[Katdogbirdduck]

(01-03-2015 07:13 PM)Seadog Wrote:  

(01-03-2015 04:49 PM)Katdogbirdduck Wrote:  

It's weird that Indonesia is brought to the forum, aren't Indonesian girls quite conservative compared to for instance Philippine or Chinese girls?

Having lived there for 2.5 years all over the country, I would say there are a lot of similarities to the US. It's a huge country, but poor, so you get many backwater places where people aren't educated, superstitious, highly religious, and very closed communities. These places generally wont have bars or even alcohol available, and even if a woman is attracted to you, she wont let things progress because of what she thinks others will think. Think small towns/cities in the southern US if a Muslim came there for work.

In bigger centres with better educated people and a higher standard of living (Jakarta, Bali) religion plays a much smaller role. You still have your religious folks who go to prayer 5 x a day, but it's overshadowed by a huge expat community, and locals who have penetrated in for a mutual win-win. You have the money, they know the lay of the land. Many people in these places, while Muslim, are more like how the average maybe not American, but Canadian/Brit is Christian. Doesn't go to the mosque, drinks on occasion, is a Muslim in title, but doesn't necessarily buy into it fully. I brought home one girl in Surabaya once who had a foreign bf, we went to the bar, brought her back, slept with her, and we're still decent friends talking occasionally. She explained to me months later that she wouldn't get married to a foreigner unless they converted to Islam, because it's very important to her and her family. (while booze, smoking, cheating, and premarital sex were fine). Muslim Hamster.

Man. that's exactly what I dislike, religious hypocrisy of people like them.

[Jake]

I spent two weeks in Bali back in 2012. Eventhough it was a low season the chances of hooking up with a girl were pretty good.
I always went out with friends, but as soon as we reached Legian Street in Kuta we kinda lost ourself.

Actuall I wasn't aware of the whole party scene in Bali. More for surfing, relaxing and having a good time with my bros.
The fourth night we just went out to have a overview. We went to "engine room" where you have tons of drunk aussis. After 10min a friend of mine got approached by a 5-6 aussi girl. nothing special. but after 20min I couldn't find him anymore until the next morning. So aussi girls from 5-6 are really slutty. My friend told me that she even had a single room so she can fuck as many guys without getting disturbed...
From that first night on we went out a few times.

Alcohol (if you need it )
We stayed all the way up in Changgu (north of Seminyak) were we always had dinner and drunk the local Arrak (schnapps) which was pretty cheap for half a litre: around 5$. and made you feel like in heaven. Drinks were/are kinda expensive. Especially at Sky Garde where you easily pay 10$ for a cocktail. I recommend Paddy's Club where you get 2 cocktails for 7$ at happy hour. In general import alcohol is very expensive in Indonesia.

Clubs (there are many)
I mostly went to Sky Garden. And since it was low season it was kinda empty sometimes so I went over to Engine Room and Bounty Club.
Bounty and Engine Room are fucked up: Full with aussis and a lot of really wasted people. So it's not that hard finding a max. 5-6 girl there. Be aware: aussi guys get aggressive really easily, so dont try go start a fight. Bounty Club is even more fucked up than Engine Room.

I was 19 years old by the time I was there so I wasn't really experienced .. but I was trying my best. Making out is not that hard. That happens a lot. Really hot girls were pretty rarly by this time but I managed to approach a really good looking norwegian girl (for me it was a 9). I spent the whole night with her in her hotelroom and had a pretty fun time .
After not finding a girl for a while I took the next best and ended up having sex with an aussi in a hotel pool...

Sky Garden is in my opinion the best club to have fun and do some approaches.. the music is not that loud like in all the discos, where you can't talk to each other. The audience is very international. I recommend it for young people (19-23)..

And of course I did one mistake: I've never been to Seminyak until the last night. And this is a pretty decent place to game. Check out Potato Head and Ku De Ta. (beach clubs). But much more fancy than Leagian Street and a much more pleasant atmosphere.

[Bill Brasky]

Travel Update - Bali

Just got into Saigon after spending 3 weeks in Bali.

Had a Tinder pipeline before I went. I started my trip in Kuta as I figured it would be the best place but I ended up loathing it. Dudes constantly hawking stuff (normal in Asia) and mostly overweight Aussie chicks with cheesy poser tattoos.

I ended up meeting a hot Indonesian girl on Tinder and met her on a different part of the island. She was very slim and had a really nice package.

We ended up going to another bar/restaurant that was more quite down the street. It started raining and I asked her if I could go back to her place and she agreed but said more me, in a playful manner, not to touch her in the bed.

Went back to her place, I ended up going down on her and she gave me a hand-job. Sex could have happened but I didn't have a condom, it was late, and I really just wasn't all that horny. She also gave me a BJ, or attempted one, and I just had her stop because she couldn't get her teeth not to touch my cock.

Ended up fucking 2 days later and we were practically a couple for the rest of the 3 weeks.

Honestly, I really ended up liking her but I knew I had to remain focused on my travel plans and goals. She started crying before I left and I felt really bad.

