[Giovonny]

Thanks bojangles!

I really like the Krauser style approach and the stuff that you pm'd me. I am evolving in that direction.

[Lothario]

Capmus Setting : I am walking from the parking Lot to a Building and see a tall Asian Girl coming towards me, when she get close I open with.

Me: Excuse me, Do you know if there is Starbucks close by

Her: Yes, it's in such and such building, walks me over to the window and starts showing me.

Me: Well, thank you very much, People don't usually do that here, You must not be from here.

Her: yes, I have been here about 3 yrs now.

Me: Oh yeah, I just moved here from FL and am dreading the Cold weather and Cold People.

Her: Laughs... It's not that bad., So what is your Major ( Seroiusly does she think I am a student here)

Me: I'm not a student here, I am a visiting consultant for such and such and may move here permanently.

Her: Where are you from

It was standard text book Game from here on.....

Me: I am guessing you are from Korea, Wrong, Yes China.

Her: Starts telling me about the city she is from ,What her father wants her to do etc etc....

Me: I tell her how sister used to live in China and she told me people will stop her on the street and would want to take a picture with a tall person.

Her: Yeah yeah, I am actaullay tall for a chinese girl.

Me: Are you going to a class, if not why don't you join me for coffee.

Her: Can't I have Finals all this and next week. I will be done next Friday though.

Me: Cool, Lets meet next Friday.

Her: My father wants me to visit him in China, I might go back but if I do we should meet after I come back.

We exchange numbers and I kissed her good bye and moved on......

[Veloce]

Solid approach on an 8 tonight, just got a number so we'll see what comes of it.

Downtown LA was shockingly bad. Just a huge fucking cockfest with a bunch of fatties. Seriously a bunch of 5s and 6s running around.

Duck into an Irish pub with a buddy of mine and we're run a few approaches. He tells me about 3 girls sitting around the corner and asks how to approach them. I sit next to one of them and start right in talking about their drinks. She's receptive and we get into our details.

She's a solid 8, a dancer from NY with two of her dancer friends in town for some show at a theater. Only in town for another 4 weeks so I'm thinking this could be great...she could be super open to a hot romantic fling for a few weeks. As you might imagine she's got a rockin' body and a hot face to match. I kept it cool and it could be my imagination but she was WAY EASIER to game than the usual L.A. bitches I talk to. If all girls are like that in NY I think I could clean up. Super receptive. But maybe it was just her and she likes me. Anyway we were ready to venue change but they have two shows to do tomorrow so they all bounced but she gave me her number without me prompting for it, which I think is a good sign. She got to asking me lots of personal info and I initiated some light physical touching. My buddy is recently divorced so it was funny going over the approach afterwards, talking about logistics and proper wingmanship. After 5 minutes of my approach I literally had to call out for him, "Hey XXXX come over here and meet these girls!"

Hopefully have a followup report

[starmaze]

I am on 25th day of NO fap and my libido is going mad. I am not sure if this is coincidence or the result of semen retention but today I made my ballest approaches ever. Although I wasn’t 100% comfortable during those interaction I had zero approach anxiety and approached girls in pairs, something I never done before.

1.Saw a cute brunette with a female friend in a bookstore. I tried to make eye contact but she avoid my glances. Anyway I placed myself next to her while she and her frend were checking some music CDs.
Me: looking something for a Christmas gift ?
Her: ( shy look)
Me: ( smiles at her)
She ( smiles back) yeah
Me: I am just wondering if me met before. Did you work as a barmaid in x bar?
Her: no
Me: somewhere else?
Her: wrong again
Me: oh , so you have a doppelganger
Her: ( laughs ) she has a doppelganger ( pointing at her friend)

I was tempted to express my interest in her more directly at this point but I just smiled and walked away.

2.Super hot brunette passed me and got to escalator. I turned back and caught up with her.

Me: have you been in SQ club last wendesday
Her: no, its wasn’t me
Me: oh, I thought it was you. Anyway, you are cute, whats your name?
Her: silvia
Me: I am andy

At this point she was walking away.

