[Sketness]

Over the months it has perplexed me how just how women are attracted to men. As a man, I understand the principles of Game and how they are used to attract a women. Although, I am just curious how women are attracted to a man. It could be that, trying to understand how a woman works is equal to trying to understand why fat kids like cake, so to speak. I understand female attraction to go something like this:

1.Observation
I feel that contrary to the belief that women are not visual. I think that women are very visual. The only difference between men's visualization and women's visualization is that the majority of men base there decision on a women's looks, while a women has to have various other variables to consider.

2.Conversation
With in the conversation a women can decide if she wants to fuck or not

3.Escalation and the close
By this time it should be a wrap( as far as the attraction is concerned) She should be down to hook up

This is how I see female attraction. How can we use female attraction to Game females more efficiently? By understanding which parts of attraction have more of an impact on the interaction than others, we can pinpoint what aspects to shape our Game

[WestIndianArchie]

(06-27-2013 08:40 PM)Sketness Wrote:  

1.Observation
I feel that contrary to the belief that women are not visual. I think that women are very visual. The only difference between men's visualization and women's visualization is that the majority of men base there decision on a women's looks, while a women has to have various other variables to consider.

Agreed. Women are visual.

I see a 5'4" cute Latina with big tits, I'm gonna ignore a lot of shit I should be paying attention to.

A woman though?

Unlike men, a target looking good is just the beginning of the analysis.

She see's a 6'2" dude in some nice jeans, no gut, decent shirt, and chiseled jaw - that's when the questions start.
- Who's he with
- How's he interacting with people
- Does he look confident
- What do my friends think? Do they think he's attractive? Would we make a cute couple?
- Can he fuck?
- These shoes hurt
- My titties are getting sore, I hope I don't start bleeding early
- Is he talking to that skank...

^^^
You think i'm bullshitting you..

Talking to some chick recently about TV series and the golden age of TV, and the sons of Anarchy came up.

Here's what she said about one of the main characters



"He's too pretty"

You ever met a dude that said a chick was TOO pretty? At best a dude might say, she's too pretty for porn, but it's not going to turn him off.

She explained that this guy was too pretty to play a rough and tumble biker, thus his facial attractiveness was offset by his character - making him generally unattractive. (and she knew how crazy the shit sounded was when she said it, yet everyone woman in the discussion understood what she was talking about)

This might be one girl in particular from my life, but query your memory banks and ask yourself how often you hear some bullshit analysis like this.

It's a clue though.

It's the same way that bitches feel about Leonardo DiCaprio in the early years, his beautiful baby face made him unattractive in many of the roles he was in.

By your logic, if you want to please women, you now have to fit the way your face looks to your clothing, job, and environment.

Because that's what they do. Whatever they do for themselves, what they value, is what they think you value.

When she's wearing her sweats and going to 7-11 for some gatorade - in her mind she's unattractive, therefore she's caught off guard by a guy approaching her. Better yet, she thinks a guy who finds her attractive when she is at her worse, is less of a guy for being attracted to unattractive women. (tell me this hasn't happened to you, or you haven't seen this go down!)

Shoot me if I ever start doing shit for women. Losing this gut, raising my income by at least 1 order of magnitude, going location independent - that shits for ME.

(06-27-2013 08:40 PM)Sketness Wrote:  

2.Conversation
With in the conversation a women can decide if she wants to fuck or not

bhwhahaha, fuck no.

If that 5 second rule, 30 second rule, 30 minute rule was actually true, very few dudes would ever fuck on the 1st meet.

That's why we have game!

We have game because bitches do not know how to make sound decisions when it comes to protecting their womb from cads like us who just want to pump and dump.

As a matter of habit, always ask your conquests when they knew they wanted to fuck - the answers will surprise you.

Indeed, if you have enough girl friends, you can hear them dish about
- fucking guys they weren't initially attracted to, but his presence grew on them.
- Agreeing to a fuck a dude and then be pleasantly surprised.
- Fuck a dude and stay with him, even though the sex isn't good at all.

