[swissbones]

I gave a girl I slept/spent the night with (no sex) the other weekend a call for the first time yesterday. She picked up, and I tried to keep the conversation short and matter of fact.

We a did a little small talk and then I asked her what her week looked like. She told me it was busy, deadlines for her coursework and she would working on the weekends.

I told her we she go out for a drink later in the evening and she could take a break from her coursework. She told me she could not work it out and would let me know if she goes out this weekend. I did not put too much stock in that and I think this one is lost.

What do you guys think? Should I delete her from my phone, or try her again? I was leaning towards trying her again. I do not mind making a fool of myself but I do not know the best way to approach it with coming off as a desperate stalker.

[Moma]

(10-17-2011 11:34 AM)swissbones Wrote:  

I gave a girl I slept/spent the night with (no sex) the other weekend a call for the first time yesterday. She picked up, and I tried to keep the conversation short and matter of fact.

We a did a little small talk and then I asked her what her week looked like. She told me it was busy, deadlines for her coursework and she would working on the weekends.

I told her we she go out for a drink later in the evening and she could take a break from her coursework. She told me she could not work it out and would let me know if she goes out this weekend. I did not put too much stock in that and I think this one is lost.

What do you guys think? Should I delete her from my phone, or try her again? I was leaning towards trying her again. I do not mind making a fool of myself but I do not know the best way to approach it with coming off as a desperate stalker.

Let it soak for a week. Try again. Ask her when she can come out. If she continues to flake, chalk her up and move on.

I had a date myself a couple of weeks ago. We went for drinks. We conversed well but I didn't get any sexual tension built up from it. We never went to anywhere private (all operations were from downtown).

Afterwards, I tried to call her. She texted me back much later telling me she would call the next day. She did not. I sent her a text a few days after the next day. No response.

Chalked her up.

Went out to the same club I swooped her on Fri. Saw her, ignored her. Continued my hunting. She saw me swoop another lizard right in her presence.

Game to Moma.

[Batata]

(10-17-2011 12:42 PM)Moma Wrote:  

(10-17-2011 11:34 AM)swissbones Wrote:  

I gave a girl I slept/spent the night with (no sex) the other weekend a call for the first time yesterday. She picked up, and I tried to keep the conversation short and matter of fact.

We a did a little small talk and then I asked her what her week looked like. She told me it was busy, deadlines for her coursework and she would working on the weekends.

I told her we she go out for a drink later in the evening and she could take a break from her coursework. She told me she could not work it out and would let me know if she goes out this weekend. I did not put too much stock in that and I think this one is lost.

What do you guys think? Should I delete her from my phone, or try her again? I was leaning towards trying her again. I do not mind making a fool of myself but I do not know the best way to approach it with coming off as a desperate stalker.

Let it soak for a week. Try again. Ask her when she can come out. If she continues to flake, chalk her up and move on.

I had a date myself a couple of weeks ago. We went for drinks. We conversed well but I didn't get any sexual tension built up from it. We never went to anywhere private (all operations were from downtown).

Afterwards, I tried to call her. She texted me back much later telling me she would call the next day. She did not. I sent her a text a few days after the next day. No response.

Chalked her up.

Went out to the same club I swooped her on Fri. Saw her, ignored her. Continued my hunting. She saw me swoop another lizard right in her presence.

Game to Moma.

Picking up a hotter girl in the presence of a girl who rejects you is one of the top five best feelings.

[Yumi]

don't delete. do not expect too much if she's busy. You know what it's like to be so busy, you really can't keep it up sometimes. just wait