[AntiTrace]

WesternCancer recently wrote in the players lounge about a chick that was talking about "the one" and then proceeded to make out with WC on NYE. Here's the post:

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So I drank a bottle of whisky last night. Bunch of chicks show up and one of them is eyeing me up as soon as she walks thru the door.

An hour later she pulled me aside and told me not to kiss her because she was tempted.

I figured out the reason was because her "it's complicated" guy phoned her from Toronto to wish her a happy New year.

Minutes after shed said how much she missed him her tongue was down my throat.

Made out for a bit ans called her a slut. She said something like "I'm the most innocent slut you'll ever meet"

Made out a bit more after that but was too drunk and her and her friends had to leave right after midnight

Asked her a bit about the guy and she started saying how he might be the one.

That shit bothers me. I know the nature of women but when a girl starts talking about a dude like he's her life right after you're making out its fucked up. They don't even realize how they sound and come off to people

I was originally just going to rpely in the players lounge, but I figured this needs a bit more exposure.



A month ago I had an all night fuck session with a girl. She swallowed my load the first time, I came inside of her the next three.

18 hours later...yes I did the calculations and it was almost exactly 18 hours...she posted a video on facebook of a guy proposing to her. It was one of those surprise ambush super wannabe romantic type proposals. She jumped up into his arms and wrapped her legs around him. The same legs that were pulling my ass into her as she was moaning about how much she loved getting fucked by me and how surprised she was anyone could get her to the point of being so "gushing wet".

A bunch of people were in on the "surprise" as well. It was a coordinated thing planned weeks in advance.

To see all that effort put into something that was broken from the beginning was too much for me to watch. Too see the pure happiness and joy on that guys face...to see everyone else clapping and getting teary eyed...to watch her legs wrap around him, knowing that my semen was still inside of her and my dick still smelled of her multiple orgasms...too see that the video got somewhere in the low 100's likes and something like thirty shares...too have her text me to hang out and say she misses me shortly after...

It was a complete and utter mindfuck. It takes a lot to get me angry, but I was instantly furious and slammed my laptop shut and had to go to the gym (even though I had just come from there). I wasn't mad that she had deceived me, I was irrate that she had such a false impact on all of these peoples lives.

It's an experience that I wish I could share with every man in the world.

SO yeah, I hear you WC, this shit bothers me too.

[Checkmat]

I was fucking a girl with a live-in boyfriend/baby daddy. One time when she was at my house after we got done fucking (similar to Anti's exp, this chick was moaning for me to cum inside her while fucking raw) and she was sitting on my couch and got a dreamy look in her eye and told me how she hoped he would propose to her, and that she "would probably say yes."

I just sat there looking at her while she droned on and thought, do you not hear yourself? Do you not hear how completely fucked up the words you're saying in the context...

Sort of a turning point for me on how irrational, absurd and selfish chicks can be. Pre-red pill too so it was kind of a shock.

[Ensam]

Yup. Getting rocked by this shit is by far the weakest part of my game. I lost the first 8 I landed with game because I couldn't stand her deception with other people. She came over to my place, we banged, then she pulled out a bottle of lube (that she brought with her across the country) and asked me to fuck her in the ass. Then a few minutes later took a phone call from a guy she was seeing talking about how she'd just checked into her hotel and was having a quiet night. Made me livid. I could have banged her a few more times if I'd been able to keep my emotions in check.

[AntiTrace]

That type of stuff doesn't bother me Ensam. I like being the "other guy" to be honest. Makes me feel like a boss. I don't know why, I'll let some psychologist postulate about that.

I think it was just more of a shock being able to actually see the guys face, his pure happiness, and the fact he was ready to dedicate his entire life to this deceptive carousel queen. It made it a bit personal. I just wanted to stop him. I wanted to be his white knight

[SpiderKing]

The One:


"I found my BetaBux"

[iknowexactly]

"Alpha Fucks and Beat Bucks, dat is how we roll" GBFM.

I've been both of these, I think few men are pure examples of either. A Beta will sometimes get his wife creaming like crazy and asking for it in the ass, probably more than most self-styled "players". The OP I guess thinks of him as the Alpha in this situation except "she had to go with friends." Perhaps all the girls some great player here will fuck will go on to have a "beta's" kids, making him the Alpha in my biological estimation.

The needle to thread is whose babies will she have. I think the way women think of it is if she has the Beta's babies, he's "the one" because that's the most important thing to her. Her grunting getting porn sex is just like watching TV to her in emotional importance.

If she's a true slut, she'll take the beta's money and have the Alpha's babies anyway. That is the true horror most of us want to avoid more than anything. Better a Beta or Alpha than a cuckold toy.

