Quote: (03-28-2019 05:45 PM)Heart Break Kid Wrote:
Totally forgot about this thread - but to fill in some details
- I had not banged or even met the girl prior to her inviting me to a bar
- It wasn't a planned date, I texted her on a Friday night and she asked me to come out. (this is why I was unsure what to do, because it was a casual invite not a date)
As for what actually happened - I tried finding a wing, didn't find one, and told her I wasn't interested in coming.
We set up a formal date at a later date, and she asks if she can invite a friend (socially she seems dumb), I tell her I'm not interested in seeing her. I find it disrespectful to invite someone else onto a date.
Never met her, but she does still text me randomly (got one today which reminded me of this thread), so if I ever get past my current queue of girls I might go for a direct rump.
Thanks for the responses.
Honestly, you had nothing to lose since you didn't get the bang anyway and I'm guessing you didn't bang anyone else that night either.
Unless you were ultra-shy around groups of people, you would have accomplished quite a bit by going that first time:
1) You rocking up solo and hanging with two chicks would have resulted in:
1a) Visible balls = +1 confidence
1b) Other chicks would have seen you solo with two chicks = +10 social proof
2)You could have subtly gamed her friend resulting in:
2a) Your non-girl getting jealous and putting in extra effort = +1 bang
2b) Your non-girl's friend becoming another possible candidate = +1 future bang
Long story short, you fucked up because why? Was it your lack of confidence to go out or your worthless self importance? "blah blah it's disrespectful to bring friend" fuck outa here pussy. You failed the shit test and got nothing.
Good news, you can try again