[Parlay44]

I reconnected with an old female friend from high school about a year ago through facebook. She just got out of rehab for heroin about 6 months ago and has been staying in a halfway house since then.

She recently moved back in with her parents and is trying to straighten out her shit.

She called me a few days ago asking me if I can help her with her iPod touch. Her ex took it off his account or something and she lost all her apps and music. I said sure I'll take care of it for you next time I'm down your way.

She said, "Why don't you pick me up next time you're down here and I'll come up to your place and stay over and you can fix it for me."

Me: No problem. Sounds good.

So she calls me today and says, "Listen I can't come up tonight. I'm at a hotel party. Can we get together next weekend?"

Me: Sure. Let talk during the week.

So she calls me an hour later and says, "Hey I need some help".

Me: Sure what's up hun? What do you need?

"I need help cause my spell checker isn't working right on my phone."

Me: What? LOL

"How do you spell guarantee and experience?"

Me: Who cares how you spell it if you're just texting somebody? LOL

"No I'm placing an ad on backpage. I really need money quick."
"It's an escort ad I'm writing."

So I help her out and spell the words for her. I also tell her that I have a friend that does house cleaning and can probably get her some cash work if she's interested.

So I make a call to my friend and pass along her contact info to help her out. She's going to call her tomorrow.

I have less of an issue with slutty girls if I know they're sluts beforehand. This girl is a straight up hooker. She's been honest about it with me since we started talking again. So I can't judge and hold it against her. I've had plenty of girls lie and try to play me over the years. This one is at least honest.

So next weekend she's staying over. I'm hopefully banging the shit out of her(safely of course) after I fix her iPod.

I'd like to hear your thoughts on this one fellas.

[FretDancer]

I'm not really sure what you want to hear man. If you get to hit it, good job, if not well it's no big deal.

[Parlay44]

(10-30-2011 09:29 PM)FretDancer Wrote:  

I'm not really sure what you want to hear man. If you get to hit it, good job, if not well it's no big deal.

Yeah I know. It's just an odd situation. I wanted to put it out there so people can see that shit like this really goes on. I would have never believed it in my younger years.

[Timoteo]

You should try to smash if you can. She's obviously comfortable with you. She's also damaged, but that's got nothing to do with you, and you can't change that. Don't pass on a quality nut - hell, she's a professional!

[OlympusSquared]

Do you mean prostitute in the sense of a high-end, Eliot Spitzer-esque call girl, or a prostitute in the sense of a lot lizard? If she was on heroin, I'm guessing the later.

Last spring right after I got out 3 year relationship I had the chance to bang a 27 year old bartender girl I knew. I also knew she had a record of sleeping with a lot of dudes, and I mean like 50+ She was bi as well. She took me out and fed me whiskey, putting her vag on clear display.

Did I go for it? Hell no. Standards trump a notch imo. If I fucked her I would have only devalued myself.

[scorpio]

Wear a rubber.

[Parlay44]

I'm by no means intimidated by a girl with 50+ notches.

Hell you'll never really know how many guys a girl has slept with. They're all liars.

I kinda had a thing for this one back in the day and here we are 20 years later and I have a chance to sleep with her.

Granted she's a little used and abused now but not like that matters. I'm not looking for a relationship from her.
Just a FWB situation if I can pull it off.

I may even try some of Pusscrook's moves. It's getting cold out and I really need a new leather jacket. LOL

[WesternCancer]

I'd stay away if she was into herion and a prostitute. Recipe for HIV right there.

[ArtfulDodger]

I'm still inconsistent with closing, but my initial impressions would be:

1. Delay fixing any of her stuff for as long as possible until you get the bang.
2. Take her out on a 'mini pub crawl' where you move through maybe two drinking places you want to visit that are nearby your place.
3. Have some booze for when you get home.

But yeah, Western Cancer raises a strong point. Heroine use and prostitution is a really bad sign.

[Parlay44]

(10-30-2011 10:34 PM)ArtfulDodger Wrote:  

1. Delay fixing any of her stuff for as long as possible until you get the bang.

Well it's not really a date or anything. It was her idea to spend the night at my place so I think sex is a done deal. I'll report back on here afterwards and fill you in.