[Avon Barksdale]

Man after taking the red pill and reading a lot of stories it seems to me like women really are bat shit crazy

[Ensam]

(01-01-2014 02:09 PM)AntiTrace Wrote:  

That type of stuff doesn't bother me Ensam. I like being the "other guy" to be honest. Makes me feel like a boss. I don't know why, I'll let some psychologist postulate about that.

I think it was just more of a shock being able to actually see the guys face, his pure happiness, and the fact he was ready to dedicate his entire life to this deceptive carousel queen. It made it a bit personal. I just wanted to stop him. I wanted to be his white knight

I have a problem with the deception and how easy it is for girls to switch modes. Hell, I almost believed what that girl was telling her guy. I can't lie like that - maybe I'm jealous?

[AnonymousBosch]

(01-01-2014 03:32 PM)Ensam Wrote:  

I have a problem with the deception and how easy it is for girls to switch modes. Hell, I almost believed what that girl was telling her guy. I can't lie like that - maybe I'm jealous?

Women have no concept of honour, or that their word means anything. Their socialisation process discourages frankness or honesty, particularly as women expect constant emotional support from each other, and achieving higher social status requires the constant deception of faking niceness and instantly adapting to the dominant social belief system.

Girls will say "OMG call me I've missed you sooo much!" to her friend, then say "God, she's such a fake, fat bitch" to you the moment she's gone.

I've steered girls around gatherings from social group to social group and hear her voice conflicting opinions on the same topics minutes apart, depending on whatever opinion the group voices first that is largely agreed with.

I'm not really blaming them. They're so used to doing this, I'm not sure they are even capable of recognising it as dishonesty. I suspect it's automatic, and the rule of thumb is: "What is in my best interests to say so that I do not get socially-ostracised"

Combatative, blunt, opinionated girls, (or the classic 'all my friends are guys' girls), tend to have lower social value amongst groups of women, due to a flawed-understanding of normal female social dynamics, which is why they usually buy into feminist life scripts.

Basically, expect her to always be selective about the truth, and you won't ever be disappointed.

[WesternCancer]

^
Yeah, guys like us can't really do much besides controlling/manipulating certain factors and learning patterns of women, but at the end of the day if your girl is at a party with someone who can give her something you're not, with someone who can excite her in just the right way, shes going to end up getting fucked by him.


Reminds me of the quote from Jackie Brown

"You can't trust Melanie but you can trust Melanie to be Melanie."

[Matt3B]

Most girls don't marry for love. They marry for security and to have "their special day".

Life isn't about logic. Logically speaking, a girl who is about to marry a guy means that she only has this guy on her mind, and she wouldn't ever contemplate the thought of being with another guy while she is with him. We all know girls aren't logical.

I had something similar happen to me early on in 2013. I was repeatedly told by this girl in a group we had pre-drinks with before hitting a bar, that if she hadn't found "the one" then she would fuck me. She told me at least 5 times that night because she wanted to big time, and had it not been for the fact that he was making an appearance later that night and that the pre-drinks weren't at his apartment (where she lives with him), then I would've fucked her 100%. She was absolutely gagging for it.

I felt bad for the dude, sure, but I knew she was acting on female intuition and not logic. As I said, if he was out of town instead of just working late and joining us later, I would've fucked her. No need to get bothered by it. Just take advantage of that type of behaviour.

Who knows, maybe the guy was fucking around after all too, to which he would be getting props on here.

[soup]

Clearly marriage is a big joke of an institution. Government should not be involved in at all.

It sounds like you are still wrestling with putting girls on a pedestal, even if it is a very small one.

Realize that all women have little to know self control when in the presence of a master player.

I've accepted that so I don't have any expectations and have a kind of blasé reaction to that kind of thing at this point.

[Ensam]

(01-01-2014 03:58 PM)AnonymousBosch Wrote:  

I'm not really blaming them. They're so used to doing this, I'm not sure they are even capable of recognising it as dishonesty. I suspect it's automatic, and the rule of thumb is: "What is in my best interests to say so that I do not get socially-ostracised"

Combatative, blunt, opinionated girls, (or the classic 'all my friends are guys' girls), tend to have lower social value amongst groups of women, due to a flawed-understanding of normal female social dynamics, which is why they usually buy into feminist life scripts.

Basically, expect her to always be selective about the truth, and you won't ever be disappointed.

Yes. This is basically the attitude I've attempted to adopt. Notice above I said it was my biggest weakness in game. It's my weakness, not something women are doing wrong, per se. I get that for women it's critical for their survival to belong to a group. It's also critical to be able to get on the good side of strong men. I think sometimes these situations happen not when she's fucking one strong dude on the side and in a relationship with a weak dude but when she's fucking two strong dudes in different domains. I think women tend to live in the moment a lot more than men do because a woman's situation is much more dependent on the group around her and that has no guarantee of stability. A man's situation is mostly dependent on his own skills and personality which can't easily be taken away so we can plan more for the future.

