[RaulValdez739]

(01-16-2012 11:19 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

(01-16-2012 11:01 PM)rozayINTL Wrote:  

I didn't know shit was so difficult back then. No texting, no facebook (facebook is actually useless for gaming now, but in high school it was pure gold). Mad props to you guys. If I had to call a girl's home and her dad answered, I'd be fucking finished.

Not me, because I learned drum-tight "family game" from the bona fide old-school players. I'd be like:

Tuthmosis: Good evening, sir.
Dad: Good evening. Who's this?
Tuthmosis: This is Tuthmosis. I'm Ashley's classmate at Washington High. I hope I'm not disturbing you right now.
Dad: Ashley is kind of busy. She has a lot of homework. Plus, we're about to have dinner. She can't come to the phone right now.
Tuthmosis: I understand. I wouldn't want to interfere with that. I'm just calling to talk about school for a minute. May I speak with her for just a moment? We'll only be like 5 or 10 minutes.
Dad: Ok, just as long as it's quick. Let me get her.

Bam! Holler quick. Shore up the connection with the girl and ask her for ice-cream.

Memories

[Tuthmosis]

Here's the bottom line (for me, anyway):

Today's American girl may be fatter, more distracted, and stupider than ever. But she's also more sexed up, accessible, and easy than ever. She has a phone that's turned on and by her side 24/7. You never need to deal with her relatives. Through years of degradation of the American family unit, she has ever-shrinking responsibility and accountability to her family. Slut-shaming is probably at an all-time low. Thanks to the Internet, feminism, the corporate media, and cell phones, sex has been rendered meaningless and you can rolodex through bitches like fanning a stack of paper about to go into the copier. Those same things have made today's girl more aware and desirous of sex. Today's girl enters menses and loses her virginity earlier.

Expectations for you are low too. You don't need display manly feats of strength, vast knowledge of arts and culture, or even be employed. Sure, all those help (still), but you don't need them, like in times past. Plus, girls are more and more willing to give you a pass on once-essentials for boning down. A spiked-up hairdo, a copy-catted outfit, and some elementary charm is all you need to do some pretty respectable damage. It's a race to the bottom.

Add to all of this that today's player has access to forums like this, the Game, and television shows like "Keys to the VIP," that directly teach you once-arcane knowledge, plus countless Internet dating sites where you basically shop for girls, and you quickly realize that there's probably never been a time or place in all of human history where a regular-ass guy can get laid this easily. For all of our complaining (and I'm guilty of it myself), we really have it quite good. If you can't get laid in today's America, you can't get laid. A few minor adjustments (game as we know it) is all you need.

The idiot fatties and feminist Internet cunts are merely a by-product of this free-for-all. Sure, all of this unsustainable: for every dude exploiting this there are three sexless betas; the obesity problem has reached epidemic proportions; the bitches are of ever-dwindling quality (and therefore less and less gratifying). But, to address the OP: America is the Easiest Place To Swoop Girls. The easiest in all of human history.

[thegmanifesto]

(01-16-2012 11:59 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

Here the bottom line (for me, anyway):

Today's American girl may be fatter, more distracted, and stupider than ever. But she's also more sexed up, accessible, and easy than ever. She has a phone that's turned on and by her side 24/7. You never need to deal with her relatives. Through years of degradation of the American family unit, she has ever-shrinking responsibility and accountability to her family. Slut-shaming is probably at an all-time low. Thanks to the Internet, feminism, the corporate media, and cell phones, sex has been rendered meaningless and you can rolodex through bitches like fanning a stack of paper about to go into the copier. Those same things have made today's girl more aware and desirous of sex. Today's girl enters menses and loses her virginity earlier.

Expectations for you are low too. You don't need display manly feats of strength, vast knowledge of arts and culture, or even be employed. Sure, all those help (still), but you don't need them, like in times past. Plus, girls are more and more willing to give you a pass once-essentials for boning down. A spiked-up hairdo, a copy-catted outfit, and some elementary charm is all you need to do some pretty respectable damage. It's a race to the bottom.

