[Teddykgb]

I think I fucked it up bad! My friends wife tagged me in her fb conversation and she said to the girl "looks like you have a date for the christmas party" and she replied "hahahaha no I definaltely didn't unless you mean your son" (which is like a 2 month year old)

fuck oh well it was worht a shot

[Teddykgb]

I think I might have been paying to much attention to the other girl because I got in a deep conversation with her for 15 - 20 minutes while everyone else was talking. She also showed attention quite a few times and I didn't really escalate!

[bojangles]

man you're thinking too much.

Read Roissy 2008-2009.

[Alpha Hunter Zero]

Have you learned nothing from your time on RooshV Forum? Facebook will always work against you, no matter the situation.

[Teddykgb]

(12-13-2012 04:21 PM)Alpha Hunter Zero Wrote:  

Have you learned nothing from your time on RooshV Forum? Facebook will always work against you, no matter the situation.

I didn't add the girls to my account but I have had my friends wife as a friend for awhile not thinking of this but the other girls cant see my page or anything but I was just tagged in the thing so I started reading their conversation between each other.

[Alpha Hunter Zero]

Keep this as a tip for future reference- if there is any chance you will meet a potential girl or are dating one already always ALWAYS remember to deactivate your Facebook account temporarily. These days all a girl has to do is go search online to find out your information. Some guys make the search even easier by posting all their sensitive information & even a real picture on Facebook. One click & you've basically handed out your identity & life story. Even if your profile is private, a stranger who has mutual friends can always find info on you through them. Do yourself a favor & dont make it so easy for them. If a mutual friend or someone else you know asks why you deactivated your account simply tell them. "Im currently pursuing other interests right now and Facebook was taking up too much of my time so I decided to get rid of it temporarily." Simple as that.

[bojangles]

or you can restrict your profile and photos, which is easily done as well.

[Teddykgb]

(12-14-2012 06:18 AM)bojangles Wrote:  

or you can restrict your profile and photos, which is easily done as well.

Yeah my profile is blocked unless you are my friend.

[SnakeEyes]

(12-14-2012 07:08 AM)murrb Wrote:  

(12-14-2012 06:18 AM)bojangles Wrote:  

or you can restrict your profile and photos, which is easily done as well.

Yeah my profile is blocked unless you are my friend. The girl tried adding me yesterday but im going to at least wait it out until sunday and just say "sorry I dont log on very often"

Don't even apologize. Apologies are for when you're 100% in the wrong. Just act as its normal for a friend request to take a couple days

[Teddykgb]

ok I hung out things went pretty good. I didn't push the pace very much because it was a no alcohol christmas dinner. I just accepted her friends request and she sent me this right away

"Hey I had fun with you tonight, thank you so much for being my date! I'd love to hang out again soon, maybe go bowling with (myfriend) and (hiswife)? I really wanna get to know you more text me if you want, xxx-xxx-xxxx

what should i respond with?

[SnakeEyes]

A double date again?? Isolate brah

[Alpha Hunter Zero]

Looks like she's still only comfortable with a group date.... but that can be easily fixed . Set up a date and time but don't mention your friend or his wife and see if she takes the hint. Text her this- "Bowling huh? Okay but just a fair warning, I've been known to get quite a few perfect games every now and then lol. How does next Wednesday @ 7pm sound?" (You can edit to whatever day and time works for you as long as it isnt Friday or Saturday. Those days are normally reserved for your main girl but we don't want her thinking she's a high priority on your list and/or the only girl you're dating, at least not for now.)

[bojangles]

^this the above is brilliant

[Teddykgb]

I had a perfect oppurtunity for kino but only realized it on my drive home. I thiink I definately need to get some touching involved on a group date if I can ever get her on a isolated date.

Plus remember I have no logistics!

since i had to think on my feet I texted her this

Me: I could get used to having dinner bought for me. Maybe I will swing by your coffee stand tomorrow and get that drink you were telling me about.

her: haha I'll ask bossman to buy you dinner every night as long as I get to join you (this has shit test written all over it?)

Me: Food coma! Im going to pass out. Have fun sleeping in

Her: Ok I will talk to you later


Edit this girl went to college and she is one of those girls with 700 friends on fb!

[Alpha Hunter Zero]

A few errors in the text exchange but I'll get to that. First, how much time passed between the date & when you first sent that text? Second, try to consult us here as often as possible before texting anything to her. Now for the text exchange. While your 1st text was funny it kind of put you down. Let's dissect-"I could get used to having dinner bought for me". Kind of funny, but it sort of gives off a weak vibe in the sense that you can't provide for yourself & are always expecting her to pay for you. Even though that clearly isnt your intention it's one way she can translate that sentence.

