Back on July 19th, a little known blog called The Transformed Wife posted an entry entitled Godly Men Prefer Debt-Free Virgins Without Tattoos.
Sounds reasonable to me. Seeing my young sons in their 20s unable to find a decent girl who isn't saddled with debt, as well as has so many tattoos I don't know what her original skin color is, enough piercings to set off metal detectors at 20 yards, and colored hair reminiscent of a cartoon character, I would give my right arm to find that rare woman who is not possessed by modern culture.
However, as you can imagine, the author got blasted:
However, author Lori Alexander, was right. As a professional counselor with over three decades of clinical experience it is no secret that the triad of tattoos, piercings, and oddly colored hair are the warning signs of a very messed up woman regardless of the depth of her dedication to a religious world view. In fact, I'm going to add a fourth one: overweight. And these women do not have basic homemaking skills, basic relationship skills, or even basic personal care skills.
Unicorns, those rare women who rejoice in their femininity, are out there, but they are becoming harder to find.
Maybe the Mennonite colonies in Belize?
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Do you know how much more attractive debt-free virgins (without tattoos) are to young men? Unfortunately, there are so few of these types of young women anymore because of the high costs of college (debt) and sexual promiscuity even within those in the church. As believers in Jesus Christ, we need to live in a way that is pleasing to Him because His ways are the best. He calls debt a burden and urges us to live lives of sexual purity.
There are many reasons why Christian young women should carefully consider whether or not they go to college, especially if they want to be wives and mothers someday. Secular universities teach against the God of the Bible and His ways. It’s far from what God calls women to be and do: it teaches them to be independent, loud, sexually available, and immodest instead of having meek and quiet spirits.
One woman wrote to me and gave her opinions on why women shouldn’t go to college. (I have added my thoughts in parenthesis.):
“Men don’t want to marry a women with debt. Most of this debt comes from college. They would also prefer a woman who still lives at her parent’s house that has not had other relationships. Do those two things and you will be highly sought after.” (I’m not sure about men only preferring women who still live at their parent’s house and have had no other relationships since some young women have no choice but to live away from their families and some have had their hearts broken by men they thought was ‘the one.’ I would agree that most men don’t want to marry a woman with a load of debt! That isn’t right to bring into a marriage.)
“If they go to college, they are unlikely to stay home raising their children to pay off the debt and use the degree they spent years on.” (I have seen this in many young women’s lives, sadly.)
Sounds reasonable to me. Seeing my young sons in their 20s unable to find a decent girl who isn't saddled with debt, as well as has so many tattoos I don't know what her original skin color is, enough piercings to set off metal detectors at 20 yards, and colored hair reminiscent of a cartoon character, I would give my right arm to find that rare woman who is not possessed by modern culture.
However, as you can imagine, the author got blasted:
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I have received almost 90,000 comments on this post on Facebook so far and most of them hate it. (I have thousands of comments on my blog awaiting moderation for this post, so I won’t be publishing any comments on my blog for a while.)
However, author Lori Alexander, was right. As a professional counselor with over three decades of clinical experience it is no secret that the triad of tattoos, piercings, and oddly colored hair are the warning signs of a very messed up woman regardless of the depth of her dedication to a religious world view. In fact, I'm going to add a fourth one: overweight. And these women do not have basic homemaking skills, basic relationship skills, or even basic personal care skills.
Unicorns, those rare women who rejoice in their femininity, are out there, but they are becoming harder to find.
Maybe the Mennonite colonies in Belize?