Part of the "secret society" is the # of fag hags that will fuck their gay friends. Shit's so common place that it happened on an episode of Lena Dunham's Girls.

So trying to put single variable male logic onto the multi-variable logic of a female will be your folly.

(06-27-2013 08:40 PM)Sketness Wrote:  

3.Escalation and the close
By this time it should be a wrap( as far as the attraction is concerned) She should be down to hook up

LOL, as if.

Only if bitches thought like men would this make sense.

(06-27-2013 08:40 PM)Sketness Wrote:  

This is how I see female attraction. How can we use female attraction to Game females more efficiently? By understanding which parts of attraction have more of an impact on the interaction than others, we can pinpoint what aspects to shape our Game

This ain't Toyota, and using a 6 Sigma Approach to hone in on problems with the production line isn't gonna get your dick wet.

Most of the time we push the idea that you need to be
- working out, losing fat, getting muscle
- dressing better (suiting up if it gives you an edge)
- make more money, make money in a better way
- free up more time

And various other things that help us become better men - but this is largely better in our terms.

What women want is largely an abstract concept.
They say money, but rich guys go dateless.
They say time, but unemployed guys ain't high on a chick's list.
They say muscles, but gym rats don't get all the ho's
Humor? You seen any of these comedians wives?

So all the stuff we develop is primarily for ourselves.

Game on the surface is about bagging more bitches. And there's a lot of technique involved in that. Shit's fun and sex feels great.

At a second level, game is about ego-stroking and dealing with past failures. Trying to recover parts of yourself by conquering women.

But at a deeper level, game is about becoming the best person you can be - and the metric we use is a proxy, # of women, and quality of women - but you step back and look @ the advice we tell ourselves - and then look @ the objective reality of whether those are women getting silver bullets - and you'll stop eating brown rice and boneless skinless chicken breasts in a nano-second once you understand that you don't need to be < 10% body fat to bang a hottie.

Indeed, the metric is flawed.

You meet a dude with a crazy notch count, and you may not be impressed.

You meet a dude with super hot girlfriend, and even that might not impress you. (especially if you hear about how fucked up she is, and what he has to put up with to keep her in his life)

Game is a device for us to express ourselves. And for me, that's the true purpose. And going deeper, taking the red pill, seeing how the deck is stacked against us - it can make you depressed - but it can also make you impressed as you realize how much you're able to accomplish even when everyone is trying to shoot you down.

Back to game..

A bitch don't need to put on lingerie in order for me to want to fuck her, the lingerie is for her to feel sexy.

Game is our lingerie. It's what we use, what we put on, what we do in order to tap into that natural and normal part of ourselves that our society and every society tries to keep in check.

All this stuff we do, it comes back to how we feel about ourselves, and how comfortable we feel in expressing our natural selves.

I'm not saying a Zen master can pull every bitch on the planet, what I am saying is that a dude that gets it, that understands himself, that has learned who he really is by pushing himself to become the person he wants to be - he can step to any broad on the planet in any situation and let that bitch know what's up.

Pull? No Pull? Doesn't particularly matter for specific cases, because he already has what he needs to deal with the aggregate. Bitches come and go, even 10's.

What becomes important is the man underneath it all.

By all means, tinker with your opener and transition, maybe get a voice coach or take some improv lessons, get a flat downtown.... Ultimately those things are tweaks to your game, mere tune-ups. The after market parts that make you faster, stronger, better.

Just recognize the engine that's driving the whole thing.

WIA

[Nomad77]

If you want to understand how women think just ask a girl friend you know to look on a dating site at men and have her pick one she likes. You will be amazed at how many she will reject and the reasons.

[IpsaScientiaPotestasEst]

(06-27-2013 11:17 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

If that 5 second rule, 30 second rule, 30 minute rule was actually true, very few dudes would ever fuck on the 1st meet.

