[Aliblahba]

If you go meetup with Emech and he walks out with vodka in his hand, you've been warned. Chexmix are you Italian?

[el mechanico]

(09-17-2013 10:25 AM)chexmix Wrote:  

(09-17-2013 10:20 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Chexmix why you no have Tampa datasheet? Where you go there?

I ended up moving to St Pete and I've only been here two weeks. All the info I know is from what I have found on this board, most of it from you. I've been doing a lot of internet game to get my feet wet until I know the area better, which why this idea on this thread attracts me so much, plus I have an addiction for social proof.

Are you running the trolley on the beaches? Have you been to Countryside mall? Bring a camera I'll bet nobody here has seen talent like what goes through that place. You should get some lame job there

[gandt]

I hate "fixed" social meet up groups like the ones on meetup.com

I don't know why, but the vibe doesn't seem organic or genuine to me.

It's comparable to social networking events, where you are expected to do something (network), but in this case it is make friends, have fun, etc... As most of us know, these goals are achieved when they are not the primary focus...

Ie. you are playing pickup basketball because it's your passion and that then becomes the vehicle to befriending the SVP of a local hedge fund, who then offers you a job...

The people I have met at these kinds of things have always been weird and awkward. Maybe it's just in my area though. My thought was always, anyone who has to rely on social meet up groups - I don't want to be a part of.

[Saladin]

(09-17-2013 04:33 AM)VincentVinturi Wrote:  

"Our guys are 'big brothers' who protect our 'little sisters' from weirdos and creeps. Our girls don't have to worry about paying for drinks or finding a ride home because our guys are there to take care of it."

This is white knighting at its finest.

[VincentVinturi]

(09-17-2013 10:58 AM)torontokid Wrote:  

(09-17-2013 04:33 AM)VincentVinturi Wrote:  

"Our guys are 'big brothers' who protect our 'little sisters' from weirdos and creeps. Our girls don't have to worry about paying for drinks or finding a ride home because our guys are there to take care of it."

This is white knighting at its finest.

It's just a front for the leader of the group to have access to the girls without competition and to be perceived as the protector and head honcho.

[chexmix]

(09-17-2013 10:41 AM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

If you go meetup with Emech and he walks out with vodka in his hand, you've been warned. Chexmix are you Italian?

oh jesus, I hardly even drink as it is. Nope, I'm American but have been living in Italy for a few years. I need to change the country flag on here soon.

(09-17-2013 10:53 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Are you running the trolley on the beaches? Have you been to Countryside mall? Bring a camera I'll bet nobody here has seen talent like what goes through that place. You should get some lame job there

Nope, but I should hit that up soon. Know any good choke points in those areas? So far I've seen a lot of really beautiful women around this area. I've just spent a month long vacation in Croatia, Bosnia, Serbia, Slovenia and Hungary if anyone thinks my standards are low, so I definitely what a beautiful girl looks like.

[el mechanico]

(09-17-2013 11:07 AM)chexmix Wrote:  

(09-17-2013 10:41 AM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

If you go meetup with Emech and he walks out with vodka in his hand, you've been warned. Chexmix are you Italian?

oh jesus, I hardly even drink as it is. Nope, I'm American but have been living in Italy for a few years. I need to change the country flag on here soon.

(09-17-2013 10:53 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Are you running the trolley on the beaches? Have you been to Countryside mall? Bring a camera I'll bet nobody here has seen talent like what goes through that place. You should get some lame job there

Nope, but I should hit that up soon. Know any good choke points in those areas? So far I've seen a lot of really beautiful women around this area. I've just spent a month long vacation in Croatia, Bosnia, Serbia, Slovenia and Hungary if anyone thinks my standards are low, so I definitely what a beautiful girl looks like.

Start a new thread.

[Brosemite]

(09-17-2013 10:57 AM)gandt Wrote:  

I hate "fixed" social meet up groups like the ones on meetup.com

I don't know why, but the vibe doesn't seem organic or genuine to me.

It's comparable to social networking events, where you are expected to do something (network), but in this case it is make friends, have fun, etc... As most of us know, these goals are achieved when they are not the primary focus...

Ie. you are playing pickup basketball because it's your passion and that then becomes the vehicle to befriending the SVP of a local hedge fund, who then offers you a job...

