[Jase]

I started going grey in my teens. I have very thick salt and pepper hair and a grey beard. Two white strips in my goatee region. I get alot of compliments from some women. I like to grow out the grey bits as I can attract the kind of girls I want. Hopefully femmine chicks.

A lot of mates tell me to dye it but I like it. It does make me look older though.

Experiences?

Ps I'm 33 and and fit.

[jdelisi]

I went to the hair salon to get my first dye job for the grey, and the girls who worked there talked me out of it. They said i would have to get it done every month, and besides they liked my grey hair.

I'm just happy i still have hair.

[Moma]

(10-17-2011 07:01 AM)Jase Wrote:  

I started going grey in my teens. I have very thick salt and pepper hair and a grey beard. Two white strips in my goatee region. I get alot of compliments from some women. I like to grow out the grey bits as I can attract the kind of girls I want. Hopefully femmine chicks.

A lot of mates tell me to dye it but I like it. It does make me look older though.

Experiences?

Ps I'm 33 and and fit.

It depends on the market you are going for. You can mix it up and monitor the reactions. Go hard with either look.

When I think of salt and pepper with grey beard, I think of George Clooney and Sean Connery and last time I heard, lizards absolutely LOVE those two.

Rock it and see.

[ManAbout]

(10-17-2011 07:01 AM)Jase Wrote:  

I started going grey in my teens. I have very thick salt and pepper hair and a grey beard. Two white strips in my goatee region. I get alot of compliments from some women. I like to grow out the grey bits as I can attract the kind of girls I want. Hopefully femmine chicks.

A lot of mates tell me to dye it but I like it. It does make me look older though.

Experiences?

Ps I'm 33 and and fit.

What age women are you targeting? If you are going after the 18-25 year olds, I think you might have a problem. Not that they won't be be attracted to it, but they won't obviously want to show attraction due to peer pressure.

If you are going after women in their late 20s/30s then leave it as it is.

Another factor is your face, if your face looks young, wrinkle free, no blemishes or age spots, then the grey hair might actually work for you. It's different. On the other hand, if your face looks old, grey hair will age you even more.

[MikeCF]

I went grey young.

My experience: Some girls love it.

HOWEVER, no girl has gone for me because of grey hair.

So while my hair isn't getting me girls, it is costing me girls. I know this because more girls are receptive to me when it's colored.

Thus, I color it.

Do note: Older women will neg you about it. "I can tell you color your hair."

Young girls can't tell.

I use Just for Men. Go a shade LIGHTER than you think you'll need. The stuff is darker than on the box, and if your hair is too dark, it'll be obvious that you colored it.

[Jase]

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What age women are you targeting? If you are going after the 18-25 year olds, I think you might have a problem. Not that they won't be be attracted to it, but they won't obviously want to show attraction due to peer pressure.

If you are going after women in their late 20s/30s then leave it as it is.

Another factor is your face, if your face looks young, wrinkle free, no blemishes or age spots, then the grey hair might actually work for you. It's different. On the other hand, if your face looks old, grey hair will age you even more.
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No wrinkles, good facial structure. I get told I look young for my age even with the grey hair.

[ManAbout]

If you can manage to look like this guy with grey hair, then keep it:

http://www.guardian.co.uk/media/2010/may...eorge-lamb

Do a google search on Geoge Lamb. A lot of girls of all ages love his grey hair.

[oldnemesis]

(10-18-2011 12:42 PM)jdelisi Wrote:  

I went to the hair salon to get my first dye job for the grey, and the girls who worked there talked me out of it. They said i would have to get it done every month

Maintenance of your appearance will take more and more time the older you become. Get used to that.

[bez]

My boss went fully grey in his teens and he is only one year older than me....he's married now but he has always had mad game with the ladies.
Its better to be grey than bald.

[KingofScotland]

I'm 28 and starting to sprout the off grey hair, a couple people have commented on it. Worries me.

[metalhaze]

dye it.

[Frost]

Some girls go bananas for salt and pepper. I say let science decide. Game heavy for the next month, then dye and continue going heavy. Compare how light your balls feel at the end of each month, decide based on that.

[ColSpanker]

Mine started to go when I hit 25. I started shaving my head when I turned 35 and have never regretted the decesion.

