Quote: (11-15-2013 02:39 PM)devilution Wrote:
JJG - dude you trolling, this whole ladyboy thing has been offtopic and blown up in my thread. I've ignored it coz some guys might find the info on avoiding lbs useful but if you wanna spar with Rio go PM him.
Devilution:
As you seem to concede, Ladyboy was a topic that came up in this thread (NOT by me), and being able to identify ladyboys is related to experiences that guys may have when maneuvering in Thailand and even considering such maneuvering - even though, likely and admittedly, the issue of ladyboys would be less of an issue for some guy who would be targeting tourists (like you).
However, even you have admitted that you may chose NOT to be exclusive in your considerations and your targeting of tourists b/c of how it has been playing out for you. Nonetheless, ladyboys can be a topic for guys in your situation or guys in similar situations as well when ladyboys seem to be part of many of the mixes of guys interactions with various "girls" in Thailand.
As you may know, many RVF threads have quasi side tangents that relate to the initial subject of the thread, and some of this side-tracking takes place b/c the forum is composed of a large number of guys who have the ability to chip in to the thread, if they feel that they can profit from or contribute to such chipping in, and in that regard, the OP may NOT own the complete direction of the thread b/c it is an evolving discussion.
In any event, I cannot see my few postings related to ladyboys as trolling b/c those postings that you seem to be referring to are also attempts to contribute to the direction of the conversation related to the thread - even though YOU seem to NOT like my contribution(s), and accordingly, YOU seem to want to denigrate such contribution b/c it does NOT fit within YOUR conception of a contribution.
If you want to further discuss these ideas with me, then I welcome your PMing me, rather than suggesting or even directly asserting within the public thread an incorrect characterization that I am engaged in some sort of nefarious activity.
I hope you understand that if you make your statements publicly to me (which YOU chose to do), then I am boxed into responding publicly.
Regarding the subject matter of your thread, it seems that several guys here have continued to provide you with various feedback about how to potentially bring more success, and I am also of the sense along with several of the suggestions that likely you need to be a little more flexible in your target group, and likely in that way potentially more tourist chicks may flow naturally into your direction.
So, for example, if you find some Thai chicks that are receptive to you, you can still play around with those Thai chicks for social proof in getting the attention of your intended tourist chick targets. Frequently any girls are more interested in guys who seem to have girls around him (and options available to him) rather than if girls had been considering you as being by yourself and/or NOT having options.
So in that regard, we frequently want to project to our target (whether tourist or NOT) that we have bang options in the event that she does NOT take the bait and go with me to bang. In business it is called improving your BATNA.