That's why we have game!

We have game because bitches do not know how to make sound decisions when it comes to protecting their womb from cads like us who just want to pump and dump.

As a matter of habit, always ask your conquests when they knew they wanted to fuck - the answers will surprise you.

Indeed, if you have enough girl friends, you can hear them dish about
- fucking guys they weren't initially attracted to, but his presence grew on them.
- Agreeing to a fuck a dude and then be pleasantly surprised.
- Fuck a dude and stay with him, even though the sex isn't good at all.


Only if bitches thought like men would this make sense.

(06-27-2013 08:40 PM)Sketness Wrote:  

This is how I see female attraction. How can we use female attraction to Game females more efficiently? By understanding which parts of attraction have more of an impact on the interaction than others, we can pinpoint what aspects to shape our Game

This ain't Toyota, and using a 6 Sigma Approach to hone in on problems with the production line isn't gonna get your dick wet.

Most of the time we push the idea that you need to be
- working out, losing fat, getting muscle
- dressing better (suiting up if it gives you an edge)
- make more money, make money in a better way
- free up more time

And various other things that help us become better men - but this is largely better in our terms.

What women want is largely an abstract concept.
They say money, but rich guys go dateless.
They say time, but unemployed guys ain't high on a chick's list.
They say muscles, but gym rats don't get all the ho's
Humor? You seen any of these comedians wives?

So all the stuff we develop is primarily for ourselves.

Game on the surface is about bagging more bitches. And there's a lot of technique involved in that. Shit's fun and sex feels great.

At a second level, game is about ego-stroking and dealing with past failures. Trying to recover parts of yourself by conquering women.

But at a deeper level, game is about becoming the best person you can be - and the metric we use is a proxy, # of women, and quality of women - but you step back and look @ the advice we tell ourselves - and then look @ the objective reality of whether those are women getting silver bullets - and you'll stop eating brown rice and boneless skinless chicken breasts in a nano-second once you understand that you don't need to be < 10% body fat to bang a hottie.

Indeed, the metric is flawed.

You meet a dude with a crazy notch count, and you may not be impressed.

You meet a dude with super hot girlfriend, and even that might not impress you. (especially if you hear about how fucked up she is, and what he has to put up with to keep her in his life)

Game is a device for us to express ourselves. And for me, that's the true purpose. And going deeper, taking the red pill, seeing how the deck is stacked against us - it can make you depressed - but it can also make you impressed as you realize how much you're able to accomplish even when everyone is trying to shoot you down.

Back to game..

A bitch don't need to put on lingerie in order for me to want to fuck her, the lingerie is for her to feel sexy.

Game is our lingerie. It's what we use, what we put on, what we do in order to tap into that natural and normal part of ourselves that our society and every society tries to keep in check.

All this stuff we do, it comes back to how we feel about ourselves, and how comfortable we feel in expressing our natural selves.

I'm not saying a Zen master can pull every bitch on the planet, what I am saying is that a dude that gets it, that understands himself, that has learned who he really is by pushing himself to become the person he wants to be - he can step to any broad on the planet in any situation and let that bitch know what's up.

Pull? No Pull? Doesn't particularly matter for specific cases, because he already has what he needs to deal with the aggregate. Bitches come and go, even 10's.

What becomes important is the man underneath it all.

By all means, tinker with your opener and transition, maybe get a voice coach or take some improv lessons, get a flat downtown.... Ultimately those things are tweaks to your game, mere tune-ups. The after market parts that make you faster, stronger, better.

Just recognize the engine that's driving the whole thing.

WIA

WIA...BRAVO dude....that is seriously one of the best breakdowns of game I have EVER seen in the entire community. That post is just on POINT.

[soup]

Don't bother asking women what they like.

It will get them in their heads. And they can't correctly answer that question with their heads. They will most likely be too worried about what you think of them to answer honestly anyway.