[Timoteo]

I always vowed that I would never color my hair - I busted my dad's chops for using Grecian Formula when I was a kid. I thought only women should color their hair. I modified my position somewhat on that. If you're prematurely gray, and chicks your age avoid you because of it, I say go for it.

I'm at an age where I should be gray, so I don't color at all. My chin is completely gray (though I've gone pretty much clean shaven most of my life, so you can only tell when the shadow comes in), and I'm gray in the temples and a little throughout my head. It's coming in my moustache too, but I clip those out. It's important to take care of your face - it's not gay to moisturize and put cream around your eyes. Even if you're gray, having good skin helps you to look a little younger than you are, and women will find that attractive.

[Jase]

(10-22-2011 06:54 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  

I always vowed that I would never color my hair - I busted my dad's chops for using Grecian Formula when I was a kid. I thought only women should color their hair. I modified my position somewhat on that. If you're prematurely gray, and chicks your age avoid you because of it, I say go for it.

I'm at an age where I should be gray, so I don't color at all. My chin is completely gray (though I've gone pretty much clean shaven most of my life, so you can only tell when the shadow comes in), and I'm gray in the temples and a little throughout my head. It's coming in my moustache too, but I clip those out. It's important to take care of your face - it's not gay to moisturize and put cream around your eyes. Even if you're gray, having good skin helps you to look a little younger than you are, and women will find that attractive.

I have vowed to never dye my hair it's not an option. Seeing dudes with jet black hair and silver stubble looks dumb. I'm still after 23 to 27 year olds. Which I was the same as 5 years ago...

I eat a caveman paleo diet/heavy lifting/ which has helped me stay fit but the grey is out of control ha ha

[Neo]

I'm getting it too and I'm only 23, it's not that noticeable but its getting worse every year. Right now I just have small patches so I just mask it with this hair mascara stuff. It works pretty well, when it gets worse I'm just going to dye it. I'm happy though that there isn't any baldness that I know of in my family, so at least I get to keep it. My hair is very thick so the gray is more noticeable.

[Lothario]

After a tough debate I decided to color my hair, I always believed Men age gracefully but like someone else posted it was costing me girls specially young ones.

When girls ask about my age , I make them guess, Coloring my hair changed the guess to about 10 yrs younger

Just Dye your hair and see what kind of responses you get, You got nothing to lose but a Box of hair color.......

[Openbar]

I went salt and pepper in my teens, lived with it, and as my hair is very thick, found that many chicks loved it. However, when I grew the beard, and it, too, had grey streaks, it just caused me to be confused for being older, much older, than I really was.

My advice is three-part: 1) consider an opinion positive only if you bedded the compliment giver; 2) reconsider the facial hair when it's greying; and 3) photoshop yourself with uniform color, with and without the facial hair and use the photos, not as an opener, but later in the course of events, assuming you've developed a bit of rapport, with those women giving compliments -- isolate 'em, pull out the photos, and say, "I really trust your opinion, and I'm on the verge of, to me, a big decision", take this as far as you can, then go back to point #1.

[Chad Daring]

Pulling this thread up from the depths...


I've had two people comment that they've noticed my hair turning grey, I'm only 23 and was a bit irked by it, though reading this, and as a guy with a baby face naturally, the added "maturity" could be nice. If not I'm just gonna shave it lol.

[Prowl]

No grey yet for me.

I'm blond though, so it'll presumably just turn white rather than grey.

[chyamor]

Many women dont really care about gray hair I've noticed, as long as your not balding, your all good. Ive had a few of my girls tell me if I approached them for the first time and was balding they wouldn't be laying in bed next to me now.

[Zebra_Cakes]

(01-03-2012 11:56 AM)chyamor Wrote:  

Many women dont really care about gray hair I've noticed, as long as your not balding, your all good. Ive had a few of my girls tell me if I approached them for the first time and was balding they wouldn't be laying in bed next to me now.

I'm balding at a young age. 24. And it hasn't hurt me. Can still pull in attractive girls that are only 18.

[Enfant_Terrible]

I have some greys and some women actually dig it. Turns out I'm the only one who has a problem with it...won't color it anytime soon.