Add to all of this that today's player has access to forums like this, the Game, and television shows like "Keys to the VIP," that directly teach you once-arcane knowledge, plus countless Internet dating sites, and you quickly realize that there's probably never been a time or place in all of human history where a regular-ass guy can get laid this easily. For all of our complaining (and I'm guilty of it myself), we really have it quite good. If you can't get laid in today's America, you can't get laid. A few minor adjustments (game as we know it) is all you need.

The idiot fatties and feminist Internet cunts are merely a by-product of this free-for-all. Sure, all of this unsustainable: for every dude exploiting this there are three sexless betas; the obesity problem has reached epidemic proportions; the bitches are of ever-dwindling quality. But, to address the OP: America is the Easiest Place To Swoop Girls. The easiest in all of human history.

Here is a video of Tuthmosis delivering this speech in Cannes, France:

[InternationPlayboy]

Definitely depends on where in the US. Anywhere I went in Brazil was easier than Miami. Then again, nowhere I've been has been as easy as Colorado.

[pitt]

How easy was colorado international playboy?

[Roosh]

Quote:

For all of our complaining (and I'm guilty of it myself), we really have it quite good

For casual sex, yes, for relationships our parents had, no. The interesting part is that all the casual relationships make it harder for everyone to get into real relationships. Overall great points.

[Iceinthewater]

My $.02

Vegas isn't really representative of the US. Vegas is like another world in its own right.

Regarding Colombia - the consensus on this board is that Colombia is actually one of the more difficult countries, at least until you are socially connected. Guys are just more interested in that country because the women are so hot.

I agree that America is pretty easy. I mean I've been staying in most nights because of the weather and working a ton on my biz, but I still have 3 college aged fb's and a couple on deck. Like my level of effort is tiny compared to how much time I'd spend socializing in other bigger cities, and I'm still doing pretty well.

A big factor is the size of the city. NYC is the easiest (not counting Vegas for reason I stated above). Chicago a close second. Miami a little tougher. Orlando, tougher. San Diego - super easy, depending on logistics. Same with Austin.

But go to Dayton, Ohio, or Naperville, IL, or some other smaller city/town and you might have trouble cold approaching if you don't know anyone.

Possible reasons for this:

1. single women flock to major cities. more women are graduating college than men. women outnumber men by a significant margin in NYC and Chicago, and I'm assuming LA although not sure.

2. it's socially acceptable for women to be single and play the field now. sex and the city culture. women are getting dick from 3-4 guys, and focusing on their careers.

3. Cold approaches are more common place and acceptable. In NYC women were rarely SHOCKED when I'd walk right up to them and tell them they were pretty. Surprised, happy, but not SHOCKED. It was within their reality.

Smaller towns, cold approaching is way out of a girls reality. I've had to tone my directness WAY down since moving back to a smaller midwest city.

I honestly don't see how the US could be easier than the Philipines, South Korea, Thailand, Brazil, DR, Cuba, or Eastern Europe. I must admit I'm basing this on what I've read here, and what guys have told me after coming back - guys I've personally known who went to all of those places and said it was insanely easy. Exotic factor was definitely an advantage for them.

To me, easy means how much bullshit do I have to deal with. Approaching and engaging is not an issue. Girls in the US are on the D pretty consistently. I don't have a fear of approaching, so going up to a girl in Brazil would be the same as here - I just walk up and say something nice or funny. Same thing anywhere.

The difference in America is the shitty attitude, weird insecure game-planning, and pretending to not want sex.

If you DONT know what you're doing with women - you fall for shit tests, you listen to their words rather than their actions, and you don't know how to take a strong lead - America is fucking hard. If you are on the other side of the tunnel and you understand how women think, dealing with the bullshit becomes pretty easy.

But the bullshit IS STILL THERE. I think that's what annoys guys. They can deal with it, but after awhile it just gets old, and it'd be nice to have a sexy Brazilian girl jump on your dick without any games.