What's the point? They don't know what they are talking about. Trust us guys instead.

It's better to create or be an experience that gets them out of their heads and into your bed.

The best way to understand what a woman likes is to attach sensors to their pussies and monitor blood flow to that area as they are presented with different guys and situations.

[nmmoooreland20]

Yes, saving that to the files.

[Noir]

I would like to add that women are attracted to congruence. By the first 10 minutes of interaction, she is already analyzing you to see if you can walk the walk in addition to talking the talk.

You are selling her an image. Even if you aren't consciously, she is creating an image of you and wants to buy into it. This is why game helps salesmen. Here, you have to act congruent enough in order to tick the boxes and show her that you are genuine. She wants to to succeed and be the guy who will 'catch her'; this occurs when you sell her the image successfully. Body language, social status and all other variables are being processed by her to determine whether you can step up to the task.

This is why shit tests occur and this is why passing them is the fastest way to move forward. Consider it as checkpoints.

If my personality covers A-Z and she falls between N-S then I just emphasize that part and attraction happens. The rest is a cakewalk assuming you are in tune with yourself, know how to express yourself confidently and can be witty and mysterious (depending on how she makes you feel. This is probably the whole hoo-ha about being present, in the moment etc.; you have to be able to connect in the moment and elicit those emotions and by expressing yourself, this happens (for more, see: MDMA). She wants feedback once she has justified her attraction to herself.

Unfortunately most girls are stifled this way, due to their environment (you are both known) or state of mind (newly single) or any other of the myriad of mundane reasons, hence you must lead. Now the escalation, banter and games begins to make sense.

After a while, this becomes automatic and becomes part of your vibe. If it is sexy and protecting her for feeling slutty then it is on (read: security from the outside world in your bubble). Your demeanor also helps qualify her in which you end passing her shit tests through physical aloofness or escalation rather than verbally all while it's you and her vs. the world. Remember the image/dream?

This is what attracts a woman. Being lead while believing she has an exit strategy (in which you have other options) but not wanting to take it. She wants you to win and the more you put it down the more she will get attracted. Words are contextual, you can't say the same shit to a 21y/o psychology student and a 34y/o lawyer.

When I am with a woman, I am 100% present with her. I am her lover, her companion and leader. I do it because no one else at the time can and I enjoy her company because we are together. After its done, I am gone and I have this relationship with others. She may text me or call me and I don't feel like replying because it is not what I want in the moment. The ones who can make me feel like this are the ones which attract me the most and are gf-material.

I would like to add one of the most accurate breakdowns I have read on this according to a woman, from some older seduction forums.

Quote:

He states: Attraction is a desire that is incomplete and something that we don't have. Like the desire to eat and to survive; most and just about every basic need is met when we are born. Food, shelter and company is already given to us so we do not have to search for it. The only desire that is not given to us when we are born is self esteem. If a man can give a woman the gift of self-esteem then he truly has her. The best way to give her that esteem is to make her believe she is with the superior man.


CharlieBrown made a very valid point about the frame of a man. His confidence and unwavering emotions is considered extremely sexy. If a man can make me feel secure I am susceptible to do just about anything; even conquer my fears. As a Hispanic woman, from the instant we are taught how to dance we are told that males are the leaders. We are taught not to fight and how to instantly pick up on change of his steps without looking at his feet. This is achieved by looking into his eyes and body language he bestows. If a Hispanic man cannot properly lead a women in merengue, bachata, or salsa he is criticized and an outcast. Females are known for loving to dance. That is because deep down we love to surrender. (If you don't believe me, just look at how easily we fall victims to our hormones and emotions. It doesn't take much.) In some circumstances that may be a bad thing but in a healthy situation, when a man properly leads, women complete their part by nurturing the experience. Women love to give, and if you can make a woman surrender unconditionally, the moment will be one for the history books.