Me: hey, don’t you shake my hand, come on!
Her: sorry, I am busy

3.Again. Two girls. One is cute face and fat assed. I like her. They go from one woman’s store to another. I didn’t want to enter the woman’s store so I just waited outside to approach her when she is out.
Now they are heading in my direction. When she is a few meters before me I stand still blocking her way , look into her eyes and smile. I feel powerful. She looks puzzled.

Me: hey, stop
She: stops ( her friend walks pass us)
Me: where do I know you from?
Her: I don’t know
Me: I know that it sounds like a pickup line but I have strong impression we met before. Have you taken a yoga classes?
Her: no, I haven’t
Me: studied sociology?
Her: no, its not me
Me: never mind. You look cute, I just wanted to meet you. I am andy
Her: Eva
Me: my cousin is named Eva, she is fun and crazy. What do you do?
Her: I am studying psychology.

Some ramble.

Her: sorry, I need to go, my friend is waiting for me
Me: no problem. Before you go, give me your number, we will go out sometime
Her: ok

I took her number and wished her a nice shopping.


4.A girl in grocery story.

Me: oh, wait, I see you again in this isle. It must be a destiny This time we have to get two know each other.

Talked a bit but she mentioned boyfriend.

Anyway today I felt like I take over the world. I have never felt so powerful. I hope it’s not a coincidence and my Chi energy due to semen retention will stay with me.

[Lothario]

Strong work Starmaze, This will get easier and easier, Allow me to point out a few things as we are all here to get better.

1. Approach only Single girls at this stage as the other will most likely cock block.

2. Only Invest energy in kind of girls you like, who boil your blood so that you can give 100 % to your approach.

3. Try changing your Openers and vary them according to the situation, you opened most of the girls with I have sen you somewhere ?, They know it is a pick up, you know it is a pick up yet it is still your job to mask it as an accidental meeting and like Gio puts it, you guys met serendipitously. Try Situational openers, Pick an article on her and start rambling or Go Indirect/elderly openers ala Roosh style and see what works for you.

4. Focus on creating a genuine connection with the girl. you will have lesser flakes.

Happy Hunting .........

[slubu]

starmaze are you in poznan?

[Giovonny]

(12-07-2012 01:16 PM)Lothario Wrote:  

Capmus Setting : I am walking from the parking Lot to a Building and see a tall Asian Girl coming towards me, when she get close I open with.

Me: Excuse me, Do you know if there is Starbucks close by

Her: Yes, it's in such and such building, walks me over to the window and starts showing me.

Me: Well, thank you very much, People don't usually do that here, You must not be from here.

Her: yes, I have been here about 3 yrs now.

Me: Oh yeah, I just moved here from FL and am dreading the Cold weather and Cold People.

Her: Laughs... It's not that bad., So what is your Major ( Seroiusly does she think I am a student here)

Me: I'm not a student here, I am a visiting consultant for such and such and may move here permanently.

Her: Where are you from

It was standard text book Game from here on.....

Me: I am guessing you are from Korea, Wrong, Yes China.

Her: Starts telling me about the city she is from ,What her father wants her to do etc etc....

Me: I tell her how sister used to live in China and she told me people will stop her on the street and would want to take a picture with a tall person.

Her: Yeah yeah, I am actaullay tall for a chinese girl.

Me: Are you going to a class, if not why don't you join me for coffee.

Her: Can't I have Finals all this and next week. I will be done next Friday though.

Me: Cool, Lets meet next Friday.

Her: My father wants me to visit him in China, I might go back but if I do we should meet after I come back.

We exchange numbers and I kissed her good bye and moved on......

Standard Lothario Game.

I have no comment on this post as I am waiting for the results of our little "challenge".

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(12-11-2012 02:17 PM)starmaze Wrote:  

1.Saw a cute brunette with a female friend in a bookstore. I tried to make eye contact but she avoid my glances. Anyway I placed myself next to her while she and her frend were checking some music CDs.

Me: looking something for a Christmas gift ?