[Teddykgb]

I stopped by her stand today after work and she hooked me up with a free coffee but I gave her a $5 tip. I hate coffee but this was actually really good. We talked for about 10 minutes while she was working the other window on her coffee stand and she said she is going to set up a bowling date with (my friends wife and him) and then she got really busy so I took off.

Im going to somehow incorporate "I want to spread nutella all over your booty" to her in the next conversation.

I wonder if I should just shooot her a random text saying "I want to spread nutella all over your booty" would come across?

[Alpha Hunter Zero]

The next part of your 1st text sent to her-"Maybe I will swing by your coffee stand tomorrow and get that drink you were telling me about". Too needy in my opinion. You've just had a "semi-date" with her, if you want to call it that, and already you're talking about spending time with her the next day. This translates to her that despite such a short time you have already placed her as high value/importance on your list. If that sentence had been re-written as " I'll try to swing by your coffee stand sometime and get that drink you were telling me about." it would have given you a lot more value. It would have let her know that #1. you're a busy guy & your time is precious. #2. She'll be lucky if she sees you. #3. You're not giving her an exact date or time giving you some sense of mystery as well as element of surprize. Let a few days (2-4) pass by before re-initiating contact w/her in order to set up a date. Take her up on that bowling offer.

[Alpha Hunter Zero]

Damn, just read your post Murrb. All I can say is AH FUCK.

[Teddykgb]

I'm friendzoning myself qucker than I can type!

haha

She just text me thanking me for stopping by her stand and said she hoped I liked the coffee.

I texted back "i poured it out once I got down the road"

then she texted " wow what a jerk lol"

then I texted "i actually liked it but now I have a caffeine high"

then she said "haha well considering you dont drink coffee and I gave you two shots of that whichi equals 4 shots I should have warned you

I think I will text backk "I have so much energy I want to spread nutella on your booty now" should i send it?

[bonkers]

@murrb: Alpha Hunter Zero is on the money here. Listen to the man

@Alpha Hunter Zero: thanks for breaking things down.

[Teddykgb]

(12-17-2012 08:48 PM)bonkers Wrote:  

@murrb: Alpha Hunter Zero is on the money here. Listen to the man

@Alpha Hunter Zero: thanks or breaking things down.

what do you think about the vitalyzd nutella on the booty line? will it be funny or just come off too needy?

[bonkers]

(12-17-2012 08:49 PM)murrb Wrote:  

(12-17-2012 08:48 PM)bonkers Wrote:  

@murrb: Alpha Hunter Zero is on the money here. Listen to the man

@Alpha Hunter Zero: thanks or breaking things down.

what do you think about the vitalyzd nutella on the booty line? will it be funny or just come off too needy?

nah - it would be too needy pre-bang IMO. post-bang - definitely.

I think you need to back off on the texting. It sounds like she's somewhat interested in you, so basically don't fuck it up by being too needy

IMO, a group second date wouldn't be the end of the world, but you really have to isolate after that.

I'm still a newbie though and I have fucked up many a time, so you might want to wit for the more experienced cats to weigh in here.

[Teddykgb]

(12-17-2012 08:54 PM)bonkers Wrote:  

(12-17-2012 08:49 PM)murrb Wrote:  

(12-17-2012 08:48 PM)bonkers Wrote:  

@murrb: Alpha Hunter Zero is on the money here. Listen to the man

@Alpha Hunter Zero: thanks or breaking things down.

what do you think about the vitalyzd nutella on the booty line? will it be funny or just come off too needy?

nah - it would be too needy pre-bang IMO. post-bang - definitely.

I think you need to back off on the texting. It sounds like she's somewhat interested in you, so basically don't fuck it up by being too needy

IMO, a group second date wouldn't be the end of the world, but you really have to isolate after that.

I'm still a newbie though and I have fucked up many a time, so you might want to wit for the more experienced cats to weigh in here.

yeah im done texting

i have memorized some rules. like always give half back to whatever she gives you for the most part

she sent me 4 texts i sent back 2

now im just thinking how funny it would be if she somehow stumbled upon this shit and knew I was putting this much thought into it hahaha

[Alpha Hunter Zero]

DONT FUCKING SEND THAT DAMN NUTELLA TEXT!

[Teddykgb]

(12-17-2012 09:01 PM)Alpha Hunter Zero Wrote:  

DONT FUCKING SEND THAT DAMN NUTELLA TEXT!

Yea Im glad I didn't yet. I definately want to use that line but I will wait. Maybe when we go bowling and she goes up to throw the ball I will yell "I want to spread nutella all over that booty!"