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Neighbours having loud sex
12-18-2014, 05:04 PM
This started a few days ago when a new couple moved in next door. Unfortunately theirs and my bed are on opposite sides of the wall. The girl is quite loud and you can tell she is having a good time or at the very least good at acting like it. Suffice to say I do find her moaning arousing at times but frankly the sound of other people having that much fun is really impacting my game and outlook on life as I'm going through somewhat of a dry period. The fact that they do it at odd times like 5am is slightly bothersome but the psychological aspect is what's really bugging me.
My personal dilemma is do I focus on accepting the fact that its happening next door and ignore it, or should I actively try and stop them. The last resort of course being moving somewhere else.
Opinions/suggestions welcome
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12-18-2014, 05:09 PM
Wait you are in Taiwan and people are having loud sex? The Taiwanese seem very concerned about how they appear to other people and how they behave in public, I really can't see any of the ones I met doing this at all.
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Neighbours having loud sex
12-18-2014, 05:09 PM
Please note also that I am already wearing ear plugs unfortunately my horny male brain can still very easily distinguish the sound of a lady moaning ear pugs or not.
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Neighbours having loud sex
12-18-2014, 05:11 PM
Yes I am in Taiwan and its a local couple. It's not that uncommon actually I've encountered this in a few other residences in asia just not this close proximity wise or this frequent.
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12-18-2014, 05:36 PM
Bring a girl back to your place and return the favor. Win-win
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Neighbours having loud sex
12-18-2014, 05:44 PM
Look at it on the bright side, at least it's not two males having loud sex... Uwww..
You can't move your bed to elsewhere in the apartment? If it's constantly in the middle of the night you could ask them to keep it down during odd hours, possibly asking them to move their bed?
It's amazing what neighbours can resolve just by having a friendly talk.
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Neighbours having loud sex
12-18-2014, 05:47 PM
Drill a hole in the wall.
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Neighbours having loud sex
12-18-2014, 05:50 PM
Ill try to keep it down
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12-18-2014, 07:16 PM
The real question is; "Is she hot?"
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Neighbours having loud sex
12-18-2014, 07:23 PM
I am in the same situation with my neighbor. I have ignored her and her boyfriend the last 2-3 month, but it is getting on my nerves, especially when they fuck on week nights around 2am, it always wakes me up. I'm think of ordering her a gag ball.
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Neighbours having loud sex
12-18-2014, 08:13 PM
Lived in Taiwan a year myself. Agree most residents aren't like that but I presume there are the occasional kinky folks even in somewhat boring TW. I also think you have a valid point -- reminds me of when I was talking to a Korea expat telling me his girl troubles in Korea and to top it off his roommate expat was doing chicks every few nights, which only worsened his own spirits.
I think it's very simple, just politely tap on their door several times each time they are going loud, just keep doing politely but solid door knocks -- in a saving face kind of way they will get the point, I can only be sure, as Asians usually do highly value peace... And they know that your polite knocks will eventually turn into kicks and then bombs left of their doorstop.
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Neighbours having loud sex
12-19-2014, 02:46 AM
Write an anonymous note and stick it on their door. It works most of the time.
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Neighbours having loud sex
12-19-2014, 03:22 AM
- Write a note to them:
"Could you please be louder during sex? It's hard to masturbate while holding my glass against the wall. Thanks."
- Or more obvious and direct: as soon as she begins to make noises, make the same but LOUDER.
They'll get the message.
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Neighbours having loud sex
12-19-2014, 09:07 AM
Print the note, my friend. Or just put a picture.