[Vaun]

(10-15-2016 12:31 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  

We all have different standards and preferences. The girl willing to turn down already made plans to watch a football game was a turn off for me. Whether she asked to reschedule or not, I find that rude. We had plans and she decided after the fact there was something else she would rather be doing. You can call it ego all you want or being stuck up, I just have enough good women in my life at the moment that I don't care to cater to more women that aren't giving me a vibe that I'm feeling or are making things more difficult than they have to be.

I hear you, I did the same thing last night to a girl who flakes, doesn't show up on time, speaks in non-sense, but is crazy hot. Had to pass and move on from her. Sometimes its worth being flexible, others you could care less.

[Unchained]

As for being "flexible" why should I pursue a woman? If I'm pursuing her, that means she's running away from me.

The older I get, the less motivated I am to deal with women who don't make it easy for me to date them. Answer my texts/calls, show up to the dates I plan, respond to my escalation.

I've had huge issues with flaking and changed minds with women I meet during night game even if I make out/dance with them and some even seem excited to date me after I text or call them. But it doesn't make sense to me to 'pursue' a woman who isn't responding to my texts or calls. If I'm pursuing a woman who ignores me that means she's running away.

[thereal-s]

i'd say its best to wait a few days then send a reset message as other people have mentioned and see how it goes, if still no reply then don't message her again, theres plenty more numbers you could get.

I don't delete the no reply numbers though, i've managed to get some success out of a couple of them by sending another message months down the line....

[charmingjerkboy]

In the US, the average woman wakes up to 50 new tinder matches, 100 facebook/instagram likes, 20 facebook chat initiations, standard texts, kik/whatapp/line/skype notifications.

Basically, their phone is in a constant state of refresh. They are simply overwhelmed a lot of the time.

[Banna]

I go to clubs and when I get home I'll send a text saying I had fun with you blah blah.

No response.

Then the next day if I don't hear from her I'll say: "Hey did you enjoy last night?"

After the 2nd no response every one of them gets one of these from me.

After hours of no response suddenly immediately after they get this meme, they ALWAYS respond almost immediately with the same: "Lol, I'm so sorry I've been so busy with work today, how have you been doing?" blah blah.

It feels good to smugly put them on blast. Every woman today has a cellphone glued to them for them to respond in a timely manner.

[LeoneVolpe]

Here's my two-cents:

It might feel good to call a girl out on her flakiness, but it's seldom the right call. Instead, develop a pipeline and work up a rotation schedule. If one girl doesn't respond to your texts, go onto the next until you've found yourself a live one. Eventually, you'll work yourself back around to the unresponsive girls, and at that point you can decide whether you want to try hitting them up again or not. A "restart text" can sometimes yield positive results, not always but often enough it's worth trying. What have you really got to lose?

If after a few rotations you haven't gotten anywhere with a particular chick, drop her from the roster and work on developing new leads. Like sales, it's a numbers game.

[General Stalin]

Ah, the constant fine line we walk in texting between being thirsty/butthurt or being too dismissive/low-investment.

[cosworth]

I've had fairly decent response to :

"insert girls name" I'm gonna take your silence to mean Cosworth you handsome devil I just can't wait to see you.

Normally get a reply , but sadly rarely leads to a bang etc.

[dsalsa]

To summarize: no answer to the text, delete and next

[GetRichOrdie]

Did you try the underleg dick pick. Its looks like godzilla from that angle

I also like cocky and funny threads, better than nothing at least.