Quote: (01-27-2017 03:18 PM)C-Note Wrote:
Quote: (01-27-2017 01:56 PM)MaceTyrell Wrote:
In hindsight, I see where I messed up - when trying to escalate I did not "back off" and "back in."
To another attempt.
Probably all of us here have had the experience finding that a technique to overcome LMR will work like magic with one particular girl, then completely fail with a different girl. I know that's happened to me.
There is one date in particular I had with a girl I had been working on for quite awhile. The date went great, kissed her in the elevator, then started an intense make out once we got to the room. Then, suddenly, she stopped and went cold. I tried every LMR tactic I could think of- freeze out, rubbing the crotch, two-steps-forward-one-back, building more comfort...no dice. She lives in a different city so I haven't been able to follow up on it so I still wonder what I could have done differently and it's driving me crazy.
Both you and MaceTyrell are the same problem.
You gotta start to heat her up and then LEAVE HER WANTING MORE.
Gotta let your head upstairs run the fucking show.
Your head downstairs goes "fuck yeah I'm ready let's do this shit" while in her head she's thinking "wait, too fast, I don't want him to think I'm a slut" or a myriad of other possibilities.
If you think with your head upstairs and think "she's gotta want me" and "I am the prize" then play a little hard to get. Pull away and tell her "mmm alright let's chill out for a minute" and she'll think "wait, is he actually into me or not?" or "damn, this guy isn't thirsty...god I want to fuck him"
When she's soaked through her panties and she can't think of anything but you inside of her...THAT's when you can let your head downstairs take over.
EVEN THEN, you should always consider mind-fucking her some, because if you want to get in her panties the way in is through her mind. Even a slut has to be seduced a little and think it was her desire and her idea.