I know I'll get shit for this on RVF but after this experience, I don't know if I can go on just banging out these local girls and then having to "break-up" each time. I did it once already in Chiang Mai and it was the same thing. The girl in Thailand, whom I really did like, professed her love to me in an e-mail and said she couldn't stop thinking about me. I eventually stopped responding to texts and e-mails because I knew it was never going to happen and I wanted to smash any hope in her mind quickly that it would ever evolve into a relationship.

I've said it before, I don't mind fucking and leaving western girls as I believe that most of them wouldn't think twice about "fucking-up" and leaving me. However, I really am a "nice guy." Not in the sense that I let people walk over me, especially women. But the fact that it really does hit a nerve when I see girls crying in front of me and tell me that they wish they hadn't met me because they grew to like me so much.

[Brodiaga]

^Hey man, nothing wrong with mini relationships. That's how I prefer it too if the girl is worth it. When I went to the Phils last year, I slept with 3 ok girls, than found a real gem and spent most of the trip with her. Much better than getting drunk and looking for sluts at night clubs full of smoke.

[RawGod]

It's almost a truism that a lot of guys come to SEA intending to be big players and end up all lovey-dovey with one girl, once they realise how sweet they can be. Not everyone is a stone-cold Fisto clone! The truth is that many of these affectionate girls are not quite as angelic as they seem, but that's the real world. Expect sluts in SEA and that's what you'll find, look for good girls and you might just find one, or a pretty good imitation of one.

[Carlos100]

(05-13-2015 10:17 PM)mrbiggs Wrote:  

I've said it before, I don't mind fucking and leaving western girls as I believe that most of them wouldn't think twice about "fucking-up" and leaving me. However, I really am a "nice guy." Not in the sense that I let people walk over me, especially women. But the fact that it really does hit a nerve when I see girls crying in front of me and tell me that they wish they hadn't met me because they grew to like me so much.

Isn't one of the tenets of red pill philosophy that women are, in general, biologically wired to quickly recover from a break-up?

[Bill Brasky]

(05-14-2015 01:14 AM)Carlos100 Wrote:  

(05-13-2015 10:17 PM)mrbiggs Wrote:  

I've said it before, I don't mind fucking and leaving western girls as I believe that most of them wouldn't think twice about "fucking-up" and leaving me. However, I really am a "nice guy." Not in the sense that I let people walk over me, especially women. But the fact that it really does hit a nerve when I see girls crying in front of me and tell me that they wish they hadn't met me because they grew to like me so much.

Isn't one of the tenets of red pill philosophy that women are, in general, biologically wired to quickly recover from a break-up?

I wouldn't call it a "tenet" of red pill philosophy. However, it has been observed throughout history that women have an evolved predisposition to recovering from emotional loss (death or breakups) more quickly relative to men.

The theory is built on the fact that, in primordial times and even more recent times, women would have to psychologically adapt to the brutal truths in a state of nature. When one tribe would annihilate another tribe they would usually kill off all the men, or at least enslave them. They would also at times kill off the offspring of the women and then impregnate the women themselves. Definitely scorched earth type of tactics.

The women would then break-away from old attachments and develop new attachments to their captors out of nothing more than the need to survive. We would refer to this as Stockholm-Syndrome today.

Will she get over me? Of course.

Do I still feel bad at that point in time when she's crying? Yes.

I try to be as upfront about everything as possible. I don't lie and say that I have plans on living in a certain location longer than I actually intend. I have no interest in gaining sex with foreign girls through deceptive means.

Like RawDog said, some dudes are stone-cold about game and that's fine. I am sometimes deceptive in my game and follow the laws of power. I like game and practice game and don't hold on to any delusions about women or their solipsistic nature. But I still don't like making truly nice foreign girls cry.

[DMario]

What is the most efficient way to get from Denpasar airport to the center of Kuta near the sky garden? I'm planning to hit up Bali next month 18-24th.

[KYT88]

Taxi is less than $10.

[Bill Brasky]

(05-14-2015 05:38 AM)DMario Wrote:  

What is the most efficient way to get from Denpasar airport to the center of Kuta near the sky garden? I'm planning to hit up Bali next month 18-24th.

There is only one way and that's by taxi. Don't let them rape you with the fee. Demand that they use the meter.

When you get to your place you have 2 options. Rent a motorbike or take taxis. The taxis will always try to overcharge you. However, riding a motorbike in Bali is dangerous if you don't know what you're doing. Seriously, it's not like thailand. It made thailand look like singapore by comparison. Plus, if your in the center of kuta you can just walk everywhere.

[Irish]

Just go to the taxi desk when you exit the airport and order from there, you should get a flat price (cant remember if you pay it up front or not).

Just ignore the hoards of cab drivers who will be climbing all over you the moment you leave arrivals until you get to the desk,

Also try to get change in smaller notes from a cafe or wherever, as chances are the cab driver will claim to have no change. Or will deduct his own 'tip' from your change

[DMario]

I plan on alternating between Seminyak and Kuta alot, so I guess I'll be using Taxis. My plan is to stay in Kuta, butb check out alot of the spots that Irish mentioned.

