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Quote: (12-20-2012 06:10 PM)SnakeEyes Wrote:  

Quote: (12-20-2012 06:03 PM)Alpha Hunter Zero Wrote:  

What are her interests that you know of, does she drink, and what time does dinner at friend's house end?


Fuck that. OP what are your interests? I've taken girls to the beach at midnight and laid out two blankets. One for the sand and one to hide under.

OP each time u do something she wants to do you never let yourself come out. Shit man take charge and act like you know what u like. Ur wishy washy and u act like everything is fine no matter what it is. Where's ur passion?!

Maybe I will just see if she wants to go bowling just the two of us and wait until open bowl starts at 10. Im just going to be one tired motherfucker in the morning.

Edit but yes I agree with you snake eyes I should do something that I like and am comfortable with!

uhhh I guess my only passion is being fucking lazy which I wont tell her that. I also dont want to be out too late because I have work at 5 am in the morning but if push comes to shove and it is either get laid or have no sleep I will pass on the sleep and get laid.

I dont want to be boring and typical and say something like the movies and its getting down to about 30 degrees fehrenheidt at night so we cant really do anything much outside.
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#77

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U got an excuse for everything on why u cant do something.

People never leave the house or safety of indoors when it's winter?
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#78

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lol @ snakeyes- While you may have a point or two there, you deserved that response. You've been like a groundhog on this thread. You only pop up periodically & when you do it's with some out of the blue responses. How long have you been practicing game & how long has murrb been practicing game? That fact alone is enough to settle this. What works for you won't necessarily work for him. You (I assume) have a basic foundation for your game & style, murrb doesnt. He's going to have to crawl first before he can walk & run. Your advice to him is liking telling a guy who just learned the basics & safety procedures of shooting a handgun 20 mins ago to now go handle a machine gun turret. It jus aint gonna happen.
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#79

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Quote: (12-20-2012 06:44 PM)Alpha Hunter Zero Wrote:  

lol @ snakeyes- While you may have a point or two there, you deserved that response. You've been like a groundhog on this thread. You only pop up periodically & when you do it's with some out of the blue responses. How long have you been practicing game & how long has murrb been practicing game? That fact alone is enough to settle this. What works for you won't necessarily work for him. You (I assume) have a basic foundation for your game & style, murrb doesnt. He's going to have to crawl first before he can walk & run. Your advice to him is liking telling a guy who just learned the basics & safety procedures of shooting a handgun 20 mins ago to now go handle a machine gun turret. It jus aint gonna happen.

Yes I am what you would call a noob but I am enjoying all the advice and will keep it in the bank for whenever it may come in handy.
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#80

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Murrb- that was the wrong way to answer about your passions. Let me ask you something. Do you wanna do well with women, do you wanna learn how to figure them out, DO YOU WANT TO LEARN HOW TO FUCK THEM? If so, then you're going to have to stop being so lazy. Sitting around and twiddling your thumbs while watching tv &reading internet forums isn't going to get you very far. You have to put in practice what you read here. While I applaud you putting yourself out there you really can't count these recent events as beneficial experience. They've been group dates and staged ones at that. You need 1 on 1 interactions without outside influences to really begin learning and gaining experience.
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#81

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Lol I'm just gettin him to breakout of his shell by poking holes in all his excuses.

Do 50 pushups, get the blood pumping, put on some fun music, and then think everything all over again
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#82

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Ok I will hit the gym real quick before I get cleaned up and contemplate life as Im working the abs and try to visulize the nutella on the booty!

ABC!!!!!!!!!!
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#83

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[quote='SnakeEyes' pid='331578' dateline='1356048138']
Lol I'm just gettin him to breakout of his shell by poking holes in all his excuses.

Do 50 pushups, get the blood pumping, put on some fun music, and then think everything all over again
***Neither of us is there personally (or even any other forum member for that matter) to motivate murrb. Like I previously mentioned he's new to this and this current situation of his isnt helping things along.
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#84

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Quote: (12-20-2012 07:11 PM)murrb Wrote:  

Ok I will hit the gym real quick before I get cleaned up and contemplate life as Im working the abs and try to visulize the nutella on the booty!