[chochemonger1]

(01-16-2012 11:59 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

Here's the bottom line (for me, anyway):

Today's American girl may be fatter, more distracted, and stupider than ever. But she's also more sexed up, accessible, and easy than ever. She has a phone that's turned on and by her side 24/7. You never need to deal with her relatives. Through years of degradation of the American family unit, she has ever-shrinking responsibility and accountability to her family. Slut-shaming is probably at an all-time low. Thanks to the Internet, feminism, the corporate media, and cell phones, sex has been rendered meaningless and you can rolodex through bitches like fanning a stack of paper about to go into the copier. Those same things have made today's girl more aware and desirous of sex. Today's girl enters menses and loses her virginity earlier.

Expectations for you are low too. You don't need display manly feats of strength, vast knowledge of arts and culture, or even be employed. Sure, all those help (still), but you don't need them, like in times past. Plus, girls are more and more willing to give you a pass on once-essentials for boning down. A spiked-up hairdo, a copy-catted outfit, and some elementary charm is all you need to do some pretty respectable damage. It's a race to the bottom.

Add to all of this that today's player has access to forums like this, the Game, and television shows like "Keys to the VIP," that directly teach you once-arcane knowledge, plus countless Internet dating sites where you basically shop for girls, and you quickly realize that there's probably never been a time or place in all of human history where a regular-ass guy can get laid this easily. For all of our complaining (and I'm guilty of it myself), we really have it quite good. If you can't get laid in today's America, you can't get laid. A few minor adjustments (game as we know it) is all you need.

The idiot fatties and feminist Internet cunts are merely a by-product of this free-for-all. Sure, all of this unsustainable: for every dude exploiting this there are three sexless betas; the obesity problem has reached epidemic proportions; the bitches are of ever-dwindling quality (and therefore less and less gratifying). But, to address the OP: America is the Easiest Place To Swoop Girls. The easiest in all of human history.

It is definitely one of the easiest times in all of human history. But its debatable whether the 60´s, 70´s and 80´s werent just as easy. And plus in America the girls were hotter then, there was no obesity problem and were more gratifying. Nice times to have been in a rock band.

[mofo]

(01-17-2012 05:57 AM)Roosh Wrote:  

Quote:

For all of our complaining (and I'm guilty of it myself), we really have it quite good

For casual sex, yes, for relationships our parents had, no. The interesting part is that all the casual relationships make it harder for everyone to get into real relationships. Overall great points.

True.

[Mr.GM]

Overall great points here,lots of info for guys like me who plan to visit the US soon.

Iceinthewater claimed here that NYC is easy to get laid.

My Questions:

Even the 7+ are easier than in most places?

I always believed that the competition is super-high in NYC; lots of Sucessful/good looking guys with money etc./model looking people etc.

so...would you say that NYC is the easiest overall for the average guy with decent game or easier for a guy who meets all the criterias of the "Sex and the city women": Tall,handsome,baller ?.

[thegmanifesto]

(01-17-2012 06:12 AM)Iceinthewater Wrote:  

My $.02

Vegas isn't really representative of the US. Vegas is like another world in its own right.

Of course it isn't.

I was using Las Vegas as a way to drive my point home. Plus, since Las Vegas is in "America" it is totally valid to use.

And keep in mind, "Las Vegas" IS representative of the US for some of us. I have spent over 100 nights there, so it does apply.

(01-17-2012 10:15 AM)Mr.GM Wrote:  

Overall great points here,lots of info for guys like me who plan to visit the US soon.

Iceinthewater claimed here that NYC is easy to get laid.

My Questions:

Even the 7+ are easier than in most places?

I always believed that the competition is super-high in NYC; lots of Sucessful/good looking guys with money etc./model looking people etc.

so...would you say that NYC is the easiest overall for the average guy with decent game or easier for a guy who meets all the criterias of the "Sex and the city women": Tall,handsome,baller ?.

It is so hard to draw these "one size fits" all, blanket statements about NYC.