(10-30-2011 10:34 PM)ArtfulDodger Wrote:  

2. Take her out on a 'mini pub crawl' where you move through maybe two drinking places you want to visit that are nearby your place.
3. Have some booze for when you get home.

We're old friends so drinks are kind of standard thing. Plus I always have alcohol at my place.

[Hooligan Harry]

1. Just got out of rehab
2. Lives in a halfway house
3. Is hooking

Why would you even want someone like this in your life?

[iknowexactly]

As well as HIV, higher chances of Oral/Genital Herpes, Hepatitis C-- when people are strung out they do all sorts of crazy stuff, including [possibly] fucking johns with open herpes sores she was too stoned to see/care about.

I mean getting laid is great, but someone in this state has degraded themselves so much....is this really what you want?

She's not the hot chick you remember.

[Parlay44]

(10-30-2011 11:00 PM)Hooligan Harry Wrote:  

1. Just got out of rehab
2. Lives in a halfway house
3. Is hooking

Why would you even want someone like this in your life?

She an old friend. Cool chick. Plus I don't judge. You'll never get laid if you project a judgmental attitude towards women. They pick up on that right away.

Yeah I don't agree with the drugs or hooking. It's not anything I would do.

Sex is sex dude. The little princess you fawn all over is no better than my hooker friend. They're all equal on this forum.

[iknowexactly]

(10-30-2011 11:11 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

I don't judge.

With all due respect, I admire your open-mindedness. But I'm not talking about JUDGING, I'm talking about JUDGMENT with regard to your physical health.
Condoms are great, but --no kissing? No oral from her? HERPES is what I'd be shitting my pants about.

[Soma]

(10-30-2011 11:00 PM)Hooligan Harry Wrote:  

1. Just got out of rehab
2. Lives in a halfway house
3. Is hooking

Why would you even want someone like this in your life?

This screams drama. She is almost certainly looking for someone to leech off of, including somewhere to stay that's not the halfway house or her parents'. A close relative of mine has been in and out of rehab for years and I've seen this plenty of times with the people in his circle. If you bang her and she realizes that you're not that guy, things could get ugly. Or not.

For whatever reason she clearly wanted you to know that she's a prossie. "my spell checker isn't working" is pretty transparent.

[Parlay44]

(10-30-2011 11:17 PM)Soma Wrote:  

(10-30-2011 11:00 PM)Hooligan Harry Wrote:  

1. Just got out of rehab
2. Lives in a halfway house
3. Is hooking

Why would you even want someone like this in your life?

This screams drama. She is almost certainly looking for someone to leech off of, including somewhere to stay that's not the halfway house or her parents'. A close relative of mine has been in and out of rehab for years and I've seen this plenty of times with the people in his circle. If you bang her and she realizes that you're not that guy, things could get ugly. Or not.

For whatever reason she clearly wanted you to know that she's a prossie. "my spell checker isn't working" is pretty transparent.

I knew about her hooking a year ago when we started talking again. She was in rehab at the time.

You might be right about the leeching. She was married for years and doesn't really have any skills to earn a living off of. I'll keep that in mind. Thank you.

[iknowexactly]

I hate to pile on here, but another thing is LEGAL TROUBLE. Most people fail after rehab, so she could be holding smack, or even trying to turn it over. Get some free stuff. By Selling some. Out of your house.

WHY THE FUCK DID SHE INVITE HERSELF OVER YOUR HOUSE. That's a screaming red flag

Start fucking her if you must OUT of your house. Then if she is credibly clean and an amazing fuck, MAYBE think of having her over.

[Parlay44]

(10-30-2011 11:34 PM)iknowexactly Wrote:  

I hate to pile on here, but another thing is LEGAL TROUBLE. Most people fail after rehab, so she could be holding smack, or even trying to turn it over. Get some free stuff. By Selling some. Out of your house.

WHY THE FUCK DID SHE INVITE HERSELF OVER YOUR HOUSE. That's a screaming red flag

Start fucking her if you must OUT of your house. Then if she is credibly clean and an amazing fuck, MAYBE think of having her over.

I think it's her way of "compensating" me for fixing her iPod.

She's an old friend. I know her parents. I've talked to her dad on the phone a few times since we started talking again. He's an old school Wiccan dude. She's a Wiccan chick as well.