ABC!!!!!!!!!!
Now we're talkin!!!!

After that take her ass ice skating (assuming u know how) for some fun
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#85

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Went bowling
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#86

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she was DTF, damn. God damn I'm frustrated for you hahaha

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#87

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What should I text her today to try and keep it going? I dont think all hope is lost but we will see....
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#88

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She ASKED to hang out longer and you took her to the casino? Wow.

Fuck her in your car, fuck her in the handicapped stall of a bathroom, fuck her in an alley but when a girl asks to hang out LATE AT NIGHT THAT MEANS THEY WANT THE COCK. Last night I had a chick text me the following:

Her: This party is lame. Going home to cuddle with my pillows
Me: Your pillows?
Her: I guess : (
Me: Hit me up when u get home
Her: ok : )
Her: But we can just cuddle ok? I have to get up early for work

SIDE NOTE: she is SHIT TESTING ME

Me: Parking wake ur ass up

Within 5 minutes of getting in her bed was fucking. Women can be subtle. Plow through.
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#89

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[quote='murrb' pid='331874' dateline='1356086127']
forever a beta! fuck

we went bowling alone. we only had 30 minutes before they closed so we busted outa game real quick then we drove back to her car and I dropped her off. Then about 5 minutes later she calls me up and says "hey want to hang out longer?"

Apparently she had called her girlfriend who was supposed to still be awake to see if she could stay at her house because she didn't want to drive all the way back home. Then I said "well lets get a hotel" then she was like "haha uhhh" I should have pushed it more but it didn't sound like she wanted to so we just went to the casino for 3 hours and gambled and gota free voucher for a buffet.

Overall I am a bitch pretty much.
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#90

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I just texted her and we are going back to the casino tonight to eat the buffet with the vouchers we earned last night since they are only good for 24 hours.
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#91

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One more [Image: facepalm.png] Fatal mistake there. You just showed her you're fucking cheap. Seriously, consult us here before you do anything else.
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#92

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No longer cheap
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#93

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Last night she was talking about going to this place where you drive through it for like 20 minutes and just look at all the christmas lights. So maybe after dinner I will try to see if she wants to go there. It is about 30 minutes or so from both of our houses so maybe I can try to seal the deal after the christmas lights.
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#94

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Dinner went really good and the best part was she was asking me about some of the food on my plate and I told her it was some white cheddar (it was really horseradish sauce) and I took a big spoon up it and fed it to her. I didn't realize how hot the stuff was because I was only taking little bites of it with my turkey but her face turned super red and she spit it all out!

There was an older couple next to us and the women got really fucking pissed at me becasue I did it and called me a jerk. hahahahaha
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#95

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Quote: (12-22-2012 12:34 AM)murrb Wrote:  

Dinner went really good and the best part was she was asking me about some of the food on my plate and I told her it was some white cheddar (it was really horseradish sauce) and I took a big spoon up it and fed it to her. I didn't realize how hot the stuff was because I was only taking little bites of it with my turkey but her face turned super red and she spit it all out!

There was an older couple next to us and the women got really fucking pissed at me becasue I did it and called me a jerk. hahahahaha

Haha your signature says it all. [Image: smile.gif]
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#96

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My cheap ass also got her to pay the tip. All I had was $100 bill convenentielly and I knew she would have tons of small bills from tips so I busted out my 100 and asked if she could break it down for me for the tip but it was more of a pain the ass so she just left the tip.

Cheap Guy Tip #1 always bring really large bills so you cant be bothered to pay tips.
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#97

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Quote: (12-17-2012 08:01 AM)murrb Wrote:  

Plus remember I have no logistics!

My friend, I took the liberty of reading this whole thread before putting my two cents in. I have notice in my short time being a forum MEMBER that advice is not followed here to the extent that it needs to be. When I first started reading this thread I would make novice mistakes. These mistakes might seem small to a novice but to a more advance player they are detrimental. You are doing various things wrong.

