[lowside]

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A man has to have a stance. Simply has to. Always and everywhere, without exception. Leave those stories that say a man has to be the head, and the woman the neck [methaphorical]. I don't want to be the neck. The man is the one who has to be the head, the neck and the spine. I'm there to support. You [a man], simply, walk in front living your life, I'm there half a step behind you watching your back, because no matter how strong I am - you have to be stronger.

Diamonds are still out there guys. Just have to dig em up.

[seabridge]

She looks pretty hot on that small picture too

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

Dream girl, if she doesn't give her sexy body and femininity to some glue-sniffing ruffian, which is probably most likely how it's going to happen.

[Snowplow]

Sounds like my girl!

[funkyzeit]

That's how most of them think in this region, few westernized exceptions here and there. And that's why I am often baffled by reading western women horror stories.

[Kingsley Davis]

"Diamonds are still out there guys. Just have to dig em up."

Dig em up and keep them where you found em.

[ChrisPitts]

Could you imagine if this had been posted by an American girl?






Yeah, neither can I.

[Alpha]

(11-19-2014 07:16 AM)ChrisPitts Wrote:  

Could you imagine if this had been posted by an American girl?






Yeah, neither can I.

My wife is an american girl (I know, married, so gay #beta), and she thinks this way. She's gotten into a few conversations at work about her beliefs, women being supporting to men and so forth, and had people pull her aside and ask her if she's being abused.

[bojangles]

(11-19-2014 04:42 AM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:  

Dream girl, if she doesn't give her sexy body and femininity to some glue-sniffing ruffian, which is probably most likely how it's going to happen.

Haha don't forget the overbearing Facebook attention

[HighSpeed_LowDrag]

Serbian girls - gotta love them

[iop890]

(11-19-2014 08:01 AM)Alpha Wrote:  

My wife is an american girl (I know, married, so gay #beta), and she thinks this way. She's gotten into a few conversations at work about her beliefs, women being supporting to men and so forth, and had people pull her aside and ask her if she's being abused.

Hah! I've had someone ask my girlfriend that before as well. At the time it pissed me off, now it's hilarious.

[Onto]

I can see why what she wrote seems very desirable, but I see potential red flags, depending on what you're looking for.

She says she's there to support her man, yet she doesn't take a role in any part of her metaphor (the body) to describe a marriage.

The spine is the symbol of support, as is the neck. (You stick your neck out for someone). Also the neck is used to turn the head (the masculine) in the direction you want it to go. It takes involvement, effort and cooperation and it seems she wants no part of it.

She's walking behind, not in front, which we as men like but for what purpose? To protect or to hide behind or to stab?

It seems to me that while she may not be a controlling, feminist bitch, she may be the opposite extreme where she wants no responsibility and to lay by the pool all day. Is that marriage material?

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A man has to have a stance. Simply has to. Always and everywhere, without exception. Leave those stories that say a man has to be the head, and the woman the neck [methaphorical]. I don't want to be the neck. The man is the one who has to be the head, the neck and the spine. I'm there to support. You [a man], simply, walk in front living your life, I'm there half a step behind you watching your back, because no matter how strong I am - you have to be stronger.

[Seth_Rose]

Onto I think you make a good point and that could very well be true, although it's just a Facebook post so we don't have the ability to make a full evaluation.

Also, deep down I think most Western women feel this way or want to feel this way. They've just been conditioned to think this is wrong and would never admit it at a conscious level.

[Dr. Howard]

(11-19-2014 07:16 AM)ChrisPitts Wrote:  

Could you imagine if this had been posted by an American girl?






Yeah, neither can I.

I can do more than imagine, its the kind of stuff I see posted (but with more scripture references) by the women in my southern baptist church.

[Orion]

Women - don't take their words

[Onto]

(11-19-2014 10:05 AM)Seth_Rose Wrote:  

Onto I think you make a good point and that could very well be true, although it's just a Facebook post so we don't have the ability to make a full evaluation.

Also, deep down I think most Western women feel this way or want to feel this way. They've just been conditioned to think this is wrong and would never admit it at a conscious level.

Seth, I agree with you. We can't make a full evaluation of a Facebook post alone. Good or Bad.

I think you're right about Western women deep down wanting to be the good feminine. After spending 2 months in the Philippines I got to experience what women used to be, what they were born to be. In the Phil, they seem much happier and content within.

In contrast, when I look at Western women (young and old, especially older) it's hard not to notice how despondent they are. How unhappy, unfulfilled and filled with rage. There's no brightness inside of them, just an ingrained scowl on their face. More and more young American women are drinking heavily and I wonder if it's their way of escaping the pain of cutting across the grain.

I "almost" feel pity for them, but they did bring all of this upon themselves believing the grass was greener on the man's side of the fence.

[Travesty]

HCE has it right. A girl talking this way most likely is going to be looking for thug dick that has a record.

I doubt she'd be caught fucking a "man of the people" benevolent strong guy.

[TravelerKai]

(11-19-2014 08:59 AM)Onto Wrote:  

I can see why what she wrote seems very desirable, but I see potential red flags, depending on what you're looking for.