I also wanted to touch base on a word you guys are bringing up. Failure... I just wanted to point out and help you guys in the best way that I can when it comes to this situation. It is critical to make sure that every word you use is examined because we do not want to end up worse than where we started. I just wanted to suggest not even using the word all together. I've come to know that the only way you can truly "fail" at something is by giving up. So if you do want to choose a word to describe unpleasant experiences then I suggest he word "Mistake". When you make a mistake this means that you can correct it. But when you use the word fail, you are planting a seed of negativity. If you guys are truly committed to becoming the alpha male, don't fail.

In terms of helping achieve the mentality you want quicker and more gracefully, I wanted to share with you something that has helped me. Often times, when we make a mistake, we criticize ourselves and punish ourselves for the mistakes we make. This does not help. In fact, what that does is implement conditional love in life. I try to do this in the moment, but if an unpleasant situation comes up in my head I like to repeat what I heard Dr. Wayne Dyer once said, "I did the best that I could with what I knew at the time." This is not an excuse, in fact, we need to learn how to forgive ourselves and stroke our own esteem. Then after loving ourselves for who we are, then we give ourselves the courage to try again. I would then continue to say, "I made a mistake. But in this lesson that I learned, I know that I will do better next time. I love myself and am in control of what happens to me. I see myself succeeding and am grateful for everything I have experienced." Secretly, there is a part in us that is scared to make a mistake because there is like a strict parental figure in us readying the belt to whoop our butt. Sad, but true.

[pbw]

"Understanding attraction from a womans perepective"

The more you try to understand the more confusing it gets.

Just know male sexuality is what has created this modern world -- it is the best thing that nature created.

It's more important what you want than what women want - as per nature's objective.

[Parlay44]

God dammit Archie you hit it out of the park every time.
I reading your replies. Keep it up

[Tengen]

I only noticed today how i laugh at any sentence that includes the words "a woman's perspective".

[Greek kamaki]

Women judge you on very superficial things like the shoes you have, your haircut, your shirt, your car etc if she approves or not.They are superficial to the highest degree.

[VincentVinturi]

Agreed. Some women are very visual and will hook up with you for no other reason than she thinks you're hot. And if you give it to her like the world is coming to an end, she'll come back for more too.. ;-)

[Greek kamaki]

They are visual though they get not so horny by visual stimuli like men.Some told me if they see an extremely handsome man they may imagine how it will be with him on top or under.

[Moma]

(06-30-2013 06:49 AM)Greek kamaki Wrote:  

They are visual though they get not so horny by visual stimuli like men.Some told me if they see an extremely handsome man they may imagine how it will be with him on top or under.

They get just as horny by good looking men, strong body etc..the thing is, when they have many options as they do in these countries when the odds are tilted in their favour, they don't have to go apeshyt so early.

Have you ever seen fat lizards who have trouble attracting men? They are downright vicious in their conquest.

I've known some fat ones who downright backstab each other just to hop on some raw cock. No valor present at all.

[Nomad77]

A woman's attraction to a man is based on both a variety of visual AND non-visual attributes. Men are much simpler, for some men, a big booty is enough. It is the totality of all the different factors that determines how attractive she finds you at any given moment. For example, I have had more than one girl said they find me attractive by how I drive a car. Finally one was able to explain why: she felt I was a good driver with complete control of the car. So she felt safe yet at the same time she felt excited by going fast. Most women are attracted to men that can provide excitement within the context of safety. They also find attractive men they feel are in control of both themselves and their immediate environment, again, it's all about safety and security - primal stuff for women.

My advice is don't try and figure out what any woman finds attractive. Personally, I never think about this. What would be the point? What one woman finds attractive another may not and what the same woman may find attractive today she may not tomorrow.

[Therapsid]

(06-30-2013 07:16 AM)Moma Wrote:  

They get just as horny by good looking men, strong body etc..the thing is, when they have many options as they do in these countries when the odds are tilted in their favour, they don't have to go apeshyt so early.

