Back in the pre-facebook era (before 2010 here in Brazil), it´s generally agreed that fucking women was a lot more simple, as well as a hell of a lot easier.
You would cold approach, run comfort and make out. If all went well and you kept your frame of superiority, it would be a matter of time before sex.
You would wait a couple of days before calling the girl to maintain an aura of mystery and unavailability, and then set up a date. Typically, the bang would happen in the 2nd or 3rd encounter (this with a quality girl).
Flaking was very rare.
Fast forward to the present day: women hold most if not all the cards in the mating game. It´s undeniable that they have more power than us presently, in my opinion precisely because of the internet.
An average woman will receive hundreds of offers from men in dating and social networking sites, while an attractive man will either get none at all or a few from women way below him in value.
This spills onto real life and hurts real world game: night game is dead and day game still works, but isn´t what it used to be.
Paradoxically, women will bitch and moan about the lack of men (even though they get approached many times daily, mostly in the virtual world).
You look around and you see your many single friends who are men of value and have few to no sexual options and you wonder what the hell women are complaining about.
The truth of the matter is that the perceived value of men is currently below women´s (please note it´s not the real value that is in question) simply because we´re too available. Our price is, therefore low.
It really seems to be a matter of supply and demand, as the sex market has been artificially skewed in women´s favour by social media.
The sexual marketplace has been heavily regulated and isn´t following the natural order of the free market economy.
When women complain there are no good men left what they mean is that they aren´t being hit on by men they consider to be superior to them.
In my personal life, even though my game is miles ahead of what it was in 2010, I don´t get laid nearly as much, and the quality of women I pick up has plummeted.
I´ve observed this is also the case with many other guys.
I have friends who are in their 30s, fit and financially independent yet are picking up women in their 40s.
Yes, I´ve tried tinder and online dating and in my opinion it´s very hit and miss and the level of women is way below the ones I can get with real life game.
Facebook is another game killer.
As to whatsapp and other instant messaging apps, I´ve observed that if I meet a girl in real life and I´m able to ignite some attraction, once I give her my number and we start communicating via whatsapp I will inevitably lose her.
Presumably, in her mind I am placed in the pile of idiots who are her online suitors.
I´ve stopped using facebook for a year and now I´m thinking about ditching tinder and whatsapp. In short, I´ll be unavailable online and will try make all interaction with women happen solely in person or by phone.
I´d like to know the thoughts and opinions of more experienced members who are sincere in their intention to help their fellow men.
You would cold approach, run comfort and make out. If all went well and you kept your frame of superiority, it would be a matter of time before sex.
You would wait a couple of days before calling the girl to maintain an aura of mystery and unavailability, and then set up a date. Typically, the bang would happen in the 2nd or 3rd encounter (this with a quality girl).
Flaking was very rare.
Fast forward to the present day: women hold most if not all the cards in the mating game. It´s undeniable that they have more power than us presently, in my opinion precisely because of the internet.
An average woman will receive hundreds of offers from men in dating and social networking sites, while an attractive man will either get none at all or a few from women way below him in value.
This spills onto real life and hurts real world game: night game is dead and day game still works, but isn´t what it used to be.
Paradoxically, women will bitch and moan about the lack of men (even though they get approached many times daily, mostly in the virtual world).
You look around and you see your many single friends who are men of value and have few to no sexual options and you wonder what the hell women are complaining about.
The truth of the matter is that the perceived value of men is currently below women´s (please note it´s not the real value that is in question) simply because we´re too available. Our price is, therefore low.
It really seems to be a matter of supply and demand, as the sex market has been artificially skewed in women´s favour by social media.
The sexual marketplace has been heavily regulated and isn´t following the natural order of the free market economy.
When women complain there are no good men left what they mean is that they aren´t being hit on by men they consider to be superior to them.
In my personal life, even though my game is miles ahead of what it was in 2010, I don´t get laid nearly as much, and the quality of women I pick up has plummeted.
I´ve observed this is also the case with many other guys.
I have friends who are in their 30s, fit and financially independent yet are picking up women in their 40s.
Yes, I´ve tried tinder and online dating and in my opinion it´s very hit and miss and the level of women is way below the ones I can get with real life game.
Facebook is another game killer.
As to whatsapp and other instant messaging apps, I´ve observed that if I meet a girl in real life and I´m able to ignite some attraction, once I give her my number and we start communicating via whatsapp I will inevitably lose her.
Presumably, in her mind I am placed in the pile of idiots who are her online suitors.
I´ve stopped using facebook for a year and now I´m thinking about ditching tinder and whatsapp. In short, I´ll be unavailable online and will try make all interaction with women happen solely in person or by phone.
I´d like to know the thoughts and opinions of more experienced members who are sincere in their intention to help their fellow men.