Good Looking Dude Game
04-20-2016, 02:04 PM
It's not about looks VERSUS game!
It's about looks AND game!
MAXIMIZING BOTH is obviously the greatest thing to do.
Work on BOTH, simultaneously!
Looks and Game are a team. They work together. They should compliment each other and make each other better. Combined, there should be a synergistic effect, a symbiotic relationship that enhances both. Your entire presentation should be congruent.
Each man has his own challenges:
-Good looking but socially inexperienced guys should work on their game/social skills.
-Average looking guys with good social skills should work on both; but, should focus on improving both their look AND their looks.
-Below average in looks and social skills should obviously work on both.
Each man has to build upon his own unique strengths while at the same time building up his own unique weaknesses.
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Personally, I had to really improve all 3 aspects: Looks, Game, and "Look"
"Look" -- Similar to your "style" -- Hipster, bad boy, bro, businessman, jock, surfer/skater, party guy, rich guy, beach guy, country boy, shoes, boots, jewelry, tattoos, hair style, glasses, etc.
Looks -- Skin care, teeth, muscle tone, body fat %, posture, body language health, vibrancy, confidence, comfort, grooming, We have a lot of power to change our bodies and even our face, to a point.
I was decent looking physically but I did a poor job of presenting myself. My muscle tone was bad. My diet and exercise routine needed to get better. My hair style and skin care needed improving. My teeth and overall grooming needed to improve. My body language and posture wasn't great.
My "Look" was not congruent with my personality, nor was it fined tuned to specifically for my location. I dressed business casual even though I was not a businessman. I dressed mainstream even though my personality was more edgy. My look was fined tuned for comfort not to attract girls. I wore sweats and t-shirts.
I had to improve my "look' and my looks.
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Game=Looks
Look=Game
They are two sides of the same coin.
The way in which you present yourself is a representation of your mind.
Your "look" and your looks communicate a lot about your attitude, vibe, personality, imagination, taste, class, culture, values, upbringing, etc.
They should feed off of each other.