[Irish]

generally I found the cabs are allright once outside of the airport. Just the pricks at arrivals praying on dumb tourists are the ones you need to watch.

I've not been to Seminyak in a while, heard there are a couple new joints popping up and the crowd may have shifted a bit. Let me tap up some of my Jakarta and Bali girls as see if I can get some more up to date info.

[S_tourist]

Another fair addition to night game in Bali (Seminyak) is a nightclub called mirrors, I checked it out with another forum member and it was very impressive. There were no working girls there, entrance was about 200,000. There were some really fine looking girls from Jakarta there on a Thursday night, weekends are supposed to be really wild there.

https://www.facebook.com/mirrorbali

[CodyB]

(05-14-2015 08:01 AM)Irish Wrote:  

Just go to the taxi desk when you exit the airport and order from there, you should get a flat price (cant remember if you pay it up front or not).

Just ignore the hoards of cab drivers who will be climbing all over you the moment you leave arrivals until you get to the desk,

Also try to get change in smaller notes from a cafe or wherever, as chances are the cab driver will claim to have no change. Or will deduct his own 'tip' from your change

Even better just get a taxi leaving departures.

Pre-paid taxi is about 70,000 to Seminyak. On the meter about 40,000, if you need to save $3US!

[DMario]

Any interesting things you guys would recommend doing/seeing while here? I saw in another thread about the cockfuights, and reptile park. I would really like to get out and see some amazing sights.

[Brodiaga]

^Spend at least a couple of days in Ubud, check out Monkey Forest, the museums, cafes, etc.

Go on a downhill cycling tour to see the villages, mountains and rice fields.

[KYT88]

Its a shame you only have 6 days, does really cut your opportunities down, but as Brodiaga suggests Ubud is a good option. You can either share a minibus or take a private car from Kuta/Seminyak. I paid 250K from Seminyak to Ubud two weeks ago for car and driver, first price offered sure could have been negotiated if desired. I would add that in Ubud the Bali Bird Walks are always enjoyable and there are week day hashes if you enjoy running and drinking, PM me if you want contact details for either. For food if you are a fan of pork I would suggest Naughty Nuris for ribs and draught Bintang and Ibu Oka for spit roast Balinese style pork, the original Bebek Bengil(Dirty Duck) is also in Ubud plus numerous other food choices. Night life is different style, much more relaxed affair. Many of the restos on Jl. Wenara Wana(Monkey Forest toad) have happy hours.

[DMario]

(05-16-2015 09:38 PM)KYT88 Wrote:  

Its a shame you only have 6 days, does really cut your opportunities down, but as Brodiaga suggests Ubud is a good option. You can either share a minibus or take a private car from Kuta/Seminyak. I paid 250K from Seminyak to Ubud two weeks ago for car and driver, first price offered sure could have been negotiated if desired. I would add that in Ubud the Bali Bird Walks are always enjoyable and there are week day hashes if you enjoy running and drinking, PM me if you want contact details for either. For food if you are a fan of pork I would suggest Naughty Nuris for ribs and draught Bintang and Ibu Oka for spit roast Balinese style pork, the original Bebek Bengil(Dirty Duck) is also in Ubud plus numerous other food choices. Night life is different style, much more relaxed affair. Many of the restos on Jl. Wenara Wana(Monkey Forest toad) have happy hours.

Thank you for the info, Is it worth it to stay in Ubud for the night since I here the nightlife isnt that good. Also where do you guys go for like the Picture perfect scenery of like the forest, mountains, and such? Also can you report on how the bars are this time of year in Kuta/Seminyak?

[Adrenaline]

Anyone been to Bali in July/August? Is there a lot of European/American/Asian tourists? I can't imagine it would be flooded with as many Aussies at that time of the year, considering they should be studying/working.

[Cscs]

Bali always full with tourists. In july/august there will be lots of aussies and kiwis. It will be winter in aussie and Nz so normally they escape from the winter to indonesia (Bali) or thailand or other south east asian countries.

[Cscs]

I will be in Bali from 17-20 july. Anyone would like to meet up? Send me a PM.

[Zerdame]

Reviving this thread but need help from all of you experienced bali party goers. I'll be going to Bali in April with a group of friends and would probably be renting one of the villas there. Here's my problem, my group of friends have girls and the guys are mostly beta dudes who wouldn't be looking to get laid. I could go out to the clubs every night but I'm not sure if my friends are okay with me bringing a girl back. I'm swinging towards a 'No' so I want to get a feel on what are my options if I do pick up in the clubs in Bali but have fucked up logistics? Thanks!

[Adrenaline]

Get your own room on the side. Will only cost you an extra 15-20 bucks for a cheap one.

[Zerdame]

(02-24-2016 08:35 AM)Adrenaline Wrote:  

Get your own room on the side. Will only cost you an extra 15-20 bucks for a cheap one.

Are there budget hotels for the hour in Bali? I'll be in Seminyak most of the time if the location is crucial to my question.