The people I have met at these kinds of things have always been weird and awkward. Maybe it's just in my area though. My thought was always, anyone who has to rely on social meet up groups - I don't want to be a part of.

Yeah "social only" meetups are weird as hell in my area.

The better social opportunities arise from:

1) Young professionals groups like a Junior League (professional networking-based, but more of an excuse to have social events, etc)
2) Professional Lead Based Networking (For people in Corporate America or small business to exchange leads....lots of socializing arises from it obviously..have events held in trendy venues with alcohol..anything can happen)
3) Cultural/Language Exchange (To learn more about a culture, etc...sometimes the ring leaders like the one in my Portuguese one uses it as a lead to give private lessons...great resource for socializing though).
4) Salsa/Dance Groups (Learning salsa...I think these groups have more of a blatant incest pool of everybody "dating" out in the open...guys with better dance skills = higher likelihood of residual poon)
5) CS Meetups anywhere (Cultural exchange...but I think we know what happens on top of that)
6) Sports fans meetups (Gal and guy I know met through one of these things for Philly sports fans in my city Dallas...eventually these things draws cute chicks that support other teams resulting in witty banter, dates, and then hookups).

Yeah those "other goals" are always met when it is not the primary focus. +1 on that. Great pt on how great professional leads often arise during just 100% genuine social relationships too.

Perhaps this idea VV suggested could work out better in say another country....I just don't see it happening in a mainstream American major city though.

[Christian McQueen]

This isn't a terrible idea, but it requires a special type of male to assert him as the leader of the group and actually still pull fresh tight pink pussy from it.

There's other ways to do this which are easier and have less opportunities for fuck-ups.

[silverbullit]

Dumbest shit I ever heard.

THROW A KEGGER YOU DUMB MOTHERFUCKER.

"Yeah I threw a badass kegger, about 100 people showed up, I didnt get laid"

Said nobody, ever.

[Suits]

I got a better idea. Its called the weekend warm down.

My PUA buddies and I used to do this in Hong Kong.

One of my friends had a nice enough place out on a somewhat populated island (4,000 people are so) about 35 minutes from the downtown by ferry.

We'd go out Friday and Saturday night, collect lots of numbers, text all of the numbers we got inviting them out to a Sunday afternoon BBQ on the island.

Didn't matter if a bunch flaked or didn't respond. We'd end up with 12 or so girls and 3-5 PUAs working the room.

At the end of the afternoon, most parties would begin departing, but the one who we had developed a connection with would tend to stick around. Then all of the PUAs present would go full isolation (S1) game and end up getting laid or otherwise sexually satisfied in various rooms and corners of the house.

It was great fun.

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Anyway, here's my idea:

Run entourage game, but with the help of 4-5 PUA wings.

Don't use some stupid website to meet women. Rather, do your number collecting/day game to create a list of contacts and then invite them out to events organized by the 5-6 of you PUA geniuses.

*You don't invite other men, so female number will be high, thus an ideal ratio and a boost to your status.

*If you go out in public, everyone suits up. One man in a suit may seem out of place, but five bros looking sharp is going to be a huge status boost.

*Don't do a club. Rather, make it a weekend warm down. Sunday afternoons are ideal. You don't have to do something at someone's house, but a trip to somewhere scenic or restaurant where you have a large table (or separate room booked) is a good idea. Save the clubbing for Friday/Saturday nights and Friday/Saturday nights for clubbing.

*Get a few fun female regulars who are in on the game and like to participate. They'll help set the tone for the other women who show up and make it less obvious that you've met all the other women only in the last week.

*Rent/hire/purchase amenities. If you chill at your place, consider having a bar tender serve drinks in your living room from a make shift bar. Either cook dinner yourself as a DHV or hire a student chef to cook something delicious and pretend that you have a personal chef regularly.




Just some ideas to play with. What along this vein has worked for you guys?



In a few months I'm going to be setting up in the Hong Kong/Guangdong area and am planning to build a lifestyle with some serious entourage punch. Be curious to hear some thoughts on this.

[Distant Light]

(09-17-2013 07:24 AM)Vicious Wrote:  

Quote:

hahaha @ replies...

While the OP is too technical and certainain aspects I disagree with, the "gist" of it is solid based on my own experience. No one has done this better than a non-community guy I know who used to cold approach ONLY MODELS during the daytime. He accumulated about 600 different models back then. Thing is his circle of friends did similar.