She says she's there to support her man, yet she doesn't take a role in any part of her metaphor (the body) to describe a marriage.

The spine is the symbol of support, as is the neck. (You stick your neck out for someone). Also the neck is used to turn the head (the masculine) in the direction you want it to go. It takes involvement, effort and cooperation and it seems she wants no part of it.

She's walking behind, not in front, which we as men like but for what purpose? To protect or to hide behind or to stab?

It seems to me that while she may not be a controlling, feminist bitch, she may be the opposite extreme where she wants no responsibility and to lay by the pool all day. Is that marriage material?

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A man has to have a stance. Simply has to. Always and everywhere, without exception. Leave those stories that say a man has to be the head, and the woman the neck [methaphorical]. I don't want to be the neck. The man is the one who has to be the head, the neck and the spine. I'm there to support. You [a man], simply, walk in front living your life, I'm there half a step behind you watching your back, because no matter how strong I am - you have to be stronger.

Onto you are looking at that too deeply.

Chinese women have a saying, "The Female monkey always follows closely behind the male monkey."

I cannot tell you how slightly annoying it is that I have to tell my wife to sometimes walk through the door first. She is always trying to hold the door open for me from behind. In fact, I had to find ways to make her stop walking behind me at times. At first it felt a little bit embarrassing that she would do that, but after a while I just stopped caring about it. If you go to China you will commonly see women carrying a child walking slightly behind their husband. Sometimes they match walking speed, but quite often I see them drop back.

You almost never see that in the US, unless the woman is slow, fat, or lazy.

Behind = submission in some cultures.

[seabridge]

(11-19-2014 11:34 AM)Onto Wrote:  

(11-19-2014 10:05 AM)Seth_Rose Wrote:  

Onto I think you make a good point and that could very well be true, although it's just a Facebook post so we don't have the ability to make a full evaluation.

Also, deep down I think most Western women feel this way or want to feel this way. They've just been conditioned to think this is wrong and would never admit it at a conscious level.

Seth, I agree with you. We can't make a full evaluation of a Facebook post alone. Good or Bad.

I think you're right about Western women deep down wanting to be the good feminine. After spending 2 months in the Philippines I got to experience what women used to be, what they were born to be. In the Phil, they seem much happier and content within.

In contrast, when I look at Western women (young and old, especially older) it's hard not to notice how despondent they are. How unhappy, unfulfilled and filled with rage. There's no brightness inside of them, just an ingrained scowl on their face. More and more young American women are drinking heavily and I wonder if it's their way of escaping the pain of cutting across the grain.

I "almost" feel pity for them, but they did bring all of this upon themselves believing the grass was greener on the man's side of the fence.

I saw that in Vietnam too. Yes they have less money, but i think as long as they got food on their table, they are not less happy than their western counterparts. Imo they are more happy in the traditional wife role, than most Danish carear women, who spends to much time on facebook and reality tv

[Onto]

(11-19-2014 11:44 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:  

Behind = submission in some cultures.

I agree. I was pointing out it can mean something else.

[Lizard King]

(11-19-2014 08:59 AM)Onto Wrote:  

I can see why what she wrote seems very desirable, but I see potential red flags, depending on what you're looking for.

She says she's there to support her man, yet she doesn't take a role in any part of her metaphor (the body) to describe a marriage.

The spine is the symbol of support, as is the neck. (You stick your neck out for someone). Also the neck is used to turn the head (the masculine) in the direction you want it to go. It takes involvement, effort and cooperation and it seems she wants no part of it.

She's walking behind, not in front, which we as men like but for what purpose? To protect or to hide behind or to stab?

It seems to me that while she may not be a controlling, feminist bitch, she may be the opposite extreme where she wants no responsibility and to lay by the pool all day. Is that marriage material?

Quote:
A man has to have a stance. Simply has to. Always and everywhere, without exception. Leave those stories that say a man has to be the head, and the woman the neck [methaphorical]. I don't want to be the neck. The man is the one who has to be the head, the neck and the spine. I'm there to support. You [a man], simply, walk in front living your life, I'm there half a step behind you watching your back, because no matter how strong I am - you have to be stronger.

You expect rhetorical precision from a woman?

Does it matter if there are holes in what she says? No, because the sentiment is in the right place.

[Onto]

(11-19-2014 12:03 PM)Lizard King Wrote:  

You expect rhetorical precision from a woman?

Does it matter if there are holes in what she says? No, because the sentiment is in the right place.

It definitely matters. All too often we only see the piece we like and ignore the rest.

The fact she even posts that on her Facebook suggests she's in question about it.

[Duke Castile]

(11-19-2014 04:42 AM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:  

Dream girl, if she doesn't give her sexy body and femininity to some glue-sniffing ruffian, which is probably most likely how it's going to happen.

Which brand of glue?

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

Just kidding. If I actually knew which glue brands were good for sniffing, I'd be too busy fucking this girl to reply

[turkishcandy]

OP why don't you give the full name of this girl and save us all this mental trouble?