Are there good looking people? Sure.

Do people there look like Quasimoto? Sure.

Do People have money? Yes

Are people broke? Yes

We need to stop with this "average guy with decent game" stuff.

Guys with "average guy with decent game" swoop maybe two girls a year. And get slapped around by their girlfriends while wearing skinny jeans, glittery shirts and wonder why their pockets are thin.

Don't be average.


Just go there, bring Game, read Data Sheets (especially mine because they are the best) and you should be fine.

I mean, what's your other choice?

Spend your life and never go to NYC?

[OGNorCal707]

(01-16-2012 11:59 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

Here's the bottom line (for me, anyway):

Today's American girl may be fatter, more distracted, and stupider than ever. But she's also more sexed up, accessible, and easy than ever. She has a phone that's turned on and by her side 24/7. You never need to deal with her relatives. Through years of degradation of the American family unit, she has ever-shrinking responsibility and accountability to her family. Slut-shaming is probably at an all-time low. Thanks to the Internet, feminism, the corporate media, and cell phones, sex has been rendered meaningless and you can rolodex through bitches like fanning a stack of paper about to go into the copier. Those same things have made today's girl more aware and desirous of sex. Today's girl enters menses and loses her virginity earlier.

Expectations for you are low too. You don't need display manly feats of strength, vast knowledge of arts and culture, or even be employed. Sure, all those help (still), but you don't need them, like in times past. Plus, girls are more and more willing to give you a pass on once-essentials for boning down. A spiked-up hairdo, a copy-catted outfit, and some elementary charm is all you need to do some pretty respectable damage. It's a race to the bottom.

Add to all of this that today's player has access to forums like this, the Game, and television shows like "Keys to the VIP," that directly teach you once-arcane knowledge, plus countless Internet dating sites where you basically shop for girls, and you quickly realize that there's probably never been a time or place in all of human history where a regular-ass guy can get laid this easily. For all of our complaining (and I'm guilty of it myself), we really have it quite good. If you can't get laid in today's America, you can't get laid. A few minor adjustments (game as we know it) is all you need.

The idiot fatties and feminist Internet cunts are merely a by-product of this free-for-all. Sure, all of this unsustainable: for every dude exploiting this there are three sexless betas; the obesity problem has reached epidemic proportions; the bitches are of ever-dwindling quality (and therefore less and less gratifying). But, to address the OP: America is the Easiest Place To Swoop Girls. The easiest in all of human history.

Good post, I'm just wondering how many other countries you have traveled to? You always drop good game info., but I rarely see you post anything about travel, if you haven't traveled much, then there isn't much basis for comparison.

[OGNorCal707]

(01-17-2012 06:12 AM)Iceinthewater Wrote:  

My $.02

Vegas isn't really representative of the US. Vegas is like another world in its own right.

Regarding Colombia - the consensus on this board is that Colombia is actually one of the more difficult countries, at least until you are socially connected. Guys are just more interested in that country because the women are so hot.

I agree that America is pretty easy. I mean I've been staying in most nights because of the weather and working a ton on my biz, but I still have 3 college aged fb's and a couple on deck. Like my level of effort is tiny compared to how much time I'd spend socializing in other bigger cities, and I'm still doing pretty well.

A big factor is the size of the city. NYC is the easiest (not counting Vegas for reason I stated above). Chicago a close second. Miami a little tougher. Orlando, tougher. San Diego - super easy, depending on logistics. Same with Austin.

But go to Dayton, Ohio, or Naperville, IL, or some other smaller city/town and you might have trouble cold approaching if you don't know anyone.

Possible reasons for this:

1. single women flock to major cities. more women are graduating college than men. women outnumber men by a significant margin in NYC and Chicago, and I'm assuming LA although not sure.

2. it's socially acceptable for women to be single and play the field now. sex and the city culture. women are getting dick from 3-4 guys, and focusing on their careers.

