It's a trick question.
I've been getting closer to a main girl here in the Phils. A rocket scientist she ain't.
But she seems earnest, even as I actively shit-test her on arguing, housekeeping, and my unforgiving nature should she start up with giving me shit of any kind, for any reason.
I've tried to keep it simple by saying that I make all the decisions, forever, and if she doesn't accept my authority, I will immediately leave her. I want to hear what she likes and thinks, but it is and will remain a benevolent dictatorship.
She has a lot going for her, the thigh gap and nearly perfect skin I seem sexually fixated on, a sweet voice, but the best is her seemingly innate desire to regularly tidy things. It seems bred into her, almost like a retriever or something. Every once in a while she'll placidly patrol the apartment, folding up clothes that are out of place, adjusting things on shelves, never with any judgement or complaint or dirty look because I am a total throw-it-on-the-floor slob. She SAYS she will ALWAYS accept doing the dishes and diapers.
She actually just likes to see things tidy.
She's an artful cuddler as well, always gently wrapping herself around me at night, not in a suffocating way.
I actually TRY to antagonize her, and like a dog that really likes you, she just sort of seems baffled by it. She doesn't amp up in response.
I sleep well- and for longer periods- when I'm sleeping with her, I think it definitely is healthier for me to sleep with a girl, my depressive tendencies seem immediately reduced.
Of course some of this has to change, but what does that logic lead to-- should I beat her up badly to see if she will eventually rebel?
There's only so much shit testing you can do out of fear of the future.
The main drawback is she is not smart. But almost all women cannot really be THAT smart, they can only be smart-asses.
She doesn't have DELUSIONS about her intellect like Western girls do. She and another Phils chick have both said to me "I'm not smart like you are."
But if you really want a girl to do all the housework and child care, and basically center her life around you, how smart can she be before without her wanting a "career" beneath which you become a distant second (third after she has kids) priority in her life?
Maybe a dull, conscientious, affectionate wife is something really valuable.
If you are at all above average in intelligence, as you mature into your 40s and 50s you will pull further and further away from your girl intellectually women because women's ability to accurately perceive and anticipate the way reality works remains for the most part stunted forever at the early-20s level (Proportional to their level of innate intelligence.)
Do you fault a dog because it can't play chess?
Maybe we're just asking too much from women. In ancient mythology, even the female gods were capricious and bitchy as hell. Is it realistic to ask for something even superior to a female God?
I've been getting closer to a main girl here in the Phils. A rocket scientist she ain't.
But she seems earnest, even as I actively shit-test her on arguing, housekeeping, and my unforgiving nature should she start up with giving me shit of any kind, for any reason.
I've tried to keep it simple by saying that I make all the decisions, forever, and if she doesn't accept my authority, I will immediately leave her. I want to hear what she likes and thinks, but it is and will remain a benevolent dictatorship.
She has a lot going for her, the thigh gap and nearly perfect skin I seem sexually fixated on, a sweet voice, but the best is her seemingly innate desire to regularly tidy things. It seems bred into her, almost like a retriever or something. Every once in a while she'll placidly patrol the apartment, folding up clothes that are out of place, adjusting things on shelves, never with any judgement or complaint or dirty look because I am a total throw-it-on-the-floor slob. She SAYS she will ALWAYS accept doing the dishes and diapers.
She actually just likes to see things tidy.
She's an artful cuddler as well, always gently wrapping herself around me at night, not in a suffocating way.
I actually TRY to antagonize her, and like a dog that really likes you, she just sort of seems baffled by it. She doesn't amp up in response.
I sleep well- and for longer periods- when I'm sleeping with her, I think it definitely is healthier for me to sleep with a girl, my depressive tendencies seem immediately reduced.
Of course some of this has to change, but what does that logic lead to-- should I beat her up badly to see if she will eventually rebel?
There's only so much shit testing you can do out of fear of the future.
The main drawback is she is not smart. But almost all women cannot really be THAT smart, they can only be smart-asses.
She doesn't have DELUSIONS about her intellect like Western girls do. She and another Phils chick have both said to me "I'm not smart like you are."
But if you really want a girl to do all the housework and child care, and basically center her life around you, how smart can she be before without her wanting a "career" beneath which you become a distant second (third after she has kids) priority in her life?
Maybe a dull, conscientious, affectionate wife is something really valuable.
If you are at all above average in intelligence, as you mature into your 40s and 50s you will pull further and further away from your girl intellectually women because women's ability to accurately perceive and anticipate the way reality works remains for the most part stunted forever at the early-20s level (Proportional to their level of innate intelligence.)
Do you fault a dog because it can't play chess?
Maybe we're just asking too much from women. In ancient mythology, even the female gods were capricious and bitchy as hell. Is it realistic to ask for something even superior to a female God?