She's only staying over one night. I won't be leaving her unattended in my crib.

[Hooligan Harry]

(10-30-2011 11:11 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

(10-30-2011 11:00 PM)Hooligan Harry Wrote:  

1. Just got out of rehab
2. Lives in a halfway house
3. Is hooking

Why would you even want someone like this in your life?

She an old friend. Cool chick. Plus I don't judge. You'll never get laid if you project a judgmental attitude towards women. They pick up on that right away.

Yeah I don't agree with the drugs or hooking. It's not anything I would do.

Sex is sex dude. The little princess you fawn all over is no better than my hooker friend. They're all equal on this forum.

Bro, you need to face up to a few things here. If she was a high class stripper or a high class escort, then there would be far less risk for you. But a junkie selling her ass is not the sort of problem you need in your life for the sake of easy sex.

Its a different sort of sold sex and its one that comes with a lot of risk. Not just STD's, but the problems that come with junkies in general. You would have her on your doorstep constantly and you would have to deal with the threat her of telling other junkies about you too.

If you want to help her out, put her up in a cheap motel or try help her find a job. Buy her food. But seriously reconsider the idea of trying to set this chick up as a FWB, no good can come from it.

[Parlay44]

(10-30-2011 11:53 PM)Hooligan Harry Wrote:  

(10-30-2011 11:11 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

(10-30-2011 11:00 PM)Hooligan Harry Wrote:  

1. Just got out of rehab
2. Lives in a halfway house
3. Is hooking

Why would you even want someone like this in your life?

She an old friend. Cool chick. Plus I don't judge. You'll never get laid if you project a judgmental attitude towards women. They pick up on that right away.

Yeah I don't agree with the drugs or hooking. It's not anything I would do.

Sex is sex dude. The little princess you fawn all over is no better than my hooker friend. They're all equal on this forum.

Bro, you need to face up to a few things here. If she was a high class stripper or a high class escort, then there would be far less risk for you. But a junkie selling her ass is not the sort of problem you need in your life for the sake of easy sex.

Its a different sort of sold sex and its one that comes with a lot of risk. Not just STD's, but the problems that come with junkies in general. You would have her on your doorstep constantly and you would have to deal with the threat her of telling other junkies about you too.

If you want to help her out, put her up in a cheap motel or try help her find a job. Buy her food. But seriously reconsider the idea of trying to set this chick up as a FWB, no good can come from it.

I'm not looking to date her or move her in or anything. She's not homeless. She's living with her parents right now. I'm sure she'd love to live somewhere less restricting than that.

I would never do anything for a girl like this. But I know this girl. So I offered to find her some legitimate work through a friend of mine that does house cleaning. I'm not giving her cash or gifts or even a place to live.

She can come over like any other friend I have. She can stay over like any other girl I sleep with. She's not going on the lease. I can kick her out anytime I want. It's my place.

I'd like to keep it friendly and bang her out once in a while. Like I said she's one of those girls from back in the day I always wanted to sleep with.

I've dated plenty of manipulative girls in my time. I know the signs. They try to get you hooked emotionally at first and at some point it always comes down to money, gifts ...etc. I'm not looking to support any bitch.

[bez]

I grew up with junkie parents and i have kicked more than a few of their shitbag friends out of our house for too many reasons to list here while i was trying to take care of my little sister on school nights..Junkies are junkies forever and eventually she will rip you off or one of her friends will rip you off.
I agree with hooligan harry.If she is your friend you should try help her out instead of sleeping with her.

[Blunt]

I'm with you on the not judging piece. But, there is a line where you are demonstrating lack of respect for yourself. I think this is past that. No matter how judge-less you are, girls you are trying to bang in your social circle may view you as tainted if this girl is as skanky as you've described. Most of us here recognize the low % of catching the HIV especially with a condom, but try telling a girl that.

Strippers = pre-selection..heroin-shooting hookers = do not want. I can't see this leading anywhere but to regret soon after you bust.

[Gmac]

(10-30-2011 10:28 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:  

I'd stay away if she was into herion and a prostitute. Recipe for HIV right there.

This. ^

[babelfish669]

May be she just wants you to be her pimp.

[Caligula]

From a purely practical perspective it sounds like way more trouble than it's worth.