3. Cold approaches are more common place and acceptable. In NYC women were rarely SHOCKED when I'd walk right up to them and tell them they were pretty. Surprised, happy, but not SHOCKED. It was within their reality.

Smaller towns, cold approaching is way out of a girls reality. I've had to tone my directness WAY down since moving back to a smaller midwest city.

I honestly don't see how the US could be easier than the Philipines, South Korea, Thailand, Brazil, DR, Cuba, or Eastern Europe. I must admit I'm basing this on what I've read here, and what guys have told me after coming back - guys I've personally known who went to all of those places and said it was insanely easy. Exotic factor was definitely an advantage for them.

To me, easy means how much bullshit do I have to deal with. Approaching and engaging is not an issue. Girls in the US are on the D pretty consistently. I don't have a fear of approaching, so going up to a girl in Brazil would be the same as here - I just walk up and say something nice or funny. Same thing anywhere.

The difference in America is the shitty attitude, weird insecure game-planning, and pretending to not want sex.

If you DONT know what you're doing with women - you fall for shit tests, you listen to their words rather than their actions, and you don't know how to take a strong lead - America is fucking hard. If you are on the other side of the tunnel and you understand how women think, dealing with the bullshit becomes pretty easy.

But the bullshit IS STILL THERE. I think that's what annoys guys. They can deal with it, but after awhile it just gets old, and it'd be nice to have a sexy Brazilian girl jump on your dick without any games.

[rozayINTL]

(01-17-2012 05:57 AM)Roosh Wrote:  

Quote:

For all of our complaining (and I'm guilty of it myself), we really have it quite good

For casual sex, yes, for relationships our parents had, no. The interesting part is that all the casual relationships make it harder for everyone to get into real relationships. Overall great points.

Exactly. When I was in high school most girls had lost their virginity by the time they were 14 or 15. It was un-heard of even for girls from religious families to not have been fucked by a couple guys by the time they graduated. And I went to a large public school of a couple thousand, so I had a diverse group to observe.

College just expands upon that. The few girls who have good self esteem and a tight moral code are chipped away at slowly. For one, if their attractive, they know they must play the social game or be ostracized. There's nothing that a female hates more than not being accepted, not having attention, not being a part of some kind of group. Doing this usually means going out every Fri/Sat at a minimum, drinking regularly, probably joining a sorority.. within a year or two she's slept with around 4 or 5 guys (that's a conservative average estimate).

Add on top of this the fact that college teaches nihilism as the main philosophy/world view. We're taught that everything is situational, right and wrong is all based on context. This is not some abstract shit I'm talking about. This is legitimately what we're taught during our first year (at some schools first two years) of required general studies courses. And all of this is in addition to four years of high school where we are forced to read books like The Scarlet Letter and about 10 different holocaust novels that make you want to shoot yourself.

Academia is so obsessed with political correctness and this ridiculous vision of pseudo equality that we're not taught to be individuals with individual beliefs. Those who are different and have unconventional convictions (good or bad) are shit on. Based on all this, the trend of American girls becoming sluttier and sluttier is going to continue well into the future. It's not just the social education that does it, it's the actual 'academic education.'

I have to admit though, for me this is great. I don't care how many guys a girl has slept with as long as she doesn't have herpes/aids/serious std's. I never planned on getting married after seeing what happened to basically every single one of my uncles and quite a few family friends. But really I never had a choice either way, which I guess is kind of sad.

[Dash Global]

Where in America do girls actively game men?!?

Where in America does the average guy (not rich, average looks, no status) hold significant DHV?!?

Im sorry but there is NO WAY im believing America is easier than places like Colombia, Peru, Thailand, Philippines ect for the AVERAGE American guy.

[CGS]

(01-17-2012 02:42 PM)Dash Global Wrote:  

Where in America do girls actively game men?!?

Where in America does the average guy (not rich, average looks, no status) hold significant DHV?!?

Im sorry but there is NO WAY im believing America is easier than places like Colombia, Peru, Thailand, Philippines ect for the AVERAGE American guy.

Who on this forum considers themselves to be average?

