Quote: (12-07-2018 12:37 PM)tomzestatlu Wrote:
Update about a 10 I wrote about last week (I can't quote on mobile)
I did call her on Tuesday with no answer. Then sent her sms next day saying I feel like doing something and two times when I'm free. She didn't respond, so I closed this.
Today she wrote me:"Sorry I am extremely busy. I gotta finish that project in two weeks and I promised a lot of friends to see them before Christmas. I need to clone myself or cut for more pieces."
Any further steps? Nexting in not an option at this girl.
She's giving you excuses but also some truths.
A woman will make time for a man in her life - however it IS the holidays and we get busy with friends/families/partys/etc.
"Busy" is a standard generic excuse.
You reached out to her twice and she never responded - have you ever thought that she nexted you? Not the other way around?
I would put this chick on ice until after New Years.
Quote: (12-08-2018 08:07 PM)chvrches Wrote:
Text game gods please help me with this within 12 hours as i will be replying to this girl again tomorrow when i wake up.
I texted this girl i met on friday at a music event, and we went on for a few messages, good banter and good vibes. Then i stirred the conversation about the gym. My opener for her during the music festival was asking for her training program as she had an amazing ass, so this was relevant.
After 5 messages back and fort talking about the music event I sent her a pic of me putting plates on the bar about to do some squats.
me: you actually motivated me to not skip leg day today. need to catch up to you (kiss emoji)
her: haha im proud of you! i wish i could train right now but my gym is closed until the 11th. you're already way ahead of me (kiss emoji)
me: you surprise me, most girls i talk to are lazy and don't do gym more than once a week
her: oh i love working out! i don't want to sit and watch series in my bed all day, i wanna be productive
me: you're pretty AND smart? something is wrong here. but to be honest, i just work out so i can eat cake without getting fat... it's our little secret now
her: aww you're too nice
her: hahaha oh really? you're very handsome and your body is on point! you can eat all the cake you want ![[Image: smile.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/smile.gif)
Im thinking about either inviting her out on a date to the gym and then switch venue after, go out and eat/drink somewhere. Or invite her to go ice skating with me, is that a good first date idea? Or just go for the safe and the standard cafe date i usually do and keep the gym date for an 2nd date.
"What's your schedule like this week? We should hang out"
"We should work out together this week, are you free on X?"
"How about we grab ice cream sometime this week?"
"We should grab ice cream on X day, you free then?"
How can i be creative with these so they don't sound so boring?
You're showering this chick with emoji's and compliments and you haven't even banged her dude.
With a girl like that, she's probably used to that, especially at the gym, and has orbiters.
Don't be that dude. Good news is she reciprocates to you so you obviously have attraction.
You can flirt a little but use texts for logistics for the date.
Figure out her evening schedule:
"Guess we'll find out, what's your evening (or whatever) schedule like this week?"
She'll probably tell you what it is, then you plan a date for whatever you want to do, drinks and ice skating sounds fun and active.
You can have a gym date especially since her gym is closed. Or avoid the gym and get her out of something comfortable and do something new.
Quote: (12-10-2018 06:08 PM)Arcite Wrote:
Hope this question isn't too basic. 19 year old college girl I met off seeking.com, have gone out with a few times and banged a few times, even went away for a weekend together. Had a date on Saturday on which we didn't bang. She wanted to and did spend the night, but at the same time wasn't very receptive to my advances and acted like all she wanted to do was go to sleep, which I chalked up to the fact that she said she was running off 1 hour of sleep and had to work again at 5 a.m. the next morning, but in retrospect I might have been telling myself what I wanted to hear there. But she starts texting me last night about how her classes for today were cancelled because of the snow and asking me if my work was canceled, which indicated to me that she was wanting to come over. However, since my work wasn't canceled and it was a regular Sunday night for me, I wasn't in the mood. Then just now I got a text that I don't have to be at work until 10 tomorrow, so I texted the girl:
Me: Hey, we're not opening until 10 tomorrow either, you want to come over?
Her: No.
That's it, a one word no, which she bothered to both capitalize and add a period. Given the fact that we didn't bang on Saturday, I'm worried I was just running insufficient game, she's cooling off and I'm losing her, so this may go beyond just what to text. But, how do you respond to something like that? My gut instinct is to reply with something like "what's the matter," "was it something I said," "don't be like that," all of which I know are beta.
To me it's obvious she's upset/mad.
You met this chick of Seeking Arrangement so this changes the scenerio a bit.
Why is she mad? Because she sees herself as just a fuck buddy right now (it doesn't matter you had a weekend together). AND/OR she ain't getting paid by you unless you're paying her way whenever and wherever you hangout.
There's a few ways to handle this:
-Ignore her response and figure out when she's free to hangout.
-Laugh and say "someone woke up on the wrong side of the bed this morning mrs grumpy!"
-Go silent on her for a day or two.
Personally I like starting shit with chicks who act catty and tease them (this ain't for the faint of heart)
SA Whores are easily replaceable - so it's on you - you can go silent on her see how she responds - or just ignore what she said and text her later and find out her schedule.
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