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01-12-2014, 12:57 PM
Yep - can you provide an example of a girl you've banged? Post some facebook convo snippets, or OKC convos, etc? I'd be curious to see from the learning perspective. Especially as soup's wouldn't work for me atm - not living on my own. Good to know every angle.
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01-12-2014, 01:08 PM
well, there's very powerful data you can get these girls to tell you... once they are an open book its GG... but its so girl dependant...
I mean here's one example, I can draw many conclusions and assume things quite fairly about her ONLY by asking a woman about her relationship with her father.
Now obviously this isn't something you bring up "cold". And it depends once again on the girl... on the flow of the conversation
In most conversations I wont bring that up but sometimes it just goes there.
It's mostly being able to listen actively to her and attempting to have her cerebral juices flow by asking her good questions, maybe stuff thats more personal, that she doesnt open up to often
Once she starts opening up, the conversations open up also...
you need to be able to analyze the girl, to read her, to be able to guess what she'll reply to your question and plan your next question based on that
and sometimes, even when you seem to have her right where you want her to be.... she'll do something unexpected
and thats when the fun starts
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01-12-2014, 01:17 PM
I'm not sure how I feel about exposing all my shit lol, withdrew a picture because of that.
Also, keep in mind I bang mostly french girls inclusively.
English girls here are a lot more stuck up. Little confidence in themselves. At the club looking at other girls look at other girls, instead of actually having fun.
You can tell, by talking to a girl for a few minutes, if she's comfortable in her own skin. The way she takes compliments being a good hint.
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01-12-2014, 02:46 PM
Quote: (01-12-2014 02:35 PM)soup Wrote:
I have a friend who always asks girls if they can take a compliment before he compliments them. He gets a lot of ass.
It's an example of a more general technique called focusing.
Ask a girl if "she can take a compliment" and she becomes a little tense and anxious to find out what it's going to be. Her attention is captivated, and now you can detonate even a relatively trivial compliment that would pass unnoticed in the normal flow of things and have it mean something to her, because you prefaced it with a focusing question.
You should always be asking girls things like "can you take a compliment", or "you seem like an unusually intelligent girl, can I talk to you openly", or "you seem like someone open-minded and unconventional -- would you mind if I say something unusual". These focusing techniques are very useful (and every female will suck up the idea that she is unusually intelligent, open-minded and unconventional because it's the opposite of the truth but something she desperately wants to believe).
same old shit, sixes and sevens Shaft...
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01-12-2014, 04:04 PM
It's mostly the way they react.... Some will shrug it off, with a simple thank you, some will blush.
The hotter girls usually give you a generic, boring, "thank you" response.
Sometimes they will return the compliment.
I usually like to see some humility somewhere down the line. It tells me a bunch about the kind of girl I'm dealing with.
Girls who you see are "used" to getting tons of compliments, will make you work harder to make them feel special, since plenty of dudes already on that.
And I mean, ladies, It's ok to know you're hot, but I find girls who let that thought get to them... are usually full of themselves.
I tend to stay away as a whole, with people who take themselves too seriously, as they usually are very bland, and empty.
More easy stuff to filter talking online.
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01-12-2014, 04:20 PM
No that's the whole point. It's a way of prefacing a flirt without coming off as the needy creepy guy wants reciprocation for the compliment. You say can you take a compliment, it's implied that you aren't expecting anything back, and that you have experience with women. And that focussing thing.
You are also testing them or qualifying them by putting them on the spot.
It shows that you are higher status than most guys and probably the girl.
The crass newbie goes up to a girl and tells her he likes her necklace without any preface.
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01-13-2014, 04:37 PM
@FrenchCanadian: I like your style, but I fear it's a different type of game that works much better on Quebecois girls, than anglo or especially american girls. You speak French to them, I assume? Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think that language has a lot different ways of expressing emotions better than english and use of innuendos and flirtatious double meaning phrases? I can see that working on some English speaking girls, yet for most, especially the younger ones, I'd wonder whether they have the necessary attention span for this type of long-term seduction.
I am just getting started with online this week. Having some more pics taken and getting ass-tight profiles set up.
It's super interesting to note the two comparative methods of Soup and FrenchCanadian with online dating. They are like on opposite sides of a spectrum. One is direct, high-volume, high-risk hustle game, the other is targeted, customized, long-haul seduction game. Brilliant contrast between the two. Each one has merit and should provides success in respective dating markets and different type of girls.
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01-14-2014, 01:31 AM
Thanks for the pics man, always interesting to see how other cities are like. Montreal is great though, wish I could visit more often. (And speak French - that would be ideal.)
Not bad for a Tuesday night. Interesting. The group of girls seems pretty young, early 20s, the guys in the crowd seem older.
Blondie's not bad. Looks pretty drunk lol
What's your strategy for opening up a set of 5? Do you focus on 1-2 girls or try to talk to the whole group in the beginning?
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01-14-2014, 10:14 AM
I'm 26... 20-25 is my preferred age group. And yes, everybody was wasted.
I will prefer focusing on the one that stands out (to me), & making somekind of eye contact, then going to talk to the girl directly (if they are a group of 5)
If they are 2 however, that changes. I focus the both of them.
The guys in there were no older than 25, it's just that the beards are taking over.
Not many fucks are given by guys here.
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01-19-2014, 11:34 PM
FrenchCanadian, I realise you are from Montreal also but this is exactly the same game i've been using on dating sites.
I've been working out this little latina chick from Laval for nearly a month now, I had other girls in mind so I would jsut chit-chat with her sometime, make her jokes, funny compliments but never anything serious. Sometime wanting to meet her and flaking (me..) at the last minute, saying I had better things to do. She's now begging to see me, we will see how it goes.
The one I went too fast with, and that I had a ONS was the first girl I met online and the exception rather than the norm but it was also during summer where the vibe is very different. Nomally 2 dates are required.
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02-05-2014, 12:36 PM
We should rename this thread "DIRECT FARM TO TABLE" as in the restaurants...i am going to focus on this for next few weeks and let you know results...
I think a big factor here that works for this and SOUP's other lays is having weed on hand which is a differentiator so I am ordering some fresh supply for Hydro...
I will use combination of
a. Sexual vibe ("makeout" line in texting or telling them "i hope you can handle me" for size)
b. Cooking dinner (i will get chinese takeout)
c. Smoking after dinner
I am also thinking of throwing another twist in there. I work next block from work and can go there for lunch so thinking of pulling this for Lunch bangs. My schedule is too tight right now.
The Lizard Whisperer.......