dudes are saying to wait until late 30s to early 40s to get married, and I understand that vibe. Stack up the paper, travel the world, mess with women so that you don't get hoodwinked by their duplicitous ways. I've read enough of The Rational Male blog to get this idea.
Is it really that easy to get an early 20s GF in, say, Mexico or Spain? Especially if you are a foreigner and a different race from the girl. I just don't see a 42 y/o Asian man pulling a Venezuelan woman in her prime just because he is rich and has game. I don't see a black American pulling a half French/half Moroccan bombshell just because he has some money. i dunno, seems like a hail mary to me...
There are other men out there in these other countries that not only have money, but also have a similar upbringing and social connections that most foreign men simply can't compete with. Can you imagine the amount of effort it would take to fully integrate within an entirely new country? Adapt to a a new set of laws? You'd definitely have to sever ties with your family in your home country...none of that vacationing back home for weeks at a time.
I'm not saying that a foreign LTR is undesirable, but I think some guys here may be romanticizing the idea of getting married to a foreign wife. How many of you cats are really willing to go to Mexico, live there for multiple years, learn the language, embrace the culture, invest in real, meaningful relationships with the locals, learn about the retirement laws, educational system, etc. just to get a wife and have some kids? Maybe if you have family that is still in Mexico, it would be feasible...but we got loads of dudes on this forum talking about going to the Philippines to get a wife, and i know that most of them ain't Fiilipino! haha
If we're are talking about Western men finding wives, I honestly think men are better off finding a "cute-enough" wife who has some rock-solid values. A girl-next-door type chick that comes from the kind of family that YOU want create. I'd rather have wife who is a 6 w/ character than a wife who is a 9 w/ character. You know why? Because all things being equal, the 6 will have only hundreds of men hitting on her instead of thousands
At the end of the day, even the most trustworthy woman is still subject to her own hypergamy, so there ain't no such thing as removing the threat of her cheating on me. The only thing I can do is pick wisely so not too many dudes are chasing after her. Yes, tight game is tight game, but I'm not the only man with game out there in the world.
I think we should spend our 20s and 30s travelling and attempting to have LTRs with foreign women
as a learning experience. That way you learn just how much value you have as a man relative to a woman. You learn how a bitch thats with it will respect and adore her man. Using that knowledge, you can better judge whether an American woman is LTR material.
I'm 21 right now, but I've been reading this forum for a while. My plan is to experience many women from many different nations for the next 2 decades while I stack my paper. I've got an LTR and a jump-off (check out jariel's threads) and I
still have the itch to smash other women, so I know this libido ain't going anywhere anytime soon. Eventually, I'll settle down with a young,
American woman who comes from a good, patriarchal type family. Her father should be the kind of older man that most guys here on the forum would want to emulate. She'll have a good relationship with her Dad. These are the qualities that I imagine that I'll want in twenty years...and I imagine that this image I have in my head will become more specific and realistic as I age.
After reading so many threads and listening to some of the more experienced cats on this forum, if there is anything that I have learned, it's that marriage is not something you "just do". The consequences are too great. Marriage is a journey, and it is not one for the unprepared. And thanks to Roosh V Forum and other game blogs, I can say that I
think I have a "game" plan to approach it.