Gio: definitely. most of the time i pass by cute girls out and about, but ill have my mind on other things. having a nice conversation with people always takes my mind off these things so i might as well have a conversation with a cute girl thats shopping in the same store as me or the hottie waiting for the bus. One thing I need to work on is street approaching, I walk around a lot on campus and thats where I see the bulk of hot chicks. I just don't have the balls to jump out in front of them and start talking. I guess theres no other way to learn than to just do it.
I approached a bunch of girls last night and everything ended up just like things in the dude's story. Went to a house party, there were about 6 girls there (bummer) but I talked to them all. I knew one kind of so we were getting a long great. I was teasing them all, making them laugh, not being that physical (one of my major weaknesses) and having a good time. I was planning to either take one of them home after the bar/club we were going to or just as everyone was leaving the house. Neither happened. Everyone got extremely wasted and left at different times. One was telling me how she just had a cavity filled or something and her mouth was sore. I told her I'd made soup the day before and she said "omggg!!!111!! you're going to have to give me some tomorrow morning" I had the best shit eating grin in response to that. Either way what surprised me was that the girls were more flirty and touchy than the guys. They were hugging everyone, sitting on peoples lap, hell even grabbing asses. It was like some weird twilight zone stuff. Even the girls with boyfriends were draped over guys. I was sitting on a couch and this cute asian just lies down with her head on my dick telling me how drunk she was, she was holding onto one of my hands and my other one was around her. Her herby boyfriend was sitting RIGHT NEXT TO US. Another girl left with the first group and didn't even tell her boyfriend. She found him later and he said something along the lines of "oh baby i missed you whered you go, wuv wooooo" "Men" really have become gigantic pussies and women have become bigger attention whores because they are unchecked at every point.
Approach 7: I brought a bottle of booze on the bus and was with a group. This alright asian girl and herb-o-tron 3000 get on the bus I tell the girl to come over and sit next to me. She does and we all start talking and drinking. Turns out herb-o-tron 3000 is her "best friend in the whole wide world and she loves him like a brother
" he looks down defeated. She lives right by where were going so I tell her to come to the bar with us, I guess she assumed herb-o-tron 3000 wasn't invited so she says "I'll see you tomorrow, get home safe" he follows with another defeated look. We start walking to the bar/club and one of the guys I was with just drops in the middle of the street passed out drunk. Luckily his best friend from home was with us so I told him to take the dude home. We carried him to the bus stop and sent them on their way. In that time herby and asian had gone off somewhere (probably dragged by herby) and the girl that came with us left with another dude who was stupid drunk and stumbling. Pussies can't hold their liquor.
Approach 8: I get to the bar/club by myself and theres a huge line. A super cute brunette gets behind me after a few minutes, shes looking around nervously so I turn and say "you look like you don't want to go to this place either" she laughs and we start talking, she gets up next to me in line, I'm teasing and touching her arm. Shes meeting friends there too, but thinks the bar is lame and is just doing it to be nice to her friends. She restarts the conversation if it gets silent. All is going well. We've been talking for about 20 minutes now and I don't think shes drunk, but she also doesn't think I'm that drunk (I'm wasted as hell at this point). I tell her if the line doesn't move in 5 minutes we're going to go to another bar around the corner and hang out. That time comes and she seems kind of hesitant to go because she doesn't want to leave her friends. Just after this one of her friends from inside calls and tells her she can just get in by talking to the doorman. She tells me she'll try to get me in and talks with the guy for a few minutes. She runs back and tells me shes sorry and he won't let me in too and walks back into the place. I tried to get her to stop for a number or something but by the time I had said anything she was pretty much inside. It was 1230 so I ask one of the bouncers if there is still cover, $15 near closing time. No thanks and I leave.
On my way home I talked to some crying chick at the train station, an ugly chick at the bus stop (interrupted when my drunk friends banged on the bus shelter thing and started yelling), and some chick who used to be friends with an ex. She told me she didn't see those people anymore and we should hang out sometime. I had assumed she was drunk, but I don't think she was. Her stop was right by this dope drunk food place so I say "hmmmm im thinking if i should get pizza or not" to gauge whether she is down for anything. She says something like she just ate (I guess seeing through what I said). I'll have to add her to facebook sometime today.
Lessons learned:
- don't get people so drunk they cockblock by passing out and make sure you have tabs on the girls you're gaming at a house party. Make sure she doesn't leave without telling you or goes off with some other dude.
- guys in this city are pussified beyond all belief. I probably could have made out with a dudes girlfriend in front of him and he would have quietly protested saying "can you um please uhhh not do that please"
- girls are starved for the attention of an 'alpha' and will hop around from guy to guy as soon as a dude shows any kind of 'alpha'
- i'm too self-centered in my interactions, while this isn't a bad thing I need to learn how to focus on the girl and think about how she'll respond to things i'm saying and what emotions it will elicit.
- I ask too many questions.
- i need facebook game for university interactions. if I used facebook more i could probably add all these chicks on facebook, run some game and then invite them out one night for a party and bang.
- chicks in university don't really like grabbing drinks they'd rather get drunk at a party then fuck you at the end of the night.