Long-time lurker. Have good experience with girls but I've been noticing that I get a lot of "good girls" rejecting/flaking on me because they think I'm a player or too physical/sexual.
For example, I get a lot of scenarios that play out like this:
At a bar/club, see girl giving me eye contact, so I approach. We talk for a bit and after 5-10 minutes, I start to get physical. Start with touching, rubbing arms, then kiss them and make out. After making out for a bit, bring them to a spot where we can sit, we kiss a bit more, touch her body, etc. At this point, she is pretty riled up so I try to bounce her out of there and this is what ends up happening:
She tells me she is not a hook up type of girl or that she is not into having sex with random guys. I tell her that's cool, ow about we hang out during the week and grab something to eat. She says that sounds good. We make out more and I try to escalate again but it usually goes nowhere. After the night ends, I usually get flaked on by these girls or they don't ever respond to my texts despite the physical attraction being there. Anyone else have experience with good girls and these kind of situations? This always happens with the more conservative cute girls and rarely with the slutty types.
For example, I get a lot of scenarios that play out like this:
At a bar/club, see girl giving me eye contact, so I approach. We talk for a bit and after 5-10 minutes, I start to get physical. Start with touching, rubbing arms, then kiss them and make out. After making out for a bit, bring them to a spot where we can sit, we kiss a bit more, touch her body, etc. At this point, she is pretty riled up so I try to bounce her out of there and this is what ends up happening:
She tells me she is not a hook up type of girl or that she is not into having sex with random guys. I tell her that's cool, ow about we hang out during the week and grab something to eat. She says that sounds good. We make out more and I try to escalate again but it usually goes nowhere. After the night ends, I usually get flaked on by these girls or they don't ever respond to my texts despite the physical attraction being there. Anyone else have experience with good girls and these kind of situations? This always happens with the more conservative cute girls and rarely with the slutty types.