Have you ever seen fat lizards who have trouble attracting men? They are downright vicious in their conquest.

I've known some fat ones who downright backstab each other just to hop on some raw cock. No valor present at all.

They don't get just as horny from good looking men. If that were the case, they would immediately agree to fuck any good looking dude who approached them. Not just later that night or on a second date, but right then and there.

That's what we'd do if a hot chick came up to us and offered us sex. Without further ado, we'd take her into a dark alleyway. Moreover, that's what a fag would do and does do every single night at a gay bar.

Even with good looking men, women simply do not act like like guys, by and large, when it comes to sex.

[Moma]

(06-30-2013 11:51 PM)Therapsid Wrote:  

(06-30-2013 07:16 AM)Moma Wrote:  

They get just as horny by good looking men, strong body etc..the thing is, when they have many options as they do in these countries when the odds are tilted in their favour, they don't have to go apeshyt so early.

Have you ever seen fat lizards who have trouble attracting men? They are downright vicious in their conquest.

I've known some fat ones who downright backstab each other just to hop on some raw cock. No valor present at all.

They don't get just as horny from good looking men. If that were the case, they would immediately agree to fuck any good looking dude who approached them. Not just later that night or on a second date, but right then and there.

That's what we'd do if a hot chick came up to us and offered us sex. Without further ado, we'd take her into a dark alleyway. Moreover, that's what a fag would do and does do every single night at a gay bar.

Even with good looking men, women simply do not act like like guys, by and large, when it comes to sex.

Any decent looking lizard has sex on tap so she doesn't need to immediately fcuk. She knows that she can get it from the man she is attracted to once she gives the word. This is why she doesn't seem anxious and will 'allow' game to build up.

If you observe the less attractive ones with less options, they are downright as forward as men, the only restricting factor is the social shame of being a slut..but this is vanishing as feminism continues to sweep the Western hemisphere at the rate it does.

Regarding these options being less or more is dependent on the attention men give them. Remember it does matter if she is unattractive if her immediate male environment thirsts after her.
For instance in Toronto, due to the dictatorship created by lizards and enforced by beta men, fat lizards and baggage laden reptiles have almost as much options as dimes.

Because of this, a lizard that would be forced to take whatever crumbs she could find in another country can afford to flake on me and wait till 2nd, 3rd date to bang etc.

[Nomad77]

Here is something that will blow your mind. A woman can find a guy attractive but not want to have sex with him and she can find another guy unattractive yet have sex with him. Attraction and sex are two different things in a woman's mind.

[Therapsid]

(07-01-2013 12:12 AM)Moma Wrote:  

(06-30-2013 11:51 PM)Therapsid Wrote:  

(06-30-2013 07:16 AM)Moma Wrote:  

They get just as horny by good looking men, strong body etc..the thing is, when they have many options as they do in these countries when the odds are tilted in their favour, they don't have to go apeshyt so early.

Have you ever seen fat lizards who have trouble attracting men? They are downright vicious in their conquest.

I've known some fat ones who downright backstab each other just to hop on some raw cock. No valor present at all.

They don't get just as horny from good looking men. If that were the case, they would immediately agree to fuck any good looking dude who approached them. Not just later that night or on a second date, but right then and there.

That's what we'd do if a hot chick came up to us and offered us sex. Without further ado, we'd take her into a dark alleyway. Moreover, that's what a fag would do and does do every single night at a gay bar.

Even with good looking men, women simply do not act like like guys, by and large, when it comes to sex.

Any decent looking lizard has sex on tap so she doesn't need to immediately fcuk. She knows that she can get it from the man she is attracted to once she gives the word. This is why she doesn't seem anxious and will 'allow' game to build up.

If you observe the less attractive ones with less options, they are downright as forward as men, the only restricting factor is the social shame of being a slut..but this is vanishing as feminism continues to sweep the Western hemisphere at the rate it does.

