Quote: (08-21-2014 04:07 PM)Vacancier Permanent Wrote:
So here's a very interesting situation I am facing now for which I'd like those with more experience with 8-9 and 10's in MNL to get some feedback from when dealing with these top shelf Pinay girls.
Nothing beta about this.
My initial thoughts:
-She found a better man or "more accessible" one that is willing to move quicker because she is getting closer to 30.
-Something personal happened and she is freaking out.
-She probably had serious flaws or maybe even anxiety bouts, and you are just now catching onto it.
-Asian women change their flames quickly. Can be good or bad.
-As pretty as she is, she is still a pinay. Right now there is a 18-20 year old there with your name on her chest that you could groom the way you would like.
-Shock from losing a quality gal always seems to hurt badly at first until you figure out how to find them in larger numbers. Get a system going.
One technique you can use is to find some very high quality types and just use them for conversation. Just talking to a high quality gal with no intentions to fuck them can do wonders for your psyche.
I did that a few times just to calm myself down when my stable flock was making me angry. At one time, my now wife was too busy working to talk to me, and my other 3 girls were each acting up. My stable was kinda empty and I had just 4 inside the pasture fence. I found some mid 30's women that were lawyers and scientists, etc. and just spent time talking to them online, regardless of if I was not their type or not. Just try to get their attention first and if they try to say, "Sorry not my type", tell them you just wanted an older friend to practice Tagalog with or something like that. Or you want some advice on PI from them. If you can get access to their FB, or even their trust or something, PIPELINE IT!
Sites like Christian Filipina seem to have high quality women on it. Just talk to them. You could even jump onto higher end Chinese, Thai, or Japanese sites and see if you can spot some successful middle age types (12 to 15 bucks doesnt mean shit to pay for an oil man like yourself). Keep the sub for one month, you should have your hands full by then. They usually have beautiful skin, but with the obvious wrinkles and spots no 20 year will have. In this mode you want their minds and hearts, not their wombs and pussy. The strategy is to ween yourself off "One Hit Wonders" being special to you. And...of course potential pipelines of their sisters, friends, and cousins...*ahem*
If/When she gets her act together, and hit's you up you can be like,
"Oh hey! How are you doing!? How's life? How was your dad's funeral?
Her: Excuse me?
"Oh I sorry that was someone else I was thinking about." "Didn't you have some kind of emergency or issue? Is it resolved yet?"
Her: "I just wanted us to take a break for a while."
You: "Ah I see. We should talk about it and see if we can't sort this out." "So what exactly happened? Because I feel like you caused me to lose face. I thought we had something wonderful going on and I was getting ready my passport and stuff to come see you, until you did that to me. I thought you had the good Filipino family values we discussed, what happened to that?"
You get the idea now....
Her face will be flushed red hot with anger. Once she stops to think, she will realize holy fuck I screwed up. Let me fix this. Well....unless she calls you back to tell you she has moved on. Something Asians almost never do because that is a loss of face for both people. Only Westerners tend to do this. They prefer the quiet fade into a new life.
If you did your homework assignment from above the next tangle with her will be a highly productive one. You will be armed with confidence, vigor, options, possible backups, the truth, and best of all a way to smack that ass back into submission if she has not bailed on you.
If I think of some other stuff I'll let you know.
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