7 year old guy - seem only able to meet women 30+
11-26-2011, 08:09 AM
hey guys
i was wondering if you had any thoughts...i am 27 years old and over the last couple of years about 70-80% of the women I meet are 30-35 years old.
This bothers me for a number of reasons...
1)the whole thing about 'the older the woman is the easier she is to pick up' - makes me feel that these women are all I deserve, or they are so desperate for any 'nice' guy they go for me...i chastise myself about this....but maybe it is because the circles i move in are 'older' anyway..food for thought...the qualification and affirmation and ego boost i would perceive mysef getting from younger girls is what i crave...
2) they want kids, long term relationships, stability....last night i met a 33 year old...i dreaded the 'how old are you?' question. lied, said i was 30.....women, in my experience, of this age are on a different course....and I hate feeling that I am the nice, stable, dependable, settling type guy....just they are at a different place in their lives....i am in the PARTY STAGE in my life, but all i meet are these women whom I perceive as being at the SETTLING STAGE of their lives...why dont i meet younger women who are also at the PARTY STAGE in their lives? this makes me think i am too dull or boring to do so!
conversations are more serious, they are more jaded, they make me feel older.....
3)in my mind younger girls...ie. 20 - 25 years are much more in demand, because they are in their PHYSICAL prime, lookswise, and I hate the feel of competition around them....because of youth/beauty they have more options..i perceive them as having bigger social circles because they are at university, college etc...well i guess not all of them 20-25 years old are in this position.......i feel like i am low down the rungs of the ladder in terms of being social, but i am told i am a handsome guy....they make me feel younger
Ok, I think i have realised that I want a 'university girl' who is younger than me...that brain dump helped me sort things out.
i was wondering if you had any thoughts...i am 27 years old and over the last couple of years about 70-80% of the women I meet are 30-35 years old.
This bothers me for a number of reasons...
1)the whole thing about 'the older the woman is the easier she is to pick up' - makes me feel that these women are all I deserve, or they are so desperate for any 'nice' guy they go for me...i chastise myself about this....but maybe it is because the circles i move in are 'older' anyway..food for thought...the qualification and affirmation and ego boost i would perceive mysef getting from younger girls is what i crave...
2) they want kids, long term relationships, stability....last night i met a 33 year old...i dreaded the 'how old are you?' question. lied, said i was 30.....women, in my experience, of this age are on a different course....and I hate feeling that I am the nice, stable, dependable, settling type guy....just they are at a different place in their lives....i am in the PARTY STAGE in my life, but all i meet are these women whom I perceive as being at the SETTLING STAGE of their lives...why dont i meet younger women who are also at the PARTY STAGE in their lives? this makes me think i am too dull or boring to do so!
conversations are more serious, they are more jaded, they make me feel older.....
3)in my mind younger girls...ie. 20 - 25 years are much more in demand, because they are in their PHYSICAL prime, lookswise, and I hate the feel of competition around them....because of youth/beauty they have more options..i perceive them as having bigger social circles because they are at university, college etc...well i guess not all of them 20-25 years old are in this position.......i feel like i am low down the rungs of the ladder in terms of being social, but i am told i am a handsome guy....they make me feel younger
Ok, I think i have realised that I want a 'university girl' who is younger than me...that brain dump helped me sort things out.