the date there s still a chance of banging her? Normally i thought this = abort mission

[Captain Gh]

Just make sure to treat her like the Ho she is as in we have to be fucking really soon or you won't ever be seeing me again! No Day 4 or 5 with her. At the max maybe a Day 3 and that's it. Preferably 1st Date Bang if you can or a Day 2 Bang.

She already has a BF that probably paid for her flight and all. And regarding the response you're thinking about you are definitely overplaying it in your head. You can use the sample responses that you've received from this thread but that's a sign that you need to work on your spontaneity and congruity to express what you really feel since you would have froze in the field.

My sample response would be: Well I'm just feeling really comfortable with you so far and wanna see where this goes as I get to know you better! And as you get close to LMR never speak ill of her boyfriend, just tell her to let herself feel the emotion that she has for you and to let it be as an adventure to be discovered til you get the Bang. Good Luck

[TravelerKai]

(02-15-2015 09:37 PM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:  

Wait, you guys are saying if girls keep bringing up her BF during the date there s still a chance of banging her? Normally i thought this = abort mission

Only abort if she does it so much to the point that she is using you to vent and complain about him which can quickly put you in the friendzone. Anytime she does it, gently redirect her back into staying on topic (You and her). If she cannot resist, then make a strong play:

A powerful touch/pinch/grab on her ass or something and pull her in close and tell her something sweeping and direct. Maybe even a kiss.

Have strong frame and confidence. She will get wet. Even if she says wait wait, let's slow down. Then give her 10 mins or so, then make another strong play. If you do not get her then, it might take either more cooking for a second or third date, but many players would drop her if it goes to that. I would not if you can see her control slipping away in her eyes and you just need more time to break that other dude's grip.

[LAX]

What Kai said...

1. Keep in communication while she is away. In 1 week you will be a distant memory. Shoot some short texts maybe asking how Italy is etc...if she is responding despite being with this bf good sign...
2. There's a special kind of girl that loves attention and orbiters despite having a bf. Since her bf long distance, she could love having locals dudes drop that attention on her. Don't be that guy by making SURE you escalate and time constraint. Make sure you touch and sexualize hard if you get to hanging and if you don't bang by the 3rd hang don't waste More time.

"Oh, he must be a 'nice guy' " is one I like to use due to the subliminal messaging it conveys. Just say it and keep forging ahead w/o missing a beat

Good luck