If a guy fucks 600 models then it's undoubtedly about him and not his entourage.

You've had a positive experience with something along these lines. Good for you. I've had experiences with something very similar as well. Mind you, this was exclusively with guys met from the Internet.

The result was cool for a while but started fast to pan out into drama, guys trying to one up each other and just getting stringed along with girls who played them.

Entourage game definitely has serious potential with a group always being about the group first and foremost and girls a very distant second. The outline in the OP is not it.

It does have "potential" but was implemented wrong...

My non-community friends and I do this BUT it's more of a "joint venture" in the sense that "connector A meets connector B"...

Last spring it used to be me and 4 other dudes all we did was invite girls out every thursday for our "bugout" night. Which we got very wild, drunk and simply chose whoever at the end of the night. Thing is, we didn't have rules because we didn't give a fuck, just invite girls and have fun. This thing blew up so much that the dude who was the "promoter" got fired and we all got banned. (We were lifting girls up having them wrapped around our neck) Security from time to time had to tell use all to calm down. Just imagine about 30 people raging hardcore well beyond what others around us are doing.

Thing with community dudes is their are too many retarded "wingman rules"...If you like a chick and hit it off well go ahead, there are too many women in the world to be saying "bro, I liked her!!!"

Also all of use were "individuals" meaning we had our own social circle and simply all came together bringing our circle of friends. We did this on 4th of july too... (might wanna mute with all my retarded noises)

(09-18-2013 04:10 PM)Suits Wrote:  

I got a better idea. Its called the weekend warm down.

My PUA buddies and I used to do this in Hong Kong.

One of my friends had a nice enough place out on a somewhat populated island (4,000 people are so) about 35 minutes from the downtown by ferry.

We'd go out Friday and Saturday night, collect lots of numbers, text all of the numbers we got inviting them out to a Sunday afternoon BBQ on the island.

Didn't matter if a bunch flaked or didn't respond. We'd end up with 12 or so girls and 3-5 PUAs working the room.

At the end of the afternoon, most parties would begin departing, but the one who we had developed a connection with would tend to stick around. Then all of the PUAs present would go full isolation (S1) game and end up getting laid or otherwise sexually satisfied in various rooms and corners of the house.

It was great fun.

-------------------------------

Anyway, here's my idea:

Run entourage game, but with the help of 4-5 PUA wings.

Don't use some stupid website to meet women. Rather, do your number collecting/day game to create a list of contacts and then invite them out to events organized by the 5-6 of you PUA geniuses.

*You don't invite other men, so female number will be high, thus an ideal ratio and a boost to your status.

*If you go out in public, everyone suits up. One man in a suit may seem out of place, but five bros looking sharp is going to be a huge status boost.

*Don't do a club. Rather, make it a weekend warm down. Sunday afternoons are ideal. You don't have to do something at someone's house, but a trip to somewhere scenic or restaurant where you have a large table (or separate room booked) is a good idea. Save the clubbing for Friday/Saturday nights and Friday/Saturday nights for clubbing.

*Get a few fun female regulars who are in on the game and like to participate. They'll help set the tone for the other women who show up and make it less obvious that you've met all the other women only in the last week.

*Rent/hire/purchase amenities. If you chill at your place, consider having a bar tender serve drinks in your living room from a make shift bar. Either cook dinner yourself as a DHV or hire a student chef to cook something delicious and pretend that you have a personal chef regularly.




Just some ideas to play with. What along this vein has worked for you guys?



In a few months I'm going to be setting up in the Hong Kong/Guangdong area and am planning to build a lifestyle with some serious entourage punch. Be curious to hear some thoughts on this.

That is a sick idea!!!!! Alot of my female friends want to do this with me... (Take me to their parents home in CT)

If you ever make video of your setup or something, PM me, would love to see how it played out. I think more people need to think outside the box and do things for the sake of an enjoyable lifestyle.

My friends and I never used to do this for the sake of getting laid, we just wanted to bugout. (while others wanted to make money)

[CJ_W]

(09-17-2013 09:38 AM)chexmix Wrote:  

And fuck me paying, If I planned this I'm not paying, there can be a $5 entry fee to do this and that will cover me if there is 50 people.

Easy way to get around this: become a promoter at the clubs you are going to. So that you get paid for organizing VIP tables/bottle service.