1-If you don't have your logistic tight might as well not fight.(This was explained here by a VETERAN in the game http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-8681.html

2-Don't ever, ever, ever, ever do group dates. You want to fuck right? RIGHT! This girl doesn't want to just fuck. You have to see through this. Already 2 people you commonly know are involved in your relationship. She is NOT going to fuck with you and then let you live your live as a player afterwards. She will tell your "friends" wife how much of a jerk you are... blah blah blah.. and you will eventually end up with a bigger problem on your hand. WHEN HAVE YOU HEARD A VETERAN PLAYER DOING GROUP DATES?

3-You are obviously not escalating like you need to. There should be any reason as to why you can't do KINO on anytype of date. If you are not touching her previously what makes you think she will let you touch her afterward?

4-You are giving this girl too much attention. You have already showed her that you are committed to taking her out, eating, casino, bowling, all of this and you have't even mention seeing her pussy yet. You haven't mentioned gaming other girls.

5-Your mindset is fucking you up. You believe your beta therefore you will always be beta.

6- You need to work on your basic skills of gaming. Right now there is no way your going to get a bang on a constant basis with this type of game. I suggest you work on your building attraction game. Work on getting numbers. Go out and approach, approach, approach. Go out on all the dates you can. This will give you a lot of experience on how to build attraction fast.

Quote: (12-19-2012 08:05 PM)murrb Wrote:  

I feel like this chick is coming onto me hard. Probably the hardest I have ever had a chick come onto me without having had sex. I wonder what this means?

She just turned 21. Her friend (who is 21) and my friend who is 24 just got married and had a kid already Im hoping she doesn't think I am like my friend and want to get married and have a kid super fast.

I talked to her on the phone for about 15 minutes while she blabbed away telling me about herself yadda yadda then she had a customer so I had an out and told her my phone was almost dead. Then she texts me back "Call me whenver you want"

Then about an hour later my friends wife texts me saying "woo! woo! she is diggin you!"

We are going on our third group date tomorrow night. I tried to make it a solo date with the girl but somehow things changed and not by my choice!

I feel like after two group dates I should've gotten the bang but still nothing. Both times I have had an oppurtunity at the end of the night. I wonder if she is purposely giving herself an out at the end of the night so I can't make the move?

This is the reason

2-Don't ever, ever, ever, ever do group dates. You want to fuck right? RIGHT! This girl doesn't want to just fuck. You have to see through this. Already 2 people you commonly know are involved in your relationship. She is NOT going to fuck with you and then let you live your live as a player afterwards. She will tell your "friends" wife how much of a jerk you are... blah blah blah.. and you will eventually end up with a bigger problem on your hand. WHEN HAVE YOU HEARD A VETERAN PLAYER DOING GROUP DATES?

Quote: (12-21-2012 04:03 PM)murrb Wrote:  

I just texted her and we are going back to the casino tonight to eat the buffet with the vouchers we earned last night since they are only good for 24 hours.

Stop the bleeding man. Don't keep doing this to yourself. Go out solo to your CLOSEST bar and approach girls.

If you haven't read bang then read it. If you have re-read it. Your game can improve but THIS situation is not going to help you improve your game. Going out tonight to a bar close to you and approaching like a maniac with ROOSH openers will. DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT do you own type of openers. You have no game, so follow someone else's game.

I hope you can take this advice, because even if you don't I would still be alpha and continue to improve in my game and bang girls like never before.(THINK ABOUT IT)
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#98

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I agree I am giving her too much attention and Im going to not call or text her at all anymore.

I also agree that my openers suck

I think my best move could be to move out of my house and let my mom just live here and rent an apartment or something like that.

I can afford to do it but I'm just really cheap and I dont want to spend the money but if I'm not getting laid it also really sucks.
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I think we're being trolled

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Quote: (12-22-2012 04:38 PM)bonkers Wrote:  

I think we're being trolled

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What about me is trollish? haha
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