Not bad. I think the problem was hovering around her and seeking out eye contact with her. Better to ignore her and approach a bit more indirectly in this case. Pretend you don't notice her until the moment before opening. Make it seem spontaneous!

(12-11-2012 02:17 PM)starmaze Wrote:  

I was tempted to express my interest in her more directly at this point but I just smiled and walked away.

I think you should have expressed your interest more directly. That would have been a more real and powerful communication. It definitely would have been better then just letting her walk away!!!

Saying whats in your heart is often more powerful then saying some scripted line.

If you're gonna get shot down you may as well come with full force!

(12-11-2012 02:17 PM)starmaze Wrote:  

2.Super hot brunette passed me and got to escalator. I turned back and caught up with her.

Me: have you been in SQ club last wendesday

This seems too direct for your level of experience. Try a more playful indirect opener. Maybe comment on her clothes or the bag she is holding.

(12-11-2012 02:17 PM)starmaze Wrote:  

Me: hey, don’t you shake my hand, come on!

Her: sorry, I am busy

Don't beg, don't plead, don't ever make yourself inferior to her!

(12-11-2012 02:17 PM)starmaze Wrote:  

Me: hey, stop

I love this. I would like to try this. Some guys could pull this off but most can not. I don't think you are ready for this. But, I admire the simplicity and power.

(12-11-2012 02:17 PM)starmaze Wrote:  

4.A girl in grocery story.

Me: oh, wait, I see you again in this isle. It must be a destiny This time we have to get two know each other.

Another strong effort but I just don't think you are ready for this type of direct approach.

Starmaze,

It seems like you have not improved very much in the last few months. You are not sure if you want to go direct or indirect. You don not have a clear cut strategy. Review this thread. There are alot of solid approaches here that you can learn from. We have given you alot of advice in this thread but it seems you haven't adjusted your game very much.

I think you need to become more aware of your weaknesses and develop a plan to correct these weaknesses. I think you need more focus.

Review your older approaches, review our advice and try to determine where your sticking point is.

YOU SHOULD BE GETTING NOTICEABLY BETTER EVERY MONTH!!!

RIGHT NOW, I'M NOT SEEING MUCH IMPROVEMENT!

[Lothario]

Sup Giovonny, The Approach above was actually from last week, I have been staying with in the guide lines for this week's challenge and will inform you all of the details after this weekend, however want to tell you all of his particular Approach that I did yesterday. I'm confused as to put it in Approach or Date Thread but here is goes.

I got done from work after Lunch Yesterday and had about 5 hrs before heading back home, I was fresh so I decided to venture to a part of town that I occasionally go to White Trash Trolling. I went to Strip Mall where I have seen occasional Damaged hotties ala redneck e-mech style.

Trolled a Pharmacy, No targets, Opened an employee and she seemed like she was stoned and in her own zone, came out and was passing through some shops and saw a cute Blonde inside shop at the front desk talking on the phone, One look and my blood started boiling, I look up and it is a Dental Office, I pass by , go to a shoe store, On the way back , I decided to enter the dental office and open the Girl with

Me: Excuse me, Can you tell me what rates you guys charge for dental work like filling and cleaning ?

Her: That depends ...

Me: Actually I am asking it for a friend of mine who is visiting from Barcelona an she does not have Insurance and just chipped her tooth

Her: Do you know which tooth is it ?

Me: Upper right Premolar.

Her: depending upon the damage $ 150-200 but It will be much cheaper at the Health dept as they take care of people with no Insurance.

Me: can you kindly give me their number.

Her: Sure

Me: I was at such and such hospital earlier and they told me Dental college has a practice for people without Insurance.

Her: Yeah check them out too. (She writes the numbers for both and give them to me)

I notice that she had gotten 2-3 messages on her I phone and she was still talking to me , also I noticed that the screen was broken.

Me: Did you just broke your screen too ?

Her: Oh yeah and AT & T and Apple are giving me hell, They are charging me $$$$$$.

