Quote: (12-19-2014 07:33 PM)TravelerKai Wrote:
Don't turn into a mgtow.
This.
The world is a fairground.
A crazy, fucked-up fairground run by shady characters, and half the rides are dangerous and most of the games are rigged - sure. But it's a funfair nonetheless.
So, have fun.
Try not to accidentally wish you were Tom Hanks though
Sounds like you've learned some insights and that's great - keep learning. We all should. But have fun with it. Improve yourself. Make money. See the world. Have red-hot monkey sex with pouty, skinny bitches with perky tits.
A lot of people think too much, watch the news too much, worry about politics or relationships or whatever-the-fuck-it-is too much, and it makes them bitter. You probably can't fix the world, but you can live your life to the full. Make your life the sort of adventure you want it to be. Make memories. Be the sort of interesting cool guy you'd want to be if they were making a movie about you.
Just don't Hollywood them rip you off like they did my life story
I read your earlier comments about that Polish girl you weren't sure how to talk to. I think pretty much everyone on this forum has been there at some point. Game is a wonderful, amazing tool to improve your success with women - and to improve the rest of your life too.
And "game" is a great word for it - because it's
fun. Flirting with girls, teasing them, improving your approach skills along the way. It's great stuff.
They love it.
Don't be a loner, unless you're sure you really, really want to - that's a sad, hard, rocky road. Make friends. Make girlfriends. Yes, some of them will let you down, but fuck it - life is a contact sport. You're going to get hurt from time to time, it's part of being in the game.
You want to do your own things - that's good! Be selfish. I mean that - live your life for yourself, and plan to get the things you want. Lots of people don't live the way they really want to do, for fear of losing their parents' approval or whatever.
But you're a
man. You don't need anybody else's approval to live your life. Be confident in yourself, walk tall, and surround yourself with awesome people. They're out there. They'll help you.