Quote: (08-12-2011 11:35 AM)truthnobs Wrote:
Quote: (08-12-2011 09:34 AM)gig Wrote:
Quote: (05-28-2010 02:01 AM)madmongol Wrote:
forget it if you look whack.
No offense but I see a lot of asian guys who dress like they just returned from a week of labor in the fields and also behave really awkward (seen them traveling, in hostels). Then they go about complaining that 'girls don't like asians'.
Show me a western guy who dresses and behaves like that, and I promise you he'll get rejected all the same if not worse.
Zero to do with being Asian and everything to do with being weird and neglected.
Dress nice, act normal. It's basic really. If you can afford traveling you can definitely afford 2 decent shirts and normal behavior.
In theory, this should work... but reality is more complicated than that.
This is my first post... I am an Asian-American male, probably older than most of you... I'm 42 but look 10-15 years younger. i have gotten looks of astonishment when I tell people my real age... My hair is starting to show some grey hair but it's still dark black and you can only see the grey if you look very closely. I don't look or act like a stereotypical dorky Asian guy. I am 6 feet, in good shape physically and I dress and groom myself well...
Anyway, I am in Thailand now... in Koh Phagnan for the Full Moon Party. I'm going to tell you my experience with Euro girls here in Thailand... IMO if you are Asian-American male, your chances of scoring with Euro girls are not good.
European girls may be polite to you... or not. Your looks, good manners, pick up skills won't matter much. Generally Euro girls are not interested in Asian men for flings or romance... at least in Thai islands here. They are not lonely or desperate here. They are usually with other female/male friends... BKK might be different story...
Maybe some Asian males are master PUAs and will have different results... I am not PUA but I learned a lot of PUA tactics... am only speaking for myself, but I consider myself a good looking guy with good talking skills... results with Thai women are the opposite. My advice for asian guys in Thailand: forget Euro girls... a waste of time. Go after Thai girls. Better to speak Thai first before you do.
WOW.
Okay, where should I start....
My ensuing diatribe is a bit ironic, considering I used to post race-specific questions and information, but stuff like this is a bit ridiculous. I've since done a U-turn on being so race-conscious and it's only helped me.
I rarely, if ever, post game stuff on this forum - I don't consider it an area in which I can really add value,
but as an Asian guy this comment struck a nerve. I'm getting pretty irked at all the victim-mentality Asian guy bullshit that has posted recently.
Okay, onto this post.
I think there is no better spot than Thailand, Bangkok or islands, to hook up with a Euro girl. Think about it - she's away from her social circle, partying like crazy, and in a generally carefree environment. There really is no better time to strike and race has little to do with it.
If you are a tall, fit, and groomed guy who can't get laid, then your lack of women stems from other areas. Don't blame your race. I am 5'9 (not tall), stocky (not very fit), groomed Asian guy and I get laid by Asian, American, and Euro chicks (lately Thai chicks because I was in Bangkok for two months).
You also definitely don't need to speak Thai to get action in Bangkok. Don't tell Asian guys that they should give up on European women. What a terrible attitude.
-How many girls did you open since you've been in Thailand?
Be honest.
-What were you doing during the full moon festival? Were you hitting on girls and dancing? Or were you by yourself, sipping on a beer and
being angry about being an Asian guy?
-You mentioned that girls tend to be in groups/cliques.
Did you try opening any groups and befriending these people? Or did you see that hot chicks were in groups and then decide it's not worth it to even try?
MY ADVICE FOR ASIAN GUYS IN THAILAND:
1 - Before you come, buy some sick summer wear:
http://www.kinowear.com/blog/kinowear-st...ebel-class
2 - If you're in Bangkok, go to Siam Paragon, walk up to girls (Caucasian/Thai/African/Whatever), and tell them that you're a Korean/Japanese/Chinese-American guy and think she's really cute. Tell her about where you are from and that you are visiting some friends in the city. Then ask her questions about herself.
You know, have a conversation. If you're not a creep and are wearing threads like those posted above, you will have an obscenely high success rate. You don't even need game in Thailand.
It's like Devry University. Just show up (and bring your cock).
3 - Invite the hottest girl you meet and her friends out to SNOP in Ratchada and get a table with a bottle. This will cost you maybe 40 bucks. Get them drunk and have a sloppy makeout session with the chick you opened, or maybe her friend if her friend is hotter.
4 - Go make little Japanese-Thai/French/Swedish babies with this new chick.
No wait, wear a condom, you're in Bangkok.
OPPORTUNITIES TO GET HOT SLOPPY BJ'S MULTIPLY AS THEY ARE SEIZED.