Average height, weight or shoe size??? Sure, many fall into that definition of average. But in terms of swooping skirt, nobody on here would consider themselves average unless it's only a waypoint on the path to damn good.

If you have average game, then you have average game and splitails will not allow you to access their loins but only an average amount of times, regardless of location. I would defintately feel at a disadvantage in a locale where I don't know more than 3 words.

[Dash Global]

(01-17-2012 03:12 PM)CGS Wrote:  

(01-17-2012 02:42 PM)Dash Global Wrote:  

Where in America do girls actively game men?!?

Where in America does the average guy (not rich, average looks, no status) hold significant DHV?!?

Im sorry but there is NO WAY im believing America is easier than places like Colombia, Peru, Thailand, Philippines ect for the AVERAGE American guy.

Who on this forum considers themselves to be average?

Average height, weight or shoe size??? Sure, many fall into that definition of average. But in terms of swooping skirt, nobody on here would consider themselves average unless it's only a waypoint on the path to damn good.

If you have average game, then you have average game and splitails will not allow you to access their loins but only an average amount of times, regardless of location. I would defintately feel at a disadvantage in a locale where I don't know more than 3 words.

In my post average means - average looks, not rich, no status ect. Which I detailed in the second comment.

Game requires work aka effort on your part. Using logic it would be EASIER to swoop females without using game. A place where just being white / american will get you laid, a place where females actively game and open you. A place where its the chick that says "let's go to your place".

Easiness to me is expending the LEAST amount of energy, time, and money to get laid.

[thegmanifesto]

(01-17-2012 02:42 PM)Dash Global Wrote:  

Where in America do girls actively game men?!?

Where in America does the average guy (not rich, average looks, no status) hold significant DHV?!?

Im sorry but there is NO WAY im believing America is easier than places like Colombia, Peru, Thailand, Philippines ect for the AVERAGE American guy.

Typical Dash comment.

Of course has never been to Peru, Thailand, Philippines.

I am sure he has never been to NYC, LA, Orange County, San Diego, New Orleans, Miami Beach or Las Vegas either.

He is not qualified to have any opinions on the matter.

I don't think anyone on here takes anything he says seriously anymore, but you should just Disregard what this guy says.

[MikeCF]

(01-17-2012 06:12 AM)Iceinthewater Wrote:  

But go to Dayton, Ohio, or Naperville, IL, or some other smaller city/town and you might have trouble cold approaching if you don't know anyone.

I had a layover/overnight due to bad weather and was stuck in flyover country. Peoria, IL.

Went on Yelp for strip clubs. Started off at Big Al's. Agreed to meet out with stripper later.

I went to gas stations, asking guys for the good bars.

Went out dolo.

Pulled.

Also made FB friends with guys in unlikely event I return.

You guys who complain are doing it wrong.

Get in shape. Have a nice body. Wear cool clothes. Don't look like a dork. Start carrying 100's.

Do all of that, and then tell me how hard game is.

[Dash Global]

(01-17-2012 03:26 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

(01-17-2012 02:42 PM)Dash Global Wrote:  

Where in America do girls actively game men?!?

Where in America does the average guy (not rich, average looks, no status) hold significant DHV?!?

Im sorry but there is NO WAY im believing America is easier than places like Colombia, Peru, Thailand, Philippines ect for the AVERAGE American guy.

Typical Dash comment.

Of course has never been to Peru, Thailand, Philippines.

I am sure he has never been to NYC, LA, Orange County, San Diego, New Orleans, Miami Beach or Las Vegas either.

He is not qualified to have any opinions on the matter.

Disregard what this guy says.

Never said I have been to those places. But many here have and labeled them as very easy and a pure fuck fest. I believe them, and therefore am of the opinion it is an easy place to pull females.

Funny how you didnt answer any of the questions I asked.

Here again,

Where in America do girls actively game men?!?

Where in America does the average guy (not rich, average looks, no status) hold significant DHV?!?

