Quote: (12-09-2013 12:34 PM)soup Wrote:
Quote: (12-09-2013 05:38 AM)Distant Light Wrote:
I've found a way to end all that BS, it's more of a mindset than actual process...
1. I only interact face to face
2. I NEVER CALL CHICKS
3. I do not TEXT "back and forth" at all and use texting for logistical purposes
4. I give my number (and have her text me her name)
5. "Zero Fucks Are Given"...I simply live my life, she was given an opportunity it's her responsibility to take charge of her own life
6. I DO NOT DO DAY2s or DATES
Basically, I simply live my life and from time to time invite a chick to come along. The CONSISTENCY has been rather solid in the sense that usually within that month I see MAJORITY of the women. Reason I say a MONTH is because I've become very very flakey and barely invite people along anymore. Like, I already KNOW i'm going to be doing it up on whatever day I'm thinking of. It's not my job to try and persuade her or try to convince her. Not my issue if she passes up an opportunity, meanwhile Ima live it up!!
INVITE, INVITE, INVITE
Thing is lots of chicks started texting me out of the blue and more times than not, I've ATLEAST madeout with a chick. DISCLAIMER, this could potentially turn you into a flake because you don't care whether she comes out or not to the point that you don't even care to send an invite anymore since you will have another adventure anyway and meet new people.
Chicks can tell when I exchange numbers that I don't care to the point that I honestly might not ever send them an invite. I guess this compells them to NOT play games because whether they come or not would only be affecting them, I was already doing whatever it is I invited them too. Obviously as a chick gains status in my eyes I become more flexible "locking in" cool shit to do...AND, I just invite more people to come along. So instead of her and I going to dinner, it's her and 2 other girls I invited out.
P.S..Day2s and dates are the worst things ever, haven't been on a date in AGES. I don't even know if I even hungout with a chick 1 on 1 in 2013 :o
This is great.
Do you have them text you on the spot? Can you give an example of how this has gone down in the past?
Yes I have them text me their name on the spot. Although it's up to them to do it right then and there because...
A. I might be leaving right then and there
B. I might be chatting with someone else
How I view FLAKES is...
- Women are HUMAN they can fuckup and/or have their own issues
- Women are living their own life and just doesn't logistically suit her current situation
- Women have a wide range of CONSCIOUSNESS QUALITY in terms of TAKING CHARGE OF THEIR LIFE
Essentially a chick is being tested by me since she knows I have nothing to gain or lose my life will continue. Now it's up to her whether she will take responsibility for her social/sex life. Just because you don't go to six flags today DOES NOT MEAN six flags as a whole gives a shit, their will be more people still going having a blast on that day. While your doing whatever the fuck, people are still at six flags...So why play games with "six flags" either you want to go have fun or you don't.
EXAMPLES OF TEXTS
There is no such thing as "solid" interactions all that matters is YOU BEING FASCINATING and where she is at her life along with her ability to take charge of her own social/sex life. Most women are hanging out with men out of BOREDOM. After a month of staying home on the weekends, she decides "maybe I should hit up one of those guys who constantly texting me and wanting to go on a date."
With me however, they're is NO SUCH THING AS A DATE, who says she can even hookup with me? I don't even know if I want to mess with her or some other chick who peaked my interest.
Without dragging out too long, this vibe and process allows me to get #s in 30secs that result in the woman coming out the next night. (assuming I actually invite them since I tend to no longer bother much) Many times, I've seen certain chicks with guys and as the lights come on I just give them my number.
In a nutshell
- Texting back and forth = waste of time
- Trying to go on a date = waste of time
DISCLAIMER...
I might've stated it in my other post but I have become the one who is VERY FLAKEY. I'll go weeks without ever inviting a chick and then out of the blue either I invite her or she texts me wanting to meet/hookup.
A recent example, meet chick on tuesday, "lock-in" an adventure for saturday. Run into each other on wednesday BUT I am with friends so I don't hang with her. Saturday I flake because I don't feel like going out. We don't speak all week. Next saturday I invite her out, she goes elsewhere. I STICK TO WHERE I AM AT since I already wanted to do this. We meetup later in the night. I take her to 3 different spots. End up pulling a totally different girl.