[pitt]

Damn..thanks for sharing it though, this really makes you have second thoughts about having any type of serious relationship. I see a correlation here, the more engaged women you fuck, the less you trust any women.

[MrXY]

Marriage to women is fundamentally a business deal intended to secure her survival and that of her offspring and they are often very crass about it, as much as they attempt to hide it. We've all seen how quickly and heartlessly a woman will throw over one guy for another if she thinks sh'es getting a better "deal". This is the female genetic programming and there's really no use in getting upset about it. It's AFBB all the way, to one degree or another.

Embrace the Dark Enlightenment.

[AntiTrace]

(01-01-2014 04:33 PM)pitt Wrote:  

Damn..thanks for sharing it though, this really makes you have second thoughts about having any type of serious relationship. I see a correlation here, the more engaged women you fuck, the less you trust any women.

thus the problem.

the more deception you engage in, the more deception you assume.

[Vaun]

There are no good or bad women, its all in how we as men react to them and allow them access to our lives, bank accounts, time and energy. Maybe we will use that awareness to keep our money, and have a good time doing it. At the end of the day that is what they want. The proposer had to have seen signs of this and willfully ignored them, or is in such a delusion he is ok with it, there are some guys supposedly that are. Sort of the porn husband scenario that always cracked me up, marry a well known slut and give her full legal power to destroy your financial and future life.

[This Is Trouble]

(01-01-2014 02:09 PM)AntiTrace Wrote:  

I think it was just more of a shock being able to actually see the guys face, his pure happiness, and the fact he was ready to dedicate his entire life to this deceptive carousel queen. It made it a bit personal. I just wanted to stop him. I wanted to be his white knight

I feel like as men, we need to look out for our fellow men in circumstances with these...and part of me wants to say that you should tell him.

...on the flip side, ignorance is bliss and there are certainly risks involved for yourself. And you come first and foremost.

Shitty place to be in, really.

[Valhalla]

The question to consider here is, how many of you have been that guy?

When fucking a girl i often ponder if she was swalling someone's babies a couple hours before me. I'll never know.

[AnonymousBosch]

(01-01-2014 06:20 PM)TroubleMaker Wrote:  

I feel like as men, we need to look out for our fellow men in circumstances with these...and part of me wants to say that you should tell him.

Pointless waste of time and energy. He'll choose to blame the Big Bad Wolf, not Little Red Riding Hood.

[Peregrine]

(01-01-2014 05:22 PM)AntiTrace Wrote:  

(01-01-2014 04:33 PM)pitt Wrote:  

Damn..thanks for sharing it though, this really makes you have second thoughts about having any type of serious relationship. I see a correlation here, the more engaged women you fuck, the less you trust any women.

thus the problem.

the more deception you engage in, the more deception you assume.

“The liar's punishment is, not in the least that he is not believed, but that he cannot believe anyone else.” - George Bernard Shaw

Certainly a better fate than perpetually being taken in by a liar though.

[CJ]

Years ago I got out of a 4 year LTR, and not long after called up one of my old fuck buddies. She was eager to hang out, and we banged almost immediately. After we finished, she answered a phone call, I didn't pay much attention to it, but it was obvious it was some guy, and as she was wiping my cum off of her, she ended the call with "I love you." I wasn't too shocked, knowing this particular girl, but you love him so much that you've got a naked guy in your bed, and his jizz all over your chest! WTF?!

Fast-forward a bit to when I was actually into game, I had banged this one a couple times, cumming inside her every time, and after one session, she decides she should let me know she's seeing someone else. Not necessarily intimately, she went on, but they'd been in a relationship for some time. Again... wow, although it didn't stop us from banging again several more times over the next month or so.

There was another girl I was seeing at the same time as the one above, lather, rinse, repeat, although at least this one had the class to tell me about her boyfriend after the first time we banged. Yes, we banged again several more times regardless. After that one, I just figured most girls are a lot sluttier than I ever imagined, and they really don't care about their boyfriends.

I know there's been more since, but I don't probe for this information, and personally I'd just assume they kept it to themselves.

[Beyond Borders]

I don't believe for a second that every woman is like this.

But the scary part is that it's so hard to see through the bullshit and figure out which ones are and which ones aren't. They're extremely convincing.

[Gopher]

Agreed Beyond Borders. I'd say most of them aren't like that. There is no story to tell with the ones that don't so it appears its more common than it actually is. That said, you never know what your dealing with so your best bet is to just never trust a woman.

[TheMachinist]

Dishonesty from women has probably been one of my biggest hangups.Now I just don't trust them at all.Always keep your guard up because the minute you get lax, a broad will make some revelation about her self that can make you wanna fucking vomit.