I know you can't eliminate flaking entirely, but I still lose what seems to be solid prospects before the bang. My current method to minimizing this problem is getting her to show commitment/investment into the interaction. Logically the more she invests (e.g. displays of affection, asking a lot of questions, agreeing to instant dates), the more likely she will come out, but I'm continually surprised on how sometimes the girls who I do eventually get out showed much less investment than the ones who flaked.
Also, I have found that monstrously high value doesn't necessarily reduce flakes. It is an important step of the attraction-building process, for sure, but she can be a lowly student and you a superstar and she may still flake. In fact, I was flaked on just as much in Romania when the girl knew of me through the television.
I have also tried the instant text message model recommended by WestCoast and Giovanny, and I do like it, but I can't say it reduces flakes than if you wait 2 days to initiate first contact. My results from these two methods seem to be identical.
Or maybe the best thing to do is just chalk up flakes to the game not consciously try to defeat it. Maybe it's fruitful to fight, sort of like trying to defeat terrorism.
Also, I have found that monstrously high value doesn't necessarily reduce flakes. It is an important step of the attraction-building process, for sure, but she can be a lowly student and you a superstar and she may still flake. In fact, I was flaked on just as much in Romania when the girl knew of me through the television.
I have also tried the instant text message model recommended by WestCoast and Giovanny, and I do like it, but I can't say it reduces flakes than if you wait 2 days to initiate first contact. My results from these two methods seem to be identical.
Or maybe the best thing to do is just chalk up flakes to the game not consciously try to defeat it. Maybe it's fruitful to fight, sort of like trying to defeat terrorism.
Roosh
http://www.rooshv.com