Regarding these options being less or more is dependent on the attention men give them. Remember it does matter if she is unattractive if her immediate male environment thirsts after her.
For instance in Toronto, due to the dictatorship created by lizards and enforced by beta men, fat lizards and baggage laden reptiles have almost as much options as dimes.

Because of this, a lizard that would be forced to take whatever crumbs she could find in another country can afford to flake on me and wait till 2nd, 3rd date to bang etc.

But there you let the cat out of the bag man. "Any decent looking lizard."

Fine. The best looking chicks do have options. That only begs the question why they take the time to carefully weigh those options when a guy with the same freedom would decide more rapidly, but I digress:

Most lizards ain't all that decent looking! But even they don't drop their panties at the drop of the hat. Maybe after a couple of fruity drinks and some verbal massaging in the back of an SUV, but not, as a general rule, as easily as guys do.

Also, the whole phenomenon of slut shaming only works because women are not as horny as men.

Do you suppose that any amount of shaming, not backed up by the most severe of judicial penalties, would prevent men from getting their dicks wet? Nope. This is why calling guys sluts or players never prevents them from going after what they want.

Yet slut shaming in 2013 is enough to prevent a girl from fucking a guy she wants to? Sure, but only because they're not like men.

[Sketness]

having read a couple of the responses I have a couple of questions. First, it was mentioned above that any 'decent lizard' has an abundance of options when it comes to male suitors. So my questions is, how will I ( a handsome young man with game) stack up next to these suitors? We know game works, though when compared to the dozen or so suitors that one decent looking female has, why would she pick us? Or will she? Maybe I am looking to hard into why women do what they do... idk

[soup]

(07-01-2013 12:13 AM)Nomad77 Wrote:  

Here is something that will blow your mind. A woman can find a guy attractive but not want to have sex with him and she can find another guy unattractive yet have sex with him. Attraction and sex are two different things in a woman's mind.

Despite what a woman says, if she doesn't want to have sex with him, it just means that she's not attracted enough to him.

[All or Nothing]

(07-01-2013 12:13 AM)Nomad77 Wrote:  

Here is something that will blow your mind. A woman can find a guy attractive but not want to have sex with him and she can find another guy unattractive yet have sex with him. Attraction and sex are two different things in a woman's mind.

Why?

[20Nation]

There is an entire book on this. Understanding Sexual Attraction: What makes a woman want you

[All or Nothing]

(07-01-2013 01:26 AM)All or Nothing Wrote:  

(07-01-2013 12:13 AM)Nomad77 Wrote:  

Here is something that will blow your mind. A woman can find a guy attractive but not want to have sex with him and she can find another guy unattractive yet have sex with him. Attraction and sex are two different things in a woman's mind.

Why?

Nomad, I asked you a question and it seems that you have ignored it.

I realize a one word question might not be enough to warrant an answer, so I will expand on it.

Why would a woman have sex with a man she is not attracted to outside of a relationship or when there is nothing to gain (ie: money)?

[Anon-A-Moose]

(06-29-2013 06:40 AM)pbw Wrote:  

"Understanding attraction from a womans perepective"

The more you try to understand the more confusing it gets.

Just know male sexuality is what has created this modern world -- it is the best thing that nature created.

It's more important what you want than what women want - as per nature's objective.

I find understanding female attraction, understanding their perspective, actually quite eye-opening and interesting. Then again I'm good at it. That's probably one of the few things that really makes my game not suck.
That being said, it only matters as much as you can manipulate it. Ultimately, it matters in the medium term the most, the "building attraction" stage. To a small degree, it does in the end stage but then while it technically matters more you have to know less. Ultimately, almost all effective game boils down to selling her a dream. Reality doesn't matter, it's just selling her a dream she buys for long enough for you to dick her. If she's a good woman and she stays loyal and faithful and into you when the dream's over, she's quality. Or you're dating down.