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12-10-2012, 12:20 AM
In America and first world this holds true. Not so much outside of that.
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12-10-2012, 01:20 AM
Quote: (12-10-2012 12:20 AM)lavidaloca Wrote:
In America and first world this holds true. Not so much outside of that.
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Girl admits f-buddy "has zero respect for me"
12-10-2012, 05:41 AM
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12-10-2012, 11:26 AM
Yep. If you blow those sugar walls out properly, you can pretty much say or do anything you want to a chick, and she'll keep coming back for more. She'll go home and cry on the phone to her girlfriends about how bad you're dogging her out, but she'll keep coming back to get her fix.
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12-10-2012, 12:45 PM
A friend of mine has about 5 FWB girls in rotation throughout at couple different cities. He's an asshole to all of them.
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12-10-2012, 01:24 PM
I'm an arsehole to a girl who really likes me - her body's a 7 (she's Taiwanese and has massive natural tits) & her face is busted - probably a 2. Definite "paper bag job" girl.
She's always texting to me to ask when we can meet. I said come over but please bring food for me.
I didn't even want to bang her...I kind of forced myself to do it by closing my eyes when I kissed her and banging her doggy style so I don't have to see her face. At all times I was thinking of porn when I was doing this to stay hard.
To be honest the only reason i wanted to see her was because I wanted some free food!
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12-10-2012, 02:03 PM
What's interesting about this is that she sees the situation as a matter of respect, or lack thereof. In most situations where there is sex involved, women see it as something they're giving YOU, and not a mutual exchange. Since you're fucking them, you owe them something beyond that, even though they're aren't doing much else for you (but of course, we don't want more beyond the pussy...HA HA!). Bottom line, if they had a better option, they'd be opting for that. So stop complaining and take the dick. Mostly, a man can't respect you for complaining, then coming back again. He'd respect you more for just walking away and never looking back.
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12-10-2012, 02:29 PM
Quote: (12-10-2012 02:03 PM)Timoteo Wrote:
What's interesting about this is that she sees the situation as a matter of respect, or lack thereof. In most situations where there is sex involved, women see it as something they're giving YOU, and not a mutual exchange. Since you're fucking them, you owe them something beyond that, even though they're aren't doing much else for you (but of course, we don't want more beyond the pussy...HA HA!). Bottom line, if they had a better option, they'd be opting for that. So stop complaining and take the dick. Mostly, a man can't respect you for complaining, then coming back again. He'd respect you more for just walking away and never looking back.
Would you say the tables are turned after you've banged and made her cum hard? I think once a man has made a woman cum, she wants it more and more?
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12-10-2012, 02:36 PM
I think CrazyBoy is right. Once you've made a woman cum with your dick... especially when you make her cum MULTIPLE TIMES with your dick, then that's the equivalent of getting shot up with heroin- there will always be a part of her that wants more.
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12-10-2012, 02:41 PM
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Exactly. It's her own damn fault for choosing that lousy trade.
This is one of the major unintended consequences of feminism - it has greatly devalued pussy. What once could command a king's ransom, and perhaps even a kingdom, and certainly could garner decades of hard work and support from a devoted man, is now worth hardly more than the price of a few drinks to many guys.
Totally disagree.
The problem women have is that their biology makes them get off more from the kinds of guys that have options. When a guy has options... guess what, he's going to do asshole things because he's got abundance.
I'm a good guy who wants to treat women good, but when I had three women in my rotation, I did things like not respond to texts, kick them out after sex, flake on dates, etc because I had that kind of abundance.
That's always been the case. If you go back to a college in 1950's America, most girls dated a "bad boy" who treated them like shit, but they just couldn't get enough of him. Why? Because they had the exact same biology they have today, not because of "feminism."
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12-10-2012, 02:41 PM
Quote: (12-10-2012 02:36 PM)caligula89 Wrote:
I think CrazyBoy is right. Once you've made a woman cum with your dick... especially when you make her cum MULTIPLE TIMES with your dick, then that's the equivalent of getting shot up with heroin- there will always be a part of her that wants more.
See post #7. That's definitely a major reason. The drug addiction/high analogy is perfect. You make them feel so good, they have to get another hit, even if they know they should quit.
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12-10-2012, 04:59 PM
While the underlying biology hasn't changed, cultural constraints on it have been removed on the female side, resulting in major changes in their behaviour. I don't think the fact that biologically women are still the same is comforting, given the tremendous amount of shit going on in today's world.
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12-10-2012, 07:38 PM
I'm not sure these women are being honest with themselves when they describe guys as not respecting them.
Usually this means a rude partner who is able to insult or criticize her. Someone who doesn't suck up.
I'm reminded though of Perrin and Faile in the Wheel of Time book series though. Women from her culture find it sexy when a man bosses them around, because it shows a respect for her strength to take it. Women from Faile's culture get insulted if a man coddles them too much, never argues, does nothing but compliment, etc. because it shows a lack of respect for her strength.
The error here is that 'respecting' often gets used to mean 'being polite to'. But that is NOT what true respect is. Respect is admiration for someone's traits. That has everything to do with how we value someone and feel about them. There aren't any fixed behaviours that result from respect. Behaviour is a dynamic that varies.
We can be polite to people we don't respect, so that means politeness is not 'respecting'. We should stand up to anyone who says this.
Women may whine about a guy being 'rude' or whatever, but this complaining is part coping and part bragging. It's like "look at this catch who stands up for himself" to her female friends. Friends may even be jealous she has someone who stands up for his own opinions.