Seems like cell phones and Carriers was the topic she wanted to talk about and I let her run her mouth, she talked for a good 5 min. I was surprised nobody came in the shop and there were no dentists or other coworkers around as well ( Later found out dentists are there only till noon an she Stays there till 4 to book appointments etc)

Our little conversation had allowed me to throw a bait or two that she bit on and started asking me what I do and it was standard Game from there on.

In case you guys are wondering She is a Dirty Blone, solid 7 and losing about 15 pounds solid 8, Perky breasts ( Fake I think) and Apple bottom. I started touching her Mole above her clavicle and told her to make sure it doesn't turn into a Melanoma etc etc.

Told her Listen I like your Happy Positive Vibe and want to continue our conversation at coffee after you get done from work., she said you seem like a coffee snob, that's fine but I do get Jittery with coffee, I got the hint and suggested lets have a drink Instead, her eyes lit up and we agreed to meet in about a hour and a half and exchanged numbers.

My Impression Of her at this time : based on the Information I had that she was bored to death at that practice and doesn't realy enjoy what she does and is looking to get out, I was like a Fresh Breeze that blew her way and she was excited to see me.

Few Red Flags, She had a $ 400 watch , Prada Purse that looked pretty Damn Real, I phone and I am thinking how is she affording all that on $ 10/hr Job, Sugar daddies ? Stripper ?

Date: While waiting for her , I started bantering with this server who stayed with me good 5 min just letting me run my Game as normal and got interrupted as She came at the promised time and I asked her what she likes to drink she told me crown and coke and also said " when I drink I go big or go home "..... Ok...... She ordered a Bourbon and coke and I got an Old fashioned as Tengen just posted about it on the forum.

She started asking me Personal Questions, How old I am , Where am I from... I had standard answers for her and let her tell me about herself. She grew up in Augusta, GA had lived in Atlanta and here in my city for the past year. She divulged a lot of info ,lets just say she did most of the talking and I let her. She relaxed a lot as she had gulped her drink and was on her second when she asked me what is my plan for later. I told her hat depends where I am working tomorrow and i will check my schedule in a little bit, She didn't had any plans and mentioned going home and having Dinner.

I suggested why don't we get food to go from here and get a bottle of Crown and go to her place, she said her mother wouldn't like her drinking and asked if we could go my Place , I told her My room mates family is visiting but I can get a Hotel as I have to work in this town again in the morning and My Company will pay for the Hotel.

Isolation: OK I was on a time Crunch as I had another 1.5 hr to close the deal and get my Butt Home.This Story is getting Long, We got food and got to the hotel but Forgot to get the bottle of Crown, we got Vodka and red bull from the hotel bar and went to the Room.

Her hamster started spinning on the way to the room and she started saying , Oh I don't even know you and I am going to your room, don't get any funny ideas, I told her to relax and lets enjoy the drinks and food. While toasting to new friendship I went for the Kiss and kissed her briefly and we smoked , drank and finished food and started watching a movie .

I told her this is uncomfortable on the Sofa, lets move to the bed and we did, I started running my hand on her back an Ass, Kissed her agin and gave a break of another 5 min and went to unhook her Bra, declined ...... She said she told me She has never had a ONS and she isn't looking for one either.

I did feed her Slubu's Lines " Passinate relationships start passionately etc etc and few other things, but her hamster was stronger then my Game. I gave another break of 10 min , went for a Kiss and started caressing her breasts, got denied and she wanted to go home and said may be we should on a day when we can just chill and no funny business, I said OK as I had to get my butt home.

My Own Analysis : My limitation was the time Crunch, I do not think I did anything worn trying to go for the bang even though I knew I was working on a tight schedule and trying to bang with in 4.5 hrs of meeting a stranger is a pretty Tall order but did wanted to have a go at it.

Things I learned: I should have had a Bottle of Vodka and crystal Light in my car (Thanks to e-mech), I can see if I would have fed her Vodka and Crystal Light she might have been game after 2-3 Drinks. My Gym bag can hold so much but list of Items I need keep on growing...

Suggestions/Critique : are welcome as that is how my Game gets better, also what should be my next play here .......

