Quote: (08-13-2011 04:45 PM)VeryNewtotheGame Wrote:
So I joined one of those websites where MILFs exist in abundance and put up a fairly non-gamey profile. Within a day I've been getting direct propositions from the women- and they are like 8's at the minimum- none over 40. Here is one message I received:
Subject: Hungry for more
Message: Hey! I liked your profile a lot. BUT I would love to hear more about you. I think we could have a good time together.
I replied with some deetz on my life but nothing too major, staying mysterious. What is the next appropriate move?
Also, another message: Subject: I hope this is not too forward but
Message: I would never normally browse sites like this, but desperate times=desperate measures. Have you had any luck here so far?
All of the above women have faved me if that means anything. I keep getting repeated profile views from them. Any chance of closing either?
You have to be careful with MILFs (there are already a few threads on them), they can be tricky to deal with especially if they are older and/or there are kids involved.
Have you responded to the second one? How did it go? With online dating you can't waste any time pussy footing around. A few days (if that) is all it takes for a woman to lose interest and move on. Gauge how the email conversations are going, does she ask a lot of questions about you? Good. Set a drink date for a non-Friday weeknight ASAP and give her your number. You might have to work around her schedule, since these are moms and free nights can be tough to come by. One of my signature online swoop moves is:
"Let's grab a drink [Weekday], I know a great place with [Interesting Bar Food/Music/Etc.].
XXX-XXX-XXXX in case you get lost."
Easy as that. Sometimes it even works as my third message (including the opener).
If she texts you early on, be playful with the banter and your chance of scoring on the first date will increase. Why? Because she'll feel even more close to you before the first date even occurs. The profile dynamic helps that too, chicks feel like they already know you.
If you feel like the back and forth emails on the site are going no where or she ignores your date request, don't get bogged down... just move on. A lot of these women are just looking for attention. While the quality of the emails is important to an extent, you will have to weed through a lot of crap to get these dates sometimes.
Just play it cool and escalate like you would on any date with regular progression: Kino, venue changes, kissing, and the swoop to your place (or hers) depending on the logistics. Bathroom line works great, but unless the kids are gone your place is probably a better option. Give her a quick "tour" or have "one drink." How you handle the shift from the venue to the bedroom is critical, as is how comfortable she feels with you by that point in the date. If you think she's not that into yet and can't seem to push through the resistance to even get her back to your place, try to set the second date before the end of the first one (or at least talk about it). Nearly half my online bangs are second dates.
P.S. PM me the link to that site, I wanna check it out.