[MikeCF]

(01-17-2012 03:30 PM)Dash Global Wrote:  

Where in America does the average guy (not rich, average looks, no status) hold significant DHV?!?

I don't care about losers.

G's advice doesn't apply to losers.

Stop being losers.

[Dash Global]

(01-17-2012 03:33 PM)MikeCF Wrote:  

(01-17-2012 03:30 PM)Dash Global Wrote:  

Where in America does the average guy (not rich, average looks, no status) hold significant DHV?!?

I don't care about losers.

G's advice doesn't apply to losers.

Stop being losers.

Losers? lol

So I guess 99% of everyone on this forum is a loser to you huh? Including yourself? Unless you are rich, have fame, or have the looks of a male model?

That gave me a chuckle.

[MikeCF]

(01-17-2012 03:36 PM)Dash Global Wrote:  

(01-17-2012 03:33 PM)MikeCF Wrote:  

(01-17-2012 03:30 PM)Dash Global Wrote:  

Where in America does the average guy (not rich, average looks, no status) hold significant DHV?!?

I don't care about losers.

G's advice doesn't apply to losers.

Stop being losers.

Losers? lol

So I guess 99% of everyone on this forum is a loser to you huh? Including yourself? Unless you are rich, have fame, or have the looks of a male model?

That gave me a chuckle.

If 99% of the people here are "not rich," have "average looks," and "no status," then yes, there is a problem.

I think that your trifecta of horribles only applies to you.

Either way, thanks for signalling to me that you're someone to ignore.

[OGNorCal707]

I think this thread is just too subjective for there to be one clear and definitive answer, and there are so many factors at play that will influence a persons' results.

For example, InternationalPlayboy has stated that he's struggled with "picking up" women in Miami, but kills it in Colorado. In Miami he may be just an average Joe, working a service job, and he's competing with ballers doing bottle service, wearing Canali suits and Ferragamo loafers.

But, in CO he's the man, because he's a bad ass snowboarder, has a style/lifestyle niche that is considered attractive there, plus he's a cool guy and knows everyone in town (mad social proof = DHV). Now I don't know the guy, so I hope he won't be upset at me taking the liberty of using him as an example , but I think you guys get my point.

This could be taken to an even farther extreme depending on your lifestyle niche, there are punk rock hipster types that can kill it within their circles in cities like Portland, SF, NYC, Seattle, but wouldn't pull jack shit if they moved to a big town/small city in most of the mid-west or southern states.

So the point really is a person needs to "get in where they fit in" to see results in the U.S., and really just about any where in the world. That's why it's important to find your niche, or your "fishbowl" (props to Gio), to maximize your success.

In the end it's all subjective, if you're a tall, handsome, well dressed Aussie dude you'd probably kill it any U.S. city. If you're a buff, smooth, black guy you may have a cakewalk in Australia or Sweden. Or maybe you're a blonde haired, blue eyed guy that's the type of guy every girl wants to fuck in Japan or Peru. In any of those scenarios, getting laid would be easier for the guy in those countries, then it would be in the U.S. or where they're from.

But for the sake of the argument, I'd agree the U.S. in addition to the U.K probabaly are the easiest countries on average to get laid in.

[el mechanico]

(01-17-2012 03:30 PM)MikeCF Wrote:  

(01-17-2012 06:12 AM)Iceinthewater Wrote:  

But go to Dayton, Ohio, or Naperville, IL, or some other smaller city/town and you might have trouble cold approaching if you don't know anyone.

I had a layover/overnight due to bad weather and was stuck in flyover country. Peoria, IL.

Went on Yelp for strip clubs. Started off at Big Al's. Agreed to meet out with stripper later.

I went to gas stations, asking guys for the good bars.

Went out dolo.

Pulled.

Also made FB friends with guys in unlikely event I return.

You guys who complain are doing it wrong.

Get in shape. Have a nice body. Wear cool clothes. Don't look like a dork. Start carrying 100's.

Do all of that, and then tell me how hard game is.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^ This is how it's done right here.