Happy Hunting brothers .........

[Giovonny]

Hahahahahahahahaha!!!!!

You son of a gun!!!

Approach of the Year!!!

Did my challenge help?

[bojangles]

That was a great job Lothario, SDL's are difficult to do and most of the time you need the luck of circumstances to just fall in play (SDL planets to align, disorientation, menstruation, vibe).

[Lothario]

Thanks Gio, but this lothario isn't resting till he gets some ......, Yes Your challenge helped in ways I didn't realize and some interesting things happened, I still have two more days to go, will report Sunday.

Bojangles: I know I am shooting for stars, trying for SDL in Midwest USA and this is how get better..... Then again Pussy Gods do Smile on me just for trying once in a while

[le prince perdu]

I have realized that my day game is becoming sharper. A year ago I used to open chicks with a bunch of different ice breakers, I was not perfectly smooth and my rumble was a joke.
Also I used to open chicks , without setting up the "it just happened" vibe first.

Fuck I was so bad I get nauseous when I think back of certain things I did that are absolute no-nos but still got me laid

I think I am above average when it comes to looks and I dress quite well, so I don't really know how efficient my game would really be if those factors were removed.

Today I only use one line and that line is " how are you?"Or "how is it going"

That's all I need at this moment to get the bang.

If I see a chick sitting down somewhere, I will slowly walk all the way to where she is and this is how it goes

- "how are you?" In a low but strong masculine tone.
- "I'm fine, just doing X/waiting for Y/ reading z"
- "that's interesting, do you mind if I seat with you?"
- " no, not really"
I sit down, look in front of me for 2-3 seconds in order to create that smooth, nonchalant, comfortable environment we have around people we know. I then say
- " so what's your name?"
- "oh I am x"
- "oh alright I am le prince perdu, ( insert ramble ex: book/ how has your day been so far/ that's a nice x you have there)".

From there I usually ramble for at least two minutes and then I say
-" it was nice talking to you x, but I have to go; but before I leave I got to get your number"
- " oh alright( giggle) it's xxx-xxx
- " cool x" I then get a little closer to her then say " do I get a kiss?"
- (giggles again) " no but I'll give you a hug/kiss on a cheek"

I always try to kiss closed a chick when I daygame just to make my intentions clear. This isn't a business so I don't just get the digits and leave, I try to get intimate right there on the spot.

If the chick was just randomly walking I also use the same technique but refined to walking, which means slowing down the speed of the walk. If she doesn't slow down that means she isn't interested.

That's about it, it isn't near the best game out there but it is one that fits my personality and so far I get a 60-80% bang while it was at 20-40% last year.

Again my rate has increased because I take my time and approach more wisely, instead of approaching 8-10 and get 2-4 digits now I approach 5-6 and get 3-4 digits.

Roosh's book day game took me up one level but it took me a lot of approaches to be able to adapt it to my looks and personality. If I didn't approach a lot and failed a lot I would not have understood how my looks can be used as an advantage or could cost me a notch.

[Giovonny]

(12-13-2012 10:23 PM)le prince perdu Wrote:  

Today I only use one line and that line is " how are you?"Or "how is it going"

In any system, simple is usually better. The less steps involved, the less possibility of something going wrong.

Science, math, art is often about simplification. Approaching is no different.

Simple is usually better. Once you get good you can start with all the fancy stuff.

(12-13-2012 10:23 PM)le prince perdu Wrote:  

approach more wisely, instead of approaching 8-10 and get 2-4 digits now I approach 5-6 and get 3-4 digits.

prince,

What are some of the things you look for in a target? Is it a certain type of girl? What has allowed you to "approach more wisely"?

(12-13-2012 10:23 PM)le prince perdu Wrote:  

I always try to kiss closed a chick when I daygame just to make my intentions clear. This isn't a business so I don't just get the digits and leave, I try to get intimate right there on the spot.

[le prince perdu]

(12-14-2012 04:00 AM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(12-13-2012 10:23 PM)le prince perdu Wrote:  

approach more wisely, instead of approaching 8-10 and get 2-4 digits now I approach 5-6 and get 3-4 digits.

prince,

What are some of the things you look for in a target? Is it a certain type of girl? What has allowed you to "approach more wisely"?

I look a lot more into body language than before, I am just trying to have a good time so I look for chicks who don't mind smoking a joint, drinking a bit and then fuck like chinchillas. I try not to deal with super cunts, but they always seem to find me

So this is how I do it: I look at the way they walk.

If I see a chick walking with that weird, fast pace, feeling entitled, cunt walk; I am not approaching.
Chicks are delusional but that type is usually beyond delusional, I'll fuck one in a heartbeat but I don't daygame them.

If I see a chick walking at a regular pace, nothing special in the way she walks , I am approaching.
That type of girl is usually open minded, like most women; she'll give you a good time but not the best.

If I see a chick walking at a regualr pace or sometimes kind of fast if she is in a hurry but with that super sexy walk, I am approaching ( strippers, dancers usually walk like that for some reason)
My favorite type, the vibe when I approach that type of women is usually fucking amazing, super cool and I know she is a freak in bed.
Hell my ex-gf belongs to that category

Basically instead of approaching all types of girls( 8 to 10 approaches) and get a low notch count( 3 to 4), I approach the ones that look more compatible to my lifestyle ( 5 to 6 approaches) and get a higher notch count( 3 to 5)

Basically now:
- I use a filter to increase success
- I do less to get more or constant notch count
- I stick to what works, there is no need to open the cunts right now so I don't.

[Lothario]

^^^^^^^

Great Insight le prince perdu, I have been trying to limit the number of approaches I make, I used to be restless Approach machine, In a way I still am but screening my targets much better...... Thanks for explaining in such a clean way.

[WesternCancer]

I am a loser piece of shit beta who cant approach to save his life FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK.

Saw the hottest girl in the gym (one I don't go to) she was squatting 180lbs and was just over 5 feet. She was wearing the most boner inducing clothes and was slim and toned up. Had she bigger tits I would have classified this chick as a 9 EASILY. maybe higher, she was just my type with dark hair, blue eyes milky skin and plump, red lips. I'm the only dude doing any real lifting (clean and jerks) I catch her scoping me out a few times. I'm staring at her while she does her sets. My man-hamster is trying to talk me out of the approach "dude youre in the gym, you hate it when people bother you during squats, shes probably older than you, what the hell are you going to say" etc. FINALLY. I pound out my second to last set of c+j and walk over to the squat rack and ask how many sets she has left. She just finished her set so breathily said 2 and held up 2 fingers (if I do that same thing to people I want to punch them in the face for asking how many sets I have left). I think "FUCKKKKK" after my last c+j I go and sit by the squats looking out the window. She goes to take the weigthts off and I say "leave em on" and she looks at me and says "allllll of 'em" I say "im only doing front squats". THEN SHE FUCKING LINGERS THERE FOR A FEW SECONDS LONGER THAN NORMAL. I reach down to pick up the weight collars and her phone was there she paused and looked at me and smiled. I just stared and she walked away. I caught her looking at me a few times after that but I just wanted to do a lifting version of seppuku.

What I've learned/positives:
- I need to approach more/regularily even if I'm getting regular pussy. shit makes you rusty and you're bound to run into hotter girls.
- I rarely get an urge to approach girls like this one and when I do I'm unprepared. I mostly approach average girls because I can get laid with them easily. I need to focus on gaming hotter chicks because god-damn it I want to and I deserve them!
- just fucking say anything. I'm decent at reading body language so even with brief interaction i can tell if she wants the d
- fuck your man-hamster if you want a girl do everything you can to bang her.
- FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK


Since I don't normally go to the gym I should have just gone direct "hey, I don't like talking while I lift, but I'd punch myself in the balls and cry about it over at the RVF if I didn't run a solid approach, you seem like someone I'd like to get to know lets grab some steak and eggs then watch lifting videos sometime"

--- that but you know, with applicable things to do like grabbing a drink or jugo juice.

[bojangles]

Don't worry mate, next time a girl gives you an invitation do it, I fuck up like that sometimes too, it happens, you know the girl wants to talk but you just have a beta blur.

[slubu]

Gio, what's your challenge?

le prince, are you saying you have a 60%-100% success rate in day approaches?

Quote:

I approach the ones that look more compatible to my lifestyle ( 5 to 6 approaches) and get a higher notch count( 3 to 5)

[rationalize_this]

Michael Kors 49th and 5th absolute gold mine. 8+ high turnover.

[_GQ_]

I was in a Target the other day, tons of hot chicks and milfs Xmas shopping.

[NewGamer]

Okay this is a stupid question but do you guys check the girls finger before making the approach to see if she is engaged/married? I'm always confused.Some girls wear rings on their ring finger ( right hand or left hand?) but I can't tell if it's a engagement/ wedding ring or not. I don't want to waste time on approaching engaged/married chicks

Or should I just approach without checking? This is pertaining to day game.

[at350zguyy]

(12-30-2012 01:04 AM)NewGamer Wrote:  

Okay this is a stupid question but do you guys check the girls finger before making the approach to see if she is engaged/married? I'm always confused.Some girls wear rings on their ring finger ( right hand or left hand?) but I can't tell if it's a engagement/ wedding ring or not. I don't want to waste time on approaching engaged/married chicks

Or should I just approach without checking? This is pertaining to day game.

if you like her, approach her. dont worry about the ring.

girls who are engaged/married wear them on the left ring finger. but dont let that stop you.

[bojangles]

(12-30-2012 01:04 AM)NewGamer Wrote:  

Okay this is a stupid question but do you guys check the girls finger before making the approach to see if she is engaged/married? I'm always confused.Some girls wear rings on their ring finger ( right hand or left hand?) but I can't tell if it's a engagement/ wedding ring or not. I don't want to waste time on approaching engaged/married chicks

Or should I just approach without checking? This is pertaining to day game.

approach anyway, sometimes you run a set so well they forget to even tell you that they are married or engaged. It's good for yourself, you are not wasting time. Any approach is learning, any set is an examination of your social skills, I approached a woman with 3 kids in Zagreb, hell I didnt know she was married, she was 28, she looked 20, it was a 10 minute set and she loved it, I didnt even eject after she told me she was married, I carried on, testing, teasing, vibing, just seeing what I could get away with. One lad used to eject from a set straight away once a girl would say she has a boyfriend. We told him to reinterpret 'boyfriend' to 'landlord' and he was flying.

[Stakes Is High]

Last approach of 2012..

Picture a huge plaza in Spain where minors go to hang out. It's basically a huge high-school party. Everyone is under 18 and smoking/drinking in a huge public space. I am 23 but could easily assimilate into this crowd.

I'm walking through the botellón, looking for a small enough group that I can approach. Two girls who appear older than the rest are standing, "Do you have alighter?" As I hold my rolled cigarette. "Thanks, you'd figure more people in this crowd would have a lighter.. I didn't know they had Abercrombie here in Spain" (She was holding a Hollister bag). We start talking about Xmas and shopping.

A group of girls shove a younger (15yo) girl into my face proclaiming she thinks I am attractive but she is too shy to talk to me. It is very embarrassing for the young chica, I can tell. This is strong DHV, and I say Sorry, I'm here with my girlfriends and put my arms around the two girls. Exchanged #s with the girls, who live outside of Madrid.

Been texting one of the girls. I doubt anything will come of this, however. Not sure quite how to deal with underaged girls.

[rationalize_this]

Did a gym approach today in my building. Solid 8. 5'3, great ass showed off in yoga pants, dark hair, cute face.

Elderly opened about her shoes, brand, comfort, color, the works.

Had to switch over to Spanish about 3 sentences in... I could tell she was struggling.

Turns out she's been here only 1 month, from a small island in Spain.

10 min convo about dialects, culture, then a number close. She did mention "novio" once, but thrown into the convo hastily.

Not too worried. I'm thinking culinary game for this one.